she says i have to pay half

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if the whole problem will go away quietly, i would gladly pay.

[cherrydrpepper]

My advice please pm me phone number and address of said girl sounds like shes ripe and could use my services

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

getting bank info and ready to pay.

[Lunk1]

getting bank info and ready to pay.

No lie AZ...if it were me I would pay it all....I promise it's a smaller price than she will pay emotianaly her whole life!

[JWP806]

Seriously guy? Man up and pay for it. Then go get a vasectomy. Apparently you don't know how to have sex without getting women pregnant. I hope that you are at least supporting your living child...

I'm pro-choice but this is a fking joke.

[spywizard]

vasectomy is free, no co pay with most insurance companies..

get one..

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

Seriously guy? Man up and pay for it. Then go get a vasectomy. Apparently you don't know how to have sex without getting women pregnant. I hope that you are at least supporting your living child...

I'm pro-choice but this is a fking joke.

my daughter is the only thing i care about . its not a joke , it was a serious inquiry . . so before you bash on me kid id read the other posts.

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

No lie AZ...if it were me I would pay it all....I promise it's a smaller price than she will pay emotianaly her whole life!

i hear ya lunk. good looking out man.

[JWP806]

Kid? That's cute coming from a dude with a lip ring. I wasn't calling the post a joke. I was calling you a joke.

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

Kid? That's cute coming from a dude with a lip ring. I wasn't calling the post a joke. I was calling you a joke.

oh well thats fine then . :-D
and i have more than one ring bud .

thanks for your post .

[Honkey_Kong]

AZ, fvck her. I wouldn't give that bitch one penny. She can't prove that you planted the seed and you said she's a nut. Just block her number and forget about her. Life moves on.

[wh1spa]

AZ, fvck her. I wouldn't give that bitch one penny. She can't prove that you planted the seed and you said she's a nut. Just block her number and forget about her. Life moves on.

Your input never ceases to impress.

[Remington]

Sad.

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sometimes threads just dont die fast enuff!

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die thread die!!!!!

[wh1spa]

[MickeyKnox]

Apologize for the selfishness and pay her. It's an emotional issue for the both of you.

I think Gixxer touched on this. What kind of a hit do you think your reputation will take within your (and her) circle of friends, both close and extended? Not good I bet. Man up, apologize and say your sorry.

good luck.

Thats the definitive answer right there.

[wh1spa]

...^

[MickeyKnox]

Oops i just realized there was a page 2..lol Sorry Goldmember..

Please thread, die!!!

[Flagg]

I really dont see what the point of this thread is.

Most of the posts have asked the OP to man up, and all he seems to reply with is "Yes, thanks for input".

It's clear he made his mind up a long time ago and probably thought he was going to get sympathy. Delete this thread.

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

I really dont see what the point of this thread is.

Most of the posts have asked the OP to man up, and all he seems to reply with is "Yes, thanks for input".

It's clear he made his mind up a long time ago and probably thought he was going to get sympathy. Delete this thread.

Not looking for sympathy man. Just honest answers if you must know ,my first response to her was ,im on my way ,we talked and scheduled the appointment ,wasn't easy... The following days she became erratic and irrational ... Screaming that the baby could of been someone else's... Then said she wanted to keep t.. So we talked again after she calmed down and she apologized for "playing games and lieing to me" financially it was hard to come up with the money pal. So i starting thinking maybe it wasn't mine..i DID tell her i would pay half at first . After she told me it possibly couldn't be mine i started to change my mind.. Eventually after being threatened and harassed and owning up to the "possibility and my word i paid." but asking here was a help as well. I never said "poor me" no sympathy card man.

[MickeyKnox]

[Shol'va]

Yeah you did make her a promise to pay it and seriously, 250.00 verses at least 18 years of child support, plus more if the child decided to go to college. At 250, you make out like a bandit bro. Be happy and pay her the 250 and consider yourself one lucky SOB! Also be extremely grateful she went through with it so you won't have any more worries. That in itself should be reason enough to pay her the 250. If you look at the big picture you got it made and dodged a life changing bullit!

[Lunk1]

Not looking for sympathy man. Just honest answers if you must know ,my first response to her was ,im on my way ,we talked and scheduled the appointment ,wasn't easy... The following days she became erratic and irrational ... Screaming that the baby could of been someone else's... Then said she wanted to keep t.. So we talked again after she calmed down and she apologized for "playing games and lieing to me" financially it was hard to come up with the money pal. So i starting thinking maybe it wasn't mine..i DID tell her i would pay half at first . After she told me it possibly couldn't be mine i started to change my mind.. Eventually after being threatened and harassed and owning up to the "possibility and my word i paid." but asking here was a help as well. I never said "poor me" no sympathy card man.

I don't know her but,some of this could have been mental strain from the position she was in. I couldn't imagine making that decision. I don't stand on either side of the fence when it comes to abortion but I will gaurantee it is not an easy decision to make one way or the other. This could have had something to do with her roller coaster of emotions to you as well! Try to put yourself in her shoes...it's mentaly and physicaly different for a women going through this than it is for you!

[lovbyts]

Just pay. You fvcked her so there is a possibility it was yours. You got off cheap even if it was a hooker so either way you win. Is it worth all the drama and having to deal with her? Just be glad you arent having to pay child support while you wait for a DNA test to be done. Those arent cheap either so just pay it already.

[DSM4Life]

http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...a#.UKRAIIl5nTo

I have to be honest you said the same thing about the mother of your new born. 405 is right. Wtf man. You need to stop having sex.
You need to be a man. Not an excuse.

You def need a new hobby.

[LiL P]

Whether or not you do decide too offer financial support to thing woman i suggest you at least offer her emotional support(If it was me id do both) I had same situation with a ex gf she got pregnant and we were young, she also had a contract modeling bridal dresses at the time. I hesitantly agreed to the abortion for the sake of her furthering her career in modeling i wasn't able to be there for her cuz she left for Oz to abort but i offered all the support i could over the phone its a very traumatizing time for young women i would imagine

Do the right thing and in future be more careful for your own sake the next girl might not be so nice about the situation and it could turn sour real fast

Good Luck!

LiL P

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Geez this makes my life seems top notch and plain out "normal".

Crazy shit bro, I couldn't take this much drama.

[brahmabull117]

If she aborted already and there is no DNA evidence that it was yours then there is no way to prove any financial responsibility on your part, especially if it was her choice to abort it.

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