Thank God, finally the right girl!!!

[Uncle$]

Since the separation/divorce have been with a lot of shitty girls, one night stands via the bar scene, finally met a great girl Ching Ching! Lol. And believe it or not she's in my age bracket! I'm 22 she's 29. Been with way too many 40 and 50 year olds, holy crap! Lol.

[Times Roman]

Why was I thinking you were alot older than 22?

[Uncle$]

Why was I thinking you were alot older than 22?

No idea. That's the general consensus of most people until I shock them with the cold hard truth!

[RaginCajun]

TR, i was thinking the same thing.

[calgarian]

Since the separation/divorce have been with a lot of shitty girls, one night stands via the bar scene, finally met a great girl Ching Ching! Lol. And believe it or not she's in my age bracket! I'm 22 she's 29. Been with way too many 40 and 50 year olds, holy crap! Lol.

first bold is for TR's comments. second bold is I bet you 10 to 1 that soon u will be complaining how she treat you like u dont know anything etc. U were looking for a GF not a mother figure. Just wait age difference will show up and 22 and 29 is the same age group....give it one more year and it wont be,

[MACHINE5150]

don't rush into anything.. the fact you have already been married and divorced at your age shows that you have relationship issues.. typically you jump right into things and put it in 5th gear.. while this may work sometimes it more than usual will lead to disaster. I recomend you take your time and do not make the same mistake again.. The only good news is that she is 29, and every woman has an alarm clock that makes them automatically want to settle down before they turn thirty.

[MACHINE5150]

double post

[RaginCajun]

first bold is for TR's comments. second bold is I bet you 10 to 1 that soon u will be complaining how she treat you like u dont know anything etc. U were looking for a GF not a mother figure. Just wait age difference will show up and 22 and 29 is the same age group....give it one more year and it wont be,

how true this is! i was 22 once and dated a 29er for about 6 months. she had an 11 year old. it just didn't work out. you are 22 and you will figure it out with time. have fun in the meantime!

[Times Roman]

on the other hand, your libido and her's might be more closely aligned than a lady your own age.... womens libido take longer to grow, older women ususally have more libido than younger women

[Kawigirl]

[paulzane]

Yes TR they say the age for sexuality is 18 for a man and 32 for a woman ..... go figure!

[JohnnyVegas]

Why was I thinking you were alot older than 22?

Ditto.

Take your time. You will meet a lot of women you like, so work on finding one you are highly compatible with. My second marriage is going MUCH better than my first.

[Standby]

girls dont talk to me

[DSM4Life]

girls dont talk to me

How about the boys ?

[stack_it]

Why would you want to jump back into something serious so soon? Sounds like you're a clinger and if that's the case I give this less than 6 months.

[Times Roman]

my buddie's brother pretty much marries a lady right after sex. I never understood that.... but he falls in love right after lust. After a few divorces, it seems he's out grown that

[calgarian]

Why would you want to jump back into something serious so soon? Sounds like you're a clinger and if that's the case I give this less than 6 months.

u forgot insecure.....not giving her space...how much u want to bet that she will break up with him saying "its not you its me"?

[Standby]

How about the boys ?

i wish!

[calgarian]

i wish!

did u tell DSM that you have a boy crush on Stack?

[Standby]

did u tell DSM that you have a boy crush on Stack?

oh here we go

[calgarian]

oh here we go

hey i was just wondering i think DSM has a right to know

[Standby]

i dont have a crush on stack it, i think

[calgarian]

i have a crush on stack it, i think

thats normal feelings espacially when u forget how naked woman look like

[fishizzle0927]

i was in that situation once(minus the divorce). at your age the only thing a 29er is for is occasionally cooking you dinner, buying you things and a sure piece of ass when all else fails! keep her on the back burner and utilize her assets, otherwise happy hunting my friend!

[layeazy]

lol thats good mate enjoying the women and not girls women are alot more fun....

[clemont51]

Avoid at all costs "puppy love". Is the lady intelligent? Is she educated? Does she have
a career? It is just as easy to "fall in love" with class as with the ordinary.

[stack_it]

u forgot insecure.....not giving her space...how much u want to bet that she will break up with him saying "its not you its me"?

Yeah I'd bet on it.

[stack_it]

did u tell DSM that you have a boy crush on Stack?

Lmao

[songdog]

I love all this advice.I wonder how many took it themselfs

[Hoggage_54]

[drdeath613]

lol wow whats up didn't you mom hold you enough

messed up thought he calls for his mommy and his old lady says what hun homeboy must be from the south

[38jumper38]

22? already been divorce/separated? WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?????????

[DSM4Life]

i dont have a crush on stack it, i think

Just because you sleep with a guy it doesn't make you gay. You should now refer to yourself as "adventurous."

[clemont51]

Sing along!

"She's got style, she's got class,
She likes it up the ass, She's a laaady".

[Tigershark]

Hope all works out for you.

[lovbyts]

Male 22, female 29 is BIG difference. She is ready for kids, you aren't.

Male 40+, Female 30- is good fit, 45 and 25 even better. hehehehehe

[army_cobra]

Your 22 and you see something wrong with one night stands hhhhhhmmmmmmm

[Gaspari1255]

Well, I am happy for you. But like others said, she may kind of view you as a "kid" and may assume that you need her. Don't give her too much attention just yet. Best of luck.

[thegodfather]

You guys are a bein a little harsh on the dude....He sounds like a more mature 22 year old than most, being that he just got divorced, he was obviously ready for committment, and his cheating whore of a wife wasn't. I'm always told that I'm extremely mature for my age (24), and most of the guys on this board are always surprised when they learn how old I am, based on my the threads I post and the way in which I hold myself, HOWEVER, I am not even ready for that sort of committment, that the OP has clearly demonstrated he's capable of, so perhaps he needs an older woman.

I've tried to date women yonger then me, by 2-3 years, and it usually ends badly because I am much more mature, goal oriented, secure, etc, then they are. So I'm inclined to think there are exceptions to the rule, and that some of us are more mature than others, and therefore may need older women and not younger.

I believe that a persons age has less to do with compatability than their current station and place in life. For instance, at 22 I was (and still am) a full time student in college, and therefore if I were to date an independent young professional in her later 20's, we would probably be a bad match because I was still going to frat party's, and staying in to study and write papers, attending class, I had minimal responsibilities at that time. In contrast, my friend is one year older than I am, and while I'm back in school once again full time, pursuing higher education, he has had a wife, house, and 2 kids, since he was 20 years old. He owns a number of successful businesses, and therefore although he's 25, if he were to be single with no kids, the women he would be most compatible with would probably not be a 21 year old sorority slut.

Just IMHO....

[big_ron]

It just wont work, im 21, 22 this year, i wouldnt settle for a 29 yr old, how mature do you want to be? im more mature than my age group i believe, i moved out of home at 16, which made me take alot of responsibility on.

25 is to old for me i think.

Maybe you dont have much of a selection ?