Significent Others Reaction

**lstbred** · 06-12-2012, 10:06 AM

Was talking to someone and I thought it would be a good topic. How'd your S/O react to you doing gear? (or when you brought up the idea) Surprisingly my wife was TOTALLY cool with it, the only thing she is hesitent about is cost, of course, and she could do with a little bit less "lovin'" lol she actually did every one of my pins for me.

**auswest** · 06-12-2012, 10:43 AM

It's my little secret, it ain't half obvious though, she accuses sometimes. But has become an unspoken thing. Will never bring it up with her, don't really have a need too, allthough it would be nice not to have to hide everything (but that's not a bad thing). And I'm starting to run out of things that I say I'm needing to buy when the money is going else where, lucky my job "requires" lots of tooling, you can never have enough tools

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I don't like discussing steroids with people that are not well informed or are not open minded on the subject. If I had been cycling when I met my mrs I may have told her.
And if I did tell her she wouldn't be that pissed, I just can't be fkd with her blaming all my wrong actions on the gear.

**< <Samson> >** · 06-12-2012, 11:33 AM

My GF did all my shots. She wanted to see in person what it would do to me. . . Whenever I had any doubts, she said don't worry about it.

Right when we got together I was real close to starting, but pvssied out do to having to get shots.

But, now she kinda doesn't want me continuing to cycle. . . . Kinda, sorta.

**fukngruvn** · 06-12-2012, 12:04 PM

no worries here. she pins me.

when i first wanted to start though I introduced the idea to her slowly.. also, my buddy was already on so she had some first hand exposure before I brought it up.

**SEOINAGE** · 06-12-2012, 12:05 PM

On trt, probably blast at end of year and not tell my wife.

**thehulk2203** · 06-12-2012, 12:07 PM

Mine knows as well but she only let's me because i compete.

**stocky121** · 06-12-2012, 12:12 PM

havent juiced for years so no problem here.

**jasc** · 06-12-2012, 12:15 PM

mine loves it.. she gets excited to pin me

**auswest** · 06-12-2012, 12:33 PM

I don't think I'd want anyone else jabbing me.

**ghettoboyd** · 06-12-2012, 12:49 PM

my wife is cool with it...she loves the results but i make shure she or my child ever sees it or hears of it...i dont do rediculously costly cycles so the $ isnt a problem...

**Rwy** · 06-12-2012, 12:53 PM

Originally Posted by lstbred

Was talking to someone and I thought it would be a good topic. How'd your S/O react to you doing gear? (or when you brought up the idea) Surprisingly my wife was TOTALLY cool with it, the only thing she is hesitent about is cost, of course, and she could do with a little bit less "lovin'" lol she actually did every one of my pins for me.

Yea my gf cut me off last week. She isnt 19 yrs old anymore.

**DanB** · 06-12-2012, 01:03 PM

Any woman I have been with has never complained, in fact if I wasn't on something they prob wouldn't be interested lol

**Rwy** · 06-12-2012, 01:15 PM

Yea we hit 8 times by Thursday and she cut me off until yesterday lol

**lestat85** · 06-12-2012, 02:27 PM

I haven't done any cycles yet, but I'm not sure if I should tell my girlfriend. I definitely want make sure the gear is kept away from my kids and they never see it, but not sure what to say to my girlfriend.

**HitIt** · 06-12-2012, 02:43 PM

hell no.

**gixxerboy1** · 06-12-2012, 03:18 PM

all my gf's and my wife has known. I was on when i meet them so it was obvious. None have cared. One bought my gh for a christmas present, another hooked my up with a source from her country.

**Hoggage_54** · 06-12-2012, 03:22 PM

**Honkey_Kong** · 06-12-2012, 04:04 PM

It's a real catch, they can use it against you if you ever get divorced. But you can't withhold things like using gear from your wife either. I mean some here do and although that may cover their ass, it's dividing them with their wives. Like if you're married, there is no you as a singular, it's you plural.

**SEOINAGE** · 06-12-2012, 04:34 PM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

It's a real catch, they can use it against you if you ever get divorced. But you can't withhold things like using gear from your wife either. I mean some here do and although that may cover their ass, it's dividing them with their wives. Like if you're married, there is no you as a singular, it's you plural.

I think it will be easy getting away with a blast vs a trt dose though. She will never know how much I am injecting. And well she has no clue how long one vial is supposed to last or cost either.

**gixxerboy1** · 06-12-2012, 04:40 PM

Originally Posted by SEOINAGE

I think it will be easy getting away with a blast vs a trt dose though. She will never know how much I am injecting. And well she has no clue how long one vial is supposed to last or cost either.

still besides the point. They are illegal drugs, how would you feel if your wife was hiding some thing like that

**JD250** · 06-12-2012, 06:28 PM

TRT with an occasional blast.....the wife loves gettin hammered everyday..... All legal too!!

**Sgt. Hartman** · 06-12-2012, 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by SEOINAGE

I think it will be easy getting away with a blast vs a trt dose though. She will never know how much I am injecting. And well she has no clue how long one vial is supposed to last or cost either.

If you do any kind of substantial blast there's no way your wife won't know.

My wife knows I take stuff but it's not something we talk about and I don't tell her when I'm on (she knows anyway) or what compounds and dosages I take.

**Ernst** · 06-12-2012, 06:40 PM

I've always been straightforward and honest about it with girls I was seeing.

**oscarjones** · 06-12-2012, 06:50 PM

My x-wife was cool with it, told a few other girls since then and they were fine and actually seemed interested, and I think it's because they were health conscious. Also, I'm a nurse so it sounds cool when I explain it. Some chicks, like bangbuddies, I wouldn't ever bring it up to, you gotta "feel them out" so-to-speak.

**stpete** · 06-12-2012, 07:10 PM

Mine's cool w/it. She injects me and asks if she can help brew. I wouldn't have it any other way.

**SEOINAGE** · 06-13-2012, 06:42 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

still besides the point. They are illegal drugs, how would you feel if your wife was hiding some thing like that

Yeah, she once tried to hide taking hcg and doing that stupid diet from me. I had told her before that if she did that dumb diet I would get to take steroids . She only lasted a day on it anyways, I was more mad that she believed all the bs info from her family.

**JAB1** · 06-13-2012, 08:39 AM

My wife is cool with it for the most part. I spent a lot of time educating her, etc. And I am strict weith diet/training etc and was before we met so she knows Ive put alot of research etc into what I doing. When I finished my first cycle a couple months ago she said, did you get that out of your system? I replied, hell Im just gettn started, cant wait for next cycle!! She rolled her eyes and acted a little annoyed but has since been very supportive of my next cycle... I think she likes it. When she met me she liked that I was a fighter, etc, different from the more straight laced dudes she was with before, so I think it intrigues her. I have gained about 25-30 pounds since I was training mt, bjj, so I get a alot of youve gotten jacked type comments when out, around her fam, etc. She always gives me that smirk like, yeah if they only knew....

**lstbred** · 06-13-2012, 10:42 PM

^^Do you still train?

**JAB1** · 06-14-2012, 06:33 AM

[QUOTE=lstbred;6040428]^^Do you still train?[/QUOTE

I am currently focusing on lifting 90%. I have mats/pads/bags/ etc at my house and friends I roll/sparr with even if Im not at the club full time so I wont ever stop completely but not training daily like I always have. Im 33, and feeling it. I went through a spell of injury after injury(broken ribs, broken foot, ****ed up lower back, shoulder pain). So I started over from scratch lifting with good form, etc and doing a cycle, had some joint soreness on cycle but now that im done feel better than I have in years. Gonna focus on healing and stepping up my strength conditioning and see how I feel moving forward. Plus my main trainer moved to vegas to step up to the big leagues, and my other trainer has become very upset with current american mma ruling, etc, so he is putting his time into his wrestlers and oly lifters, so just at a crossroad at the moment....