If you were gone a year or more..............

[Times Roman]

......and out of the country, would your woman/partner wait for you?


.......would you become anxious about her fidelity?



.......would you have your buddies secretly keep an eye on her?

[dec11]

yes

no

no

[lovbyts]

Yes

Yes

maybe

Yes I would like to think she would wait for me.

If you dont worry about it then you are a fool or you dont care IMO. Everyone has doubts/concerns because when we are away we only have our imagination and we know what happens to other people.

I would hope I would not have to ask anyone to check up but I would hope I have good enough friends who would keep tabs on things (not SPY) but would keep a watchful eye and let me know if anything was going on. Facts, not fiction. I'm the sort of person that needs some pretty strong facts that something is wrong and dont jump to conclusions or believe rumor. 2 people having lunch together is not an affair. Someone staying the night/day together holding hands, kissing and condoms in the trash is an affair. LOL

Nothing wrong with a little reassurance that nothing is going on instead of going by just blind faith.

[Flier]

Yes
no
no

But I can have annoying thoughts when I let my mind travel.
I trust people by default. Makes life so much more pleasant.

[Little1]

Hahahaha

No
Yes
No, unless I wanted proof of adultery for the attorney

[Times Roman]

I suppose the younger you are, the more you would worry. Me? I never even think about it. If she wanted to be with another man, she will, and nothing I can really do to stop her. The relationship would end, for sure. And life would go on. If she thinks she can find someone better than me, let her look.

[The Bear 79]

Yes.
No.
No.

When I left, I broke up with her before I went, cuz I was sure there was no way she would remain faithful & wait 4 me that long. When I got home (19 months later) I found out she moved in with her parents the day after I left, the reason behind that move was 2 prove her love & loyalty, she wanted me 2 know without a doubt that while I was gone, she did nothing but work & stay home. She even wanted 2 show me 19 months worth of pay stubs 2 prove she was actually @ work. I found a good 1 gents, I just didn't know it @ the time.

[Little1]

I suppose the younger you are, the more you would worry. Me? I never even think about it. If she wanted to be with another man, she will, and nothing I can really do to stop her. The relationship would end, for sure. And life would go on. If she thinks she can find someone better than me, let her look.

That's the best way to look at it. Seriously

[gixxerboy1]

i've been apart from a girl for 6 months when she went back to her country to visit. I didnt worry and either did she

[SlimmerMe]

How about you? How would she answer the questions if reversed?

[gixxerboy1]

How about you? How would she answer the questions if reversed?

My girls trust me. Plus they are usually hot and cocky so they think they have nothing to worry about

[SlimmerMe]

was wondering if TR was wondering about himself....

[BG]

The relationship would end, for sure. And life would go on.

How would you know if she didnt tell you? What if she just found someone to replace you when you were gone, but didnt want to end the relationship?

[Times Roman]

was wondering if TR was wondering about himself....

Well, I'm different from my woman, that's for sure. We've been together for about 26 years, and i've never had sex with anyone else during that time. There have been several temptations, mostly during our rocky times.

I don't think it's in me to be involved with multiple women at the same time.

And I have a hard time seperating the physical from the emotional. Guess that makes me pretty old fashioned?

[Times Roman]

How would you know if she didnt tell you? What if she just found someone to replace you when you were gone, but didnt want to end the relationship?

Nothing happens in a vacuum. If she were with a man, it wouldn't be a one and done. it would be over a period of time. Pretty hard to hide.

she can replace me if she so wishes. Even if she didn't want to end the relationship, I would, and it would end. I'm not interested, and have given up to much, to share a woman with anyone. I've learned from experience and observation that if a partner cheats once, they will probably cheat again. How am I to trust someone completely if I can't trust them in this area?

[Flier]

Well, I'm different from my woman, that's for sure. We've been together for about 26 years, and i've never had sex with anyone else during that time. There have been several temptations, mostly during our rocky times.

I don't think it's in me to be involved with multiple women at the same time.

And I have a hard time seperating the physical from the emotional. Guess that makes me pretty old fashioned?

I like you!
(No homo)...lol

[Swifto]

I suppose the younger you are, the more you would worry. Me? I never even think about it. If she wanted to be with another man, she will, and nothing I can really do to stop her. The relationship would end, for sure. And life would go on. If she thinks she can find someone better than me, let her look.

Very humble and wise.

Personally, I'd probably fight for her if I thought she was worth it. If that failed, then you know where you are.

[Flier]

Very humble and wise.

Personally, I'd probably fight for her if I thought she was worth it. If that failed, then you know where you are.

Wow, thats huge.
You would actually fight for a woman that has disrespected you and had sex with another man? To be more graphic, Had another man´s dikk inside of her, another man´s sweat on her?
I couldn´t touch her with a dirty stick.
You´re a big man Swifto. Wish I could forgive like that.

[paulzane]

Wow, thats huge.
You would actually fight for a woman that has disrespected you and had sex with another man? To be more graphic, Had another man´s dikk inside of her, another man´s sweat on her?
I couldn´t touch her with a dirty stick.
You´re a big man Swifto. Wish I could forgive like that.

Hey women aren't something you own!!

[Flier]

Hey women aren't something you own!!

Hmm..don´t follow.
If a GF/Wife was unfaithful to me, I wouldn´t "own" her even if you payed me.

[Times Roman]

Very humble and wise.

Personally, I'd probably fight for her if I thought she was worth it. If that failed, then you know where you are.

There is a time and a place for everything. I have fought for her, and won. We were together for almost two years, and broke up over a misunderstanding. I moved away four hours north. After several months, I did come back, she had a BF, and I had to undergo an extreme effort not only to get her to break up and go out with me again, but her now X BF wouldn't take a hint and go away. So he shows up at the front door one day with his brother. We went out in the parking lot to "talk", and I fuggin clocked his brother, just for kicks. then i grabbed his throat and told him if he ever came around again, I'd cripple him for life.

But, I would not fight for her again to prove myself. If a bloke is bothering her, that's one thing. But I refuse to fight another man over her as if she were some kind of prize, winner take all....

[Times Roman]

Hey women aren't something you own!!

exactly. we choose to be together and we choose to be faithful. if she chooses not to be faithful, then i can choose to no longer be together.

I get that things change, and people change. You can either accept that, or move on.

I always tell people I don't necessarily pay attention to what they say, I pay attention to what they do. And the way i look at it, if she is with other guys, that means she aint with me. Pretty simple

[Nooomoto]

I suppose the younger you are, the more you would worry. Me? I never even think about it. If she wanted to be with another man, she will, and nothing I can really do to stop her. The relationship would end, for sure. And life would go on. If she thinks she can find someone better than me, let her look.

x2. Worrying about it won't help. People are going to do what they are going to do and there is nothing you can do to stop them.

Yes I think mine would wait and no I wouldnt have anyone keep tabs on her.

[gixxerboy1]

how can you even have someone keep tabs on her. Are they going to follow her around? Granted if my friends so my girl doing something she shouldnt be they would tell me if i was around or not. But it would be by chance that they run into her.

[SlimmerMe]

Well, I'm different from my woman, that's for sure. We've been together for about 26 years, and i've never had sex with anyone else during that time. There have been several temptations, mostly during our rocky times.

I don't think it's in me to be involved with multiple women at the same time.

And I have a hard time seperating the physical from the emotional. Guess that makes me pretty old fashioned?

Makes you a stand up man. Plain and simple.

[SexySweetheart]

yes

yes...I know deep down he wouldnt, but he means the world to me so I know I wouldnt be able to help but worry

no

[Times Roman]

yes

yes...I know deep down he wouldnt, but he means the world to me so I know I wouldnt be able to help but worry

no

my woman worries alot too. to the point it drives me bonkers.

just wondering to myself if it is a genetic thing, like the worry thing is in the missing leg of the X chromosome, which when you take that leg away, with the worry gene in it, the X turns into a Y?

[paulzane]

my woman worries alot too. to the point it drives me bonkers.

just wondering to myself if it is a genetic thing, like the worry thing is in the missing leg of the X chromosome, which when you take that leg away, with the worry gene in it, the X turns into a Y?

My theory in this life is that women were put on this world to stop us men from worrying they do it all

[Times Roman]

My theory in this life is that women were put on this world to stop us men from worrying they do it all

that's for sure. see if this sounds familar?

....call me when you get there so I know you are alright. I worry you know?

sound familar???

[SlimmerMe]

My theory in this life is that women were put on this world to stop us men from worrying they do it all

now that is darn right funny and could actually be true!

[SexySweetheart]

it is true! lol ...ladyz are hard wired in the brain and are more anioxs than men! all goes back to the days of living in caves. Theres a bunch of studies that confirm it, heres a few ... *so if she doesnt worry, thats when I guy needs to START worring cuz that means she just doesnt give a fvck lol.

In surveys about the frequency of worry, women score higher than men, says Holly Hazlett-Stevens, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Nevada, who has conducted research on the topic.

But in recent years, scientists, using new imaging techniques, have been able to compare brain activity by gender. And what they have seen shows not that women worry more but that women think — and likely worry — differently than men do.

Women’s brains show more communication between the hemispheres than men’s brains, says Dr. Vesna Pirec, a psychiatrist at Rush University Medical Center in Chicago.

In men’s brains, the left hemisphere — often considered the analytical part of the brain — is more active, she says.

"With both hemispheres activated in women, there are many more different types of emotional reactions," she says. "And women, in times of stress, also tend to remember many more details than men would."

The differences can be attributed to gender roles through the centuries and brain evolution, Pirec says. Women juggled child care, cooking and protecting the family, she says.

"Men in those times had mostly one task: to go hunting and provide food," Pirec says. "So their brains developed differently."

Women also might express their worries in a different way than men do.

"Women have a greater tendency to brood, with a lot of . . . (emotion) engaged in it," says Dr. Joan Lang, chairwoman of the department of psychiatry at St. Louis University School of Medicine.

"Men have a tendency to be a little bit more obsessive, concentrating on ‘What should I do?’ rather than ‘What am I feeling?’ "

Hazlett-Stevens says: "We also know that women are twice as likely as men to suffer from generalized anxiety disorder that is associated with chronic and problematic worry."

Women seem to experience negative emotions such as fear and anxiety more intensely and easily than men do, says Hazlett-Stevens, author of Women Who Worry Too Much.

But men’s tendency to keep quiet about their concerns for fear of appearing weak often leads to physical problems, says Cliff Saper, a clinical psychologist at Alexian Brothers Behavioral Health Hospital in Hoffman Estates, Ill.

Joan Borysenko, psychologist and author of Mending the Body, Mending the Mind, describes unexpressed worry as "an evil genie in your mind. If you get control of that genie, you can do a lot with it, but if the genie turns on you and gets control of you, you’re in trouble."

[SlimmerMe]

and I will add this: in the cave days when men went out to get the meat while women were tending the cave, once the male returned after days of hunting wild animals as he came close to dying many times with tigers breathing down his neck or bears lurking in the bushes or wolves watching his every move, by the time he came back to the cave the male put his worries behind him because to recall all he went thru would overwhelm him and prevent him from going back out into the wild again. So he blunted worry for survival purposes.

[SexySweetheart]

lol, grunt, me hunt....me get food .... me eat food... me have sex ...me sleep ....me repeat next day *just playing guys, lol*

[SlimmerMe]

....me remote control.....

[RaginCajun]

lol, grunt, me hunt....me get food .... me eat food... me have sex ...me sleep ....me repeat next day *just playing guys, lol*

hahaha! me could get use to that!

[chuckt12345]

yup but i dont think anyone should ever leave their wife/husband for a year straight no matter what the cause
yup
no, but i sure would be keepin a ear to the ground

[Times Roman]

....me remote control.....

sheesh! women wish they had a remote control over us guys. Let's see, the buttons my woman would have would be:

Buttons:
Take out trash
Don't drink
Don't look at that hottie right over there
Don't watch TV
BBQ the meat
Shave your beard
Don't get pissed off If I say "NO"
Hurry Up
Slow Down (you know what I mean)
Just Like that... ooh yeah, right there!

[Times Roman]

lol, grunt, me hunt....me get food .... me eat food... me have sex ...me sleep ....me repeat next day *just playing guys, lol*

I had to laugh, so let me just ask you blokes, cause I think many are like me....

....when you go to the store, really only two things on the list, right?

Meat
Beer

(what else is there?)

[Flier]

lol, grunt, me hunt....me get food .... me eat food... me have sex ...me sleep ....me repeat next day *just playing guys, lol*

....me remote control.....

I suddenly feel primitive...

[lovbyts]

I had to laugh, so let me just ask you blokes, cause I think many are like me....

....when you go to the store, really only two things on the list, right?

Meat
Beer

(what else is there?)

Damn I have a short list since I dont drink beer and havent bought any in many years...