lady troubles?

**Amorphic** · 09-20-2008, 03:32 PM

as hard as it is, you need to move on bro. theres no sense hurting yourself and wanting to initiate contact when there is nothing you can gain out of it. we all get our hearts broken at some point in time, just dont be the guy that pines for a girl that wont give you the time of day, trust me it will get you nowhere

**free_spirit** · 09-20-2008, 04:03 PM

If it's just friends, why not invest your time making friends with someone who wants to be your friend?

Or if your love stroke, spend time investing on a girl whos open to you.

If you split up then there's going to be sour blood, friend or no friend she has no reason to be your friend, bf and friend are 2 diffrent qualities. She sees you ex bf.

She thinks you contacting her won't help her, she thinks you still like her ands she doesn't want anymore emotional mess in her life.

She got over you. And getting back in touch with you will jeopordise the current relationship (you know everything about her! Isn't it weird to be next to an ex with another guy whos screwing her, now her current ex will feel similar odd feelings and you'll be a threating. And she doesn't want you mess anything up by getting emotionally carried away. You being around will likely make things insecure for her current boyfriend.

She happy not to contact you.

Think about her all you like you but you need to get real, find someone else and move on.

A handsome strong good looking fella like you shouldn't have any problem either!

The quickest way I find getting over exs, is to find someone new and memories of them are ancient history.

**Amorphic** · 09-20-2008, 04:05 PM

Originally Posted by free_spirit

If it's just friends, why not invest your time making friends with someone who wants to be your friend?

Or if your love stroke, spend time investing on a girl whos open to you.

If you split up then there's going to be sour blood, friend or she no friend has no reason to be your friend, bf and friend are 2 diffrent qualities. She sees you ex history bf.

She thinks you contacting her won't help her, she thinks you still like her ands she doesn't want anymore emotional mess in her life.

She got over you. And getting back in touch with you will jeopordise current relationship (you know everything about her! Isn't that weird to be next to an ex with your current bf, when you screwed her and now this guy is (and the guy will be thinking the same). And she doesn't want you mess anything up or get emotionally carried away. She happy not to contact you.

99% of the time, we ignore the fact that our ex is actually over us in these situations. (ive been guilty of this before)

once a girl is over you, theres nothing left to salvage. you have no other choice but to move on and live for yourself