Long distance realtionship

**DarnGoodLookin** · 02-28-2010, 08:13 AM

So my girl and I are in a long distance relationship. She has been gone for about a month and a half, and she will be back in about 2 and a half months. Lately we have been having little bullshit nothing fights like every two days. Its really starting to wear me down. What should I do?

**Bossman** · 02-28-2010, 08:49 AM

You're communicating with her too often. Cut it back to a once a week call. Then, each of you will actually have something to say.

**alexISthrowed** · 02-28-2010, 08:59 AM

Enjoy not having a bitch for 2 and a half months probably.

**FranciscoG** · 02-28-2010, 09:23 AM

Originally Posted by alexISthrowed

Enjoy not having a bitch for 2 and a half months probably.

LOL, Amen.

**Kibble** · 02-28-2010, 09:31 AM

Originally Posted by alexISthrowed

Enjoy not having a bitch for 2 and a half months probably.

lol.

Hey bro, long distance relationships do work. My wife and I were separated for 14 months, only after we had been married for 3 months. We talked about 3 times a week. We always made plans about what we would do when we got back together. I also did everything I could, just to see her as much as possible. The longest that we went without touching each other was 3 months. Maybe you can pay her a visit

**DarnGoodLookin** · 02-28-2010, 10:35 AM

Originally Posted by alexISthrowed

Enjoy not having a bitch for 2 and a half months probably.

lol, I think I would rather have her here.

Originally Posted by BigKuntry1984

lol.

Hey bro, long distance relationships do work. My wife and I were separated for 14 months, only after we had been married for 3 months. We talked about 3 times a week. We always made plans about what we would do when we got back together. I also did everything I could, just to see her as much as possible. The longest that we went without touching each other was 3 months. Maybe you can pay her a visit

paying her a visit isn't a possibility.

**Kibble** · 02-28-2010, 11:06 AM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

paying her a visit isn't a possibility.

Come on bro, there is always a way... unless money is the issue, or she is in a combat zone

**Smiley619** · 02-28-2010, 11:28 AM

Distance can make two ppl go crazy and fight over lil ish. 2 and a half months really isnt that much time! like stated above, cut back the daily calls, and just know the fights are prob due you two not seeing each other. it will be all good before you know it!

**dece870717** · 02-28-2010, 07:18 PM

My first girlfriend was a long distance relationship and I did that for about a year. At first I got to see her for 2-3 days a week when she was at home which was about 50 miles from me, then a few months later she went to college and that was 170 miles away and I got to see her for 2 days every other week with 3 hour drive there. It does suck, especially if you really care about the girl. They are so far away and you can't bring them along with friends and go out to places and just do all the stuff normal couples get to do. You can make it work but dude its a lot of work. From my own experience, if you don't plan on marrying this woman I would not waste my time, bunch of heart ache at the end.

**Diamond*K** · 02-28-2010, 07:24 PM

i did the whole long distance thing.. longest i went was 8months.. was b/s! the hardest thing ever... but he was worth waiting for.

**DarnGoodLookin** · 02-28-2010, 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by BigKuntry1984;508***7

Come on bro, there is always a way... unless money is the issue, or she is in a combat zone

combat zone

**EXSEAL1** · 02-28-2010, 07:59 PM

Nothing good to offer you brother...sorry

**kalspic** · 02-28-2010, 09:04 PM

well you still have pamela handerson

**DarnGoodLookin** · 02-28-2010, 09:52 PM

Originally Posted by kalspic

well you still have pamela handerson

yeah but it sucks buying a new bottle of hand lotion every week

**EXSEAL1** · 02-28-2010, 09:54 PM

My last one I moved to L.A. for her and she tried to stab me because she thought I was trying to F*** every girl at the gym...But I'm a Pimp....JKJKJK...Never ever once cheated on a girl and still get the crazies

**kalspic** · 02-28-2010, 10:51 PM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

yeah but it sucks buying a new bottle of hand lotion every week

thats why they invented the dollar store

**bjpennnn** · 02-28-2010, 10:53 PM

bro not worth it but 3 months it totaly do able longer then that i would ****en move on sucks to much.

**spywizard** · 02-28-2010, 10:57 PM

it's called "taking a break" and continue to date her, only not in a committed agreement..

problem solved..

**DarnGoodLookin** · 02-28-2010, 10:58 PM

Originally Posted by EXSEAL1

My last one I moved to L.A. for her and she tried to stab me because she thought I was trying to F*** every girl at the gym...But I'm a Pimp....JKJKJK...Never ever once cheated on a girl and still get the crazies

Yeah I'm not the cheating type either, but I'm generally the crazy one.

Originally Posted by kalspic

thats why they invented the dollar store

wish they had one in this dump

Originally Posted by bjpennnn

bro not worth it but 3 months it totaly do able longer then that i would ****en move on sucks to much.

I think it will be worth the wait... I hope.

**DangerDave** · 03-01-2010, 12:52 AM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

yeah but it sucks buying a new bottle of hand lotion every week

huh? whats the hand lotion for? and whos Pamela Handerson?

**DarnGoodLookin** · 03-01-2010, 01:10 AM

Originally Posted by DangerDave

huh? whats the hand lotion for? and whos Pamela Handerson?

She's an old friend with dry skin and calluses

**DangerDave** · 03-01-2010, 01:17 AM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

She's an old friend with dry skin and calluses

gross! get her some lotion!

**KimboHalfSlice** · 03-01-2010, 01:32 AM

Just recently my girl had to go back to where her family lives... she was gone for 20 days before I decided I needed to have sex.

So I made a phone call to a girl I've know for a while, and she came around and we f***ed. The sex wasn't nearly as good as when I was with my girlfriend. It didn't nearly compare.

So after this girl left the next morning, it got me thinking about how much I actually love my girlfriend. I think something good actually came from me f***ing that other girl, I'm not interested in any other girls anymore, all I want is my girlfriend.

Now the only problem I have is whether I'm gonna tell my girlfriend or not. I've always been 100% honest with her, even when I've f***ed up. I don't want to hide a lie, but at the same time I realise that telling her might be a disaster... I'll have to think about it.

**DarnGoodLookin** · 03-01-2010, 03:04 AM

Originally Posted by ErectileTissue

Just recently my girl had to go back to where her family lives... she was gone for 20 days before I decided I needed to have sex.

So I made a phone call to a girl I've know for a while, and she came around and we f***ed. The sex wasn't nearly as good as when I was with my girlfriend. It didn't nearly compare.

So after this girl left the next morning, it got me thinking about how much I actually love my girlfriend. I think something good actually came from me f***ing that other girl, I'm not interested in any other girls anymore, all I want is my girlfriend.

Now the only problem I have is whether I'm gonna tell my girlfriend or not. I've always been 100% honest with her, even when I've f***ed up. I don't want to hide a lie, but at the same time I realise that telling her might be a disaster... I'll have to think about it.

lol that's ur problem bro. u should have thought about that b4 sticking ur hoo hoo in another chick

**KimboHalfSlice** · 03-01-2010, 07:53 AM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

lol that's ur problem bro. u should have thought about that b4 sticking ur hoo hoo in another chick

I was in heat, man. I went from f***ing maybe 4 times a day, to not f***ing at all for 20 days.

I masturbated 3 times a day for 20 days, but by the 20th day I just turned into an animal. I needed a vagina.

**DarnGoodLookin** · 03-01-2010, 02:54 PM

Originally Posted by ErectileTissue

I was in heat, man. I went from f***ing maybe 4 times a day, to not f***ing at all for 20 days.

I masturbated 3 times a day for 20 days, but by the 20th day I just turned into an animal. I needed a vagina.

well maybe when you tell her, you might be surprised to find out that she was cheating on you too.

**ReX357** · 03-01-2010, 04:21 PM

Originally Posted by DarnGoodLookin

well maybe when you tell her, you might be surprised to find out that she was cheating on you too.

HA! That'd be alright

**jccnewbie** · 03-01-2010, 04:25 PM

Been away from my wife and kids now for 6 months. We fight over the phone constant, but when I fly out to see her we get along great. It's just part of the package with long distance relationships, sucks but makes the time with her that much better. We may be able to get along much better when we are finally together agian because of this seperation??

**KimboHalfSlice** · 03-01-2010, 10:03 PM

Well I can say there's one thing long-distance relationships are good for:

You find out pretty soon whether you love the person or not... because otherwise you'd just forget them pretty soon and move on.

**DarnGoodLookin** · 03-01-2010, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by jccnewbie

Been away from my wife and kids now for 6 months. We fight over the phone constant, but when I fly out to see her we get along great. It's just part of the package with long distance relationships, sucks but makes the time with her that much better. We may be able to get along much better when we are finally together agian because of this seperation??

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Originally Posted by ErectileTissue

Well I can say there's one thing long-distance relationships are good for:

You find out pretty soon whether you love the person or not... because otherwise you'd just forget them pretty soon and move on.

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