How much do you focus on looks?

[Gaspari1255]

I am talking about dating/girlfriend status. I think I have gotten a lot better over the years dating females for intelligence, kindness, and personality. However, I could never date/kiss/or sleep with a female that I am not physically attracted to. So how much of a role do looks play in your decison making in females?

[Deltasaurus]

for me i have a tough scale and take many things into account as a gimme almost all women in the states

Drink
Smoke
Take Birth Control
Text
and have a Myspace or Face book

that being said i try to go for girls that are say a solid 6-7 with personality and the do not do most of these things.

U have to be somewhat physically attracted to them IMO for it to work
but at the end of the day its the person themselves u need to love or get along with.
so thats pretty much how i go about

also i dont like to date a girl who has slept with people i know generally

[Gaspari1255]

for me i have a tough scale and take many things into account as a gimme almost all women in the states

Drink
Smoke
Take Birth Control
Text
and have a Myspace or Face book

that being said i try to go for girls that are say a solid 6-7 with personality and the do not do most of these things.

U have to be somewhat physically attracted to them IMO for it to work
but at the end of the day its the person themselves u need to love or get along with.
so thats pretty much how i go about

also i dont like to date a girl who has slept with people i know generally

Couldn't agree with you more, if a chick smokes, 90% of the time she won't get the time of the day.

[*El Diablo*]

she has to be 9/10 out of 10 looks wise, not smoking.She doesnt need a brain.

[sigman roid]

She needs to have a pulse thats it...lol

[Mooseman33]

has to be hot..bottom line..

smoking dont bother me, considering im a pack a day guy....

[DSM4Life]

I wont lie and say looks don't matter but you shouldn't focus all your attention on looks.

Beauty fades but dumb is forever.

[CBGB]

Lokks are always first. You don't go up to ugly women and hope they are nice. That being said. A bad personality can make a chick real ugly to me.

[CHAP]

I wont lie and say looks don't matter but you shouldn't focus all your attention on looks.

Beauty fades but dumb is forever.

Very well said

[stpete]

I'd say my girls' a 7 on a scale to 10. But what i like the most is that she's just flat out cool and we get along great. I actually take personality and friendship over anything else.

[oneshot]

for me i have a tough scale and take many things into account as a gimme almost all women in the states

Drink
Smoke
Take Birth Control
Text
and have a Myspace or Face book

that being said i try to go for girls that are say a solid 6-7 with personality and the do not do most of these things.

U have to be somewhat physically attracted to them IMO for it to work
but at the end of the day its the person themselves u need to love or get along with.
so thats pretty much how i go about

also i dont like to date a girl who has slept with people i know generally

i can understand the smoking and drinking, but what is the relevance of the other three? i would prefer my girl to be on birth control being as i hate condoms and pulling out is nearly as bad. your gonna be hard pressed to find a girl that doesnt text, or have facebook nowadays. i dont see why that would be a turn off whatsoever unless they take it to an extreme. although looks are important to me, i could date a girl whos slightly less attractive if shes got brains and a good personality. its all about finding that rare one that fits all the criteria

[l2elapse]

You want your gf to get prego?

[Nooomoto]

Every HOT girl I've ever been involved with has turned out to be a ****in maniac. I settled for a pretty girl (I always get compliments from my friends, etc) with a bad ass personality. She worships the ground I walk on...I can deal with losing a few hotness points for that.

[Kratos]

She needs to have a pulse thats it...lol

If she's a 10, I'm down for banging the corpse.
Want to go munging with me?

[BG]

I wont lie and say looks don't matter but you shouldn't focus all your attention on looks.

Beauty fades but dumb is forever.

I agree 100%.

I made sure my wife was smart enough (when I was done teaching her about the real world) and cool. I wont deal with a girl that gives me shit over small things. I was blessed with my wife, took until I was 30 to find her.

[stack_it]

It really depends on how many drinks I've had.....

[Hazard]

beauty is a big ting with me but not the ONLY thing..... if shes not a looker..... i'm not approaching her..... sorry.

If shes looks good..... then i'll talk to her and if her personality sucks..... shes done.

My wife is hot..... but her personality has changed over the last two years and it's starting to bother me a lot. I will say tho..... I will never marry again. Don't need this bullsh*t twice..... I'll just stick to bangin hot women..... cuz when you're just bangin em.... who cares about personality LMAO

~Haz~

[BG]

beauty is a big ting with me but not the ONLY thing..... if shes not a looker..... i'm not approaching her..... sorry.

If shes looks good..... then i'll talk to her and if her personality sucks..... shes done.

My wife is hot..... but her personality has changed over the last two years and it's starting to bother me a lot. I will say tho..... I will never marry again. Don't need this bullsh*t twice..... I'll just stick to bangin hot women..... cuz when you're just bangin em.... who cares about personality LMAO

~Haz~

How is her personality changing I wonder. I only been married 5 months, maybe you know something i should be looking out for??

[OH REALLY]

well iv dated hot girls and ok girls but i dont focus on looks

[OH REALLY]

its usually us that change...

[sizerp]

It really depends on how wasted I am at the time.

[Deltasaurus]

i can understand the smoking and drinking, but what is the relevance of the other three? i would prefer my girl to be on birth control being as i hate condoms and pulling out is nearly as bad. your gonna be hard pressed to find a girl that doesnt text, or have facebook nowadays. i dont see why that would be a turn off whatsoever unless they take it to an extreme. although looks are important to me, i could date a girl whos slightly less attractive if shes got brains and a good personality. its all about finding that rare one that fits all the criteria

the relevance of the other three is i dont care, but its rare to find girls who arent into that crap. its the hip or cool thing to have a myspace or facebook.

now birth control is bad for women everyone knows this,

just as our Cigs.

if im with a girl and therfore i care about her and her health.

i like square girls, who read and go on hikes and paint,draw etc.....

[Deltasaurus]

BTW i dont care about the other three its just sooo stereotypical, like i dont care but its like a gimme, texting would bother me the least i understand it

[Hazard]

How is her personality changing I wonder. I only been married 5 months, maybe you know something i should be looking out for??

We've known eachother for 9 or so years now..... She has always liked going out to clubs (her brother is a good DJ) - she always had friends - she was always social - she liked me working out and never cared about aas (she injected me)

Now.....

She HATES clubs...... hates if I go out with friends and she lost her friends..... hates me working out and said she'll divorce if I use aas but she's allowed to goto the gym. She cut out my familly and no longer goes over to visit them with me..... she tells her mother everything (i've gotten phone calls from her mother bitchin me out..... so now me and the mother-in-law are on bad terms) - oh and she fights with me if I try to carb cycle lol.....

Idunno.... sometimes things are good with us..... other times.... it's like I don't know her. My wife was diagnosed manic depressant after we got married and shes had about 5 surgeries in 2 years and going in for another one tomorrow...... i'm hangin in.... LOL - hope all stays well with yours.

~Haz~

[Mooseman33]

the relevance of the other three is i dont care, but its rare to find girls who arent into that crap. its the hip or cool thing to have a myspace or facebook.

now birth control is bad for women everyone knows this,

just as our Cigs.

if im with a girl and therfore i care about her and her health.

i like square girls, who read and go on hikes and paint,draw etc.....

why is it bad for a woman?

and everyone knows smoking makes u cool....

[Deltasaurus]

i will let u google it moose, birth control is no good for women

[OH REALLY]

A2thej2008 how could you bust your girls chops for using birthcontrol if you take steroids

[energizer bunny]

if you say looks arent important then your a liar........im not saying that they have to be stuning but they must not look like a bag of shit either......and personalty plays a masive part for me aswell.......give me a 6/10 with a nice personality anyday over 10/10 who thinks she is a queen........

[Deltasaurus]

A2thej2008 how could you bust your girls chops for using birthcontrol if you take steroids

because im natty, never takin nething but creatine lol

[fitluv09]

being a girl, i will interject if i may.. looks aren't everything but it DEFINITELY is a plus.

[Hazard]

My wife is on birth control for medical reasons..... she HAS to be due to ovarian cysts that require surgery.

Not all women are on Birth control to keep from having kids. It's used medically for a bunch of stuff.....

essentially it's the same thing as men taking testosterone ......

~Haz~

[Deltasaurus]

all i was saying is birth control is bad for women, which it is.

i myself dont take anything, even flu shots or anything

[Hazard]

i myself dont take anything, even flu shots or anything

I'm like that..... when i get sick - I don't take cold medicine. Unless it's serious.... i never take antibiotics. I drink a little..... party hard once in a blue moon..... and aas..... thats it

~Haz~

[PC650]

I'd say my girls' a 7 on a scale to 10. But what i like the most is that she's just flat out cool and we get along great. I actually take personality and friendship over anything else.

i agree 100% personality and frienship out weighs beauty

[MuscleScience]

The physical attraction has to be there to some extent. However I would take a moderately attractive girl with her shit together and a good personality over a smoking hot psychopath, who's life is one train wreck after another.

[Mooseman33]

all i was saying is birth control is bad for women, which it is.

i myself dont take anything, even flu shots or anything

as bad as it is for women, it is also huge in helping with alot of medical conditions on women. u cant be one sided when something helps people aslo.

[MuscleScience]

as bad as it is for women, it is also huge in helping with alot of medical conditions on women. u cant be one sided when something helps people aslo.

agreed.

[kojak_x]

She needs to have a pulse thats it...lol

Im with you dun

[Gaspari1255]

The physical attraction has to be there to some extent. However I would take a moderately attractive girl with her shit together and a good personality over a smoking hot psychopath, who's life is one train wreck after another.

I seem to be a magent for this kind.

[l2elapse]

youre probably the first and last guy i will know that doesnt want their gf on the pill