Premarital agreement

[UberSteroids]

About two years ago we broke up with my girlfriend over this, because we were together for about 3 years and she was pushing the subject of marriage. So I asked her that I would like to sign the premarital agreement, also known as prenuptial agreement. She was shocked that I even asked. I just said that we just never know what might happen down the road and it is better to have it all planned out. She said that she won't do it. So I said good bye.

I am the true meaning of "I think you need to close your mouth, cuz you aint gonna tie me down", hahahahhaha!

Did you guys ever think about it? Did you ever sign one? Are you going to even propose the idea of signing it when you will be getting married?

If you are a ball less b!tch and you didn't, that's fine, tell the story too

[crazy_rocks]

i would never get married unless the girl i was with would sign one and if she didnt like the idea then i know she thinks its ok to take someones stuff because of a divorce which is someone i dont trust.

[lovbyts]

1st wife died during our divorce. 2nd wife died after our divorce. 3rd??? No need to put it in writing.

[SlimmerMe]

^^^Well that is what I call....LOVE BITES....the dust! LOL!!!

[lovbyts]

^^^Well that is what I call....LOVE BITES....the dust! LOL!!!

Yup, just goes to show they couldn't live without me.

[Times Roman]

be serious.

Pre nups are designed to protect pre-marriage wealth. It does nothing for wealth acquired during the marriage.

You have that much wealth it needs protecting?

Scenerios
Parents set you up with a substantial trust
You inherited wealth from a relative or parent
You hit the lotto and want to protect that

99% of most people that are in the "Joe Six pack" category really don't need a prenup, since they are at the beginning of their wealth accumulation period (spells "YOUNG")

Or is this something you just said to scare her off?

[crazy_rocks]

be serious.

Pre nups are designed to protect pre-marriage wealth. It does nothing for wealth acquired during the marriage.

You have that much wealth it needs protecting?

Scenerios
Parents set you up with a substantial trust
You inherited wealth from a relative or parent
You hit the lotto and want to protect that

99% of most people that are in the "Joe Six pack" category really don't need a prenup, since they are at the beginning of their wealth accumulation period (spells "YOUNG")

Or is this something you just said to scare her off?

i have a couple grand in a roth ira and im not married yet. would that count?

[Tigershark]

My uncle has been married 5 times and each one he has a pre-nup. He owns a multi million dollar business and so far has not lost any of it. Each one of his nups has stated they leave only with what they brought in.

[UberSteroids]

My uncle has been married 5 times and each one he has a pre-nup. He owns a multi million dollar business and so far has not lost any of it. Each one of his nups has stated they leave only with what they brought in.

What a smart man!

Nice.

[Times Roman]

i have a couple grand in a roth ira and im not married yet. would that count?

you are kidding, right? no, that would not be enough to count

[gixxerboy1]

I agree. I dont own enough to need one.

Uber what do you have that you need one?

[UberSteroids]

I agree. I dont own enough to need one.

Uber what do you have that you need one?

I will be a cardiologist before I get married, thinking ahead

I also have some decent amount of cash.

[Bojangles69]

be serious.

Pre nups are designed to protect pre-marriage wealth. It does nothing for wealth acquired during the marriage.

You have that much wealth it needs protecting?

Scenerios
Parents set you up with a substantial trust
You inherited wealth from a relative or parent
You hit the lotto and want to protect that

99% of most people that are in the "Joe Six pack" category really don't need a prenup, since they are at the beginning of their wealth accumulation period (spells "YOUNG")

Or is this something you just said to scare her off?

I'm being "serious" and all I understood from this is as poor as you are now you obviously don't care about being poor in the future.

A prenup does a lot more than just protect rich people from going broke.
And a prenup can definitely address wealth during a marriage, just that we take the "pre" away and slap on a post at that point.
A prenup still by itself does A LOT.

The way this thread started is a perfect example of why to get one. It ensures that you're not marrying a golddigger.
A fair deal of golddiggn women will NOT sign a prenup because 90% of the reason they are with their man is money.
And the first thing they'll say is "we don't need it because we love each other too much". BULLSHIT, they love your wallet too much
which is the entire reason they were with you.

A prenup is not about being rich it could also be about having a wealthy family. Get married w/out one, get an inheritance, and kiss your inheritance goodbye.
Having a job that pays a lot more than your spouse is also another great reason to have one. Why should you bust your ass your whole life just to land
an awesome career halfway through your marriage so you can wind up paying it all away in alimony? ... again, fvck that.

If your gf/fiance has enormous loads of debt, which many women do, you definitely want a prenup. And most importantly, at anytime during a marriage a postnup
cant be written to revise some of the original guidelines. So your whole pre-marraige wealth arguement flies out the window.

And lastly, even if you had $100 left in your bank, you have NO IDEA how the marraige is going to end.
What if you came home and 4 giant black men were pounding your wifes ass into oblivion? Would you even wanna give that wretched whore a penny? No, its
not always as much about money as it is general principal.

And one more thing I should add thats pretty damn important. A prenup saves time. Time in a court environment = money.
It could potentially take years of paying a lawyer out of your pocket just to figure out the guidelines that prenups are originally designed for.

I keep a stack of blank prenups in the same drawer I keep my condoms.
Seriously though, any document that is designed to make life more fair after a divorce (for both sides) is not a document you want to be ignorant of.
See way too many men getting fvcked in the ass all because they possessed the same ignorant beliefs you do.

And I'm not trying to be rude here bro but you gotta protect your assets and what you bust your ass for, especially if your a man.

[fattymcbutterpants]

But I think alot of women who truly love you for you are offended by you asking that in a way because I mean its gonna bother them that you have even the slightest thoughts that it might not workout. But it does help cull out the gold diggers lol

[UberSteroids]

But I think alot of women who truly love you for you are offended by you asking that in a way because I mean its gonna bother them that you have even the slightest thoughts that it might not workout. But it does help cull out the gold diggers lol

Ha... is it ever a 100% ? It's a gamble, you just NEVER know. There is no way of knowing, so it is better to be prepared.
I do get your point though.

[DSM4Life]

I'm being "serious" and all I understood from this is as poor as you are now you obviously don't care about being poor in the future.

A prenup does a lot more than just protect rich people from going broke.
And a prenup can definitely address wealth during a marriage, just that we take the "pre" away and slap on a post at that point.
A prenup still by itself does A LOT.

The way this thread started is a perfect example of why to get one. It ensures that you're not marrying a golddigger.
A fair deal of golddiggn women will NOT sign a prenup because 90% of the reason they are with their man is money.
And the first thing they'll say is "we don't need it because we love each other too much". BULLSHIT, they love your wallet too much
which is the entire reason they were with you.

A prenup is not about being rich it could also be about having a wealthy family. Get married w/out one, get an inheritance, and kiss your inheritance goodbye.
Having a job that pays a lot more than your spouse is also another great reason to have one. Why should you bust your ass your whole life just to land
an awesome career halfway through your marriage so you can wind up paying it all away in alimony? ... again, fvck that.

If your gf/fiance has enormous loads of debt, which many women do, you definitely want a prenup. And most importantly, at anytime during a marriage a postnup
cant be written to revise some of the original guidelines. So your whole pre-marraige wealth arguement flies out the window.

And lastly, even if you had $100 left in your bank, you have NO IDEA how the marraige is going to end.
What if you came home and 4 giant black men were pounding your wifes ass into oblivion? Would you even wanna give that wretched whore a penny? No, its
not always as much about money as it is general principal.

And one more thing I should add thats pretty damn important. A prenup saves time. Time in a court environment = money.
It could potentially take years of paying a lawyer out of your pocket just to figure out the guidelines that prenups are originally designed for.

I keep a stack of blank prenups in the same drawer I keep my condoms.
Seriously though, any document that is designed to make life more fair after a divorce (for both sides) is not a document you want to be ignorant of.
See way too many men getting fvcked in the ass all because they possessed the same ignorant beliefs you do.

And I'm not trying to be rude here bro but you gotta protect your assets and what you bust your ass for, especially if your a man.

Did you add "black men" to make the situation even worse than just being pounded by 4 men ?

[Times Roman]

Obviously you've put some thought into this......

I guess my issue, since I'm old school, is marriage and the "til death do us part" piece

no law says you have to be married to live with a wench

and if you are already thinking in terms of life after the divorce, then what's the point?

If I were that worried about it, I'd skip the marriage and just shack up.

[D3m3nt3d]

I don't think one would have really helped in my situation. I did alot of my debt collecting before we actually got married. I am the one who chose to throw my eggs all into one basket with a girl that EVERYONE already knew was never going to stay. Live and learn

[calgarian]

I don't think one would have really helped in my situation. I did alot of my debt collecting before we actually got married. I am the one who chose to throw my eggs all into one basket with a girl that EVERYONE already knew was never going to stay. Live and learn

next time take care of ur eggs and balls

[D3m3nt3d]

next time take care of ur eggs and balls

Never trust the big tits and a smile

[SlimmerMe]

On a deep primal level: A Female wants to be guaranteed money so her children will be fed.
On a deep primal level: A Male wants to be guaranteed sex in order to spread his seed around for propagation.

She is stating her non-negotiable up front which makes complete sense to her. Will you get what you want forever and ever?

Hence: A Prenup gives both parties a safety net.

[calgarian]

Never trust the big tits and a smile

u pay attention to smile when she has big boobs...

[Times Roman]

On a deep primal level: A Female wants to be guaranteed money so her children will be fed.
On a deep primal level: A Male wants to be guaranteed sex in order to spread his seed around for propagation.

She is stating her non-negotiable up front which makes complete sense to her. Will you get what you want forever and ever?

Hence: A Prenup gives both parties a safety net.

it would be interesting to find out if the divorce rate is higher for those with pre nups, since a prenup is, in my opinion, an accellerant for divorce (I could be wrong). My guess is the divorce rate is higher.

[fattymcbutterpants]

Yea I said something jokingly to my gf today about it to see what she would say, and she said no because then I would feel like your already doubting our marriage and if thats the case then why even get married

[lifterjaydawg]

My uncle has been married 5 times and each one he has a pre-nup. He owns a multi million dollar business and so far has not lost any of it. Each one of his nups has stated they leave only with what they brought in.

very smart

[spywizard]

a new study shows that college age people 40% have no interest in marriage saying that it is an outdated concept..

God bless them..

1st blowjobs are not sex and now I don't have to buy the cow..

[MrGreen]

My woman flipped shit when I told her it was the only way we would get married. LOL Only thing I was much concerned about is my 401k which I have been maxing out for about 7 years now, my house which I have had for 6 years and my cars and bike. Other then that everything would be fair game as I have nothing else.

Mine will be worded in a way that any of my 401k would be off limits, house and cars all of which I had prior. Where I live after I think 10 years of marriage 401k becomes joint regardless of whos name is on it or contributes. That being said I have to protect myself from what may happen 5 or 10 years down the road as I would really hate to loose my retirement due to divorce. My house because I have paid a great deal on it and chances are it will be paid off withing the next 7 years. Cars because thats my passion and I be damned if I catch some other hard dick driving around in my shit after a divorce. Really the thing about the cars is to protect me from jail as I would probably loose it if I saw another man driving around in a car I built from the ground up over several years because some dirty **** managed to play the system and take it from me.

[fattymcbutterpants]

a new study shows that college age people 40% have no interest in marriage saying that it is an outdated concept..

God bless them..

1st blowjobs are not sex and now I don't have to buy the cow..

Lol im in colege and i can honestly say I'm in the 60% that believe in it. I mean sure it sounds cool saying your gonna be single or bang whoever you want or whatever, but I mean honestly when im old and decrepit I want someone to be there with me and to have someone in my life.

I mean to cut the shit you can say you come into this world and leave it alone if you want. Ive heard guys say that on here a bunch and I mean sure its true, but I would much rather die with the one I've loved all my life by my side than just be some old geezer that died. I want kids and to be a dad and have a family. If you want something else then thats you but I believe in marriage and I believe in it being for life.

[lovbyts]

Yes the BJ is not sex has been around for a long time but now also anal is not sex also... I know my gf back in the 80s wanted to stay a virgin until married so we didnt have V intercourse but it was all good doing most everything else.

a new study shows that college age people 40% have no interest in marriage saying that it is an outdated concept..

God bless them..

1st blowjobs are not sex and now I don't have to buy the cow..

[fattymcbutterpants]

I wasnt talking crap on you by the way Spywizard, just stating my views. But I'm thinking not that many people will agree with me on what I said lol

[Times Roman]

My woman flipped shit when I told her it was the only way we would get married. LOL Only thing I was much concerned about is my 401k which I have been maxing out for about 7 years now, my house which I have had for 6 years and my cars and bike. Other then that everything would be fair game as I have nothing else.

Mine will be worded in a way that any of my 401k would be off limits, house and cars all of which I had prior. Where I live after I think 10 years of marriage 401k becomes joint regardless of whos name is on it or contributes. That being said I have to protect myself from what may happen 5 or 10 years down the road as I would really hate to loose my retirement due to divorce. My house because I have paid a great deal on it and chances are it will be paid off withing the next 7 years. Cars because thats my passion and I be damned if I catch some other hard dick driving around in my shit after a divorce. Really the thing about the cars is to protect me from jail as I would probably loose it if I saw another man driving around in a car I built from the ground up over several years because some dirty **** managed to play the system and take it from me.

I had a mate that planned on marrying this wench til he found out she had filed bankruptcy several years back and then reran her debt back up. Better to keep this one at GF v3.2 as opposed to upgrading to Wife 2.0

[vettewreck]

my gf back in the 80s wanted to stay a virgin until married so we didnt have V intercourse but it was all good doing most everything else.

Best thing ive heard all day. lol Now if I could only find a girl that will have anal sex with me.. bc you know.. Im... "healthy"... yes, "healthy".