What does it mean - Marriage

**stack_it** · 04-29-2011, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

alright smarty.... you knew what I meant

Porn?

I wonder if they take their burka/niqab off when they make porn over there?

**Times Roman** · 04-29-2011, 10:09 AM

well?

**Kawigirl** · 04-29-2011, 10:10 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Porn?

I wonder if they take their burka/niqab off when they make porn over there?

Cal should know.....

**Times Roman** · 04-29-2011, 10:11 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Porn?

I wonder if they take their burka/niqab off when they make porn over there?

porn? are you for real? the only female sex these blokes get is AFTER they are married.

Muslim is SO strict about male/female sex here that for about 50% of males, male/male sex is a viable alternative

**Kawigirl** · 04-29-2011, 10:14 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

porn? are you for real? the only female sex these blokes get is AFTER they are married.

Muslim is SO strict about male/female sex here that for about 50% of males, male/male sex is a viable alternative

And to many's misconception...happens more often than most would even like to think....

**Times Roman** · 04-29-2011, 10:18 AM

I have no data to prove it, but I think Afghanistan has GOT to be the gay capital of the world?

**SlimmerMe** · 04-29-2011, 10:50 AM

Originally Posted by toooosmall

i like stack it's views here!
I love marriage, being committed to someone that is always there for you, by choice. And as soon as my marriage falls apart, i'm marrying slimmerme, whether she likes it or not.

Originally Posted by marcus300

you will have to get through me to get to slimmer, thats the first stage and you dont want to know about the 2nd stage lol

Love is in the air.........

**songdog** · 04-29-2011, 12:01 PM

Well anything you have you only have have now if your lucky.

**68charger** · 04-29-2011, 02:20 PM

Marriage is awesome, I have been with my wife about 13 years and every day she reminds me how strong I am as she tries to suck my will to live. LOL

**stack_it** · 04-29-2011, 02:35 PM

Originally Posted by 68charger

Marriage is awesome, I have been with my wife about 13 years and every day she reminds me how strong I am as she tries to suck my Willie to live. LOL

The key to a successful marriage....

**toooosmall** · 04-29-2011, 04:45 PM

^^stack it ya beat me to it. I was gonna ask him if he named it "Will"

**cro** · 04-29-2011, 06:47 PM

10 years here and still hangin in there. it can be hard thats for sure. i just work out more and harder...

**zaggahamma** · 04-29-2011, 06:57 PM

i think marriage is meant to be religious

marriage i believe can provide financial rewards such as being added to insurance of the spouse and maybe tax benefit

i believe 2 ppl can make a promise of monogomy or whatever without marriage/legal contract and should be able to without question

**Far from massive** · 04-29-2011, 08:57 PM

I think marriage is a ceremony and nametag for what should be a very serious commitment, assuming children are involved. While I would never condemn anyone for leaving a marriage that was unrepairable, I feel far too many young adults in the last 40 years and particularly the last 20 take the concept of marriage and having children way too lightly. I think that if you are ready to have kids you should be ready to let your life (needs and wants) take a back seat to your kids. I have seen far too many people get married have kids and then a few years later opt to trade up on a newer model with better lines...to me this is some selfish sick stuff. Conversly if a man or women leaves the marriage because the spouse is an alcoholic/drug addict or has some other sort of personality disorder that corrupts the family then I think that divorce is a good thing as whatever the kids suffer temporarilly it will be a lot less than that suffered growing up in this kind of situation.

Oh yeah the question was about marriage...If you or your family is religous, then marriage is a great ceremony and commitment before God of your love for your partner and your family. If you and your family are not then its a financial decision to be made with your accountant and finacial advisor...

**Far from massive** · 04-29-2011, 09:08 PM

Originally Posted by Far from massive

I think marriage is a ceremony and nametag for what should be a very serious commitment, assuming children are involved. While I would never condemn anyone for leaving a marriage that was unrepairable, I feel far too many young adults in the last 40 years and particularly the last 20 take the concept of marriage and having children way too lightly. I think that if you are ready to have kids you should be ready to let your life (needs and wants) take a back seat to your kids. I have seen far too many people get married have kids and then a few years later opt to trade up on a newer model with better lines...to me this is some selfish sick stuff. Conversly if a man or women leaves the marriage because the spouse is an alcoholic/drug addict or has some other sort of personality disorder that corrupts the family then I think that divorce is a good thing as whatever the kids suffer temporarilly it will be a lot less than that suffered growing up in this kind of situation.

Oh yeah the question was about marriage...If you or your family is religous, then marriage is a great ceremony and commitment before God of your love for your partner and your family. If you and your family are not then its a financial decision to be made with your accountant and finacial advisor...

I believe marriage and many of its benifits should be available to anyone regardless of sexual orientation. One of my clients Rob has been commited to his other half for over 20 years, he is gay and I feel its a shame the he and his lover are restricted to living together faithfully without the ability to make important decisions on things like heathcare that would be available to them if they were straight. Luckily they are open to both their parents, but still they are in there fifties and although they are lucky that they and thier parents are alive and cogent and in good health now, soon that is bound to change with the age of the parents. Imagine seeing the person you have shared your life with for 25 years dying in the hospital and being unable to make decisions about thier care as if you were only someone who knew them socially....

**jbm** · 04-30-2011, 01:09 AM

no sex no marriage....

**Times Roman** · 04-30-2011, 02:16 AM

Originally Posted by Far from massive

I believe marriage and many of its benifits should be available to anyone regardless of sexual orientation. One of my clients Rob has been commited to his other half for over 20 years, he is gay and I feel its a shame the he and his lover are restricted to living together faithfully without the ability to make important decisions on things like heathcare that would be available to them if they were straight. Luckily they are open to both their parents, but still they are in there fifties and although they are lucky that they and thier parents are alive and cogent and in good health now, soon that is bound to change with the age of the parents. Imagine seeing the person you have shared your life with for 25 years dying in the hospital and being unable to make decisions about thier care as if you were only someone who knew them socially....

A living will solves all that. On the one hand, I agree with you. On the other, there are legally viable options to be considered. Not sure about the employer benefit thing though....?

**toooosmall** · 04-30-2011, 03:36 AM

unless you are ultra religious, marriage is kind of a show. when married, you look faithful and respectable. but you can cheat at any moment, and numerous times. When I started dating my wife, she was fukn her exhusband, until he saw my number on her phone. who knows how long that affair would've lasted. now married, she suspects me of wanting to cheat, though I've never cheated in any relationship ever. It's just a show, and an attempt to feel/be committed. but that committment can end by either of you, for ANY reason. But my experience is that having that so called bond helps work through issues. But you can never trust your spouse anyhow. no matter how religious. marriage is kinda an ideal that isn't really completely attainable in the ideal sense. and the ideal sense is usually what is desired. god I'm tireddd

**DSM4Life** · 04-30-2011, 05:54 AM

I think straight people have ruined the concept of marriage. I think its our turn now...

**Times Roman** · 04-30-2011, 06:21 AM

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**DSM4Life** · 04-30-2011, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

^yours would be the last generation if married gays were solely relied on for producing off spring. Unless you got some other kind of trick up your sleave? And adopting chinese babies only works for a little while

We would have our hands filled with taking care of all the unwanted children "straights" produced.

**Far from massive** · 04-30-2011, 06:35 AM

If tommorow straights quite breeding and gays were soley relied upon to produce offspring, I am pretty sure they could figure out a way to achieve creation other than through sexually fulfilling intercourse ......

I mean there is always the tried and true,

**Times Roman** · 04-30-2011, 07:15 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

We would have our hands filled with taking care of all the unwanted children "straights" produced.

nice trick. I see you somehow captured what i deleted? if you look at the timeline, mine was deleted 2 minutes prior to your reply with quote. Fair enough.

**DSM4Life** · 05-01-2011, 08:14 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

nice trick. I see you somehow captured what i deleted? if you look at the timeline, mine was deleted 2 minutes prior to your reply with quote. Fair enough.

That shows the last time i edited my post, not the time i quoted you.