Broke up with my girl damn this sucks

**Rwy** · 08-23-2012, 03:54 PM

Sorry bro but you need to man the **** up. This is a ****ing 19 year old girl thats got you feeling sorry for yourself.

Pull yourself together and stop acting like the worlds over becasue she is "REJECTING YOU" this is the only reason you feel the way you do

**mike954** · 08-23-2012, 04:23 PM

Your right I'm kinda thinking like how is this girl not know what she's losing I got a nice place I'm a manager at my company and I treated her like a effing queen

**Vettester** · 08-23-2012, 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by Bronzer

If she isn't with another guy now, she will be soon or later, and you will just have to accept it. Step # 1 in moving on is accepting the fact that its OVER for good.

Agree with this. Mike, you need to get a hold of yourself. The more you text her, call her, or show up, the more she will push away from you. Move forward for your own sake!

**Rwy** · 08-23-2012, 05:57 PM

You are asking to throw salt in the wound with all these get back to me questions. Of course she is going to say no. She has you in the palm of her hand. Have you even given her 7 days without bothering her yet?

You should be at the gym going for your best lifts this week becuase you are so ****ing pissed at yourself for letting a 19 yr old girl turn your world upside down

GTE MAD LOL

**mike954** · 08-23-2012, 06:51 PM

I have not communicated with her sense Sunday so no not 7 days yet

**red_hulk** · 08-23-2012, 07:08 PM

Don't ever do stuff for a bitch that doesn't appreciate it!!! It's never worth it man and some women are just like that. They expect things for some stupid reason..I'm not saying don't do anything for a girl, but make sure she knows two things. It isn't necessary for you to be so nice, and you don't have to be so nice.

I do anything and everything for my girlfriend but I lucked out and she is very appreciative of everything I do. I've been in your shoes before that's why I'm so passionate about it lol.

You'll be alright man. Take a few days, rub one out, and start to pick up the pieces! There's plenty of good girls out there!

**Gaspari1255** · 08-23-2012, 08:45 PM

Originally Posted by red_hulk

Don't ever do stuff for a bitch that doesn't appreciate it!!! It's never worth it man and some women are just like that. They expect things for some stupid reason..I'm not saying don't do anything for a girl, but make sure she knows two things. It isn't necessary for you to be so nice, and you don't have to be so nice.

I do anything and everything for my girlfriend but I lucked out and she is very appreciative of everything I do. I've been in your shoes before that's why I'm so passionate about it lol.

You'll be alright man. Take a few days, rub one out, and start to pick up the pieces! There's plenty of good girls out there!

I thought this post was extremely insightful and helpful until this last sentence.

**mike954** · 08-23-2012, 08:46 PM

Agree lol

**red_hulk** · 08-23-2012, 10:31 PM

Hahaha I felt like I needed to add something inspirational at the end

**Gaspari1255** · 08-23-2012, 10:41 PM

Mike - Since I am in a bad mood right now, I am going to let you have it, in a good/helpful way.

1.) By you calling her and telling her how much you fvcked up and expressing how much you miss her is the absolute, god damn, worst thing you could have done. She now knows that she has power and a 110% control over you because you're showing her how much you want her back. This will fill her retarded head with a false ego and will even WIDEN the space between you guys.

2.) Women love to play "reverse the blame" game. My ex used to do this to me several times. She knows she was dead wrong, but would use ANY little bit of ammunition against me to reverse the blame and try to prove her case. Women are masters at this. When their back is against the wall and all the evidence is showing that THEY fvcked up, they will try and trick you into thinking that you are the one that is wrong and as soon as you give them that leeway, they're on top for good.

3.) You have a career, a car, a house, and are in good shape. Do you think that you are going to have a hard time finding another girl that makes you happy? If so, you need to work on your confidence.

4.) A 19 year old graduated high school ONE year ago. She's going to want to go out and experiment with many different men to see what she can get, and when she hits 21 years old, it's gonna get even worse. I'm 23 and I can tell you that EVERY 21 year old girl that I've ever been on dates with, or dated, is a total bar rat skank that will hop from club to club finding some pathetic guy to pay for her drinks all night long.

5.) Most people, not just women, commonly mistaken kindness for weakness. I swear, the nicer I treat women who have been disrespected/taken advantage their whole live's always ended up coming back to bite me in the ass.

6.) Not sure if you saw my thread last week, but I shared a story about a girl that I was seeing who completely cut me off out of the blue. I was upset for a few days, but I have now realized that there is no point in wasting energy on a piece of shit who doesn't deserve your attention/kindness.