Broke up with my girl damn this sucks

[mike954]

Broke up with my girl and I'm really taking it pretty hard I'm on Trt and seems like iv been little more emotional ? Weird but im really bummed

[spywizard]

sorry.. and congrats..

[gearbox]

Why did you guys break up?

[mike954]

It was really stupid but she was being cranky and I just busted out u know I feel like ur using me I pay for evey thing buy everything take u on trips and this is how u act ? I'm done !! Than I calmed down said I'm sorry and I did not mean it and she was so pisted she gave me back my house key and took her stuff and I tried to talk and work things out but she would not listen to me I'm alot older then her I think the age has alot to do with it sucks cuz she was really cool and we had alot of fun plus she was really hot we were together for 9 months

[Rwy]

Dont be a *****. She sucks but you let her flip it on you. Now you are chasing her. You didnt say that shit without a reason.


I just broke up with my gf of 4 years. ****ing **** comes over for the first time in over a week and some how figures out non of this is her fault but I dont give a **** whose fault it is. If its easier for her to point the finger at me to feel better about herself so be it. 4 years never made me dinner once never even attempted. I ****ing work, make great money pick up the slack cook clean and woke up and said wtf am I doing. Now because she is broke and needs to move home I have to give her half the money for all of our stuff. Yea ok I will send the check in a week lol

[Times Roman]

sounds like you hit too close to home for her.....

....also sounds like she was OK with the arrangement, as long as it was never spoken about.

(outta sight, outta mind?)

[mike954]

Ya I work 5 days a week 50 hours go to the gym 5 days bought her dinner,cooked,flowers,gifts,massages everything and I'll I got was grief

[Times Roman]

Ya I work 5 days a week 50 hours go to the gym 5 days bought her dinner,cooked,flowers,gifts,massages everything and I'll I got was grief

you are better off without her. find a real woman, more mature, closer to your age, that will appreciate you.

[mike954]

Thanks I know that sounds good but I'm bummed right now

[Rwy]

your bummed bc she gave you your key back

if she was like how could you do this to me you would be fine

this is the shit you deal with when you date a really young girl

[mike954]

Ya I was asking for it I'm almost 30 and she's 19

[Gaspari1255]

Ya I work 5 days a week 50 hours go to the gym 5 days bought her dinner,cooked,flowers,gifts,massages everything and I'll I got was grief

Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Be happy you didn't make a baby with that selfish bitchh

[mike954]

This is true

[Gaspari1255]

Ya I was asking for it I'm almost 30 and she's 19

Entering the relationship, you should have known that you were going to have to provide for her and cover every living expense of hers. How many 19 year old's have a career and have the maturity level to support themselves? Not many.

[Rwy]

Ya I was asking for it I'm almost 30 and she's 19

If a girl is dating a guy your age at her age I would think her goal is to do nothing. Thats why she is not with a 19 yr old guy

So its either you have to decide you want to be her daddy and just deal with it.

My best fried is 34 dates a 22 yr old girl. She is 10 movie star hot. He is succesful pays for everything and doesnt care bc he is paying for a commodity.

Young hot house wife lol

[mike954]

Ya I kinda knew that but was hoping for some appreciation and the worst was I just said its over out of anger did not really mean for it to end but guess it really upset her

[mike954]

Now I'm kinda kicking myself in the ass for opening my big mouth

[Rwy]

ehh shit happens sometimes in the heat of the moment but shes pretty young to get that

[Shol'va]

Ya I was asking for it I'm almost 30 and she's 19

Buy yourself a puppy you'll be happier and it wont leave you when you get mad at it for peeing on the floor....

[Gaspari1255]

Ya I kinda knew that but was hoping for some appreciation and the worst was I just said its over out of anger did not really mean for it to end but guess it really upset her

She's really upset because you won't be cooking for her or buying her shit any more....ever think of that?

[mike954]

Buy yourself a puppy you'll be happier and it wont leave you when you get mad at it for peeing on the floor....

Haha but a puppy not a 115 lb 19 year old blond

[spywizard]

yep.. ya get what you pay for.. doh..

[lovbyts]

Now it's time to do some math. Figure out what you would have charged someone for 9 months of rent, 1/2 utilities, food you bought, dinners you paid for, flowers, gifts and trips. Now divide by the number of times you had sex. Now you will really be depressed. LoL

[Razor]

You will always lose money chasing girls..but you will never lose girls chasing money..

Focus on you now

Hope this helps bro you will be ok.

[Rwy]

all you need is a dog and an escort one night out of the weekend. Life would be much easier

[austinite]

Sorry. Now max your IRA.

[gearbox]

Now it's time to do some math. Figure out what you would have charged someone for 9 months of rent, 1/2 utilities, food you bought, dinners you paid for, flowers, gifts and trips. Now divide by the number of times you had sex. Now you will really be depressed. LoL

This is so true.
And what roman said about "there is a reason you freaked" sounds like she was not appreciative of the things you did for her. That comes in 10 years time not 9 months

[Vettester]

I was caught up with a young one like that when I was 27 & 28. In fact, engaged at one point. I had so much fun with her, but there were similar experiences as what Mike has been going through. That maturity thing just doesn't really develop til later on for them. I had to go through a similar deal when we split. She came looking for me down the road after I moved to California, but by then I had already got married.

OP, she might come back ... If so, my suggestion is to not toss it to the curb, but do lay down a new set of ground rules. If she doesn't return, well, plenty advise above to get you on the right track!

[abstetic]

Lol shi!ts rough bro... U can't let a girl do that too u... I miss mine because she paid for me when we went out... I was the typical douch bag bf I deserved it but you seam like a legit bf and it's her loss... If only I did what u did for your ex I still would have her

[AD]

the pain is only temporary. find yourself a better one next time.

in the meantime, you can celebrate being single again!

[ironbeck]

Man forget that girl, just an immature spoiled brat, expects you to wipoe her ass for her while smilying and says yes dear, what ever you want bumpkins///fuc that broad.....grow up and go with a chick that has been around and she will treat you the way a mature giving adult should WITH MUTUAL RECIPROCATION....but then again your only 30 and you might not see whats more important out of life? a barbie doll or happiness.

[ironbeck]

all you need is a dog and an escort one night out of the weekend. Life would be much easier

I second this motion....but get like a different escort every week for 2 months and you will forget that girls name. Besides I'm sure she has plenty of friends who want to take her place...so remember these words if one of her friends wants to talk about the break up!!! she wants in.

[Honkey_Kong]

Mike, you really need Leykis 101.

Never ever ever give a broad a key to your house. And don't spend money on her either. When you do stuff like that, you set yourself up to be used. In all seriousness, you shouldn't ever even spend more than $40 on a date.

But now I'll say, congrats on the breakup!!! Now you can go bang other broads. You really don't need anyone telling you at your age, but women come and go. This chick was 19, so you weren't with her for her mind or her personality. Don't let it get to you.

[ironbeck]

Ask her for one last pitty lay, then bang her ass, then finish on her face...then tell her to get the F out.

[SEOINAGE]

You gotta not be the needy one who desperately needs the others affection attention whatever you want to call it. You seriously can't go trying to get her back, otherwise your relationship will suck even worse, if she tries to come back, make her work for it, not just forgive you for flipping on her, but she needs to commit to make some major changes. You are setting yourself up to be controlled by a woman the rest of your life. You sound too emotionally attached to here as well. i have done some stupid stuff in the past, but it's best to be the level one that can act like it doesn't matter either way and not show your emotions. Really just need to stand up for yourself

[mike954]

Thanks guys

[paulzane]

Ya I was asking for it I'm almost 30 and she's 19

When I was 30 my current g/f wasn't even born!

[mike954]

Hah nice

[paulzane]

In the UK and Australia I think that the woman is entitled to a proportion of your house if she has been sharing it for 6 months or more. if she has just taken off and given you the key back think yourself lucky.

My break up is costing me a house, all its contents, car, and a lump sum cash hand out..... £500.000 or close to $800,000 US

[Capebuffalo]

You'll be fine . Looking at your avi if you do some leg work you will get another girl. Upper body looks great.