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    Sleeping with girls...like it or not? (falling asleep)

    idk about anyone else but i hate when girls sleep over at my place and expect me to hold them while i fall asleep. idk how anyone can actually fall asleep while holding a girl. I always sleep on my stomach with my arms out and idk iv tried changing it but its just not happening...anyone else have this problem?

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    Quote Originally Posted by laduem88 View Post
    idk about anyone else but i hate when girls sleep over at my place and expect me to hold them while i fall asleep. idk how anyone can actually fall asleep while holding a girl. I always sleep on my stomach with my arms out and idk iv tried changing it but its just not happening...anyone else have this problem?
    Im single at the moment but with my ex i enjoyed nothing more then holding her while we slept

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaNiCC View Post
    Im single at the moment but with my ex i enjoyed nothing more then holding her while we slept
    dont get me wrong i enjoy it a lot, its just i cant fall asleep! i need to get in my regular position on my stomach.

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    Nah, I hear you. My wife insists on snuggling up next to me and holding my arm as she falls asleep. I can't sleep like that. So every night I just hang out for about 20 minutes until she falls asleep and then I remove my arm from her grip It works for us.

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    I cannot be touched when I am trying to fall asleep. As soon as the wifey puts her hand or foot on me I instantly start sweating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Quo View Post
    Nah, I hear you. My wife insists on snuggling up next to me and holding my arm as she falls asleep. I can't sleep like that. So every night I just hang out for about 20 minutes until she falls asleep and then I remove my arm from her grip It works for us.
    tried that bro! but once i move and get into position shes like "hold me"..i hate it!

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    I prefer it actually, when I'm alone I have to snuggle with a pillow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LatissimusaurousRex View Post
    I prefer it actually, when I'm alone I have to snuggle with a pillow.
    lol, that happens to me too, rather feel the body of a woman then the pillow.

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    i prefer it but my wife cant be touched when she sleeps.

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    i am the same way. i sleep on my stomach and there is no way i can fall asleep trying to hold someone and be held.. just will not happen

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    Quote Originally Posted by laduem88 View Post
    idk about anyone else but i hate when girls sleep over at my place and expect me to hold them while i fall asleep. idk how anyone can actually fall asleep while holding a girl. I always sleep on my stomach with my arms out and idk iv tried changing it but its just not happening...anyone else have this problem?
    Gee, I hate that too LOL...just kidding It is difficult to fall asleep or get comfortable while trying to hold someone or be held. In my opinion, cuddling is usually best left for when you're still awake...when it's time to go to sleep, you have to be comfortable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LatissimusaurousRex View Post
    I prefer it actually, when I'm alone I have to snuggle with a pillow.
    This thread just got so gay DSM wants to spank it.

    Seriously wtf.
    And pillows aren't soft enough thats what I have my age old teddy bear for, nutted on that mfkr spontaneously one day when I was like 12 and has become my designated sleeping buddy ever since.

    I am joking ftr. I DO NOT sleep with teddy bears, nor "snuggle", I lay down on my back, scratch my ass, fart, and am usually snoring within 15 mins.

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    It takes me a while to get comfortable and eventually I need my own space but if I like a girl enough to sleep with them I like the after sex time together also and falling asleep.

    I have a hard time sleeping with my arm around someone or laying with them on my chest for long. If my arms are at a 90 deg or above my arms go numb do to lack of circulation. They have always been that way but worse when they get more size. Ive read/heard there is probably a restriction that can be corrected via surgery but no thanks, not anytime soon. lol

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    Yeah, agree, i also start to sweat as soon as i am touched when trying to get to sleep, and i like the whole bed to myself as i spread out to sleep.

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    Snuggling while sleeping is hot, annoying, and makes my arms fall asleep. Fortunately my wife knows how much I hate it and no longer feels the need to try and do it.

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    Try this one.

    Me and my girlfriend used to have sex in what I call the "spoon doggy" position.

    Basically you both lie on your side in a spoon position, but then you bend her upper-body forward so it's as if you're doing doggy but lying on your side. You both lie your head on a pillow normally as if you were sleeping.

    It's a great position for f***ing really slowly, you don't even need to thrust, you can just pull on her hip and rock her back and forth.

    After you blow your load, just pull her in real tight and fall asleep in that position (with your penis still inside her).

    My girlfriend absolutely loved that, and I like it too. Then when she woke up she'd grind on me a little, I'd get hard and we'd go at it again. And then I'd blow my load in her a second time.

    Funniest part was the next morning when she had to get up out of the bed and run to the toilet with her hand covering her ***** because there was two loads of semen dripping out of her

    I haven't seen the girl in 7 weeks though... it's driving me crazy... I've even starting hugging a pillow in bed... and I go crazy thinking about blowing my load inside her again.

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    get a king sized bed foo
    when you're done having sex and snuggling you've got plenty of room even without sleeping in the wet spot

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    I twitch violently when i sleep. My ex got woken up many times by a back hand to the forehead or a knee to the hip. Good times.

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    blow up dolls are good to sleep with ......cos if ya dont wanna cuddle the you can just deflate the biatch

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    get a king sized bed foo
    when you're done having sex and snuggling you've got plenty of room even without sleeping in the wet spot
    Thats what we did, a big assed bed....we both have no tolerance for touching when trying to sleep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laduem88 View Post
    idk about anyone else but i hate when girls sleep over at my place and expect me to hold them while i fall asleep. idk how anyone can actually fall asleep while holding a girl. I always sleep on my stomach with my arms out and idk iv tried changing it but its just not happening...anyone else have this problem?
    mate im exactly the same.......i dont mind cudling watching dvds etc, but when it comes to sleep i want my own space!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by laduem88 View Post
    idk about anyone else but i hate when girls sleep over at my place and expect me to hold them while i fall asleep. idk how anyone can actually fall asleep while holding a girl. I always sleep on my stomach with my arms out and idk iv tried changing it but its just not happening...anyone else have this problem?
    Im just the opposite. I cant sleep on my stomach. I sleep on my back with my arms spread or at my side so a head on the chest or next to me is no big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69 View Post
    This thread just got so gay DSM wants to spank it.

    Seriously wtf.
    And pillows aren't soft enough thats what I have my age old teddy bear for, nutted on that mfkr spontaneously one day when I was like 12 and has become my designated sleeping buddy ever since.

    I am joking ftr. I DO NOT sleep with teddy bears, nor "snuggle", I lay down on my back, scratch my ass, fart, and am usually snoring within 15 mins.
    Oh sorry I forget to mention, it's a STEEL pillow with 50 grams of protein and I snuggle with it using a 5x5 program. BWAHAHAHAH!! I'm so manly!

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    Its tough for me for 2 reasons:
    1. When im on test my body heats up at night so its tough to stay cool when someone is latched onto me.
    2. I just like having my Space.

    My Solution:
    I bought my girl a teddy bear and when she sleeps with me she just cuddles with the bear and leaves me alone

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    I'm always hot, she's always cold. It works. I like to hug it out in a good spoon position before rollin over to sleep.

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    I love having a woman near me/ on top of me... arms around her... however I can never fall asleep like that!!... but its definitely nice to wake up with an ass in your crotch!!!

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    i hate it personally.... like theres very few guys i like sleepin with at all. but 2 cuddle when you sleep??? fak that.
    if the guys not my bf.. hes lucky if i even sleep in the same bed. a lot of guys i kno like it.. so once they pass out i push em to their side... sumtimes i even get up and go to the couch and sleep alone.
    and ..omg i HATE when guys wanna cuddle and put their arms around me.. even if its just 2 cuddle. like dont get me wrong i like to cuddle.. like it dont mind puttin one leg over them kinda thing.......but if i want a hug i will ask for one.. no need to stay in that position....imho...

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    Lol, laduem88 you have found your women

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    Quote Originally Posted by Damien_C View Post
    Lol, laduem88 you have found your women
    guess so haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Older lifter View Post
    Yeah, agree, i also start to sweat as soon as i am touched when trying to get to sleep, and i like the whole bed to myself as i spread out to sleep.
    x2...the only way I can do it is if it's COLD in my house. I have a tempurpedic mattress, which holds in heat...so it's 10x worse for me. I usually don't get to much sleep when my girlfriend is over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laduem88 View Post
    guess so haha
    lol

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    Im a little afraid to go to sleep while my wife is still awake. I put her through so much shit during the day, Im afraid she'll want to get back at me by hitting my in the head with a hammer while I sleep.

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    I personally cannot stand being touched when I'm falling asleep. In college I used to make the exgf sleep on an air mattress on the floor. Cruel? Maybe. Guess thats why she's an ex.

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    Oh dear...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by supersize me View Post
    I personally cannot stand being touched when I'm falling asleep. In college I used to make the exgf sleep on an air mattress on the floor. Cruel? Maybe. Guess thats why she's an ex.
    AHAHAHA...yea no kidding

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    Thats never been an issue with me The issue is always which one I sleep with, that particular night.........
    U guys complain alot did u ever hear me complain abt this......dweebs

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    Never bothers me, unless I'm hot. I end up tossing and turning all night though, always have.

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