ex gf....

[BTM0085]

so guys, me and my former love interest had some issues about a year ago ok...didnt speak, i didnt try contacting or nothing for over a year...she starts seeing someone else ok whatever, still dont try talking to her...after a year smooth no fighting no drama she blocks me on instant message....now i say mabye she was mad i dont have hard feelings, i send friend request on facebook...still pending after 2 months, i know shes been on and has seen it and didnt deny it..if you dont accept or deny it still pops up as new request everytime yoeryu sign on.....so she sees it everytime she signs on....anyway, what could be her reasons? i havent hard feelings at all? is this some look for attention?

[moregunsthanroses]

So you didn't really talk for over a year but u chatted every now and then on some type of IM?

Just forget about her dude shes obviously not interested and sounds to me like a bit of a bitch.

She's probably dating another dude or interested in others and your not included in the picture for whatever reason.

[subaruwrx04]

Sounds like a trust issue to me. Or your name has came up to her new man and he dont want her talking to you.

[fit4ever]

so guys, me and my former love interest had some issues about a year ago ok...didnt speak, i didnt try contacting or nothing for over a year...she starts seeing someone else ok whatever, still dont try talking to her...after a year smooth no fighting no drama she blocks me on instant message....now i say mabye she was mad i dont have hard feelings, i send friend request on facebook...still pending after 2 months, i know shes been on and has seen it and didnt deny it..if you dont accept or deny it still pops up as new request everytime yoeryu sign on.....so she sees it everytime she signs on....anyway, what could be her reasons? i havent hard feelings at all? is this some look for attention?

She sounds over you, which is what most guys hate to accept.

[RA]

Take the hint bro..

so guys, me and my former love interest had some issues about a year ago ok...didnt speak, i didnt try contacting or nothing for over a year...she starts seeing someone else ok whatever, still dont try talking to her...after a year smooth no fighting no drama she blocks me on instant message....now i say mabye she was mad i dont have hard feelings, i send friend request on facebook...still pending after 2 months, i know shes been on and has seen it and didnt deny it..if you dont accept or deny it still pops up as new request everytime yoeryu sign on.....so she sees it everytime she signs on....anyway, what could be her reasons? i havent hard feelings at all? is this some look for attention?

[calgarian]

so thing i dont understand is u call her ur ex yet u still used to talk to her....man take a hint move on....

[scerpico22]

Take the hint bro..

^^^ Yup, that about sums it up bro. She OBVIOUSLY is in another relationship and has left you in the rear view mirror which is exactly what you should do.

Sounds like you ended things amicably, so move on...leave her in peace. (as she is doing with you)

That way somewhere down the road if you cross paths it wont be weird, rude or uncomfortable and you can say hi, have a drink or just respectfully have a nice convo...

pretty simple bro, move on...

[*RAGE*]

It means you are a fuvking stalker and need to get a life. IT BEEN A YEAR, WHO CARE IF SHE DONT WANT TO BE YOU FRIEND ON FACE BOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[scerpico22]

[D7M]

It means you are a fuvking stalker and need to get a life. IT BEEN A YEAR, WHO CARE IF SHE DONT WANT TO BE YOU FRIEND ON FACE BOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

seriously. it's facebook. who cares.

move on, bro.

[KatsMeow]

Sometimes girls need to cut ties in order to move on with their lives, maybe you get to her and make her sad thinking about things that happened. She needs the space and you need to give that to her. If and when she is ready to talk to you, I'm sure you will know. The relationship is over and some things take years to heal, since she's in a new relationship she might not want to talk because it might impose on the relationship she is trying to build now.

[T-MOS]

Seriously????? Facebook??? What are you , 12???

next your gonna tell us that you Twitter and she won't reply.....

Let it go! move on! SHE DID!!!!

[RA]

That makes too much sense

Sometimes girls need to cut ties in order to move on with their lives, maybe you get to her and make her sad thinking about things that happened. She needs the space and you need to give that to her. If and when she is ready to talk to you, I'm sure you will know. The relationship is over and some things take years to heal, since she's in a new relationship she might not want to talk because it might impose on the relationship she is trying to build now.

[BritishColumbian]

[RA]

Thats a lil over the top bro

[Kratos]

Listen to Katsmeow, she thinks just like a girl.

Anyway, sounds like you're sad now that you realize it's 100% over. But, that's life and you both need to look to the future.

[BTM0085]

stalking? give me a break....like i said i didnt contact for a year then she blocks me out thats what i was wondering about

[scerpico22]

stalking? give me a break....like i said i didnt contact for a year then she blocks me out thats what i was wondering about

its simple...SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE ANY COMMUNICATION WITH YOU.

[WOLFCRAFT]

Dude my ex is the same way.
She kept deleting me from her myspace and everything.
Now I understand, that only makes sense.
It's over.

[Hoggage_54]

I thought you had to be at least 18 to sign up for this site.........

[BritishColumbian]

I thought you had to be at least 18 to sign up for this site.........

thats what i was wondering...

[T_Own]

I thought you had to be at least 18 to sign up for this site.........

hahaha.. i was gonna say this sounds very high school. OMG she blocked me from aim and wont write on my wall!!!

[scerpico22]

[Psychotron]

LOL, man I haven't been here in a while, it's good to see these types of threads still going on

[J-Dogg]

Don't let it bother you, quit checking to see if she accepted it your request on face book, remove that and quit trying.

In time, you may run into her out, and you can make ammends then and maybe just be friends.

For now, it sounds like she is trying to move on, and you should be trying to do the same.

It could just hurt her, you did not chase her, a lot of girls like attention and to be perused, but you don't want a girl like that anyway cause you'll never catch them and if you do, you'll give up.

[xavier_888888]

hahaha.. i was gonna say this sounds very high school. OMG she blocked me from aim and wont write on my wall!!!

Exactly what I was thinking hahahah

[Schmidty]

i took that pic from the front of WRXs house

[gixxerboy1]

i think you should wait in her driveway for her to get home and ask her

[Matt]

i think you should wait in her driveway for her to get home and ask her

I like this idea, but id wear a ski-mask, chicks love supprises...

[Matt]

stalking? give me a break....like i said i didnt contact for a year then she blocks me out thats what i was wondering about

It maybe that she's sucking that much cock at the moment and she just hasnt got time for you any more..

Or it could be that her experience with you was so fvking horrific that even thinking about you makes her want to cut her own throat...

[Hoggage_54]

It maybe that she's sucking that much cock at the moment and she just hasnt got time for you any more..

Or it could be that her experience with you was so fvking horrific that even thinking about you makes her want to cut her own throat...

[T_Own]

I like this idea, but id wear a ski-mask, chicks love supprises...

yes they do. maybe jump out behind a bush or something. or grab her from behind when its late at night. her heart will race, all cause of you. how great will that make you feel

[MASTER]

I swear I already posted in this thread. Oh well, you sound like a bit of a stalker dude, just forget her and get some other tail. No woman is worth a year of regret and pining (maybe Jessica Alba).

[novastepp]

she probably thinks you'll try to add her again if she doesnt accept it. so she doesnt care that it sits there. shes moved on and doesnt want u treading near what she is doing now. and who could blame her, i wouldnt want my ex's looking at what im doing with my new life post-them.

[spywizard]

is she gay??

[Bojangles69]

so guys, me and my former love interest had some issues about a year ago ok...didnt speak, i didnt try contacting or nothing for over a year...she starts seeing someone else ok whatever, still dont try talking to her...after a year smooth no fighting no drama she blocks me on instant message....now i say mabye she was mad i dont have hard feelings, i send friend request on facebook...still pending after 2 months, i know shes been on and has seen it and didnt deny it..if you dont accept or deny it still pops up as new request everytime yoeryu sign on.....so she sees it everytime she signs on....anyway, what could be her reasons? i havent hard feelings at all? is this some look for attention?

**YOU HAVEN'T TALKED IN A YEAR**

ONE YEAR

ONE YEAR

And you want to know why she blocked you?

Thats just as dumb as saying "I was sitting by my computer not doing anything on it.. and the screensaver came on.. the SCREENSAVER! WHY!!! I didn't do anything why doesn't my computer like me?"

Now, next.

You DO 100% have hard feelings, and you are obviously in denial about this fact.
Lastly, I usually try my best to help guys with women problems but this was seriously disturbing.

You said: "is this some look for attention"?

Is that really what your mind is telling you?
You think after you haven't spoke in 1 fvcking year, after she blocks you, and after she doesn't approve you on facebook, that SHE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION?!!

WTF!?!?!??!

That is straight up stalker shit. I'm not trying to piss you off (well I really don't care because your ability to use the analytical side of your brain has obviously failed at this point) but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do 1 of 2 things.

1) Go fvck some other chick and drop the whole self obsessed bs. (I say self obsessed because to think shes trying to get your attention you're obviously obsessed with yourself more then her)

or 2)
Grow some balls and start actually stalking her, videotaping her, and doing what ever you need so she can legally get a restraining order or buy a gun just encase you think her restraining order is also ploy for attention.

[Kratos]

**or 2)
Grow some balls and start actually stalking her, videotaping her, and doing what ever you need so she can legally get a restraining order or buy a gun just encase you think her restraining order is also ploy for attention.

damn everyone is harshing on poor gargamel

I'm curious what happened with the break-up now??? You just need to find a new girl, she's smurfette at this point...never gonna happen again. It's been a year, haven't you needed to get laid yet?

[1down5up]

If you have not talked to her in a year why are you even checking if she blocked you or not? Who cares just move on.

[CptAmericaX]

I think your over thinking it brother 3 F's stick with em

[jamyjamjr]

why the f would you wanna talk to your ex??? IT'S DONE AND OVER WITH..

u having a hard time getting layed or something bro???