Girl left her facebook logged in.......

**RyanRoss** · 01-10-2010, 09:30 PM

God I suck! This girl left work during her shift to come over here and convince me what she was telling me was the truth and she just lost her job.

**CBGB** · 01-10-2010, 09:33 PM

Drama

**drdeath613** · 01-10-2010, 09:42 PM

her face book says she has a boyfriend maybe hes the other boyfriend
or

maybe its nothing girls tend to have that older brother syndrome a guy where they tell everything to or try to make them think shes being a good girl as she cares what he thinks of her

even still if shes not willing to tell him shes with you who else could she not be telling

**bjpennnn** · 01-10-2010, 09:52 PM

turn on some metallica or some type of music that will pump you up, do 50 push ups and go a girl or two. You will be alright man.

**RyanRoss** · 01-10-2010, 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by bjpennnn

turn on some metallica or some type of music that will pump you up, do 50 push ups and go a girl or two. You will be alright man.

rockin out to drowning pool right now

Edit: Let me go ahead and apologize for the drama with this thread. At least I'm starting off 2010 right.

Single.

Free.

In school!

Class in the AM boys!

**Bojangles69** · 01-10-2010, 10:20 PM

edit - waste of time

**Necrosaro** · 01-10-2010, 10:32 PM

I used to be just like you. Quick to blame and quick to get mad but I found it brought more problems then it should. You got to have secure foolproof if she is not being right with you. Get the information before you blame and things will be beter off in the long run.

**Bojangles69** · 01-10-2010, 10:48 PM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

rockin out to drowning pool right now

Edit: Let me go ahead and apologize for the drama with this thread. At least I'm starting off 2010 right.

Single.

Free.

In school!

Class in the AM boys!

You accidentally dumped your gf and your proud? You are an idiot.

**ray0414** · 01-10-2010, 11:23 PM

im kinda confused cause didnt u say she was talkin to some dude from your gym? wouldnt u be able to see her moms profile if thats who she was talkin to?

**ray0414** · 01-10-2010, 11:29 PM

im kinda confused cause didnt u say she was talkin to some dude from your gym? wouldnt u be able to see her moms profile if thats who she was talkin to?

**ranging1** · 01-11-2010, 12:34 AM

lol call her and meet up over lunch or dinner

then be a man and apologize, and say u just overreacted

dont beg her to take you back, just say you really cherish trust in a relationship and thought the worst immediatly

then just tell her she shouldve explained her situation to you aswell, so this would not have happened and that way you wouldve been aware (that way she feels a little guilt aswell, no reason for you to cop all the guilt)

had it happen to me with my gf on facebook, i cracked skitz and over reacted and later found out it was nothing

either way BEST OF LUCK

, things always work out in the end

**calgarian** · 01-11-2010, 12:56 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

I thought I was on my page, but it was actually hers. This caught me really off guard and I don't even know how to approach it.

There was a conversation between her and this guy....He asked about what she did last night.

She said she stayed in with some friends, watched a movie...then went to bed. (She was with me, watching a movie, then left at 10PM...)

What bothers me about this is there is 1 of 2 possibilities here:

1. She didn't go home when she left my house like she told me...so she basically lied to me.

2. She doesn't want this guy to think she has a boyfriend.....

I'm pretty upset, but I don't know how to approach this....Should I bet upset? Honestly I'm pissed. Either outcome with this is total bullshit.

dont confront her. 2 reasons.

u will be invading her privacy u dont know the whole story.
her status already says she is in realationship with u.

just keep an eye on her but DONT confront her you will be the onee endup on the wrong side.

How the hell u manage to get into all these dramas anyway???

**calgarian** · 01-11-2010, 01:02 AM

fvck didnt read the hole thing ryan my man drama follows u

**superben258** · 01-11-2010, 04:17 AM

Lmao

**skeldno** · 01-11-2010, 04:43 AM

Check her in box put ur number in there and get all messages diverted to you fone as well catch her out there is something not right there mate!!! Wen i am in a relationship the firsthing i do is tell everyone

**Friend** · 01-11-2010, 05:24 AM

**Flagg** · 01-11-2010, 05:47 AM

RyanRoss, all I can say is "Wow"

I was just about to say "Don't listen to the jerks here, there could be a logical explanation for this" but you did the knee jerk thing, and it's bit you in the ass.

Seems a shame but aw well. Lesson here to be learned, don't jump to conclusions.

**Flagg** · 01-11-2010, 05:50 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

God I suck! This girl left work during her shift to come over here and convince me what she was telling me was the truth and she just lost her job.

Mate, I wouldn't be telling a internet board how proud to be free you are. This girl just LOST HER JOB to tell you the truth and you're boasting about being free.

I don't mean to bust your balls, but instead of trying to get a cheap pop from a few people here, you should be trying to make amends.

Im just saying.

**DSM4Life** · 01-11-2010, 07:11 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

RyanRoss, all I can say is "Wow"

I was just about to say "Don't listen to the jerks here, there could be a logical explanation for this" but you did the knee jerk thing, and it's bit you in the ass.

Seems a shame but aw well. Lesson here to be learned, don't jump to conclusions.

And respect others privacy.

BG · 01-11-2010, 07:21 AM

Originally Posted by ray0414

im kinda confused cause didnt u say she was talkin to some dude from your gym? wouldnt u be able to see her moms profile if thats who she was talkin to?

Ya I say this kid is full of BS . Re-read his threads, he's a attention whore.

**wharton** · 01-11-2010, 07:33 AM

BS thread, too many things dont add up.

**NVR2BIG1** · 01-11-2010, 07:45 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

So I just found out this girl was telling the total and complete truth. If anyone wants me to actually post how I know this let me know, because there were a couple of strange coincidences but everything added up from the get go....I was just too mad to even listen to her try to explain.

God I am a FAIL at relationships!!

Screw it, I'll just post how.

This girls family are conservative Catholics, and she goes to a private school for girls only. She respects her family's wishes and doesn't stay the night with me (they believe its best to wait til married...and all that, I respect it).

She stayed the night with me Saturday for the first time ever, and lied to her family and told them she was staying at her friends in order to stay with me. So when I saw this conversation where her mom was actually on her facebook, she said 'I stayed at a friends'. that's what the reference was to. The catch .22 is that in order for the truth to be proven, she had to call her mom and tell her that she stayed with me, and explained the situation. Her mother calls and says, "Ryan.......that was me on her chat. She lied to me, and so did you!! You are a bad influence on my daughter. *click* " So not only did I lose the girl, I feel like the biggest asshole on the planet. This has just been a hell of a ride for me. Next thing you know I'll date some girl and end up shitting in her shower and trying to clean it out with a boner.

That is a load of shit, and her mom is covering for her ass!!! Dont buy into this type of shit for a second!!!

**NVR2BIG1** · 01-11-2010, 07:51 AM

Also, let me tell you exactly why this is a ****ing lie.... If it was in fact her mother on her facebook page and someone messaged her she wouldn't have replied because she would not want her daughter to know she was on her facebook page!!! OR AT A MINIMUM, "Hey this is her mother, she is not here right now" Dont buy into this bullshit for a second bro!! This is the way of the bitch, they want you to feel guilty for damn near everything, meanwhile they're out sucking dick behind a Wal-mart loading dock, to hell with the wench

**DSM4Life** · 01-11-2010, 07:55 AM

**RyanRoss** · 01-11-2010, 08:43 AM

Originally Posted by BG

Ya I say this kid is full of BS . Re-read his threads, he's a attention whore.

Just shit luck mate...We're meeting up tonight to talk about things, hopefully I can salvage this whole thing. Sorry for coming off that way

**Flagg** · 01-11-2010, 09:01 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

And respect others privacy.

that too!

**Big Horsepower** · 01-11-2010, 09:33 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

Just shit luck mate...We're meeting up tonight to talk about things, hopefully I can salvage this whole thing. Sorry for coming off that way

Hope things work out for you. In the future no facebook, myspace that type of bullshit, or crazy texting. Email is ok.
Just my 2 cents

**NVR2BIG1** · 01-11-2010, 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

Just shit luck mate...We're meeting up tonight to talk about things, hopefully I can salvage this whole thing. Sorry for coming off that way

you dont need to salvage shit. Quit lying to yourself, she left her Facebook open and she got popped. End of story. Yeah, its just a ****ing coincidence the ONE TIME YOU SEE HER FACEBOOK that happens to be the time "Mom" talked to the guys. As far as it being "one of your boys at the gym" I'd make it real clear to him that we were not friends. My guess is as soon as a week goes by and you quit talking to each other, somehow your boy at the gym will mysteriously end up with her. Just a wild guess!!

Quit acting like a sap and get your balls back !!!

**Hazard** · 01-11-2010, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by skeldno

Check her in box put ur number in there and get all messages diverted to you fone as well catch her out there is something not right there mate!!! Wen i am in a relationship the firsthing i do is tell everyone

How exactly would one go about diverting messages to another phone? LOL

~Haz~

**Bojangles69** · 01-11-2010, 06:47 PM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Mate, I wouldn't be telling a internet board how proud to be free you are. This girl just LOST HER JOB to tell you the truth and you're boasting about being free.

I don't mean to bust your balls, but instead of trying to get a cheap pop from a few people here, you should be trying to make amends.

Im just saying.

This is what bothered me about this thread.

I wouldn't have bashed him had he not gone on about being "free" & "single".
Its almost like he made one of the stupidest mistakes someone could make, but then he went on talking about like it was his intentions or like hes happy about it.

Some people break up and take it too hard, some people break up and seem to be in some fantasy world about whats going on. He dumped his girl, got her in trouble with her mom, got himself in trouble with the mom, got the girl fired from her job, and then he has the nerve to say "yeh I'm free now"?
That just shows hes not even TRYING to be mature about what happened. And what that TELLS ME honestly this WAS NOT an accident, you need to be missing an essential degree of maturity and responsibility to go on acting like this.
And THATS most likely why all this happened, its not a result of some "accident" the kids thought process is obviously fvcked, so I'm not treating this like he made an accident or some shit. An accident happens by random chance and him acting the way he did is not random, its who he is and he most likely makes dumb decisions like that everyday.
If hes not even gonna hold himself accountable wtf is he gonna learn from this whole situation? "Yeh I'm free"... plzzz

**SunHangDo** · 01-11-2010, 07:22 PM

If she's happy to lie to her parents, she'll be happy to lie to you. Good riddance I say.

**J-Dogg** · 01-11-2010, 08:22 PM

I'm glad to hear you got it worked Ryan, I know just from reading your post you've had a ruff 2009.

I'm not really good with relationships either, but honestly I feel you over reacted bro.

Even if it WAS her and not her mother, she is publicly on her page, in a relationship with you.

Girls really "FISH" for compliments and attention. They grow out of it as they get older, but while they do this, if they love you...it stays on the internet.

Facebook and Myspace gives every guy in the world the confidence to approach any girl they desire with out fumbling their words and making an ass of themselves. The worse that happens is they don't respond.

I talk to girls in a "relationship" all the time, and they are almost always flirty. Like wise, it's easier for a girl to flirt online, than it would be in person. AOL and Yahoo are even worse for it.

I'd just suggest bringing it up, state your confusion, and just ask her "am I paying enough attention to you?".

Some girls also, will love you more than anything in the world, but are not strong enough women to not get walked on, or taken advantage of by men. You want to steer clear of those!

**jg2** · 01-11-2010, 08:25 PM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

So I just found out this girl was telling the total and complete truth. If anyone wants me to actually post how I know this let me know, because there were a couple of strange coincidences but everything added up from the get go....I was just too mad to even listen to her try to explain.

God I am a FAIL at relationships!!

Screw it, I'll just post how.

This girls family are conservative Catholics, and she goes to a private school for girls only. She respects her family's wishes and doesn't stay the night with me (they believe its best to wait til married...and all that, I respect it).

She stayed the night with me Saturday for the first time ever, and lied to her family and told them she was staying at her friends in order to stay with me. So when I saw this conversation where her mom was actually on her facebook, she said 'I stayed at a friends'. that's what the reference was to. The catch .22 is that in order for the truth to be proven, she had to call her mom and tell her that she stayed with me, and explained the situation. Her mother calls and says, "Ryan.......that was me on her chat. She lied to me, and so did you!! You are a bad influence on my daughter. *click* " So not only did I lose the girl, I feel like the biggest asshole on the planet. This has just been a hell of a ride for me. Next thing you know I'll date some girl and end up shitting in her shower and trying to clean it out with a boner.

dude you should give her the ATM and dump her... theres obviously a reason you didnt believe her..... **** i dont believe that crap story... hey what ever makes you happy... but you should have gave her the mud butt for the shitty story... pun intended..

**J-Dogg** · 01-11-2010, 08:28 PM

Originally Posted by NVR2BIG1

Also, let me tell you exactly why this is a ****ing lie.... If it was in fact her mother on her facebook page and someone messaged her she wouldn't have replied because she would not want her daughter to know she was on her facebook page!!! OR AT A MINIMUM, "Hey this is her mother, she is not here right now" Dont buy into this bullshit for a second bro!! This is the way of the bitch, they want you to feel guilty for damn near everything, meanwhile they're out sucking dick behind a Wal-mart loading dock, to hell with the wench

I kind of agree with this.

Why would her mom even reply to his message?

Who seriously gives their mother their FB name/password?

I'm assuming since her mom is so FB savvy she would have her own?

Even if you don't have anything to hid from your mother, doesn't just giving her your FB information just seem a bit ridiculous?

**Kratos** · 01-12-2010, 01:23 AM

Originally Posted by RyanRoss

So I just found out this girl was telling the total and complete truth. If anyone wants me to actually post how I know this let me know, because there were a couple of strange coincidences but everything added up from the get go....I was just too mad to even listen to her try to explain.

God I am a FAIL at relationships!!

Screw it, I'll just post how.

This girls family are conservative Catholics, and she goes to a private school for girls only. She respects her family's wishes and doesn't stay the night with me (they believe its best to wait til married...and all that, I respect it).

She stayed the night with me Saturday for the first time ever, and lied to her family and told them she was staying at her friends in order to stay with me. So when I saw this conversation where her mom was actually on her facebook, she said 'I stayed at a friends'. that's what the reference was to. The catch .22 is that in order for the truth to be proven, she had to call her mom and tell her that she stayed with me, and explained the situation. Her mother calls and says, "Ryan.......that was me on her chat. She lied to me, and so did you!! You are a bad influence on my daughter. *click* " So not only did I lose the girl, I feel like the biggest asshole on the planet. This has just been a hell of a ride for me. Next thing you know I'll date some girl and end up shitting in her shower and trying to clean it out with a boner.

lol that's the dumbest explaination I've ever heard
her mom is covering
number 1, how many people give their facebook password to their mom?
number 2, how many mom's impersonate their daughter on IM
number 3, who wouldn't change their password if their mom did im impersonate them should you have given them the password.

Now here's the technical part, I'll speak slowly...it was open on your computer
she can't be logged in twice
any IM's on her home computer wouldn't show up on yours

guessing you're making up this story anyway, doubt you've had a gf

**Kratos** · 01-12-2010, 01:35 AM

let's see over the past 6 months
lost a dog to your ex
your girl was the victim of a stalker
been beaten in your sleep by the ghost of your step father
knocked your girl up...which I don't understand...you said you dated her for years...where'd she go? Did she die...doubt you'd dump the mother of your child so lightly.
went to jail for roids

c'mon man, how much of this crap is true

**Bojangles69** · 01-12-2010, 01:50 AM

Thank you Kratos.

I had never considered the fact that he may just be a compulsive liar, and honestly at this point I would find THAT wayy easier to believe then half the shit in this thread.

He puts things in his post that just sound like a lie, like his gf getting fired for leaving work. Um hello anyone would know to say there was a family emergency of some sort. And yeh you can get fired for something dumb like that but it still sounds like bullshit.
In fact, now that I think of it, all of his posts sound like a load of crap.

And in my whole time in prison I saw ONE mfkr locked up for steroids . (which was for selling massive quantities)
He claims he got busted for ordering online? A lot of what he talks about doesn't make much rational sense at all. The things he says CAN happen, but the frequency that they happen in real life is almost nonexistent.

**yotafool** · 01-12-2010, 02:29 AM

I hate facebook. Girls that you hook up with look you up or their friends show them your profile. They add you as friend then post things like "had fun this weekend" for other girls that you hook up with or want to etc and before you know it you have to find a completely new crop because everyone else is pissed to see your promiscuous hobby lol. And its not like you can reject them or delete their posts because then they get pissed about that or you're too late lol. The only reason I have one is to keep in touch with a ton of old friends from my hometown, old Marine friends, and family. Email is too much of a pain anymore because it is so easy to see what people you know are up to or to send them a quick message.

**Flagg** · 01-12-2010, 04:22 AM

Originally Posted by Kratos

let's see over the past 6 months
lost a dog to your ex
your girl was the victim of a stalker
been beaten in your sleep by the ghost of your step father
knocked your girl up...which I don't understand...you said you dated her for years...where'd she go? Did she die...doubt you'd dump the mother of your child so lightly.
went to jail for roids

c'mon man, how much of this crap is true

I remember these stories cause I also remember telling the guy to check for carbon monoxide leaks, in ragards to the "ghost visions". Didn't realise these were all from the same guy! LOL

**novastepp** · 01-12-2010, 05:39 AM

she was just blowing the other guy off. and if she was smart she'd do the same to you. you should have just logged out of her page the moment you noticed it wasn't yours. don't be childish and snoop even if given the chance. i agree with the few people whop see the truth in this thread.