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    Wtf is wrong with the female species?

    Seriously, I know these kinda threads have been beaten to death but WHAT THE ****!!?

    What is with these goddamn stupid, annoying as **** mindgames??

    The last coupla weeks, I got chatting to an ex of mine, which is unusual for me cause i dont do the whole "staying in contact with exes" thing, but she was quite special, had long term plans together, etc. So we get chatting, and a few old feelings start coming back from both of us, she mentions going on a holiday at the end of the year. So I think cool, maybe a chance to patch things up, its been 2 and half years, we're both older, wiser, etc. So I add her to facebook and she's been scoping it out obviously cause she asks about some girl who's in my group tutorial class, says "Do you like her? I wont get upset or anything, i dont have the right to and blahblahblah" so I tell the truth (lying was what got me into trouble with her the last time) that yeah, I think she was quite hot, and I thought about asking her out but never really got round to it, so I doubt I will.
    She's thrown a right strop, and has stopped talking to me. I know she's been getting my msg's and it's pissing me off. Im prepared to take a week off Uni in November for this holiday, which is fine as long as I give them notice but this sort of bullshit really is aggrivating. They really love this crap.


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    she is getting exactly what she wants by you feeling that way.

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    forget her. simple as that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by novastepp View Post
    she is getting exactly what she wants by you feeling that way.
    Yeah I know, damn it.

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    no i would take it as a positive sign, if you really want to get back with her. obviously she has strong enough feelings for you already. what you thought was a general lets hang out and talk, she thought of as i gee lets get back together. or she has serious jealousy issues.

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    It's the female species fault because you can't grow up and leave the past in the past? She is your Ex for a reason, leave it alone.
    ***No source checks!!!***

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    lol you told her that? Lesson learned

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    Yeah I told her that, there is no way in Hell im lying about it, not with her. Or even sugar coating it. Aw well. She can like it or lump it, im not gonna leave any more messages for her.

    Yeah Murilo, I know what you're saying cause i'd prolly be saying the same thing to someone else in the same shoes, it's a bit diffucult to practise what you preach with this one though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja View Post

    She is your Ex for a reason, leave it alone.
    Flagg, say that ^^^ over and over.

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    stop writing her and she will be freakn out and write u...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Schmidty View Post
    stop writing her and she will be freakn out and write u...
    Sure, let him be the one playing the games.

    Grow the **** up!
    ***No source checks!!!***

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    tell her what she wants to hear, depends if you actually care about her though......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg View Post
    Yeah I told her that, there is no way in Hell im lying about it, not with her. Or even sugar coating it. Aw well. She can like it or lump it, im not gonna leave any more messages for her.

    Yeah Murilo, I know what you're saying cause i'd prolly be saying the same thing to someone else in the same shoes, it's a bit diffucult to practise what you preach with this one though.
    I know the feeling. I got back with my ex fiance 2X after the engsgment broke off. And i would do it a 3rd even thought i know it would end the same

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    The female missing a chromosome .. makes them alittle nutty ..

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    Bash an entire sex because of a simple few?
    Such a shame. there are plenty of good females out there, trust me.
    this one is clearly not the one for you bro.
    Just let it go, and pump some iron.

    Women come and go, so does money, jobs, people and everything else.
    The gym never lies. make it your new philosophy. It will always be there for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja View Post


    It's the female species fault because you can't grow up and leave the past in the past? She is your Ex for a reason, leave it alone.
    I need not say another word, my thoughts exactly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by novastepp View Post
    she is getting exactly what she wants by you feeling that way.
    Agreed.

    Some women are attention whores.

    As soon as you've got something good going, they pop back up to try and get your attention...only to smash it.

    Thing is, the more you get smashed, the harder it is to get smashed imo.

    Unless you're a straight schmoe.

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    Shes pissed because you told her this girl was hot and that you thought about asking her out but didn't get around to it! Think about it for a moment.......how would you feel if you knew that she thought another guy was hot and would be interested in dating him? This woman wants to hear that you think shes hot and obviously wants to rekindle your relationship!
    You should have told her that you think this girl is attractive but you have only got eyes for her now! Everyone who has feelings for something wants to believe that their sweet heart only has eyes for them! I am looking at it from a romantic view!

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    lie, lie, lie and if your proven guilty, lie some more

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    I've been married almost 19 years, got a houseful of daughters, and i now realize i have them figured out, less than i did back in the single days. I love my wife and daughters more than anything, but they're all crazy as hell, some are slightly less crazy than the rest, or it's a crazy you can live with.

    A old timber man down in central Florida gave me a good explanation why they're so crazy: He said "you remember when you were a young buck and how when you got a little of that 'thing' it drove you slap crazy, they have to tote that thing around 24-7, no wonder they're so crazy"

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    I know the feeling. I got back with my ex fiance 2X after the engsgment broke off. And i would do it a 3rd even thought i know it would end the same
    wow. I know the feeling. This statement just sounds so painfully honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by *Narkissos* View Post

    Unless you're a straight schmoe.

    -CNS
    you may be my favorite person ever Nark.

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    Yeh it is great to have Nark back.
    I just want Nark to know I read and researched everything you said in the one 6 pack thread you posted and have changed a wealth of things over it. Down 6lbs so far.

    Just wanna say thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja View Post
    Sure, let him be the one playing the games.

    Grow the **** up!
    Whats w/the hostility??? Anyway, is that not what shes doing??? Playing games... So if he stops writing her she either lets it go or goes crazy about him not writing. Either way its kinda win win

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    Quote Originally Posted by novastepp View Post
    she is getting exactly what she wants by you feeling that way.
    +1............

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg View Post
    Seriously, I know these kinda threads have been beaten to death but WHAT THE ****!!?

    What is with these goddamn stupid, annoying as **** mindgames??

    The last coupla weeks, I got chatting to an ex of mine, which is unusual for me cause i dont do the whole "staying in contact with exes" thing, but she was quite special, had long term plans together, etc. So we get chatting, and a few old feelings start coming back from both of us, she mentions going on a holiday at the end of the year. So I think cool, maybe a chance to patch things up, its been 2 and half years, we're both older, wiser, etc. So I add her to facebook and she's been scoping it out obviously cause she asks about some girl who's in my group tutorial class, says "Do you like her? I wont get upset or anything, i dont have the right to and blahblahblah" so I tell the truth (lying was what got me into trouble with her the last time) that yeah, I think she was quite hot, and I thought about asking her out but never really got round to it, so I doubt I will.
    She's thrown a right strop, and has stopped talking to me. I know she's been getting my msg's and it's pissing me off. Im prepared to take a week off Uni in November for this holiday, which is fine as long as I give them notice but this sort of bullshit really is aggrivating. They really love this crap.

    Wait till you get married.... My fav is ... I didnt need to tell you you should know......Frick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lfs2shrt2bsml View Post
    lie, lie, lie and if your proven guilty, lie some more
    Exactly. Why tell the truth and look like a dick when u can lie and still look good.

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    It's all sorted lads, thanks for input though!

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    Quote Originally Posted by novastepp View Post
    you may be my favorite person ever Nark.


    YGPM

    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69 View Post
    Yeh it is great to have Nark back.
    I just want Nark to know I read and researched everything you said in the one 6 pack thread you posted and have changed a wealth of things over it. Down 6lbs so far.

    Just wanna say thanks.

    No prob Bo.

    I know we haven't always seen eye-to-eye... but I'm glad I was able to help.

    Hit me with a PM sometime so i can monitor your fat-loss.

    -CNS

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    Everytime i get the feeling i want to try a relationship with another female i go out with some of my girl friends and that desire quickly dies.

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    Reading this makes me glad I gave up Western women and started chasing tail in Japan.

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