All floridians, please read this...

[CMPD213]

If you live in or around the pensacola area please contact me via PM. It doesnt have to do with Juice, even if it did i live in michigan.

Basically, my father left my family when i was 3. I got a message today on facebook from a girl in florida saying she works for my father, and he had her bring her laptop into work and search for me on facebook and myspace. She obviously found me, but i was rude and cold to her because i want nothing to do with the scumbag. BUT he does owe a pretty penny for child support for my sister and I, so i just have a small favor to ask anyone in that area.

If you can help me at all, please contact me.

[oscarjones]

Sorry mate I'm down south more.

Why don't you just talk with him?

[gixxerboy1]

is the girl attractive. If so I'm willing to go there and bang her on his desk to teach him a lesson.

[oscarjones]

is the girl attractive. If so I'm willing to go there and bang her on his desk to teach him a lesson.

^

[gixxerboy1]

always willing to help out another member

[Noles12]

iam about 3 hours from there but i will not be making that trip anytime soon. why not respond back to the girl and get a phone number

[DOM6]

Do you know HIS SIDE OF THE STORY WHY HE LEFT?
Women are evil in those ways

[Bojangles69]

I would not give a flyin fvck about his "story", hes the guys biological father, any story he has will only be a worthless excuse.

You don't leave your kid no matter how psycho the wife, and by all means his mother can be the nicest most responsible woman in the world.
I have personal experience with this with my step brothers and their dad and I def support the original poster not saying a word to this girl. The dad is pawning her out to get closer to him, he might even pay her to fly down and blow him just cause the guilt is starting to get to him.
He'll prob drink himself to death over it in the next 10 years (what my brothers father did)
And I say let the mfkr die a lonely bitter death.

Thats the price you pay for walking out on your children..

[CMPD213]

He drinks a bottle of liquor a day, he cheated on my mom multiple times. My mom was young and dumb, and her family had money. So he took advantage of it....

To be honest, all I want is to try and find out for sure where he is so I can either lock him up or get my money.. I think that would be a swift kick in the balls.

He's a nobody to me, and useless in my life. He just likes playing mind games and he's psycho, like stalker psycho. I'm done with the bullshit.

[DSM4Life]

[elpropiotorvic]

He drinks a bottle of liquor a day, he cheated on my mom multiple times. My mom was young and dumb, and her family had money. So he took advantage of it....

To be honest, all I want is to try and find out for sure where he is so I can either lock him up or get my money.. I think that would be a swift kick in the balls.

He's a nobody to me, and useless in my life. He just likes playing mind games and he's psycho, like stalker psycho. I'm done with the bullshit.

Mate I'm going to share my story in a forum like this just to show u and other that u never now until ur fully informed and have things in perspective.

My gf got pregnant on Feb x year... She is a country girl anyhow long story short she decided she did not want to live in the city cause it's to noisy and fast ( honestly I live in a big town pretty much 700.000 ppl seriously WTF ?)
when I met her she was in welfae and had been for the past five years ,..she als happened to have another daughter.... I took care of her .... Of her daughter ... After a month of living there her daughter called me daddy in my language I fought my gf how to manage her debt ...she then got debt free ( she had 1500 dls debt and very very bad credit) I helped her get into am online place so she could get her high school credits ( she doesnt have her highschool) but she decided she wanted to move influenced by her family who are a seemyngly normal but they're all crazy... I took her into meditation and a lot of good stuff.. She wanted to move and was pretty much set in thtst.

Me being an immigrant without a work permit did not wanted to leave the few conncections I made In the city to go to the country where there is no work or vergvery much less resources than in the city ... My father and his wife who also happen to b in the city don't speak English either so I also didn't want to leave them like that but them whatever their old they can manage ....

So she moves to a place where there are no buses ... I can't visit and I'm new to the country and don't know too many ppl with cars ... I can't visit

So after a month she finds herself a boyfriend around there ( while pregnant with my baby) meanwhile I'm the immigrant in the city working under the table ....
She then stops calling eventually moves from where she initially was and then can't keep her phones because she is in debt again ( not because of lack of money is because of bad judgement like buying prada glasses for 400 dls with welfare money) I then start calling her family when I calculate that the baby is going to be born ... They all say don't call again to this number or u will have trouble... Or u got the wrog number... Tried all her friends and known associates and same thing ... For some reason ppl hated me imean u can be my brother or son or sister but if u don't let the father of a person communicate with u that's just wrong and I will encourage mi relative to speak to the father ... Anyhow she calls me 2 months after the baby is born and I pick up the phone nobody speaks and then she says "don't take the baby back to your country don't take him away from me" and then she hangs up.

She calls then from month to month and then wants to start. Talking pretensind like nothing happened and just asking me how I am and my dad and whatever that has no relevance with the baby... Then in one of the conversations I was told by her that her little twisted mind along with their family mind got the brght conclusion that my purpose for coming to Canada was to get a white girl pregnant then take her to my country sell the baby as merchandise and pimp the girl out ....(WTF ??????) so I came here as a refugee because Me and my family have hits on us... So anyways te point is I'm not going back... And then after 7 months of my baby being born she agrees to let me see him with 4 chaperones ..... Just in case right cause I might be a kidnapper... My baby is the best creature I have seen ... He is gorgeus exactly like me every feature in his face hands and body is like me ... Anyways
she changes address again and whatever doesn't tell me then calls a month after and I visit again then same thing happens... Today mate today people is my babys first birthday ... And u know who's not going to be there ... Me? ... Is it my choice no? Could I do something ... I have gotten legal advice and I am an active member in my community and amongst young parents and part of a family law forum ... And no not right now not me being an immigrant and starting out in this country... When ifinish my studies and get my citizenship yes I can do stuff I have a netter case but not now I have been informed and have read... So anyways

She sends me a fb invitation I accept her and check her wall history and stuff and going back a year there are all this comments from her to other ppl And vicdversa saying that I'm a nut case psycho and other saying I'm the worst father ever... Other saying from her family that they expect the new boyfriend nit to be like me(WTF ? What the he'll did I do honestly nothing I really did nothing she is a seeminlgy stable unstable person who's had family issues since she's three abused father in co ke mothers daughters and sons in law abused her aswell... Anyways she never knew whatstability was I gave her stabilyty and my theory is thtst she ran away from what she doesn't know ...

1 month ago visiting my baby she let's me express myself and tell her that I understand that she did it because she doesn't know any better but me or any human being that acts in the way that I acted ( has any of u worked and just gave ur wifes ur check ? Trusting that she was going to spend it wisely in groceries like me ? Probably but that is a good man ) she then appologized and cried and said she was extremely repented for what she did ... I forgive her cAuse at least I have had stability never lacked love from any of my parents never abused never bullied never anything I had a great chdhood she didn't so I forgave her .... But till this day her family and friends think am the worst dad onthe world and u know what my baby is going to grow up thinking .... I am now doing the best I can to work full time and study and getting myself a well documented case with signed affidavits from. The calls and everything and will try to get my son in the future but mate
iim not saying ur dads a good guy and ur mom fvcked up... No I'm just saying just like her family didn't have things in perspective u don't either ... U know who quit a 7 year addiction to drugs first month with me ? My ex but her family doesn't know ... I'm just saying mate


Keep things in perspective and livestrong

[CMPD213]

Your story seems to be far different than my biological fathers... I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, because you want to be in your childs life.

My father didn't want anything to do with me or my sister. If he did he would have set up visitation on the weekends or something, but instead he left. Moved to Florida, married into a family with money, had a few children, divorced, then married into a different family that had money, probably had some more children, and I don't know what he's doing now.. He's just not a good person, that is truly what it is. He marrys into families that have money, then gets the family to open him some sort of buisness (usually restaurant or pizzeria) then divorces and either sells or keeps the buisness.

[spywizard]

the state should collect that for you..

don't live your life with hate, but you don't have to share your life with him since he rejected your mother so many years ago..

Why add even more drama and pain to your mom's life.. let it go and move on with your life..

Thats just my experience, dad left my brother/me/mom when i was 3... lived my young life as i should Hating him etc.. 13-14 yrs old is normal for people to want to know their biological parent.. i never did, still don't except for health issues.. my brother was a different issue, he spent much money trying to find him..

In the end ... tomorrow when you wake up, you will be you and he will still be himself, take solice in that and that your mom loved you and took care of you..

best advice i can give, don't let him continue to infect your life... thats what you are doing be even posting this and having so much hate, hes effecting you and who you are without even knowing or seeing you..

good luck.

[BJJ]

the state should collect that for you..

don't live your life with hate, but you don't have to share your life with him since he rejected your mother so many years ago..

Why add even more drama and pain to your mom's life.. let it go and move on with your life..

Thats just my experience, dad left my brother/me/mom when i was 3... lived my young life as i should Hating him etc.. 13-14 yrs old is normal for people to want to know their biological parent.. i never did, still don't except for health issues.. my brother was a different issue, he spent much money trying to find him..

In the end ... tomorrow when you wake up, you will be you and he will still be himself, take solice in that and that your mom loved you and took care of you..

best advice i can give, don't let him continue to infect your life... thats what you are doing be even posting this and having so much hate, hes effecting you and who you are without even knowing or seeing you..

good luck.

Agree.
I wish you also Good Luck, OP

[BJJ]

Mate I'm going to share my story in a forum like this just to show u and other that u never now until ur fully informed and have things in perspective.

My gf got pregnant on Feb x year... She is a country girl anyhow long story short she decided she did not want to live in the city cause it's to noisy and fast ( honestly I live in a big town pretty much 700.000 ppl seriously WTF ?)
when I met her she was in welfae and had been for the past five years ,..she als happened to have another daughter.... I took care of her .... Of her daughter ... After a month of living there her daughter called me daddy in my language I fought my gf how to manage her debt ...she then got debt free ( she had 1500 dls debt and very very bad credit) I helped her get into am online place so she could get her high school credits ( she doesnt have her highschool) but she decided she wanted to move influenced by her family who are a seemyngly normal but they're all crazy... I took her into meditation and a lot of good stuff.. She wanted to move and was pretty much set in thtst.

Me being an immigrant without a work permit did not wanted to leave the few conncections I made In the city to go to the country where there is no work or vergvery much less resources than in the city ... My father and his wife who also happen to b in the city don't speak English either so I also didn't want to leave them like that but them whatever their old they can manage ....

So she moves to a place where there are no buses ... I can't visit and I'm new to the country and don't know too many ppl with cars ... I can't visit

So after a month she finds herself a boyfriend around there ( while pregnant with my baby) meanwhile I'm the immigrant in the city working under the table ....
She then stops calling eventually moves from where she initially was and then can't keep her phones because she is in debt again ( not because of lack of money is because of bad judgement like buying prada glasses for 400 dls with welfare money) I then start calling her family when I calculate that the baby is going to be born ... They all say don't call again to this number or u will have trouble... Or u got the wrog number... Tried all her friends and known associates and same thing ... For some reason ppl hated me imean u can be my brother or son or sister but if u don't let the father of a person communicate with u that's just wrong and I will encourage mi relative to speak to the father ... Anyhow she calls me 2 months after the baby is born and I pick up the phone nobody speaks and then she says "don't take the baby back to your country don't take him away from me" and then she hangs up.

She calls then from month to month and then wants to start. Talking pretensind like nothing happened and just asking me how I am and my dad and whatever that has no relevance with the baby... Then in one of the conversations I was told by her that her little twisted mind along with their family mind got the brght conclusion that my purpose for coming to Canada was to get a white girl pregnant then take her to my country sell the baby as merchandise and pimp the girl out ....(WTF ??????) so I came here as a refugee because Me and my family have hits on us... So anyways te point is I'm not going back... And then after 7 months of my baby being born she agrees to let me see him with 4 chaperones ..... Just in case right cause I might be a kidnapper... My baby is the best creature I have seen ... He is gorgeus exactly like me every feature in his face hands and body is like me ... Anyways
she changes address again and whatever doesn't tell me then calls a month after and I visit again then same thing happens... Today mate today people is my babys first birthday ... And u know who's not going to be there ... Me? ... Is it my choice no? Could I do something ... I have gotten legal advice and I am an active member in my community and amongst young parents and part of a family law forum ... And no not right now not me being an immigrant and starting out in this country... When ifinish my studies and get my citizenship yes I can do stuff I have a netter case but not now I have been informed and have read... So anyways

She sends me a fb invitation I accept her and check her wall history and stuff and going back a year there are all this comments from her to other ppl And vicdversa saying that I'm a nut case psycho and other saying I'm the worst father ever... Other saying from her family that they expect the new boyfriend nit to be like me(WTF ? What the he'll did I do honestly nothing I really did nothing she is a seeminlgy stable unstable person who's had family issues since she's three abused father in co ke mothers daughters and sons in law abused her aswell... Anyways she never knew whatstability was I gave her stabilyty and my theory is thtst she ran away from what she doesn't know ...

1 month ago visiting my baby she let's me express myself and tell her that I understand that she did it because she doesn't know any better but me or any human being that acts in the way that I acted ( has any of u worked and just gave ur wifes ur check ? Trusting that she was going to spend it wisely in groceries like me ? Probably but that is a good man ) she then appologized and cried and said she was extremely repented for what she did ... I forgive her cAuse at least I have had stability never lacked love from any of my parents never abused never bullied never anything I had a great chdhood she didn't so I forgave her .... But till this day her family and friends think am the worst dad onthe world and u know what my baby is going to grow up thinking .... I am now doing the best I can to work full time and study and getting myself a well documented case with signed affidavits from. The calls and everything and will try to get my son in the future but mate
iim not saying ur dads a good guy and ur mom fvcked up... No I'm just saying just like her family didn't have things in perspective u don't either ... U know who quit a 7 year addiction to drugs first month with me ? My ex but her family doesn't know ... I'm just saying mate


Keep things in perspective and livestrong

Very sorry to read those happenings.
I could not imagine not to be able to see my tiny one!
I wish you to build a future with your baby ASAP.

[CMPD213]

Thanks spywizard... You're right.. It funny because my mom said that he probably got bored with everyone down there so he's trying to contact you to mess with your head becauE he loves playing mind games...

I just have to let it go

[chuckt12345]

well stop bein mean to the girl and get info from her

[CMPD213]

I sent her another message apologizing for my rudeness and I asked for some information in case I ever do want to come in contact with him... She has yet to reply.

[elpropiotorvic]

Very sorry to read those happenings.
I could not imagine not to be able to see my tiny one!
I wish you to build a future with your baby ASAP.

Thanks mate ... I try ...I WILL DO IT!