Girls are intimidated by me !?

**Surreal** · 03-16-2009, 11:38 AM

I'm Asian, so I tend to fancy my own kind. Hope that's ok, kids!

**bushido3374** · 03-16-2009, 12:06 PM

I'm Asian too, Surreal... in ethnicity, but American in culture. I tend to intimidate Asian women also.
Guess I shouldn't generalize all Asian women together. I think from experience that traditional Chinese and Japanese women are institutionalized to seeking more mellow men.
I get frustrated with this from time to time.

On another note....

Sideways vaginas??? You're not serious are you?

**Matt** · 03-16-2009, 12:35 PM

Asian chicks are hot...

**firmechicano831** · 03-16-2009, 02:29 PM

I want to slam some asian pu..ssy for sure.

**Surreal** · 03-16-2009, 03:41 PM

Originally Posted by bushido3374

I tend to intimidate Asian women also..

I think they just think we're fat. LOL. I have a buddy who is a competitive grappler. Even though he has a very obvious six pack, his gf still calls him fat!

Originally Posted by bushido3374

I think from experience that traditional Chinese and Japanese women are institutionalized to seeking more mellow men.

Some Asian girls prefer white guys. One explanation that I've been given is that they think Asian guys tend to lack confidence/are insecure/are too soft, and that white boys are more assertive/confident/whatever. However, I don't really believe this agreement. My Asian friends are all overly assertive and arrogant dicks, or so I've been told by some girls.

As for the more traditional ones, I'm not so sure about those. The seriously conservative ones don't tend to put out easily. So, not really worth the effort unless you want something serious. LOL.

**JiGGaMaN** · 03-16-2009, 09:39 PM

i suspect your problem is that you come across as a weirdo and you are socially ackward. please consult ruhl on methods of overcoming this.

**kenny280** · 03-16-2009, 10:53 PM

Originally Posted by Kratos

I'm not attracted to Asian women anyway. I find it gross their vaginas run left to right instead of front to back.

thats some funny chit there.

**scottythebody** · 03-16-2009, 11:10 PM

I have a shaved head and wear glasses, getting women is never a problem for me. Read up on body language and you should be able to make yourself look less intimidating, and like others have said, smile a lot

**Surreal** · 03-16-2009, 11:36 PM

Originally Posted by scottythebody

I have a shaved head and wear glasses, getting women is never a problem for me. Read up on body language and you should be able to make yourself look less intimidating, and like others have said, smile a lot

Getting girls isn't the problem. It seems that the nice and normal ones are intimidated by me. So I end up only attracting the crazy ones. LOL.

**Surreal** · 03-16-2009, 11:38 PM

Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN

i suspect your problem is that you come across as a weirdo and you are socially ackward. please consult ruhl on methods of overcoming this.

If that's in fact the case, consulting ruhl and following his advice would only exacerbate the situation.

**scottythebody** · 03-16-2009, 11:55 PM

Originally Posted by Surreal

Getting girls isn't the problem. It seems that the nice and normal ones are intimidated by me. So I end up only attracting the crazy ones. LOL.

It just seems like you are using looking intimidating as some sort of pre-made excuse for not being able to get what you consider a nice normal girl

**Surreal** · 03-17-2009, 12:29 AM

Originally Posted by scottythebody

It just seems like you are using looking intimidating as some sort of pre-made excuse for not being able to get what you consider a nice normal girl

Not so much of an excuse as an issue in need of a solution. Frankly, it's something that I've only come to fully realize recently, and it functions as a reasonable model for the purposes of explaining my interaction with the opposite sex for the past 2 years or so.

I posted this here because I thought that perhaps some of the guys here shares or shared the same problem, and would be able to offer constructive advice on how to be more approachable. Thanks.

**luxifer93** · 03-17-2009, 12:34 AM

Irish Car Bombs, buy a few rounds and you'll look like a teddy bear

**JiGGaMaN** · 03-17-2009, 01:09 AM

Originally Posted by Surreal

If that's in fact the case, consulting ruhl and following his advice would only exacerbate the situation.

peer support group.

**Voland** · 03-17-2009, 03:50 AM

Originally Posted by scottythebody

I have a shaved head and wear glasses, getting women is never a problem for me. Read up on body language and you should be able to make yourself look less intimidating, and like others have said, smile a lot