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    When on a date

    Do you usually sit on the same side or opposite side of the table?

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    dunno never been on a date

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    opposite

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    do you mean when alone with a date? cause obviously opposite....otherwise it would look retarded...with another couple Id do same side

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    Opposite sides. I can not stand it when I see a couple by themselves in a restaurant sitting on the same side. I don't understand the logic in it. Don't you want to look at the person you are talking to?

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    yeah its retarded to sit on same side unless your with another couple

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    Opposite

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    Sorry i dont go those dates anymore
    Last edited by calgarian; 10-22-2008 at 08:40 AM.

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    opposite al the way. Its more intimidating, eye to eye LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
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    Sorry i dont go those dates anymore
    you can't handle the stress with your age...but rememeber: health first, always.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Voland View Post
    you can't handle the stress with your age...but rememeber: health first, always.
    what stress?

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    opposite so you can look into her eyes and check her out. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    what stress?
    memory loss...damn time just falls...and we don't even realise...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Voland View Post
    memory loss...damn time just falls...and we don't even realise...lol
    is it Pick on Old calgarian day?...young punk

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    If alone opposite clearly....it would be ridiculous to sit on the same side, unless you have your hand down her pants

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    I've done them both. Me and my ex would share food so same side resulted in lessdropped food on the table, but Girls think my eyes are "amazing" (there words not mine) so I usually sit on the opposite side when on those first impression kind of dates.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lcstriker07 View Post
    I've done them both. Me and my ex would share food so same side resulted in lessdropped food on the table, but Girls think my eyes are "amazing" (there words not mine) so I usually sit on the opposite side when on those first impression kind of dates.
    I've had similar reactions to a different part of my anatomy...

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    OPPOSITE!!
    Unless you wanna creep the girl the **** out.

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    Well proper etiquite states that the woman is always supposed to face the dinning room, and the man is supposed to sit across with his back to the dinning room.

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    Well most of the dates!! i had here lately involve the girl sitting on my lap....lol

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    Opposite for sure. I like to see the whole package and whether or not she can keep eye contact.

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    opposite sides. when you go back to yours or her place she'll be more than close enough to you.

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    If you're dating your sister, it's acceptable to sit on the same side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rugger02 View Post
    I've had similar reactions to a different part of my anatomy...
    so u sit in front of them without pants

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    i sit ON the table.

    usually naked.

    Putty in my hands....

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    opposite of course

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    Opposite during dinner then move next to old girl after dinner...really intimate like.

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    pensis........taking her out on dinner....I have to normally get the hell out of there before her kids come home for dinner

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    yep at the tABLE opposite then go somewere that u can get closer, bar/club etc

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    If you sit on the same side as your date every time you hear someone laughing in the restaurant they're laughing at you.

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    sitting on the same side is great if your at the moves

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    opposite side. sitting on the same side is creepy.

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    For a date you sit on the opposite side, you don't want to enter her "bubble" unless you are invited to sit beside her, because invading her space on an initial date could make her feel very uncomfortable.

    I've dated guys though that insist on sitting right beside me, which is fine if you are in a relationship but not on a date.

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    she sits in a booster chair

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    ^^ creepy :-)

    i like the 4 person square table - you can sit at the next seat, without being all the way across or uncomfortably beside. doesn't work in a booth though!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    For a date you sit on the opposite side, you don't want to enter her "bubble" unless you are invited to sit beside her, because invading her space on an initial date could make her feel very uncomfortable.

    I've dated guys though that insist on sitting right beside me, which is fine if you are in a relationship but not on a date.
    I always sit on opposite side. No matter if its relationship, date or whatever. I know and been told the i can do anything with my eyes. I have this thing i was born the i can "speak" with my eyes, i eye pet them, eye fvkk them, eye undestrand them, eye smile (cos i don't normally smile unless i laugh).

    But regarding "invading personal space" as a man i gotta disagree with Kats...i i consider every mm of the planet MY personal space so i do what ever i want. I she feels uncomfy is not because of the "invasion" its because during which you're either being creepy or greesy or harasser or needy etc etc.

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    same side. i make sure to slide over so she feels very uncomfortable next to the wall. that way i can watch football and not pay attention to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kloter1 View Post
    same side. i make sure to slide over so she feels very uncomfortable next to the wall. that way i can watch football and not pay attention to her.
    awesome

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    For a date you sit on the opposite side, you don't want to enter her "bubble" unless you are invited to sit beside her, because invading her space on an initial date could make her feel very uncomfortable.

    I've dated guys though that insist on sitting right beside me, which is fine if you are in a relationship but not on a date.
    The bubble??? Are you talking about that one that all females live in??



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