Another chance for trouble............

[awms]

You already made a decision the day you got married and if you cant stay faithful then get a divorce because its not fair to your wife. Your being very very selfish! You think your the only guy who is tempted to cheat? it happens to all of us! your acting like your the only one in the world who could cheat....the difference is good husbands and BF's don't put them self in a situation were they could cheat and you do....this might sound harsh but it something you need to hear! your a selfish man and you know you will end up going to the party and you will most likely cheat....your looking for a few people in here to say "go for it! cheat" so you don't feel so bad about it and you can justify it.

Here is the thing about marriage, its not forced on you, its something you chose to do and you made a promise to a women that you would be there with her and stay faithful all the days of your life....if you cant hold up your end of the bargain then done be married and don't make your wife suffer! one day she is going to catch you and she will leave you and you are going to break her heart all because you wanted some pusssy on the side....get out now or start manning up and being a good husband!

[evander87]

She doesn`t believe in that stuff, she is a daddy's girl and 100% believes in family and would never cheat or anything. But hey you never know I guess. Things were heading in the right direction but ultimately I am the one putting all the effort, why does she get massages every day? I have had sex once in the last week and a half or so, tough to feel positive some times I guess.

Sorry but that made me lol.

You're giving he massages because you think that's what she wants. She's not humping you because you and her don't have the emotional connection. She is very exposed emotionally to some man actually listening to her. And if some guy lends her his ear, next thing is she's talking about how shitty things are at home. The guy just listens. She doesn't feel crazy for feeling the way she does, he doesn't judge her. Next thing you know she has an "safe" emotional connection with this guy and her legs will open up him.

[JAB1]

YEah man time to step up and take some accountability and make a decision if your gonna live up to your commitment to your wife or not. Like the others said we are all tempted to cheat but thats life dont have to do it. I think of it like this. If I cheated on my wife tonight, and she died in an accident or something tommorrow, how would I feel. I think that cheating has nothing to do with the chick, it has to do with your own self confidence and issues. You gotta figure out why you need reassurance from these chicks who do not care about you at all, hell they would prob get of on ****ing up your marriage. If I bit every time somone offered me something I shouldnt have Id have been fckd a long time ago. Man up and check yourself homie!! FYI not trying to be a dick just shooting you straight

[redz]

I have decided I will not go to the party because it will only lead to problems and as others pointed out I would be in pictures and what not and my wife would know so even if I didn`t cheat there would be the fact I lied. This was tough because I know how many hot girls would be there but at the same time I am married and you guys are right I need to step up my marriage game and put the effort in or bail on it. I am not ready to bail on it so the logical thing is to do something with my wife tomorrow night instead, probably hang out with her married friends again. I think that is one of the big differences most of her friends are married where as all my friends are single so theres always trouble. I also want to still be able to go out and going to this party would end all trust and freedom I have. Next week is my friends birthday so I will not go out until then as I already told him I will be there and he has been my buddy for over 15 years. That is just pool and bowling anyways so it should be reasonably innocent.

[jasc]

Invite your wife to this party.. maybe line up a 3-some

In all seriousness though, props on not going. It probably woulda been a great time, but you stepped up and did the right thing. Takes a bigger man to walk away from a situation like this than to give in and go. cheers!

[redz]

Wow, I was working today and that girl texted me asking me to come to the party again then she showed up and came right up to me and asked me again....... I can`t believe I had the will power to say no, if I hadn`t made up my mind before I would have given in I was looking at her tits while she asked me again and somehow still said no. If I hadn`t started pct today I probably would have not had the will power.

[BuffBuffalo]

Haha, nothing pulls the alpha male out of a guy like pct. At least this time maybe it was for the best.

[capetown]

I was once told that if u are ever going to fvck around you better make sure the person has just as much to lose as you do!! In this case Im thinking she doesnt. Be smart.