welp, my girls pregnant

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 09:55 AM

Completely unplanned, neither of us wanted kids. I've been on a blast and cruise since april 2012. Just hope for a healthy kid at this point

**The Bear 79** · 03-20-2013, 09:56 AM

So what exactly do you want help with...........or "welp" as you put it...........

**Fllifter** · 03-20-2013, 09:56 AM

It happens even while on gear.. Congrats !

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 09:57 AM

Originally Posted by The Bear 79

So what exactly do you want help with...........or "welp" as you put it...........

Wasnt asking for help. That was meant to be "well". Just talking about it I guess.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-20-2013, 09:57 AM

Congrats lol enjoy the ride

**reiss c** · 03-20-2013, 09:59 AM

Well done man hope all goes well for u

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-20-2013, 10:07 AM

Congrats!!!

**Capebuffalo** · 03-20-2013, 10:00 AM

Kids are great Congratulations Luck bastard took me 6 months to get my shit straight after cycle

**gbrice75** · 03-20-2013, 10:07 AM

Planned or not, you'll soon find out it's the greatest thing that could ever happen to you. You don't sound too happy tbh, but I hope you change your tune (assuming I'm correct) as we're DYING for another kid ASAP and I'd love to have been the one starting this thread...

**Capebuffalo** · 03-20-2013, 10:11 AM

When you see the first ultra sound Fvck I cried (happy)

**steroid.com 1** · 03-21-2013, 04:35 PM

Originally Posted by Capebuffalo

When you see the first ultra sound Fvck I cried (happy)

Me too...a moment in time I'll never forget.

**Gaspaco** · 03-20-2013, 10:12 AM

Remember your slin HGH thread where you said that both of you are fine with not having kids.

Thats life bro, better soon than never!

**Lil-mac** · 03-20-2013, 10:17 AM

Kids are amazing. Once you hold that thing you helped bring into this world all things change. I would do anything for my kids.

**Capebuffalo** · 03-20-2013, 10:27 AM

my son is two and when he hits a double bi pose and goes grrrr Proud daddy
Or I say what does a deer say and he grunts twice
Or he blows my duck and goose calls I could go on forever

**gbrice75** · 03-20-2013, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by Capebuffalo

my son is two and when he hits a double bi pose and goes grrrr Proud daddy
Or I say what does a deer say and he grunts twice
Or he blows my duck and goose calls I could go on forever

So true. Before I had a kid and would hear people 'brag' about how their kids can do this and that (i.e. 'ordinary' things), i'd be like 'so what'!?! Big deal!!!

You truly can't understand how amazing that stuff really is until you're a parent. And this isn't me being a hypocrite, it's self-growth.

**Papa Smurf** · 03-20-2013, 10:42 AM

Congrats Bro!!! You now responsible for another person having a chance at life...............what a great gift God has given you both..............

FYI............if at all possible...........do your best not to drop it on its little head............that whole "babies bounce", is just a myth......

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 10:56 AM

Originally Posted by Papa Smurf

Congrats Bro!!! You now responsible for another person having a chance at life...............what a great gift God has given you both..............

FYI............if at all possible...........do your best not to drop it on its little head............that whole "babies bounce", is just a myth......

Haha. My mom had kids when I was a teen so I was around babies a lot. Ill be fine. Just more in shock

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-20-2013, 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Haha. My mom had kids when I was a teen so I was around babies a lot. Ill be fine. Just more in shock

I hope all goes well... I think it's great. Kids are so adorable... Well most are. Lol it's cool you'll have a mini you around.

**S&S_ShovelHead** · 03-20-2013, 11:09 AM

Might be in a similar situation. Was on a heavy cycle but started hitting the hcg hard at the end forgetting what it does to your love juice. She's a week and a half late at the moment.

Good luck with your sutuation though, hope everything goes well.

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

I hope all goes well... I think it's great. Kids are so adorable... Well most are. Lol it's cool you'll have a mini you around.

Just changes everything for me. Wont be able to just go do things anymore

**gbrice75** · 03-20-2013, 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Just changes everything for me. Wont be able to just go do things anymore

True, but there's nothing in life more worth sacrificing for, IMO. You'll have a new priority in life.

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 11:38 AM

Guess my hcg is legit. Haha

**gbrice75** · 03-20-2013, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Guess my hcg is legit. Haha

@ $175/10mL, legit pharma, mine sure as fck better be not only legit... but POTENT!!!

**Lunk1** · 03-20-2013, 12:08 PM

First) congrats buddy!
Second) Ebrace it and realize that this is the greatest thing that will ever happen in your life ...EVER!
Third) You can still do everything. Babysitters, daycare, family! Never let go of life because of children, include them and enjoy all of the new adventures!

**FONZY007** · 03-21-2013, 06:07 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

First) congrats buddy!
Second) Ebrace it and realize that this is the greatest thing that will ever happen in your life ...EVER!
Third) You can still do everything. Babysitters, daycare, family! Never let go of life because of children, include them and enjoy all of the new adventures!

Great advice, I have 4... That's whats started me to not go to the gym 3 are under the age 7 and my oldest is 11

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by gbrice75

@ $175/10mL, legit pharma, mine sure as fck better be not only legit... but POTENT!!!

Whoa buddy. We don't talk prices. Read the rules. Gosh. Lol

**Capebuffalo** · 03-20-2013, 01:10 PM

Time to make an honest woman of her brother

**RipOwens** · 03-20-2013, 01:13 PM

Congrats fella!! My son is just 9 weeks old and a wild ride indeed. Without question, greatest thing that ever happened to me. Good luck!

**OnTheSauce** · 03-20-2013, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by Capebuffalo

Time to make an honest woman of her brother

Her parents will push hard for that. Which I guess i figured it would happen, just not this soon.

**HitIt** · 03-20-2013, 02:43 PM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

welp, my girls pregnant

haha!!

jk bro

**OnTheSauce** · 03-21-2013, 08:28 AM

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

**panntastic** · 03-21-2013, 08:32 AM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

Just nod say yes and prepare to admit you were wrong all the time lol

**krugerr** · 03-21-2013, 08:36 AM

Originally Posted by panntastic

Just nod say yes and prepare to admit you were wrong all the time lol

This too, prepare for a very intolerant mrs! It'll be like someone has injected her with Bears weekly dose. Rage, tears, more rage. Everything is your fault.

**RipOwens** · 03-21-2013, 03:14 PM

Originally Posted by panntastic

Just nod say yes and prepare to admit you were wrong all the time lol

^^Yup. And there's just no way to prepare for the birthing process. Take those Lamaze classes! Ha! That shit goes out the window in 5 minutes.

**RajaSultan** · 03-27-2013, 11:30 AM

name it "little hercules" pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

**XstabberX** · 03-27-2013, 09:04 PM

Congratulations

**krugerr** · 03-21-2013, 08:34 AM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

Sleep deprivation.

You'll be up often doing feeds. Take advantage of this and plans bulk, then you have a free alarm clock that'll remind you to eat during the night!

My son is almost 2, honestly the first 9 months fly past without too much happening. Once they start walking/talking they really get a personality!

**Capebuffalo** · 03-21-2013, 08:46 AM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

10 months its actually 10 I didnt know that either 40 weeks
Enjoy it She will be changing Be patient and loving. Hope she doesn't get morning sickness. Wait till you feel and see the baby move. Awesome
Enjoy it

**songdog** · 03-21-2013, 06:04 PM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

Me personally I cant handle being around pregant women.They just make me nervous.Plus my xwife was a real pain in the butt.Say good bye to your free time.But its worth it nothing like watching your kid learn how to do things.Congrats!!!!

**>Good Luck<** · 03-21-2013, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by patrick4588

Any tips from the other dads on here? Not so much as far as the kid, but what to expect over the next 9 months

Honestly dude, my experience is that every pregancy is unique and you have to roll with the punches. She may be a dream girl prego, and she may be a royal .... You know what. But it's important to remember how much you love her, and it was you who planted that seed which may make her seem a little crazy at times. It's an emotional and hormonal roller-coaster and she need you to be there for her through it all. The good, the bad and the ugly. When my wife was at her worst I would remind her I love her and ask what I could do to make her feel any better. Often she would yell and say I'm stupid and can't make her feel better because there is a human inside her and she can feel a heel in her side and a head in her ribs because the baby is stretching, and moving and if I had half a brain I would know there was nothing I could do to help.... I would then remind her I love her, the baby and can't wait to meet the little fart.. Maybe even f off for a bit to let her calm down and go buy her a little ice-cream or chocolate lol.

My point is, just support her and get through the hard parts. Remind her of the good things, and know that once baby is born, it still may be a while before things go back to normal. Be aware of postpartum depression and educate your self for the life you will now be living. It's all worth it, IMHO