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    Got to know this girl. She's into dieting training and competing just as much as I am. Which is great, perfect for me. I don't Belieave in hiding things and I like to put everything on the table to begin with so everyone knows what there getting into. She asked me what I thought of drugs. I said I have no time for recreational drugs which I don't. I then told her that I have done 1 cycle of steriods before and that I wouldn't rule it out in the future. Also told her that I read a lot about it and have a fair amount of knowledge about how to go about it. After that she doesn't want anything to do with me. I really thought she would understand because she's involved in the sport. One word, Disappointed!!!

    It sucks that so many people that don't read up enough and the Fvck themselves up with the use of steriods give us such a bad name!!!

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    man i would never tell a girl i just met i did gear, sometimes they will trick you into admittin stuff that they dont approve of... anyway she sounds like a good girl tho maybe you should say sumn like you were young and stupid when you did gear and wont do it again or sumn.

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    well i see two sides.

    your side. you were honest thats great. she wasnt happy. so it made it easy. go find another bird.

    her side. she just see's someone that uses ILLEGAL drugs. i can see where shes coming from and just stays away.

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    forget the bad press it is receiving. without a dr. script, it is illegal, and you are breaking the law! some girls don't want any trouble. you just met her, so no loss. time to move on

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    It just really annoys me that people are so single minded when it comes to the use of steriods and its all because people that don't know what there doing have bad experience because they don't know what there doing and blame it on the gear.

    And what is it with people freaking out over a needle? Just because you use a needle your all of a suddena bad guy. I just don't get it?

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    The truth is... you will be better off in the long run with a more open relationship where you don't have to hide things. But.... some people need time, explanation, understanding, and maturity to become open minded. So lesson is not to say anything too quick. Also, I know many guys that are married and do it on the down low because their lady wouldn't approve. They are happily married for the most part. Personally.....I don't keep that shit from my wife. what for?.... also, she asked you about drugs so I am not sure I would have lied either.

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    There's a time and place to mention things like this... Considering u only knew her briefly... It would of been the same as saying "I love u" lol fked up bad my friend.. Fk it.. Man up and hit the town.. Plenty of chicks out there..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Pepper View Post
    It just really annoys me that people are so single minded when it comes to the use of steriods and its all because people that don't know what there doing have bad experience because they don't know what there doing and blame it on the gear.

    And what is it with people freaking out over a needle? Just because you use a needle your all of a suddena bad guy. I just don't get it?
    Needles = Junkie. That's usually the 1st thing that comes 2 mind when som1 thinks about a drug administered by injection...................a Heroin junkie, or Meth, or Coke & so on

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    yet another reason i always tell people don't even inform your wife..

    it's just that simple..
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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard View Post
    yet another reason i always tell people don't even inform your wife..

    it's just that simple..
    my woman knows about the trt.

    beyond that, i don't tell her....

    but she has been shipping me my vials of peps, and hasn't asked any questions in 6 months.

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    My wife has never had any issues with me using but I most definitely wouldn`t have opened up a conversation about it when I hardly know someone. Bad plan over all, are you trying to find a wife or get laid?

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    i never had an issue. All the girls i have dated like the look so they know where that comes from. Hell i had an ex by my gh for christmas before

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    took me a few months to even tell my girl im on trt. never tell a girl you juice

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    how are you going to denie it you dont think girls can tell?

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    if she thinks it that's fine...

    50% of marriages end in divorce.. most with child custody issues.. Steroid possession is the same as coke possession..

    But i'm with you.. i have even had the wife inject me... so don't do as i do.. do as i've learned to do...

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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard View Post
    if she thinks it that's fine...

    50% of marriages end in divorce.. most with child custody issues.. Steroid possession is the same as coke possession..

    But i'm with you.. i have even had the wife inject me... so don't do as i do.. do as i've learned to do...

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    I guess my thought is the most girls i know have touched drugs before in thier life. So it not really a big issue.
    So i was never concerend about a girl who parties here or there on a sat night rating me out.
    But there is always the chance like you said

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    I think AAS usage is personal, and shouldn't be discussed unless asked about. And the if the girl is comfortable asking about it, you better be to the point in the relationship that you can ask other personal questions like "are you boobs real," or "ever been to jail," or "how much money to you make," or "how much debt do you have?" All those things should have a bearing on a relationship, but should be talked about at the appropriate time. I would tell a girl before we moved in together, but not while dating.

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    I'm for full disclosure to the partner. She even helps me with it. If you don't tell them they will find out eventually unless they are insanely retarded, and then you'll be in trouble and lose credibility.

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    Oh there is always plenty of girls around, the doc doesn't struggle there. I'm an honest guy and yes it may have been to early on to mention it but she asked so I told... She's coming around now anyway so will see what happens cause she is a pretty cool chick.

    Anyway my point is more that is sucks that the majority of people are single minded about steriods and think straight away that it's bad. If they only new the time and effort we put into learning about it. Just plain stupid!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Pepper View Post
    Oh there is always plenty of girls around, the doc doesn't struggle there. I'm an honest guy and yes it may have been to early on to mention it but she asked so I told... She's coming around now anyway so will see what happens cause she is a pretty cool chick.

    Anyway my point is more that is sucks that the majority of people are single minded about steriods and think straight away that it's bad. If they only new the time and effort we put into learning about it. Just plain stupid!
    Yeah. Steroids are sooooo bad...but bitches doing coke and popping bars and other pills at parties is perfectly fine.

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    Who cares bro...live and learn. I beleve yes you should tell a gf or wife if your using but not somone you have just started dating! but to be sorry you didnt do anything wrong and if she doesnt understand and is not willing to then who cares? theres billions of women in the world!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nooomoto View Post
    Yeah. Steroids are sooooo bad...but bitches doing coke and popping bars and other pills at parties is perfectly fine.
    I agree with your sarcastic statement. Steroids are at the top of most people's list of bad drugs. They are misunderstood, and reviled by the media and government. The sports cheating issue has made it much worse. And they aren't even fun and prestigious like party drugs.

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    If you just wanted to bang this girl you definitely messed up by telling her something like that. If you are looking for a relationship then it was great that you told her up front. If she backs off because you telling her something about you, then good riddance, you don't need a girl you'd have to hide stuff from. Personally. I always start off with a girl with only the intention of getting laid and won't even think about a relationship until time has passed and I'd gotten to know her well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Pepper View Post
    Anyway my point is more that is sucks that the majority of people are single minded about steriods and think straight away that it's bad. If they only new the time and effort we put into learning about it. Just plain stupid!
    I respond with "what do you think of estrogen repla***ent for women"??

    It's the same thing, hormone repla***ent... if you don't believe me.. put a girl that has normal estro levels on a estrogen cream for a few days.. and you might want to make sure you have enough viagra on hand to keep up..
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas View Post
    I agree with your sarcastic statement. Steroids are at the top of most people's list of bad drugs. They are misunderstood, and reviled by the media and government. The sports cheating issue has made it much worse. And they aren't even fun and prestigious like party drugs.
    Tell me about it. Joe Biden could have been a professional ball player if it weren't for all those juiced up meatheads ruining his chances!

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    Learn to dance. . . . . . . . around the question. I completely understand being honest about things in a relationship. I wont lie to woman either but me no answering her question is not a lie. Take control of the convo and turn it away from the juice talk. At least until you know there is something there between you two. Just my $.02

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    i just started TRT and my 3 year gf doesnt understand at all..never tell them unless your caught!

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    Well yeah if she's just some slag you're trying to bang don't blurt it out...then you just look like a tool. But in a serious relationship you can't hide something like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nooomoto View Post
    Well yeah if she's just some slag you're trying to bang don't blurt it out...then you just look like a tool. But in a serious relationship you can't hide something like that.
    Spot on mate...

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    What a hoot.....honesty with a woman you just met......did you tell her about all the times you jacked off in the shower too, or the time you banged that fat chick, etc. etc. Loose lips sink ships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard
    if she thinks it that's fine...

    50% of marriages end in divorce.. most with child custody issues.. Steroid possession is the same as coke possession..

    But i'm with you.. i have even had the wife inject me... so don't do as i do.. do as i've learned to do...

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    Yeah but coke is goooooood

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Pepper View Post
    Got to know this girl. She's into dieting training and competing just as much as I am. Which is great, perfect for me. I don't Belieave in hiding things and I like to put everything on the table to begin with so everyone knows what there getting into. She asked me what I thought of drugs. I said I have no time for recreational drugs which I don't. I then told her that I have done 1 cycle of steriods before and that I wouldn't rule it out in the future. Also told her that I read a lot about it and have a fair amount of knowledge about how to go about it. After that she doesn't want anything to do with me. I really thought she would understand because she's involved in the sport. One word, Disappointed!!!

    It sucks that so many people that don't read up enough and the Fvck themselves up with the use of steriods give us such a bad name!!!
    i told my wife to be shortly after i met her, i dont believe in secrets either. you did the right thing in telling that you use aas mate. would she even listen to the real facts if you tried?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dec11 View Post
    i told my wife to be shortly after i met her, i dont believe in secrets either. you did the right thing in telling that you use aas mate. would she even listen to the real facts if you tried?
    Not that I use aas a lot but it is a big part of my life although I'm no we're near the smartest guy here I read on this website everyday. She is an amazing girl, coming by someone like her probably won't happen again, we are so a like it's freaky, that's why I want to try and keep her around. My next cycle was t planned for a while anyway so will just see how things go with her. To answer your question. No she did not listen to let me explain things. Iv tried it a few times with trying to tell differant people and it has never worked. People are so single minded about and it really makes me angry. For the small group of people like us that take there time out to read and educate our selves on the subject it is ruined by Fvck wits who don't know what there doing. Disappointing but so is life sometimes so u just have to move on.

    These were some of her responses, even though she's a cool chick it just goes to show what the world thinks:

    How would you feel dating a girl that robs a bank for her money? I won't do it all the time.. Just every couple of months when I need it to be successful.

    And

    Mmm. I smoke weed on a daily basis. A lot of people say it's bad but I've read on a website about it and I've educated myself and it's not bad if you know how to use it.

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    Ha ha quit the weed get the coke ! Haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki387 View Post
    Ha ha quit the weed get the coke ! Haha
    Lol yeah that would be right!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Pepper View Post
    Not that I use aas a lot but it is a big part of my life although I'm no we're near the smartest guy here I read on this website everyday. She is an amazing girl, coming by someone like her probably won't happen again, we are so a like it's freaky, that's why I want to try and keep her around. My next cycle was t planned for a while anyway so will just see how things go with her. To answer your question. No she did not listen to let me explain things. Iv tried it a few times with trying to tell differant people and it has never worked. People are so single minded about and it really makes me angry. For the small group of people like us that take there time out to read and educate our selves on the subject it is ruined by Fvck wits who don't know what there doing. Disappointing but so is life sometimes so u just have to move on.

    These were some of her responses, even though she's a cool chick it just goes to show what the world thinks:

    How would you feel dating a girl that robs a bank for her money? I won't do it all the time.. Just every couple of months when I need it to be successful.

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    Mmm. I smoke weed on a daily basis. A lot of people say it's bad but I've read on a website about it and I've educated myself and it's not bad if you know how to use it.
    her examples are like comparing apples and oranges, they dont make sense.

    and loki387, there is no rec drug talk on here

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    Quote Originally Posted by dec11 View Post
    her examples are like comparing apples and oranges, they dont make sense.

    and loki387, there is no rec drug talk on here
    Yeh you and I know that but everyone's else thinks that way trust me. It's fvcked

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