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    Incredibly insulting to her for one. And like I said, we live together, ride to work together, work in same dept, ride home together. I know where she is all the time. And the baby was conceived on valentines, I know who she was with then as well

    She doesn't drink, party, or go out with other girls. She's asleep by 9:30 every night and then we are up for work by 7.
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    Sounds like a good woman. No disrespect intended. Its not for everyone, only saying. To many people its no different than getting a marriage license

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    Sounds like a good woman. No disrespect intended. Its not for everyone, only saying. To many people its no different than getting a marriage license
    Ever hear the saying "happy not knowing"

    I think if it ever happened that my kids weren't mine, I would rather not know. I love my children unconditionally and would die for each of them because I raised them, love them and enjoy watching them grow- not because I own them. If someone said i needed to take a paternity test or furthermore if my wife said she had a slight doubt.... I'd leave her, skip the test and live every day happy not knowing because that bond should never be tampered with. I might get violent if someone tried to jeopardize my relationship with the 3 most important things in my life. Jerry springer would have to knock me out and strap me down to get DNA to prove anything involving my kids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post

    Ever hear the saying "happy not knowing"

    I think if it ever happened that my kids weren't mine, I would rather not know. I love my children unconditionally and would die for each of them because I raised them, love them and enjoy watching them grow- not because I own them. If someone said i needed to take a paternity test or furthermore if my wife said she had a slight doubt.... I'd leave her, skip the test and live every day happy not knowing because that bond should never be tampered with. I might get violent if someone tried to jeopardize my relationship with the 3 most important things in my life. Jerry springer would have to knock me out and strap me down to get DNA to prove anything involving my kids.
    Sure I understand that and its how most everyone feels especially after you have years of financial and emotional time invested but many find out due a needed medical procedure or???

    I bet you would feel different if you found out right away before all the emotional bonding and investment in time and money though.

    I'm speaking purely logic here, not emotional. Its always emotions that get us into trouble. LoL

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts

    Sure I understand that and its how most everyone feels especially after you have years of financial and emotional time invested but many find out due a needed medical procedure or???

    I bet you would feel different if you found out right away before all the emotional bonding and investment in time and money though.

    I'm speaking purely logic here, not emotional. Its always emotions that get us into trouble. LoL
    I suppose your right in some ways, but something I wish never to experience or any other person

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    Logically speaking, could she have slept with someone else during our relationship? Yes. But there is no physical way anyone is the dad but me unless it happened in middle of night next to me in bed and I didn't wake up lol

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    BTW you guys should know me by now and realize it's my job to play devils advocate and stir things up a little bit around here. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588
    Logically speaking, could she have slept with someone else during our relationship? Yes. But there is no physical way anyone is the dad but me unless it happened in middle of night next to me in bed and I didn't wake up lol
    Perfectly plausible.... Place a rag of chloroform over your face, do the doo- and after a safe time has passed, remove the rag. Soooo simple

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    Perfectly plausible.... Place a rag of chloroform over your face, do the doo- and after a safe time has passed, remove the rag. Soooo simple
    NO, No, no, chloroform is to hard to get and leaves you with a bad headache. Like I have been saying for a long time on here, Ambien. You are a willing participant and dont even remember anything the next day.

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    Congrats take care of your wife a lot lol

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    I hope those 30 seconds enjoyment worth becoming a dad.
    Joking bro just be a responsible father, never bkame the kid for what u think is not plan. Just remember there are no mistakes, mistakes make us who we are today.

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    Its all good, no hard feelings towards the kid Haha

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    Proposed today at ruths chris down in savannah! I cried like a little girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588
    Proposed today at ruths chris down in savannah! I cried like a little girl.
    Ruth's Chris?....sweet, u classed it up! Congrats!!

    -Rip

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    Yeah. At wet willies now getting my shock treatment on

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Yeah. At wet willies now getting my shock treatment on
    Congrats buddy...happy for you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Proposed today at ruths chris down in savannah! I cried like a little girl.
    good to hear man....now was it somethin u finally decided to do or was it because of her mom pressing the issue? either way congrats

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    Well I've thought about proposing before, but this was just sooner than expected. Wouldn't change a thing

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    Congrats man.

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    Everything still good so far. Although wedding planning and overtime at work has stolen all of my gym time. Been 3 times in 2 weeks

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Everything still good so far. Although wedding planning and overtime at work has stolen all of my gym time. Been 3 times in 2 weeks
    You need to get your priorities straight.

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    Sorry but my pregnant fiancee takes precedence over the gym.

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588
    Sorry but my pregnant fiancee takes precedence over the gym.
    Wait till the baby gets here...

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    Yeah I already know. Time to build a gym at home if I ever plan to workout

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588
    Yeah I already know. Time to build a gym at home
    Ha! Home workouts can suffice sometimes. Good luck!

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    Just give me a deadlift bar and like 16 plates. I'll make it work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Sorry but my pregnant fiancee takes precedence over the gym.
    Your gym life is over then because there will always be something more important. Home gyms done work 90% of the time and become clothes racks or just taking up space. If you want to train you will find time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts

    Your gym life is over then because there will always be something more important. Home gyms done work 90% of the time and become clothes racks or just taking up space. If you want to train you will find time.
    I agree, you'll find a way to make it happen.

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    Too many records to break. Can't quit yet. Just will have to adjust my schedule. Or work less. 11hr days are rough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Too many records to break. Can't quit yet. Just will have to adjust my schedule. Or work less. 11hr days are rough.
    11 hr days? hahaha I work 12-14hr days and next month scheduled to work 26 out of 30 days, 1/2 of them 14hr days.

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    I feel like death without 8hrs of sleep. Dunno how ppl do it with 4 or 5

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    It most defiantly takes away from the quality of life. I have not gotten more than 8hrs of sleep more than 1x or 2 at the most per month and never uninterrupted. I typically get 4-5hrs sleep a night and at least 1x a month I'm up for well over 24hrs and many times over 48hrs straight. To make it worse I work nights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    It most defiantly takes away from the quality of life. I have not gotten more than 8hrs of sleep more than 1x or 2 at the most per month and never uninterrupted. I typically get 4-5hrs sleep a night and at least 1x a month I'm up for well over 24hrs and many times over 48hrs straight. To make it worse I work nights.
    Sounds like me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    It most defiantly takes away from the quality of life. I have not gotten more than 8hrs of sleep more than 1x or 2 at the most per month and never uninterrupted. I typically get 4-5hrs sleep a night and at least 1x a month I'm up for well over 24hrs and many times over 48hrs straight. To make it worse I work nights.
    Quit whining lovbyts lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post

    Quit whining lovbyts lol
    where have u been????

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    Just saying. Even though we don't like to stop, modify, slow or whatever with our bodybuilding life, it will be there when we get back to it. I did it while traveling in the 80's. Found a gym in every city even late at night. Three kids and 25 yrs. off (you all know) and what now. It is still alive within me. Picked up dumbbells at home and back to the gym in two months. It will be a way of life never to leave you if you do not want to let it go. Keep the spirit alive within you. be cool, love the babies, love your spouse / gf as you love yourself. crazy mike

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    Quote Originally Posted by cancer82

    where have u been????
    Took a little while off the site did i miss anything??

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post

    Took a little while off the site did i miss anything??
    possibly im sure....I havent really ventured out of my subbed threads though

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    Wedding in 2 days. Crazy how fast it happened. Everything good and healthy so far with the baby

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    Quote Originally Posted by patrick4588 View Post
    Wedding in 2 days. Crazy how fast it happened. Everything good and healthy so far with the baby
    Glad to hear that bro. btw have a nice one !!

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