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    Its been 7 months since we broke up and I cant stop thinking about her everyday or cant help myseld from checking her Facebook profile everyday seeing how shes all in love with this new guy

    I feel bad and angry at times...
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    In the words of our member, Lovbyts, the best way to get over one girl is to get under another.

    I'm guessing you're young. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll find someone. It may not seem like it but that's because you are focusing on what you don't have instead of what you could have.

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    Sleep with her mom,sister,best friend,friend or all her friends, make her hate you and you will return the hate.

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    still like my idea- get a hot chick she don't know show up to a spot where u know she will be at and rub it in her face
    I know it suxs but hang with your friends as much as possible get ur mind over it- your lucky it did not last longer and you proposed and she made off with diamond I had that happen thousand down drain bitcch would not give ring back

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    its normal, but its time to move on. get someone else.

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    your not going to get over her if you checking her facebook, you need to try and keep yourself occupied with other things
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    your not going to get over her if you checking her facebook, you need to try and keep yourself occupied with other things
    this

    you need to find something to keep your mind occupied, eventually you will turn around and think shit i havnt thought about her in ages

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    I can tell you from experience, you can ask and research methods to get over her all day long. Unless you find a way to rid your mind of her, only time will heal. I was stuck on my ex-wife for a decade. Couldn't take any other broad seriously because I kept comparing everyone to her. Trying to find qualities that she had in other broads.

    I actually rekindled with her after a decade. Worst and best thing that ever happened. I was the happiest man alive for those few months. Cost me a ton of money but I also got closure and was finally able to get over her. She's just not for me. No more "What Ifs".
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    It's been a long time to still be stressing over this. Get on pof and start meeting women. Don' t go for the hot ones. Go for ones you know you can get, the sure things. They will be out to please. When I was single, I like to go for the low hanging fruit, so to speak.

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    Should I delete her off Facebook?
    I dont know why we even friends on it I thought she would have unfriended me
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    Quote Originally Posted by powerlifter198 View Post
    Should I delete her off Facebook?
    I dont know why we even friends on it I thought she would have unfriended me
    yes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by powerlifter198 View Post
    Should I delete her off Facebook?
    I dont know why we even friends on it I thought she would have unfriended me
    yes you should. she hasnt cause she moved on it it doesnt matter to her. Your occupying your tine with it
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    Become emotionally cold and don't allow your self to feel pain. Live for your self don't allow others to dictate your life and make you feel helpless

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post

    yes you should. she hasnt cause she moved on it it doesnt matter to her. Your occupying your tine with it
    So u dont think she wants to check up on me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    In the words of our member, Lovbyts, the best way to get over one girl is to get under another.

    I'm guessing you're young. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll find someone. It may not seem like it but that's because you are focusing on what you don't have instead of what you could have.
    thank you brother.

    You also always want most what you can't have or lost. I still think about one who got away 6 years ago and one who got away 30 years ago a lot.

    If you didn't hurt sometimes you couldn't love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by powerlifter198 View Post
    So u dont think she wants to check up on me?
    if she has another guy im sure its not a major concern. Its hard to say with out knowing exactly, dont know you or her and why you arent together. But it really doesnt matter. You arent together you shouldnt care if she wants to or not,.
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    Quote Originally Posted by powerlifter198 View Post
    Its been 7 months since we broke up and I cant stop thinking about her everyday or cant help myself from checking her Facebook profile everyday seeing how shes all in love with this new guy

    I feel bad and angry at times...
    With all due respect, that sounds like stalking.... love hurts... man up and move on...
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    Sounds to me like she is "the one". I would increase my pursuit with an energized vigor. Go full on John Cusack on her (80's movie reference for all you kiddos).

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    I can tell you from experience, you can ask and research methods to get over her all day long. Unless you find a way to rid your mind of her, only time will heal. I was stuck on my ex-wife for a decade. Couldn't take any other broad seriously because I kept comparing everyone to her. Trying to find qualities that she had in other broads.

    I actually rekindled with her after a decade. Worst and best thing that ever happened. I was the happiest man alive for those few months. Cost me a ton of money but I also got closure and was finally able to get over her. She's just not for me. No more "What Ifs".
    You just described me at the mo loada balls

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    Op-why did you two break up originally?

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    Dude, just go to an asian massage parlor and bring money. You'll feel better.
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    By getting another one..

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    Best way to get even is to bang the guy she is now dating. Take a pic of you two in bed and put it in her face book. Everyone will think she turns you guys gay and stay away from her...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shol'va View Post
    Best way to get even is to bang the guy she is now dating. Take a pic of you two in bed and put it in her face book. Everyone will think she turns you guys gay and stay away from her...
    Been there done that lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shol'va View Post
    Best way to get even is to bang the guy she is now dating. Take a pic of you two in bed and put it in her face book. Everyone will think she turns you guys gay and stay away from her...
    Strong profile pic to post correlation

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    i went threw the same thing when i got dumped by my first year long relationship, it was the most brutal thing ive ever gone threw, gave up on everything didnt wanna do anything, i practically stalked her for a month

    her super crazy obsessed ex boyfriend befriended me soon after the break up it became clear to me i didnt wanna end up like him i needed out...

    so i created an account on this website called myyearbook ( now called meetme) made a list of every type of girl i wanted to bang, found her and nailed her, as well as slept with everyone of her best friends, her mom, her brothers gf, every girl she hated. oh and i took pics of every girl to remind me she wasnt the only girl on the block.
    took me nothing short of 2 years to get over her every single day thought of her nearly every minute

    it was only after going to college, starting working out and looking into the future i realized she wasnt all that important in the long run thats probably what got me over her the best

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    My girlfriend broke up with me after 2 years and I was madly in love with her and tried everything to get her back. I said the hell with it after 4 months and started dating other women and my 0 contact with the ex.1 month later it drove her nuts and she came running back. We have been married 13 years now and it is still awesome.
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    start banging everything including your pets. do not watch people doing it on the internet or masterbate whatsoever. you will get so amped after a while and will snap out of your bitch shell and go try to conquer the world.
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    how do you guys find time to have a relationship ? i train 7 days a week with am/pm splits. with a 3hour nap every day and 9 hours of sleep at night.

    blowing your load makes your testosterone serum levels go down and ruins gains. hardly worth it for 2 mins of back breaking work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mockery
    how do you guys find time to have a relationship ? i train 7 days a week with am/pm splits. with a 3hour nap every day and 9 hours of sleep at night.

    blowing your load makes your testosterone serum levels go down and ruins gains. hardly worth it for 2 mins of back breaking work.
    Sex is my cardio, and unless you're blowing your wad 5 or 6 times a day, 7 days a week, no recreational user will notice a big shift away from gains.

    ......and as we all know, nutrition, nutrition, nutrition! Anyone who claims sex is reducing their gains is obviously burning more calories than they are consuming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post

    Sex is my cardio, and unless you're blowing your wad 5 or 6 times a day, 7 days a week, no recreational user will notice a big shift away from gains.

    ......and as we all know, nutrition, nutrition, nutrition! Anyone who claims sex is reducing their gains is obviously burning more calories than they are consuming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    Sex is my cardio, and unless you're blowing your wad 5 or 6 times a day, 7 days a week, no recreational user will notice a big shift away from gains.

    ......and as we all know, nutrition, nutrition, nutrition! Anyone who claims sex is reducing their gains is obviously burning more calories than they are consuming.
    i keep getting cracks on the side of my shaker cup lids, this is far worse then the OP problem, i think i will make a thread about this.

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    You sound very much like how I used to be. You probably made every effort in your power to get her back and fed her every line/bought her every flower/apologized a thousand times, and it seemed like the right thing to do, but it ISN'T.

    Women do not think like we do. Want to get her back? Stop caring or at least don't show her that you care. Don't call her. Don't facebook her. Don't text her. If you run into her, smile, be very friendly and act like everything is fine.......


    You'd be surprised how well this works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Euroholic View Post
    Become emotionally cold and don't allow your self to feel pain. Live for your self don't allow others to dictate your life and make you feel helpless
    Ummmm... That's straight out of the sociopaths playbook.

    He's kidding. Don't take that road buddy. Get off her facebook, get involved with real life and get a new gf. you'll forget all about your ex.

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    sry man. im on month 5. think about her everyday. but ive blocked all communications with her. havent said one word. time heals, but its takes it sweet time. Crazy 10 years though Austin! Maybe my mistake is I compare girls to her. Nothing compares, so Ishould just learn to like something else

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    just go on plenty of fish and meet multiple girls to bang and maybe find love.

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    If your still in her life in some way that's going to lengthen the process of the healing the pain of the break-up. You also need to focus on why you broke up rather than the good time which is a common protocol we humans do when we break up. There are ways you can control these thoughts and help you get over the pain but its rather in-depth for a single post.

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