Sociological questions.

**stack_it** · 02-06-2011, 12:56 AM

It would bevel hard for me to get used to shifting left handed. I guess it just goes to show that humans are a product of there environment.

**Flagg** · 02-06-2011, 04:28 AM

Originally Posted by Twist

Why can we hassle smokers for smoking (because it will kill them) yet we can't hassle fat people for being fat (because it will kill them)?

Oh and I pay for my girl's drinks too. I like to pay for things as it makes me feel better. She has the job to take all that money she saves and buy me expensive things every now and then (watches wallets etc.). IMO women have certain things they should do, and men have their own obligations. I still open doors for women (unless they are fat). This is why I get all the quality girls that turned down dates with you suckers.

Good point, but it's an image thing. Smoking is considered cool, and telling someone to stop smoking wont affect how they look. Calling a fatty, a fatty, reminds them that, well, thay are fat! LOL

**songdog** · 02-06-2011, 11:10 PM

When I take a woman out I pay.I was raised that way.I open her door to get in my truck or a building.I was out with my girl now my wife the 3rd time I saw her.I seen she had a bad tire on her car.I bought her a new one.I believe in taking care of the one you are with.But I will say.She said guys dont do that as a rule.Beacuse on dates she paid her own way.All I can say is.I got a daughter if I knew a guy made her pay her own way.He wouldnt see her again.That I promise.Men now days forget how to be gentleman.I guess its a lost art for many.

**SlimmerMe** · 02-06-2011, 11:21 PM

^^^^ perfect

**stack_it** · 02-06-2011, 11:58 PM

Originally Posted by songdog

When I take a woman out I pay.I was raised that way.I open her door to get in my truck or a building.I was out with my girl now my wife the 3rd time I saw her.I seen she had a bad tire on her car.I bought her a new one.I believe in taking care of the one you are with.But I will say.She said guys dont do that as a rule.Beacuse on dates she paid her own way.All I can say is.I got a daughter if I knew a guy made her pay her own way.He wouldnt see her again.That I promise.Men now days forget how to be gentleman.I guess its a lost art for many.

There's a difference between being a gentleman and being a sucker. I'm not calling you a sucker it sounds like you found a woman who appreciated you but many (not all) women look for guys like you and take advantage of the kindness. If I'm on a serious date with a girl then I'll open doors and be a gentleman but I don't feel I have to pay in order to be a gentleman. If I feel she doesn't have the money then yeah I'll pay buy if she's workin and the only thong she spends her money on every week is new shoes then I'll be damned if I'm paying for her.

If you wanna woman to be completely dependent on you the that's your preference. There's nothing wrong with that.

My preference is to treat a lady like a lady but in a sugar daddy kind of way. If a girl likes me then I know 100% for sure it's not for my money or the material things I bought her. It's my personality and stunningly good looks lol.

**stack_it** · 02-06-2011, 11:58 PM

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

^^^^ perfect

Only in a fantasy world.

**Hunter** · 02-07-2011, 12:12 AM

I like spoiling my wife and I liked spoiling her before we were married. If we go out, I pay. I open the door for her and pull out her chair etc and this hasnt changed nor will it. I have never dated a woman though who didnt stand on her own two feet though. I see where stack_it is coming from as well its just not me though.

**MaNiCC** · 02-07-2011, 02:02 AM

Originally Posted by layeazy

we drive on the left i couldn't even fathom trying to drive how you guys do its just wrong lol.

The rule here is that to walk towards on coming cars so u can move out the way....

Yeah the same rule for us, i think its so we can see our life flash before us when walking on the road...... or is it just the head lamps?

**Bojangles69** · 02-07-2011, 02:42 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Only in a fantasy world.

Completely agree. And if I "acted how I was raised" I wouldn't do steroids , occasional herb and scheduled vitamins, wouldn't have promiscous sex, would go to church everyday, wouldn't speed when I drive, would talk to everyone in an extremely polite manner even when they were cursing and yelling at me (yes my mom tryd to raise me to be like that lol) wouldn't have gone to jail, wouldnt eat because Id always be expecting a woman to cook me food.. in 2011.
You get the point. At some point you got to raise yourself and adapt to realities of life. Reality being, for too many women use men, as men use women, but I will never supplicate to a woman. Or eventually she will like the olives in her drink (that I paid for) more than me.
I know guys that buy expensive earings for their "first month anniversary" dating some chick, drop $800 to impress her, and by month 3 shes still with him, while fvcking another guy, and still taking his tokens of love/appreciation (aka the sooner we fvck the better), although he doesn't find out till month 14 when she dumps his ass and keeps the car he bought her for their 1 year anniversary, and he goes off drinkin like a seal because hes realistically ugly and/or fat and the only way any girl would ever date him is for his job. Sad, but it happens.

**g-banger** · 02-07-2011, 04:09 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

You get the point. At some point you got to raise yourself and adapt to realities of life. Reality being, for too many women use men, as men use women, but I will never supplicate to a woman. Or eventually she will like the olives in her drink (that I paid for) more than me.
I know guys that buy expensive earings for their "first month anniversary" dating some chick, drop $800 to impress her, and by month 3 shes still with him, while fvcking another guy, and still taking his tokens of love/appreciation (aka the sooner we fvck the better), although he doesn't find out till month 14 when she dumps his ass and keeps the car he bought her for their 1 year anniversary, and he goes off drinkin like a seal because hes realistically ugly and/or fat and the only way any girl would ever date him is for his job. Sad, but it happens.

yeah i have pretty much the same outlook. ill be stuffed im gonna let some freeloader sponge off me. A girl i was seeing a few years ago pretty much came out and said that she wanted a man to come into her life so that she could quit work and have him pay off her house. i was half way out the door as she finished her sentence. i cannot tell you how much that sort of mentality pisses me off. other girls ive met try to tick all of the boxes of what they want in a man, but its really more like what they want out of a man, they try to choose their men based on his job, income, status, living situation, instead of who he is as a person and they go from one bad relationship to the next because they're in it for the wrong reasons. i tell you now, i would rather be single and pull myself for the rest of my life than to settle for a girl like that.

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 06:19 AM

you guys should listen to the NWA song called i aint tha one.
then ask youself WWICD (What Would Ice Cube Do)

**Noles12** · 02-07-2011, 06:43 AM

Back to the walking on the right, it is common for me to but i have noticed my whole life that i often dont. I walk wherever i end up all the time. It will often make for awkward situations when wlaking up on someone going the opposite way and they want to go right but i often go left. Then that weird feeling of who should go what way happens

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by Noles12

Back to the walking on the right, it is common for me to but i have noticed my whole life that i often dont. I walk wherever i end up all the time. It will often make for awkward situations when wlaking up on someone going the opposite way and they want to go right but i often go left. Then that weird feeling of who should go what way happens

you mean that weird part were you both go the same way and one person says wanna dance?

**TheTitan101** · 02-07-2011, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by Standby

you mean that weird part were you both go the same way and one person says wanna dance?

but if you keep your eyes off their face and keep walking they will always change their path

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 07:32 AM

Originally Posted by Noles12

Back to the walking on the right, it is common for me to but i have noticed my whole life that i often dont. I walk wherever i end up all the time. It will often make for awkward situations when wlaking up on someone going the opposite way and they want to go right but i often go left. Then that weird feeling of who should go what way happens

I hate those moments when you both stop and stare at eachother and try to go the sane direction three different times like you're mirroring eachother. Anymore I just stand right where I stopped and let them move around me. If I ever run into a person who does the same thing it will be one awkward staring contest.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 07:35 AM

Ok let's put a different question out there.

Your 14 year old son comes home from school one day and you find out he slept with his attractive math teacher (female). Do you call the cops? Tell the school? Reprimand your son? Pat him on the back? What would you do and why?

Now what would you do if it was your 14 year old daughter?

Please answer honestly.

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 08:09 AM

my son if the teacher was hot and i thought about doing her in parent teacher interviews or whatever id pat him on the back tell him im impressed but i had to beat his ass so his mother was happy and say now stay away from her and find girls your own age.

my daughter would be locked in a cage in the basement and feed 3 times a day while the math teacher wish cement floated, or id call the cops either way its my honest answer

**Hunter** · 02-07-2011, 11:00 AM

The cops would be brought in either way.

At 14, a boy or girl is not emotionally mature enough to deal with a sitution like that.

Your job as a parent is to get your child safely through those years and make sure they are well adjusted, bangin adults isn't going to help that adjustment. Instead your going to see your child saying some weird shit on taxi cab confession.

**DSM4Life** · 02-07-2011, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by mn_fighter

The cops would be brought in either way.

At 14, a boy or girl is not emotionally mature enough to deal with a sitution like that.

Your job as a parent is to get your child safely through those years and make sure they are well adjusted, bangin adults isn't going to help that adjustment. Instead your going to see your child saying some weird shit on taxi cab confession.

(Puts on flame suit)
Wait, have we found a member with common sense ?! Wow.

For every dad that says "I would pat him on the back" is an out right BAD PARENT. Yeah i said it. Your child isn't having sex, he is being abused. I know we joke around a lot but when a child is exposed to things like this it can negatively impact him/her for a life time.

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 11:26 AM

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**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 11:27 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

(Puts on flame suit)
Wait, have we found a member with common sense ?! Wow.

For every dad that says "I would pat him on the back" is an out right BAD PARENT. Yeah i said it. Your child isn't having sex, he is being abused. I know we joke around a lot but when a child is exposed to things like this it can negatively impact him/her for a life time.

i pretty much agree with haz here, or zyzz or dsm whoever it is

but i stick to my first response

**DSM4Life** · 02-07-2011, 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by Standby

i pretty much agree with dsm here

but i stick to my first response

Originally Posted by Standby

my son if the teacher was hot and i thought about doing her in parent teacher interviews or whatever id pat him on the back tell him im impressed but i had to beat his ass so his mother was happy and say now stay away from her and find girls your own age.

my daughter would be locked in a cage in the basement and feed 3 times a day while the math teacher wish cement floated, or id call the cops either way its my honest answer

Did you just call yourself a bad parent ?

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 11:36 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Did you just call yourself a bad parent ?

dude i just turned 20 so yes im a bad parent

**DSM4Life** · 02-07-2011, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by Standby

dude i just turned 20 so yes im a bad parent

Let me add a clause to my post: Need not apply to anyone under 21.

**Standby** · 02-07-2011, 11:43 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Let me add a clause to my post: Need not apply to anyone under 21.

yea

even if i had a kid come into my life today by the time he/she was 14y/o id be smart enough to know whats the best. hopefully.

**DSM4Life** · 02-07-2011, 11:44 AM

Glad to hear.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 01:54 PM

I personally would bring it to the attention of the school and let them handle it if it was my son. I wouldn't be mad at my son but I wouldn't necessarily pat him on the back. I would tell him he needs to date girls his own age and grow up like all of hid friends. If nothing happened legally to the teacher I would be ok with that. I can't get mad at my son for doing it just because I know at 14 I would have done it too.

If it was my daughter I would go nuts and probably kill the guy. Every news station and police officer that I could contact would know. I wouldn't even know what to say to my daughter to try and fix what happened. I would just hope that she didn't get too messed up from it and end up a stripper.

**Shol'va** · 02-07-2011, 02:04 PM

Now lets flip the coin on this and lets say instead of your 14 year old girl, its your 14 gay son who is seduced by his male teacher. Would you still be protective as if it were your daughter bing seduced by a male teacher, or would you pat him on the back like you might if it had been your 14 year old straight son banging his female teacher? Just curious for responses on this.

**Hunter** · 02-07-2011, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

I personally would bring it to the attention of the school and let them handle it if it was my son. I wouldn't be mad at my son but I wouldn't necessarily pat him on the back. I would tell him he needs to date girls his own age and grow up like all of hid friends. If nothing happened legally to the teacher I would be ok with that. I can't get mad at my son for doing it just because I know at 14 I would have done it too.

If it was my daughter I would go nuts and probably kill the guy. Every news station and police officer that I could contact would know. I wouldn't even know what to say to my daughter to try and fix what happened. I would just hope that she didn't get too messed up from it and end up a stripper.

Just because he wants to doesnt mean he is old enough to deal with the experiance emotionally. Also what grown woman is attracted to little boys and at 14 you're still a boy. He is gonna be crushed when she moves on or bangs other students etc.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 03:02 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Now lets flip the coin on this and lets say instead of your 14 year old girl, its your 14 gay son who is seduced by his male teacher. Would you still be protective as if it were your daughter bing seduced by a male teacher, or would you pat him on the back like you might if it had been your 14 year old straight son banging his female teacher? Just curious for responses on this.

I would treat the same way as my daughter

This is something that you may be able to answer. At 14 did you really know that you were gay or was it still just a thought? Were you still in the confused stage?

I feel like the teacher would maybe have seen this confusion and taken advantage of it.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 03:04 PM

Originally Posted by mn_fighter

Just because he wants to doesnt mean he is old enough to deal with the experiance emotionally. Also what grown woman is attracted to little boys and at 14 you're still a boy. He is gonna be crushed when she moves on or bangs other students etc.

Obviously there have been quite a few grown women attracted to little boys. Is it so hard to believe that women can be child molesters?

**Shol'va** · 02-07-2011, 03:11 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

I would treat the same way as my daughter

This is something that you may be able to answer. At 14 did you really know that you were gay or was it still just a thought? Were you still in the confused stage?

I feel like the teacher would maybe have seen this confusion and taken advantage of it.

Yeah I knew I was gay, but at that age I just hoped it would go away. So I hung out with all my straight friends. But unfortunately I would end up having desire for a few of them. And at that age guys experiment. It's just my straight friends grew out of it and I never did. It was rough for me. And some bad stuff happened to me I wont go into here.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 03:49 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Yeah I knew I was gay, but at that age I just hoped it would go away. So I hung out with all my straight friends. But unfortunately I would end up having desire for a few of them. And at that age guys experiment. It's just my straight friends grew out of it and I never did. It was rough for me. And some bad stuff happened to me I wont go into here.

I think it would piss me off even more then. Not because my son was gay but because he's already probably having a mental battle with himself and this would just further screw with his head.

**Hunter** · 02-07-2011, 04:53 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Obviously there have been quite a few grown women attracted to little boys. Is it so hard to believe that women can be child molesters?

I expressed myself poorly. What I meant by that is any woman attracted to a young boy and acts on it, is not normal.

I mean it like what woman(normal woman) would be attracted to a boy.

**stack_it** · 02-07-2011, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by mn_fighter

I expressed myself poorly. What I meant by that is any woman attracted to a young boy and acts on it, is not normal.

I mean it like what woman(normal woman) would be attracted to a boy.

Understood and agreed. They're just as fvcked in the head as the guys preying on children.

**lovbyts** · 02-08-2011, 01:59 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

I still want someone from a country that drives on the left to answer my question about whether they walk on the left aswell.

I'm not from another country but have been to a few Asian countries where they drive on the left. yes in the malls they walk on the left also for the most part

As for dating I, if I ask someone on a date or even a friend out to lunch I pay. If it's a mutual thing (men or women) and we are just going somewhere to eat we pay our own way unless it's a long time friend and we have the habit of one paying one time and the other getting it the next.

Also as for dates I like the idea of IF it's a dinner date you make sure you eat a good meal first, then when you go out even if it's a nice/fancy restaurant you order only a salad. That way she will usually follow the example not wanting to look like a pig. leykis 101.

Even when I was a punk kid and wore spandex, spikes and looked like the typical heavy metal rocker hair band member myself and most of my friends when we went to the mall or anywhere where always polite and also held doors open for women and??? Always opened the car door etc. It was funny some of the looks we got but fun.

On a date how do you know if a girl like you or is interested. When you walk her to your car dont use the remote to open the door. Unlock it with your key, let her in, close the door and walk to your side. If she reaches over or uses the switch to unlock your door you are in, she is interested. If she just sits there like a lump and does nothing she is NOT thinking about you and your chances are slim.

**Standby** · 02-08-2011, 05:34 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

On a date how do you know if a girl like you or is interested. When you walk her to your car dont use the remote to open the door. Unlock it with your key, let her in, close the door and walk to your side. If she reaches over or uses the switch to unlock your door you are in, she is interested. If she just sits there like a lump and does nothing she is NOT thinking about you and your chances are slim.

im gunna try this if i ever go on a date again in my life

**zaggahamma** · 02-08-2011, 06:46 PM

Originally Posted by crazy_rocks

haha. your an interesting guy stack it starting funny stuff in elevators.

i have a sociology story to. i was in walmart the other day. a dad was pushing a cart with his wife and kid. they were walking towards me on my left side and the kid was getting in my way. i was walking on the right side of the aisle. the dad told the kid to move over to the right just like driving.

i even come to a small stop with my shopping cart towards the end of an aisle in case someone else is coming so we dont hit each other. i hate it when people dont watch where they are going and think they are the only ones n the store.

happens all the time...and hauling ass too like on a free shopping spree...walmart's the worse but happens in a lot of the grocery stores..when i'm shopping with my daughter i'll have to be like a lead blocker when we make the turn to another aisle