How often do you married men have sex?

**Shol'va** · 06-29-2015, 05:11 PM

Originally Posted by bass

ah this is what i miss about this place, the smart-ass and brilliant answers! LOL

in my opinion the reason sex slows down as you age is because you get more things to worry about and less time to think about sex. unless of course you're on TRT

Me Too and speaking of those type where in the world are Marky Marcus and (D)(S)(M) D*ck Sucking Machine? i haven't seen nor heard from either but especially DSM. If that is what married life does to one no matter whether it be to another man or a woman then I can do without for several more years. I'm talking about without the person not without the sex......

**jolter604** · 06-29-2015, 05:12 PM

At least every other night, I'm a old perv....

**GirlyGymRat** · 06-29-2015, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Me Too and speaking of those type where in the world are Marky Marcus and (D)(S)(M) D*ck Sucking Machine? i haven't seen nor heard from either but especially DSM. If that is what married life does to one no matter whether it be to another man or a woman then I can do without for several more years. I'm talking about without the person not without the sex......

A big dah. I always thought his real name initials. :/

**Zodiac82** · 06-29-2015, 06:46 PM

Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat

A big dah. I always thought his real name initials. :/

I asked him one time and he said somethin about I believe some type of car factory or somethin he used to work for....
I though Dick Suckin Man...when I first joined the board

2 times a week...if lucky....avg 1 times a week....if it's more than 2 there's likely some kind of complaint to come with it lol

**RaginCajun** · 06-29-2015, 07:11 PM

Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat

A big dah. I always thought his real name initials. :/

Hahahaha!

His name means Diamond Star Motors!

**lovbyts** · 06-29-2015, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by Brett N

With the first wife, she quit wanting it within a month of marriage. I could of even understood if she was banging someone else but she wasn't. It eventually led to our divorce and 90% of our fights. Marriage didn't last long, about a year.

They say sex isn't that big of a part of your marriage unless you aren't having it, then it's the biggest part.

Ive heard that so many times but cant understand it one bit. How can things be that different and someone that deceptive? You are lucky you got out right away. I have no doubt that a lot of other things would have happened worse than you can imagine. That was just the tip of the iceberg.

It would be like you saying you loved to cook and you made all the meals before marriage and when living together but as soon as you got married you just stopped. Well to me (us men) sex is even more important than eating most of the time. lol

Originally Posted by cancer82

I asked him one time and he said somethin about I believe some type of car factory or somethin he used to work for....
I though Dick Suckin Man...when I first joined the board

2 times a week...if lucky....avg 1 times a week....if it's more than 2 there's likely some kind of complaint to come with it lol

I remember him saying someting about Diamond star motors also once. LOL, I never even though about that (in bold above).

Speaking of... where has he been? Lately it's only once a month or less he shows up

**PistolPete33** · 06-30-2015, 08:01 AM

Had the talk with the wifey and we are back on track. Her dad passed away about 2 months ago so she's been upset which is to be expected. That is why I never pushed anything but I finally had to bring it up. Should be back to 3 times per week from here on out.

**bass** · 06-30-2015, 10:13 AM

^^^ good you didn't wait too long to do some talking, or it could have been a new way of life for her.

**PistolPete33** · 06-30-2015, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by bass

^^^ good you didn't wait too long to do some talking, or it could have been a new way of life for her.

that was my fear. We typically had sex 2-3 times per week and she would let me do a ton of fun things like making movies etc. I knew when her father passed it would impact things for a bit. The first month I didn't even try to have sex with her even though we did a couple of times. She tends to hold things in and keep things to herself but I'm glad I brought it up. It caused a pretty major argument that lasted a couple of days but things should be better now.

**Zodiac82** · 07-01-2015, 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by RaginCajun

Hahahaha!

His name means Diamond Star Motors!

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Ive heard that so many times but cant understand it one bit. How can things be that different and someone that deceptive? You are lucky you got out right away. I have no doubt that a lot of other things would have happened worse than you can imagine. That was just the tip of the iceberg.

It would be like you saying you loved to cook and you made all the meals before marriage and when living together but as soon as you got married you just stopped. Well to me (us men) sex is even more important than eating most of the time. lol

I remember him saying someting about Diamond star motors also once. LOL, I never even though about that (in bold above).

Speaking of... where has he been? Lately it's only once a month or less he shows up

Lol..that's the name

I've seen him on once maybe in the last 3 months maybe

**Duo** · 07-02-2015, 07:13 AM

Originally Posted by davidtheman100

That must be awkward like you are usually expecting 2-3 times a week or something and then you've only done it once and the week is winding down and your wife isn't saying anything so you're just like trying to bring it up without being direct and she doesn't catch on? These are some awkward things i think about when i think of being married lol...

Sums it up nicely!!

**DCI** · 07-02-2015, 07:19 AM

I should get married ye fckers are flat out riding I'm single and nothing comes close to your numbers lol

**DB1982** · 07-03-2015, 02:10 PM

Originally Posted by DCI

I should get married ye fckers are flat out riding I'm single and nothing comes close to your numbers lol

That's is the benefits of a good marriage.

**Brett N** · 07-03-2015, 02:15 PM

Originally Posted by DB1982

That's is the benefits of a good marriage.

So true, the guys who don't have a great sex life are most likely not posting in this thread I'd say. Of all my friends and family members, I would venture to guess that my wife and my sex life is better than all. Most of them either pass out drunk early or one of them spends the night at their Mom's house or always something going on.

I almost feel guilty talking about it with my co workers sometimes after they all bitch about their wives and I have nothing but compliments on the sex, way she saves and the way she acts. I am a blessed guy. I wish everyone I knew felt the same way about their spouses.

**clarky.** · 07-03-2015, 02:46 PM

Everyday or eod at the very very most.

**thisAngelBites** · 07-03-2015, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by DCI

I should get married ye fckers are flat out riding I'm single and nothing comes close to your numbers lol

You're probably going to have good amount of bias in response to this question. Men who have sex a lot are going to be more likely to answer the question than those who don't, so I wouldn't take it as a representative sample or anything. If that makes you feel any better.

**DB1982** · 07-03-2015, 06:34 PM

Originally Posted by Brett N

So true, the guys who don't have a great sex life are most likely not posting in this thread I'd say. Of all my friends and family members, I would venture to guess that my wife and my sex life is better than all. Most of them either pass out drunk early or one of them spends the night at their Mom's house or always something going on.

I almost feel guilty talking about it with my co workers sometimes after they all bitch about their wives and I have nothing but compliments on the sex, way she saves and the way she acts. I am a blessed guy. I wish everyone I knew felt the same way about their spouses.

I agree when talking to others about the sex me and my wife have. The normal response is "You're lucky" When in reality it has nothing to do with luck.

The truth is I go out of my way to please my wife and in return she pleases me in ways you only see in XXX movies lol.
Most men are very selfish in bed so once the new car smell wears off. The sexual attraction begins to wonder.

When the sex is good normally the marriage is strong. (The Connection)
When the marriage is not strong usually the first sign is in the bedroom.

**RigPig** · 07-03-2015, 11:30 PM

Originally Posted by DB1982

I agree when talking to others about the sex me and my wife have. The normal response is "You're lucky" When in reality it has nothing to do with luck. The truth is I go out of my way to please my wife and in return she pleases me in ways you only see in XXX movies lol. Most men are very selfish in bed so once the new car smell wears off. The sexual attraction begins to wonder. When the sex is good normally the marriage is strong. (The Connection) When the marriage is not strong usually the first sign is in the bedroom.

Hell yeah I'm the same way, 99% of the time the wife gets hers first then I get mine. I get laid as often as I want and she looks forward to it. It's got us through a lot of tough times lol! She knows by talking with her friends that not many other guys operate this way.

**clarky.** · 07-04-2015, 04:30 AM

Originally Posted by DB1982

I agree when talking to others about the sex me and my wife have. The normal response is "You're lucky" When in reality it has nothing to do with luck.

The truth is I go out of my way to please my wife and in return she pleases me in ways you only see in XXX movies lol.
Most men are very selfish in bed so once the new car smell wears off. The sexual attraction begins to wonder.

When the sex is good normally the marriage is strong. (The Connection)
When the marriage is not strong usually the first sign is in the bedroom.

Agree 110%

**clarky.** · 07-04-2015, 04:31 AM

Originally Posted by rigpig

hell yeah i'm the same way, 99% of the time the wife gets hers first then i get mine. I get laid as often as i want and she looks forward to it. It's got us through a lot of tough times lol! She knows by talking with her friends that not many other guys operate this way.

x2...

**DCI** · 07-04-2015, 12:25 PM

Originally Posted by thisAngelBites

You're probably going to have good amount of bias in response to this question. Men who have sex a lot are going to be more likely to answer the question than those who don't, so I wouldn't take it as a representative sample or anything. If that makes you feel any better.

I love your outlook on everything TAB ha I'm not worried anymore about causal sex etc so its by choice more so than anything else for not getting it regularly too old for all that messing lol

**thisAngelBites** · 07-04-2015, 02:24 PM

Originally Posted by DCI

I love your outlook on everything TAB ha I'm not worried anymore about causal sex etc so its by choice more so than anything else for not getting it regularly too old for all that messing lol

I know just what you mean.

**DCI** · 07-04-2015, 03:02 PM

Originally Posted by thisAngelBites

I know just what you mean.

Exactly

My original post was tongue in cheek

**PistolPete33** · 07-04-2015, 08:53 PM

Since our talk things have been great again. She even initiated a quickie this afternoon while our son was playing with his friends. Looks like I have my fun wife back

**clarky.** · 07-05-2015, 01:48 AM

Originally Posted by PistolPete33

Since our talk things have been great again. She even initiated a quickie this afternoon while our son was playing with his friends. Looks like I have my fun wife back

Good stuff PP.

**bignath4607** · 07-05-2015, 02:53 AM

Well me n my mrs have been together 10 years married 6 and the honeymoon period hasnt stopped usualy bang her like a drum most nights and sometimes in a morning if shes up in time oh and its a myth blow jobs dont stop after marriage :-)

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**Brett N** · 07-05-2015, 07:02 AM

^^^^ In a good marriage with partners thinking the same way. Trust me, it can go both ways.

**gearbox** · 07-05-2015, 11:57 AM

It is simple communication between partners. Often times I hear how married men don't get sex anymore after a few kids. Ex. They come home from work have dinner and sit on couch till bed time. Wife cleans dinner and picks up and puts kids to bed by herself and then she starts to pick up once again. Then finally husband comes off the couch expecting something. My first thought is how clueless are you? To most woman who have children, nothing is more pleasing then seeing your man tending to his children
For those people without children I would focus more on doing quit acts of kindness for your spouse to show you care. Even change the acts from one thing to another. Ex. I wrote on a bunch of stickies one more for my wife. And each said something I like about her, or something I'm thankful for. Random acts gentleman.
P.s. making her feel good in the bedroom is important but often times how she feels going to the bedroom is more important.

**davidtheman100** · 07-05-2015, 12:05 PM

I feel like the numbers are better since not everyone is American lol

**Brett N** · 07-05-2015, 02:29 PM

Not sure what that means?

I'm American, have sex everyday after 17 years. Don't think residence has anything to do with it. I think it's about quality of the relationship as a whole. The little things.

**davidtheman100** · 07-05-2015, 02:49 PM

Originally Posted by Brett N

Not sure what that means?

I'm American, have sex everyday after 17 years. Don't think residence has anything to do with it. I think it's about quality of the relationship as a whole. The little things.

Oh you're not sure man? USA's divorce rate is over 50%...Statistically residency is not important to individual relationships but to all of them as a whole..The bigger picture.. BUT you as a happily married man are a minority in this country...Don't know how many married couples you know, but that's def not the common theme...

**Brett N** · 07-05-2015, 03:57 PM

I don't think divorce and sex between spouses follow each other respectively.

Are you saying that you think people in other countries besides US have sex more regularly because they have less divorces or that they have less divorce because they have sex more often?

**davidtheman100** · 07-05-2015, 04:25 PM

Originally Posted by Brett N

I don't think divorce and sex between spouses follow each other respectively.

Are you saying that you think people in other countries besides US have sex more regularly because they have less divorces or that they have less divorce because they have sex more often?

I think it does. Couples who want to stay together i think directly correlate to the divorce rate... If your country has a higher divorce rate, chances are the average couple is less connected than in a country with a lower one which means less sex regularly, if at all....

**uhit** · 07-05-2015, 05:05 PM

Well my sis got married 3 months ago and she said she hasn't touched the man yet lol.

Gotta love her evil ways eh?

**Brett N** · 07-05-2015, 06:25 PM

Originally Posted by davidtheman100

I think it does. Couples who want to stay together i think directly correlate to the divorce rate... If your country has a higher divorce rate, chances are the average couple is less connected than in a country with a lower one which means less sex regularly, if at all....

Read up on the U.S. Divorce rate. Those numbers you are suggesting is bullshit. Just read 70% of marriages that started in 90s reached their 15 year anniversary. 65% that started in the 70s and 80s did. Even a larger % of those married in 2000 reached it. http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/02/up...abt=0002&abg=0 Kinda sounds like you are just quoting wives tales and stating them as fact. This thread is asking married members how many times per week on average they have sex with their spouse. Has 0 to do with where anyone lives.

Also, I know many married people who don't have regular sex. I'm not some kid that thinks they know things. I'm a 43 man who has actually seen things first hand, not seen it on the net.