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    I'm no redz but...

    I've got 2 scenarios.

    #1) my wife's friend has just recently let me know that she wants to hang out just the 2 of us.

    #2) today at the gym this sexy chic with a gym body slipped her number into my bag.

    one knows im married the other is just a random that started working out in the early a.m. same time I do.

    whats the propper way of handling each without having awkwardness follow.

    If I only had a hall pass, damn!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2iron
    I've got 2 scenarios. #1) my wife's friend has just recently let me know that she wants to hang out just the 2 of us. #2) today at the gym this sexy chic with a gym body slipped her number into my bag. one knows im married the other is just a random that started working out in the early a.m. same time I do. whats the propper way of handling each without having awkwardness follow. If I only had a hall pass, damn!
    Why don't you just say that you are flattered but your wife wouldn't take kindly....

    Simple plus you let them down easy so not awkward later!

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    3somes are fun. After our first time wife went crazy for a few days thinking I was w the other girl. So if you haven't done it before be careful. Chicks go crazy. Oh a small tip. Try to let them play for a while 1st. Make it more about them. And throw the number out. Don't shît where you workout lol

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    The wife's friend could be a set up lol
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    Yeah the girl from the gym is flattering because she hot and we dont know each other's relationship status. Thats simple harmless. My wife hot by the way. Genetic freak its annoying.

    The strange one is her scandlous " friend" she knows we are married and good. She knows its all wrong. I met her at our Halloween party last year. I thought sh3 was scared of me until 3 weeks ago at her huby grad party. She was little tipsy and was all over me. When we leaving my wife hit the restroom and thats when she filled me in on her thoughts.

    I shrugged it off to the alcohol. We just did a bday yesterday and she was at it again to the point when we left my wife brought it up of her friend wanting a piece.

    Now as a woman girly how would you want your guy to handle that. Infirm you your friend is not a friend. , just be quietand faifaithful. Im on the later plan right now but I feel that might not be the best plan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Johnz4 View Post
    3somes are fun. After our first time wife went crazy for a few days thinking I was w the other girl. So if you haven't done it before be careful. Chicks go crazy. Oh a small tip. Try to let them play for a while 1st. Make it more about them. And throw the number out. Don't shît where you workout lol
    3some definitely out for me. Thats how I feel. Like my gym earl am

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    The wife's friend could be a set up lol
    x2...man how much would that suck????

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    Quote Originally Posted by Johnz4
    3somes are fun. After our first time wife went crazy for a few days thinking I was w the other girl. So if you haven't done it before be careful. Chicks go crazy. Oh a small tip. Try to let them play for a while 1st. Make it more about them. And throw the number out. Don't shît where you workout lol
    X2 on don't shit were you eat^^

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    So now in the world of women is me not cheating but saying nothing good enough? Damn that some bs. I can see the whole yeah but you didn't tell blah blah.

    I dont think its a set up but now im thinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2iron View Post
    Yeah the girl from the gym is flattering because she hot and we dont know each other's relationship status. Thats simple harmless. My wife hot by the way. Genetic freak its annoying.

    The strange one is her scandlous " friend" she knows we are married and good. She knows its all wrong. I met her at our Halloween party last year. I thought sh3 was scared of me until 3 weeks ago at her huby grad party. She was little tipsy and was all over me. When we leaving my wife hit the restroom and thats when she filled me in on her thoughts.

    I shrugged it off to the alcohol. We just did a bday yesterday and she was at it again to the point when we left my wife brought it up of her friend wanting a piece.

    Now as a woman girly how would you want your guy to handle that. Infirm you your friend is not a friend. , just be quietand faifaithful. Im on the later plan right now but I feel that might not be the best plan.
    We're going to need pictures before we can give you some real honest advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong View Post
    We're going to need pictures before we can give you some real honest advice.
    Halloween pics would probably suffice, you think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat View Post
    Why don't you just say that you are flattered but your wife wouldn't take kindly....

    Simple plus you let them down easy so not awkward later!
    Since it is a friend I would either tell her outright no and the friendship is over as far as it was before or play more dumb. Dont say you are flattered or anything that makes it obvious you know her intentions and just say you can't because it might look bad.

    Its very possible your wife set you up also to see how you will react. Consider saying something to her about the friend. Ask if she thinks its weird or if you misunderstood.

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    Tell your wife about the friend. You'll never see the friend again (so temptation is removed), and you'll earn major points with your wife.
    If you let it slide, this will probably spiral into a huge headache (possibly including divorce).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bonaparte View Post
    Tell your wife about the friend. You'll never see the friend again (so temptation is removed), and you'll earn major points with your wife.
    If you let it slide, this will probably spiral into a huge headache (possibly including divorce).
    Agreed. Some way some how....Ur wife will find out that she did this. Maybe at another event or outing. That friend might have little. More to drink and won't be as discreet as she has been.

    I would wanna know if tables were turned.

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    Don't listen to these guys. Get with the broad from the gym first. That one is guaranteed. Then go after the wife's friend. If that fails, you still win, because you are no longer obligated to a marriage, which is for suckers. And you still have the broad at the gym.

    Hooray for boobies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2iron View Post
    I've got 2 scenarios.

    #1) my wife's friend has just recently let me know that she wants to hang out just the 2 of us.

    #2) today at the gym this sexy chic with a gym body slipped her number into my bag.

    one knows im married the other is just a random that started working out in the early a.m. same time I do.

    whats the propper way of handling each without having awkwardness follow.

    If I only had a hall pass, damn!


    see, Redz wouldn't have asked us what to do ahead of time. Instead, he would have told us that he already had banged em all in Tahiti while sipping Pina Colidas and getting his toe nails painted pink.

    Damn dude....

    ......time to man the fvck up!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    see, Redz wouldn't have asked us what to do ahead of time. Instead, he would have told us that he already had banged em all in Tahiti while sipping Pina Colidas and getting his toe nails painted pink.

    Damn dude....

    ......time to man the fvck up!
    And that he married one, and is engaged to another.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thisAngelBites
    And that he married one, and is engaged to another.
    I am thinking redz thinks he wants to marry the one he's isn't propose to.

    Redz must have a charm to have women, many women, throw themselves at him. Maybe his internet persona is less favorable??

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    So many "pearls of wisdom" in this thread.....
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    I will decide to man down and roll with some old school advice Ive heard dealt out by grandpa. "Dont rock the boat" and "it's cheaper to keep her"

    Im not saying shit just roll with it. Let it all play out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2iron
    I will decide to man down and roll with some old school advice Ive heard dealt out by grandpa. "Dont rock the boat" and "it's cheaper to keep her" Im not saying shit just roll with it. Let it all play out.
    I would highly suggest tell wifey about the best thread. These things can get turned around....besides she's really not a friend IMHo.

    The random chic isn't worth mentioning IMO. I would choose the other first but don't bring up both. That would make it seem like you r on the take and there's no upside!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    So many "pearls of wisdom" in this thread.....
    Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat View Post
    I would highly suggest tell wifey about the best thread. These things can get turned around....besides she's really not a friend IMHo.

    The random chic isn't worth mentioning IMO. I would choose the other first but don't bring up both. That would make it seem like you r on the take and there's no upside!
    I feel like that somewhat but then I think why cause the drama. I know Id never step out on my wife, or my kids. Lots of trust im relationship. Just funny how scandalous girls really are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2iron
    I feel like that somewhat but then I think why cause the drama. I know Id never step out on my wife, or my kids. Lots of trust im relationship. Just funny how scandalous girls really are.
    I highly suggest u discuss with wife. This OP is posing as a friend and that's just not cool. Your wife will appreciate it. Trust me on this.

    The chic at the gym is just your private fantasy/ego trip. Nothing more.

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    I'd nail em both.

    But then again, since I lowered my trt, I've been wanting to nail everything.

    It's going to get me in trouble.

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    Man, who would be dumb enough to bang their wives friend? Do you know how unstable that girl is if she is trying to bang her friends husband. That chick will break up your marriage in less then 6 months. If you are dumb enough to cheat get a high end escort or a porn star. No strings.

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    Who would post this?

    Srsly


    I cheated on my woman for years. Only one person knew - me. After a while one of my closest friend's did also. No other living soul. . . . I was taking that shit to the grave. Until one day by some act of randomness my woman found it all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rwy
    Man, who would be dumb enough to bang their wives friend? Do you know how unstable that girl is if she is trying to bang her friends husband. That chick will break up your marriage in less then 6 months. If you are dumb enough to cheat get a high end escort or a porn star. No strings.
    lol this is as good as it gets. This girl will **** you and your life real quick. Possibly consider the gym girl. If you bang your wife's friend enjoy the full blown self induced anxiety which will come probably 5 seconds after you blow your load. Ultimately don't be a retard tell your cock to shut up and go pork your wife

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    Who would post this?

    Srsly


    I cheated on my woman for years. Only one person knew - me.
    I knew.
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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> >
    Who would post this? Srsly I cheated on my woman for years. Only one person knew - me. After a while one of my closest friend's did also. No other living soul. . . . I was taking that shit to the grave. Until one day by some act of randomness my woman found it all.
    Wrong. At least 2 ppl knew. You and the op you were cheating with. The wife/gf will find out eventually it seems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat
    Wrong. At least 2 ppl knew. You and the op you were cheating with. The wife/gf will find out eventually it seems.

    Oh yeah, I guess it was meant to happen. How, I can't quite explain - But, shit between us now is better than ever.

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