How to get wife to go to a strip club?

**PistolPete33** · 11-02-2014, 08:24 AM

The wife and I are going away next weekend and i'm trying to get her to go to a stripclub. She's not a prude by any stretch and we have an awesome sex life (most of the time). However, for some reason she just won't do the strip club thing. I almost had her willing to go in April but this time I want to get her to go. Thought about trying to get her somewhat drunk, but she doesn't really drink so that won't happen. She was open to the idea of bringing a stripper back to the room when we were in Vegas but then she found out they were mostly prostititues so that blew that idea.

Any proven tactics that may work to get her to go???

**lovbyts** · 11-02-2014, 08:40 AM

Dont. If its not her idea then it will never end well.

Even if you think it didn't bother her in some way eventually you will find out it did and it will be a problem even if you dont know it.

**PistolPete33** · 11-02-2014, 09:05 AM

You're prob. right.

**diesel101** · 11-02-2014, 09:25 AM

Sleeping pills always work

**GirlyGymRat** · 11-02-2014, 09:35 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Dont. If its not her idea then it will never end well. Even if you think it didn't bother her in some way eventually you will find out it did and it will be a problem even if you dont know it.

Good advice. That won't end well!!!!

**ghettoboyd** · 11-02-2014, 09:52 AM

think about it man, would you go to a bar that was all male strippers for her?...how would you feel about seeing your wife get all hot and heavy over a dude that surpasses what you have to offer?...just saying...

**PistolPete33** · 11-02-2014, 10:27 AM

I only wanted to bring her so SHE could get lapdances and get all hott and bothered. I see that side and I won't push it. Just thought it would be fun.

**ghettoboyd** · 11-02-2014, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

I only wanted to bring her so SHE could get lapdances and get all hott and bothered. I see that side and I won't push it. Just thought it would be fun.

ohh I get it, I wasn't seeing it from THAT perspective, my bad brother lol...

**zempey** · 11-02-2014, 11:01 AM

Extacy, that should get her into the mood. But seriously, if she isn't into it, then I wouldn't push it.

**jesse4466** · 11-02-2014, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

The wife and I are going away next weekend and i'm trying to get her to go to a stripclub. She's not a prude by any stretch and we have an awesome sex life (most of the time). However, for some reason she just won't do the strip club thing. I almost had her willing to go in April but this time I want to get her to go. Thought about trying to get her somewhat drunk, but she doesn't really drink so that won't happen. She was open to the idea of bringing a stripper back to the room when we were in Vegas but then she found out they were mostly prostititues so that blew that idea. Any proven tactics that may work to get her to go???

Typically the Vegas prostitutes are prudes, more like business women. $250 gets you in the door only. Then you negotiate a price for what you want which is several hundred more minimum. I think if you didn't want sex and only dancing it wouldn't have been be an issue. Most strippers prefer to strip not have sex. But I guess if there is a preconceived feeling about it, I'm sure it killed the idea...

But if she was open to the idea of bringing a stripper back home initially, I would think she would be ok with going to a strip club.

Just present the idea as a regular club with music and dancers.. Get a decent table on the floor. It is actually a fun time when your with friends and even girlfriends and friends that are girls..

Def not how they used to be where it's all a bunch of old men. Now a days even groups of girls go to party at strip clubs.

**Deal Me In** · 11-02-2014, 11:43 AM

Originally Posted by jesse4466

Typically the Vegas prostitutes are prudes, more like business women. $250 gets you in the door only. Then you negotiate a price for what you want which is several hundred more minimum. I think if you didn't want sex and only dancing it wouldn't have been be an issue. Most strippers prefer to strip not have sex. But I guess if there is a preconceived feeling about it, I'm sure it killed the idea...

But if she was open to the idea of bringing a stripper back home initially, I would think she would be ok with going to a strip club.

Just present the idea as a regular club with music and dancers.. Get a decent table on the floor. It is actually a fun time when your with friends and even girlfriends and friends that are girls..

Def not how they used to be where it's all a bunch of old men. Now a days even groups of girls go to party at strip clubs.

Yeah, this is a strange phenomenon in my opinion. Where we used to live the strip club was just the place to hang out. It was like any other club. My wife and I were there all the time. We never got lap dances we just hung out with friends and there happened to be naked women around. It was weird at first but after a few times it was just where we went after work.

**GirlyGymRat** · 11-02-2014, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

I only wanted to bring her so SHE could get lapdances and get all hott and bothered. I see that side and I won't push it. Just thought it would be fun.

It's your fantasy not the wife!

**Hazard** · 11-02-2014, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Dont. If its not her idea then it will never end well.

Even if you think it didn't bother her in some way eventually you will find out it did and it will be a problem even if you dont know it.

Great advice right here

**davidtheman100** · 11-02-2014, 01:16 PM

Go for it

**< <Samson> >** · 11-02-2014, 03:25 PM

Got my current woman to go - my idea, not her's

Oh geez - the worst < never again

If they're not into it, it's a bad idea

**Mp859** · 11-02-2014, 03:46 PM

The point of the strip club is to enjoy the other woman's company. Leave her at home.

**Iceberg** · 11-02-2014, 04:00 PM

My wife loves getting lap dances. Idk how to get her to go. If she's not into it don't force it. Maybe just say if u ever want to go one night just let u know and leave it at that. Make it her call to go.

**< <Samson> >** · 11-02-2014, 04:14 PM

Originally Posted by Mp859

The point of the strip club is to enjoy the other woman's company. Leave her at home.

Some women also like other women's company

**Hoggage_54** · 11-02-2014, 04:59 PM

You should divorce her and find another woman, one who will go with you to the strip club.

**GirlyGymRat** · 11-02-2014, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

You should divorce her and find another woman, one who will go with you to the strip club.

Stop. Your terrible.

**< <Samson> >** · 11-02-2014, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

You should divorce her and find another woman, one who will go with you to the strip club.

Son of a bitch - I went backwards!

**marcus300** · 11-02-2014, 07:14 PM

Your wife is precious don't bring anyone else into it IMHO unless she is willing and wants to and even then i'd think twice about it.

**Times Roman** · 11-02-2014, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

The wife and I are going away next weekend and i'm trying to get her to go to a stripclub. She's not a prude by any stretch and we have an awesome sex life (most of the time). However, for some reason she just won't do the strip club thing. I almost had her willing to go in April but this time I want to get her to go. Thought about trying to get her somewhat drunk, but she doesn't really drink so that won't happen. She was open to the idea of bringing a stripper back to the room when we were in Vegas but then she found out they were mostly prostititues so that blew that idea.

Any proven tactics that may work to get her to go???

I don't go to strip clubs.

And I don't like to go shopping either. I just go to buy.

Same with a strip club. I don't get it. So you go to watch naked women make you hot, and then what do you do? You don't get to have sex, all you can do is look.

Sorry mates. IF I have a naked woman in front of me trying to make me hot, then I like to follow through on that idea to the point where we are no longer in a libidinous mood.

I was in the army, and all these soldiers would go. but they had no woman waiting for them when they came back. Kind of creeped me out.

**thegame1431** · 11-02-2014, 11:23 PM

you are weird...... you go to a strip club to see naked women, do not bring wife there, it is worlds colliding and can never end well...

**Honkey_Kong** · 11-03-2014, 01:48 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I don't go to strip clubs.

And I don't like to go shopping either. I just go to buy.

Same with a strip club. I don't get it. So you go to watch naked women make you hot, and then what do you do? You don't get to have sex, all you can do is look.

Sorry mates. IF I have a naked woman in front of me trying to make me hot, then I like to follow through on that idea to the point where we are no longer in a libidinous mood.

I was in the army, and all these soldiers would go. but they had no woman waiting for them when they came back. Kind of creeped me out.

Yeah, going home with blueballs sucks. People's money is better spent with an actual hooker than on some slut at a titty bar that's just going to take your money and tease you.

**< <Samson> >** · 11-03-2014, 08:33 AM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

Yeah, going home with blueballs sucks. People's money is better spent with an actual hooker than on some slut at a titty bar that's just going to take your money and tease you.

Crude - but, well said

Or some slut at a bar will do

**Times Roman** · 11-03-2014, 08:49 AM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

Yeah, going home with blueballs sucks. People's money is better spent with an actual hooker than on some slut at a titty bar that's just going to take your money and tease you.

I think the last time I saw a woman that was paid to be naked was 27 years ago.

Now, this doesn't count when you consider some of the biker events I've been to where the women get naked and get real friskey just walking around. Now THAT is something I'll do. Friggin wild. But it's all spur of the moment shit, and no one is getting paid to entertain. Nothing like seeing two random chicks topless, lit, making out in a biker bar.

**< <Samson> >** · 11-03-2014, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I think the last time I saw a woman that was paid to be naked was 27 years ago.

We all pay, it will never change

Just the payments are made in different ways

**lovbyts** · 11-03-2014, 09:56 AM

Originally Posted by < <Samson> >

We all pay, it will never change

Just the payments are made in different ways

It's been proven over and over and over, it's cheaper to rent when it comes to women 90% of the time.

I always liked the saying if it flys, floats or fvcks it's always cheaper to rent than buy.

**PistolPete33** · 11-03-2014, 10:45 AM

We are not going to the strip club. I'm not pushing the issue. Thanks for all the feedback.

**< <Samson> >** · 11-03-2014, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

We are not going to the strip club. I'm not pushing the issue. Thanks for all the feedback.

Saved yourself a over priced migraine

**Honkey_Kong** · 11-03-2014, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I think the last time I saw a woman that was paid to be naked was 27 years ago.

Now, this doesn't count when you consider some of the biker events I've been to where the women get naked and get real friskey just walking around. Now THAT is something I'll do. Friggin wild. But it's all spur of the moment shit, and no one is getting paid to entertain. Nothing like seeing two random chicks topless, lit, making out in a biker bar.

Yeah but those biker chicks are usually missing teeth.

**Times Roman** · 11-03-2014, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

Yeah but those biker chicks are usually missing teeth.

far from the truth. many are married. many make good money. in that mix, you also have the clubbers that can be a little rough. and in that mix are the newbs that are still trying to figure out what the limits are. most are fairly progressive. most are fairly open. throw in some alcohol, and a live band at a rally, and shit gets pretty interesting pretty fast.

**Times Roman** · 11-03-2014, 10:42 PM

most long term bikers are not the 1% HA you see in the movies.

**Brett N** · 11-04-2014, 03:45 PM

Pete, if for some reason you do ever go to a strip club with your wife. Do not make any comments about any of the girls, let her make comments and you politely agree with her. Secondly, when you want to put some money in the strippers g string, give your wife a about 10 $5 bills and tell her she can go up to the stage and give them to any girl she chooses. Don't try to persuade her or anything. And, if you decide to get a private lap dance for the wife...ask her if she would rather get it on her own or if she would like you to watch her get it. Never take the invite of the stripper and think it is about you.

First time my wife got a lap dance with me watching and I could tell it made her uncomfortable. Second time she got one and I insisted I sit at the table and wait for her so she would feel more comfortable. She liked it more, said she would feel better if I was there next time so she could perform for me and gave me some pleasure on the drive home. She also told me how she got in trouble by the stripper for putting her hands in the girls panties. lol, it was a fun night.

But, I never pushed the idea on her. I just mentioned it, waited a few weeks and mentioned it again. This went on for a long period of time. It's more about having fun and being "naughty" It shouldn't be sexual when you are with the wife.

**Iceberg** · 11-04-2014, 06:58 PM

^ Agreed she has to feel somewhat in control and she needs to know she's wanted more than what's in there.

**Shol'va** · 11-04-2014, 07:02 PM

Man up and take her to an all male revue and even I will go with you...

**Brett N** · 11-04-2014, 07:13 PM

I told the wife I would go to an all male strip club. She said she thought those guys all looked a little cheesy with their cock socks and everything. Not sure I would of actually gone but I was trying not to be a hypocrite.