Dating a stripper

**Capebuffalo** · 02-08-2013, 06:02 AM

Too many issues. Whether its daddy or low self esteem or addiction. Way too many issues. Don't ask how I know. Lol

**t-dogg** · 02-08-2013, 07:29 AM

9/10 are messed up. Some really do have there shit together but thats the 1/10. In the end it comes down to what you want. I would let her buy you drinks though, dont want friend zone.

**austinite** · 02-08-2013, 07:53 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

Having the time of my life

I take it back. Worst idea ever.

**Tron3219** · 02-08-2013, 07:59 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

I take it back. Worst idea ever.

bud...u almost made me fall out of my chair laughin!!

**wh1spa** · 02-08-2013, 09:31 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

I take it back. Worst idea ever.

That didnt take long.. lol

**austinite** · 02-08-2013, 09:36 PM

Yeah. Fück that psychotic money pit.

**wh1spa** · 02-08-2013, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

Yeah. Fück that psychotic money pit.

hahaha can we have a thread with stories please austin?

**austinite** · 02-08-2013, 09:41 PM

^ maybe soon. You have no idea what I went through this past month. I don't wish that on anyone.

**wh1spa** · 02-08-2013, 09:46 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

^ maybe soon. You have no idea what I went through this past month. I don't wish that on anyone.

waiting....

**ramacher** · 02-08-2013, 10:02 PM

Ill share the stories when they come... For the mean time stay tuned!!!!

**wh1spa** · 02-08-2013, 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Ill share the stories when they come... For the mean time stay tuned!!!!

any updates on the ho from your avi?

**ramacher** · 02-08-2013, 10:28 PM

Hahaha the ho in my avatar just turned 18! Too inmature for me. I'm changing that up soon for the other girl.

**wh1spa** · 02-08-2013, 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Hahaha the ho in my avatar just turned 18! Too inmature for me. I'm changing that up soon for the other girl.

The stripper? would like to see

**MuscleInk** · 02-08-2013, 11:02 PM

My last gf was a stripper. Sex was twisted-ass crazy. Fun girl but ya, tons of baggage and shit to deal with.

**ramacher** · 02-13-2013, 03:51 AM

Originally Posted by wh1spa

The stripper? would like to see

Posted new avi. I am just going to play it out and see what happens.

**GirlyGymRat** · 02-13-2013, 04:32 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Posted new avi. I am just going to play it out and see what happens.

Posting new avi seems to be on trend.

**wh1spa** · 02-13-2013, 08:27 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Posted new avi. I am just going to play it out and see what happens.

did you beat her? Looks like she has a bruised nose..

do we need to call the cops on you ?

**cherrydrpepper** · 02-13-2013, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Just curious to how many members actually dated a stripper? I bounce at a strip club twice a week and there is a girl there that catches my eye

Just be careful she may have caught Mike Jones' eye too

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ow0JanWpG8M

**ramacher** · 03-04-2013, 07:06 AM

I think I might hold off going in there to see her. Talked to her and at the end of the day shes married, and she told me that means she is unavailable. So ill spend my time elsewhere. Unless she wants me there I see no reason to go out of my way to go see her. Maybe her marriage won't last but she said it is easier to say she will give up on it, than actually doing. I give her props to not giving up on it so quickly, but whatever it is what it is.

**m_donnelly** · 03-04-2013, 07:18 AM

Break up with her- the lap dance is better when she's crying.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-04-2013, 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

^ maybe soon. You have no idea what I went through this past month. I don't wish that on anyone.

I'm interested....

**MickeyKnox** · 03-04-2013, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

I'm interested....

wrong link.

**Knockout_Power** · 03-04-2013, 07:41 PM

Originally Posted by MickeyKnox

This is what happens when you fall in love with a stripper..with issues.

holy shite!!!... Im lucky that I will never have to deal with this. Im horrible in bed... she would have left the first night

**MickeyKnox** · 03-04-2013, 07:46 PM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

holy shite!!!... Im lucky that I will never have to deal with this. Im horrible in bed... she would have left the first night

The moral of the story is, don't get sucked in, fall in love in a couple of months, and move them in!

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-04-2013, 08:16 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Worked out with her a couple times at the gym outside of the club, trying to just ONCE get it in with her and forget about it.

Why do you want this chick so bad?
1. She strips at a club where other dudes touch her
2. She married and she hanging out with you at the gym
3. She does a line with you and peaces out like nothing.

What it looks like to me....
1. Low self esteem and she likes earning fast cash in the simplest way possible
2. She married and she chills with another dude... She has poor boundaries and is probably easily influenced
3. She could have a serious habit and is using you for that habit...

I mean idk if that's correct or not but that's what it seems like from what I read.

**lovbyts** · 03-04-2013, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

Why do you want this chick so bad?
1. She strips at a club where other dudes touch her
2. She married and she hanging out with you at the gym
3. She does a line with you and peaces out like nothing.

What it looks like to me....
1. Low self esteem and she likes earning fast cash in the simplest way possible
2. She married and she chills with another dude... She has poor boundaries and is probably easily influenced
3. She could have a serious habit and is using you for that habit...

I mean idk if that's correct or not but that's what it seems like from what I read.

You always want what you know you cant have. Some of us out grow it or at least learn to control it to some extent as we get older; I mean mature.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-04-2013, 08:35 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

You always want what you know you cant have. Some of us out grow it or at least learn to control it to some extent as we get older; I mean mature.

I understand what you're saying everyone likes a challenge from time to time because it feels rewarding when you get your prize. What I don't understand is to want something you have to see value in it... If you rationalize that situation, I see more areas of concern then value. So wouldn't that be a turn off? I mean unless you like the danger aspect but essentially you'd be setting yourself up to get hurt.

**lovbyts** · 03-04-2013, 08:45 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

I understand what you're saying everyone likes a challenge from time to time because it feels rewarding when you get your prize. What I don't understand is to want something you have to see value in it... If you rationalize that situation, I see more areas of concern then value. So wouldn't that be a turn off? I mean unless you like the danger aspect but essentially you'd be setting yourself up to get hurt.

No no no, there is no rationalization to it by any means and it has nothing to do with value. There is no logic to it if there way he/we would never think twice about it. It's another one of those things like how someone is the PERFECT match when it's a long distance relationship, computer/internet relationship or new GF/BF because it's all in your head.

I have had the temptation but have been lucky enough to not think with the little head most of the time and walk away from situations such as this where I could have gotten a lot more involved. When we are younger we also tend to like a little more exciting or challenge as you mention but more times than not the challenge turns out to be a LOT more than what we bargained for and becomes years of drama.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-04-2013, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

No no no, there is no rationalization to it by any means and it has nothing to do with value. There is no logic to it if there way he/we would never think twice about it. It's another one of those things like how someone is the PERFECT match when it's a long distance relationship, computer/internet relationship or new GF/BF because it's all in your head.

I have had the temptation but have been lucky enough to not think with the little head most of the time and walk away from situations such as this where I could have gotten a lot more involved. When we are younger we also tend to like a little more exciting or challenge as you mention but more times than not the challenge turns out to be a LOT more than what we bargained for and becomes years of drama.

That's exactly my point... Why put yourself through that when the red flags are flying high....

**lovbyts** · 03-04-2013, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

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That's exactly my point... Why put yourself through that when the red flags are flying high....

I wasn't arguing. lol

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-04-2013, 08:55 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

I wasn't arguing. lol

I know I was just emphasizing what you said.

**ramacher** · 03-05-2013, 04:22 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

You always want what you know you cant have. Some of us out grow it or at least learn to control it to some extent as we get older; I mean mature.

I think you hit it on the mark! There are tons of chicks I can go out with but it is the intrigue of working for something that is not reachable, that satisfies me.

**DSM4Life** · 03-05-2013, 06:17 AM

Is a stripper allowed to come home to you and say "Man, I had a really hard day today at work" ?

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-05-2013, 06:31 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Is a stripper allowed to come home to you and say "Man, I had a really hard day today at work" ?

This is so funnyyyyy

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-05-2013, 06:31 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

I think you hit it on the mark! There are tons of chicks I can go out with but it is the intrigue of working for something that is not reachable, that satisfies me.

There's other females in better situations that are unattainable and less of a headache

**ramacher** · 03-05-2013, 06:35 AM

If I could say no I would. I decided to take time off going there because she can't give me what I want, and she understands that because she is married. She never used me in anyway, and would always sit with me at the bar when she wasn't on stage. Time off is good, and maybe she will ask me to come back, but I am not going back unless she wants me to. That is where I am at right now.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-05-2013, 06:41 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

If I could say no I would. I decided to take time off going there because she can't give me what I want, and she understands that because she is married. She never used me in anyway, and would always sit with me at the bar when she wasn't on stage. Time off is good, and maybe she will ask me to come back, but I am not going back unless she wants me to. That is where I am at right now.

Why are you basing you decisions/actions based on her?
What if she doesn't ask you back? Does that mean she doesn't care?
What if she does? Does that mean she's interested? What if she asks you to come just b.c she likes you as a friend?

**t-dogg** · 03-05-2013, 06:45 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_z8EBgLTnA

**lovbyts** · 03-05-2013, 06:57 AM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

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Why are you basing you decisions/actions based on her?
What if she doesn't ask you back? Does that mean she doesn't care?
What if she does? Does that mean she's interested? What if she asks you to come just b.c she likes you as a friend?

Your being to logical. He just needs to take some Nolva to crush his E2 for a while and he will be able to think with the big head again and everything will become clear.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-05-2013, 07:14 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Your being to logical. He just needs to take some Nolva to crush his E2 for a while and he will be able to think with the big head again and everything will become clear.

Lol.... I guess I'm a logical person, what can I say? But I think your right