Enraged

**Bullyson** · 07-10-2008, 10:21 AM

Ok. I'm finishing up my 1st cycle of Sust250. My sex drive is through the roof and my girl NEVER wants to do it. Its like torture. Any advice on how to get through this other than the obvious? I can't help but get mad as hell when I get denied. I sleep on the couch ALOT. Any help would be GREATLY appreciated.

**spywizard** · 07-10-2008, 10:28 AM

easy, time for a new girlfriend..

if a woman is using sex as a weapon, then it's time to move on..

if she is not sexually desirous of you.. she is gay, or you are a prick..

or she has daddy issues..

either way..

it's time to move on..

sorry for your loss.. The good news is you can now date that hotter, younger, thinner woman you always wanted..

**redz** · 07-10-2008, 10:28 AM

Its just the way it is I feel ya on this. I`m married and sometimes my wife isnt in the mood and I`m stuck on my own. The only thing there is to try is giving her aphrodesiacs or maybe giving her a massage to get her in the mood.

**gibferno** · 07-10-2008, 10:30 AM

Blow up doll.

J/K I guess I'm lucky, my wife is always eager. In fact, I often turn her down.

**spywizard** · 07-10-2008, 10:33 AM

When guys cycle, and have a body composition change, women often feel (yea i know) rejected, and insecure. They can respond in 2 different ways, they can get with the program, and love you and the new body, and maybe learn something about working out and eating correctly, or they become like their mothers "men only want one thing"

either way.. sex is not a weapon, unless you are packing serious heat.. and then you have to live by the moto..

"there's always time for lube"

**burnin69** · 07-10-2008, 11:05 AM

Originally Posted by gibferno

Blow up doll.

J/K I guess I'm lucky, my wife is always eager. In fact, I often turn her down.

^ second that... my wife is always in the mood. But from previous expirience your girl might need a little warming up through out the day so at night shes hot and ready. Some woman just dont like the fact of a quick F#ck. They want all that foreplay crap first.

**rodge** · 07-10-2008, 12:32 PM

get your girl on some var... that would turn her into a nympho

j/k better to move on to some fresh meat

-rodge

**Bullyson** · 07-10-2008, 12:34 PM

Thanks fellas. She broke down and gave me a quicky so I'm all smiles...for at least the next 15 minutes anyway. I'm soooo ready to be done with this cycle and take some time off. I've got sex on the brain bad. This is my partner for life. Its not like I can just move on. We've been together, on and off, for the last 3 years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. I think I may want it too much and thats probably a turn off for her. To you guys who have "always willing" girls, you are lucky mofo's. Thanks again for the replies.

**gibferno** · 07-10-2008, 12:54 PM

You're right man, I'm lucky in the sex department. Any time, any day, I can get sex or whatever I want. Crazy isn't it?

**JiGGaMaN** · 07-10-2008, 02:40 PM

Well you can always get divorced. Other than drugging her, Id just jerk off a lot.

**MercyDog** · 07-10-2008, 02:48 PM

just a crack with hair around it, thats what my papow used to say

**Emilio_Rebenga** · 07-10-2008, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by gibferno

You're right man, I'm lucky in the sex department. Any time, any day, I can get sex or whatever I want. Crazy isn't it?

where can one find one of these "sexaholic" girls?

**MR_T** · 07-10-2008, 04:45 PM

single life bro.. I have never gotten laid as often in a relationship,
reason #94 why I'm like being single

**tadpoleboyy** · 07-10-2008, 04:50 PM

you gotta hand... use it.

**gibferno** · 07-10-2008, 04:52 PM

Originally Posted by Emilio_Rebenga

where can one find one of these "sexaholic" girls?

Dude, I got lucky. It's crazy. She can be in the bed asleep, and I come in an hour after she fell asleep, wake her up with a little rub, and she's purring like a kitten.

**Emilio_Rebenga** · 07-10-2008, 04:54 PM

Originally Posted by gibferno

Dude, I got lucky. It's crazy. She can be in the bed asleep, and I come in an hour after she fell asleep, wake her up with a little rub, and she's purring like a kitten.

Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice

**jamyjamjr** · 07-10-2008, 05:07 PM

i 2nd the hand, lol

**one8nine** · 07-10-2008, 05:47 PM

how old are you all? maybe its cause im in my 20s but since i was 15ish i dont know one girl thats into guys that wont take it 10 times a day, not just my girls but any girl.

**TJM7275** · 07-10-2008, 05:48 PM

Get some ass on the side brother man
Have your good girl and your freak

**Bullyson** · 07-10-2008, 06:50 PM

Originally Posted by TJM7275

Get some ass on the side brother man
Have your good girl and your freak

Nahh, Ive been that route. This may sound cheesy, but I love this woman to death. She left me in the middle of my cycle and it was the hardest 3 months of my life. Pure hell. We just got back together and I'm not doing anything to f*ck it up again. Maybe my game is sloppy, but she always finds out when I f*ck up. I think once I come off the gear my drive should ease up a bit. For now, its pure torture. She has the most amazing ass I've ever layed eyes on and she loves to walk around in her little sexy ass thongs. A man can only beat off so many times.

It gets old. I explained what I was going through this afternoon and she came off some booty. I'll take mercy sex over none at all any day of the week.

**NewMuscle83** · 07-10-2008, 07:50 PM

Not to sound like a douche bag, but I'd like to think I know how to deal with women a lot. Women, when it comes to attraction and sexuality, are indeed very simple minded, and more instinctual than anything. What I mean, without going too deep into it, is that it sounds like you're making very known that you want sex. Girls like things challenging, not easy. The kitten analogy works well. If you keep teasing a cat with a ball of string, you will keep its attention, and it will work harder to acquire it. Once you give the kitten the ball of string, well, it just tosses it aside after playing with it for a few moments; it's no longer interesting if it's not mysterious and challenging.

Give your girl the cold shoulder for a bit. Ignore her for a short period of time, but just be carefull not to over do it. The less you want it, the more they want to know what's wrong, and they resort to giving the only thing they know; Vagina.

**spywizard** · 07-10-2008, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by 48volts

Give your girl the cold shoulder for a bit. Ignore her for a short period of time, but just be carefull not to over do it. The less you want it, the more they want to know what's wrong, and they resort to giving the only thing they know; Vagina.

that is 100%..

when you go to bed, there is a sign you give your woman, if it's a touch or a word or whatever, before she can say no i have a headache, or whatever, just tell her you want to hold her and be close..

even if you have a raging hardon, do not have sex with her.. even if she turns to you and says she has to have you.. do not have sex with her..

later in the night, or the next it will get into her head that there is something wrong with her, and she will be the animal that she is, but you must always keep the upper hand..

**spywizard** · 07-10-2008, 08:30 PM

heck my wife even tells other married women.. if you don't **** him, that new young secretary will...

**hockeyguy** · 07-10-2008, 10:33 PM

Bullyson i'm in the same boat dude. married 6 years and I start my first cycle and sex is gone. Its like I have a sign on my face thats says "honey please dont fu*^ me today" It sucks but finally we had a talk and I "laid" it on the line. So far its been better but only a couple days from the talk. Anyways, gibferno if things don't work out with my wife does your girl have any sister?jkd

**Maldorf** · 07-10-2008, 11:16 PM

Been married 11 years and it never gets better,lol. Im just like you guys now. She never wants sex and right now its all thats on my mind. If youre nice to her and give her the things she wants, whatever it might be, she is more likely to do what you want to do. Sometimes its just giving a backrun, other times it might be doing the dishes and cleaning the kitchen!

**testa dura** · 07-11-2008, 01:28 AM

f#$k me,a relationship is all about sex ,,,,,if your girl aint wanting it,,,,,theres somthin really wrong...................p.s lifes way to short to be with girls like that........

**nhl1** · 07-11-2008, 02:43 AM

When I first started introducing test into my cycles a couple of years ago I had an ex who possessed this very control over me. This chick had, and still has, the most bangin body I have ever seen in person, and I've been to plenty of strip clubs. Sadly, just as some other guys said, the more I wanted it, the more she wouldn't give it, and eventually we were done. Fortunately, I've been through several heartbreaks, and everytime they still hurt, but eventually you know you'll just find someone else, and therefore learn how to deal with it.

Jerking it does get old after a while, the girl I have now is a beast - in the good way - in the bed room. So my advice is to 2nd that which has been given above.

PT · 07-11-2008, 03:14 AM

you guys need to find a new girl. im on over a gram of test and i actually get sick of having sex as much as my girl wants to. dont get me wrong, i love it but there are nights im tired as he11 and just want to sleep so i close my eyes and wake up to find her on top of me. my advice is ditch them now, if they act this way so soon in a relationship it will only get worse.

**rodge** · 07-11-2008, 04:52 AM

i can't complain about the my sex life i gues.... my wife wants it most of the time as frequently as me,and sure there are times that she does'nt feel like it due to stress from work and so on(whats that about women and stress...if i get stressed i just want more sex to relax,they don't want at all

) but i got a free ticket to have sex with other women...but on one condition... that they have to be around age 21....and that i tell her all about it when it happened,that really turns her on...

the age requirement is due to the fact that she does'nt want me to get in an emotional relationship with such girl and that its just about the sex.... plus she is atracted to girls either....and most of the time the girls she is with are also younger then her

re-reading what i just typed... and i can imagine that it must sound strange for others....but this is what works for our relationship...and we are together for almost 13 years now...and still happy together...and i can't imagine being with someone else but her....but i now go off topic...it was a thread about sex....

-rodge

**DSM4Life** · 07-11-2008, 05:23 AM

Originally Posted by spywizard

When guys cycle, and have a body composition change, women often feel (yea i know) rejected, and insecure. They can respond in 2 different ways, they can get with the program, and love you and the new body, and maybe learn something about working out and eating correctly, or they become like their mothers "men only want one thing"
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You so pulled that out your a$$