Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
Kong, it’s a shared attitude with my wife. We are not swingers, but soul-mates that have been together for going on 37 years.

The extracurricular activity is not encouraged, but should it present itself (like an amazing desert at a restaurant that you just can’t say no to), go for it.

IMO, a loving relationship is not about sex, it’s everything but. But then again, this has to be the attitude of both parties.

I could not live without my wife & should she say no more to the extracurricular sex, then I will respect that.

Hell at my age, my days are numbered. Shit, sometimes the viagra isn’t a big help. OK, that’s a fear.
That’s great you got that man!!she sounds like a gem..I understand, it’s hard to miss desert after a big meal and maybe after I get a girl with a lil more maturity (I date in 20’s) she will understand that letting me have it makes a lot more sense then me lying about it..love to hear couples still that close after a long time..


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