How many days do you wait to call a girl?

**Needtobeswoledup** · 03-07-2004, 03:40 AM

So yeah I got a # tonite(saturday) we hit it off really well. I want to call her on monday and invite her to sherlocks with me but that is only 2 days. Is that too soon? The next time after that I would call her would be thursday. How many days do you wait to call a girl? We where both pretty drunk so I don't know if she's gonna remember me anyway.

**scottninpo** · 03-07-2004, 03:42 AM

best advice, don't think about it, call her whenever you want to

**Needtobeswoledup** · 03-07-2004, 03:45 AM

Unfortantely if I followed that advice i'd call her right this minute(4am on sunday)

I've always heard the 3 day rule.... but i dont want to wait that long... i'm an impatient mofo thou

**BOUNCER** · 03-07-2004, 03:56 AM

Text her now instead, I'm she if you got on really well she'll be delighted. The text won't waken her up, and when she checks the time sent she'll jump for joy, especially if she's fat

**Needtobeswoledup** · 03-07-2004, 03:57 AM

Actually t he thought occured to me but i dont want to seem desperate.....**** i'm tempted now...

**BOUNCER** · 03-07-2004, 03:59 AM

Text her man, she's probably waiting too!

**Needtobeswoledup** · 03-07-2004, 04:00 AM

Hmm... what to say....nah i'm gonna pass out instead... i'll call her on monday..hopefully that's not 2 soon.

**powerlifter** · 03-07-2004, 04:28 AM

Didn't the movie " Swingers " have the answer to this problem ?

**scottninpo** · 03-07-2004, 04:28 AM

bro, if she really likes you, she'll want you to call her as soon as possible, that 3 day rule thing is stupid, better to get it out of the way then wait around trying to look cool, be aggressive, women like men, not wimps, not too aggressive though, there is a fine line

alevok · 03-07-2004, 05:00 AM

she also knows the third day rule so if you call her on the third day she will feel ordinary, but if you call her sooner she will feel special, **** the rules listen to your heart, at least sms her if you do not want to call

**powerlifter** · 03-07-2004, 05:02 AM

hey guys - I usually call late the next day to set something up the day after that ....but my wife doesn't let me do that anymore LOL

**Needtobeswoledup** · 03-07-2004, 10:20 AM

Originally Posted by powerlifter

hey guys - I usually call late the next day to set something up the day after that ....but my wife doesn't let me do that anymore LOL

Well it's not like I REALLY like her a bunch I met her at a club danced for 30 mins and then bsed for another 30 there just seemed to be good connection or maybe it was the alcohol. As to the 3rd day rule making her seem ordinary, i'd rather that then calling her 2 soon and seeming desperate. Maybe i'll send her a text today just to say hi and test the waters.

**realer** · 03-07-2004, 10:38 AM

ive never gone by any rules. dude if you like the girl call her. of she likes you it will make her happy. her happiness shouldnt be based on what day you call her? just on weather shes digging you or not. i meet my wife on a blind date that started at 9pm with a group of friends from both sides and lasted till 8 am the next morning (NOTHING HAPPENDED!). it was i true connection i didnt even wait a day to call her. i called her that night same night after i woke up and got around. we ending up talking on the phone that night for like 10 hrs, till morning again. so man it just depends. dont worry about rules. just go with the flow. if its gonna to happen its gonna happen regardless if you wait 3 2 4 days just dont wait to long.
good luck

ttuPrincess · 03-07-2004, 12:41 PM

Girls know about the 3 day rule, and personally it pisses me off. If I like you and gave you my real # then yes I want you to call, so just call when it feels right and you actually have somehting to say, not just "uhhh hey this is ____ I met you at _____" If you want to ask her out for Monday, then IMO call about 5-7ish and just ask. GOOD LUCK

**daman1** · 03-07-2004, 01:27 PM

Originally Posted by scottninpo

bro, if she really likes you, she'll want you to call her as soon as possible, that 3 day rule thing is stupid, better to get it out of the way then wait around trying to look cool, be aggressive, women like men, not wimps, not too aggressive though, there is a fine line

ditto

**SwoleCat** · 03-07-2004, 02:26 PM

He who sleeps misses the p*ssy............!!!!!!!

She may go out the next night, give out her number once more. On that third day, the gentleman behind door number 2 may call her, she's delighted he did so and nearly sh*ts on herself. So they go out, nice dinner, walk on the beach, fireside beach bar for some drinks and convo next to his condo........

Next thing u know he's bangin' YOUR prospective chick like a screen door in a hurricane.

If ya want it, go get it. She gave you the number, so call it. If she's frontin' and playin' games on ya, screw that, you don't want that kind of chica anyway. At least, I don't.......

~SC~

**USfighterFC** · 03-07-2004, 02:55 PM

Days?????????? i give it 45 seconds

ttuPrincess · 03-07-2004, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by USfighterFC

Days?????????? i give it 45 seconds

desperate much????

**USfighterFC** · 03-07-2004, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

desperate much????

Hey......thats not nice

ttuPrincess · 03-07-2004, 03:04 PM

sometimes the truth isn't nice... lol you know im playing pookie bear

**Phillyboy1** · 03-07-2004, 04:30 PM

i wait 2 days lol dont want to seem desperate, and also dont want to be bothersome

**spywizard** · 03-07-2004, 04:49 PM

her # isn't 976-dial a prayer is it????

Really....

The topic that you should talk to her about.>... is this question you have posted here..

laugh about it with her...

Good luck... ****.............. glad i'm married............

**ChiTownTommy** · 03-07-2004, 05:14 PM

call her whneever you want to talk to her.

**SylvesterStaclone** · 03-07-2004, 05:51 PM

Call her dude. Even its too soon and you hose it all up, its not like there arent 3 or 4 billion other girls. Thats a lot of jugs running aroud out there. So does it really matter when you call her?

**UrbanLegend** · 03-07-2004, 05:56 PM

Whenver is convenient for you. Don't overthink this kind of stuff, if she likes you then it doesn't really matter when you call.

**mark956101957** · 03-07-2004, 06:16 PM

Dude, if you met her Sat night, calling her Monday afternoon or evening is only 2 days, that would be my plan.

***BIG TEXAN*** · 03-07-2004, 07:57 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

He who sleeps misses the p*ssy............!!!!!!!

She may go out the next night, give out her number once more. On that third day, the gentleman behind door number 2 may call her, she's delighted he did so and nearly sh*ts on herself. So they go out, nice dinner, walk on the beach, fireside beach bar for some drinks and convo next to his condo........

Next thing u know he's bangin' YOUR prospective chick like a screen door in a hurricane.

If ya want it, go get it. She gave you the number, so call it. If she's frontin' and playin' games on ya, screw that, you don't want that kind of chica anyway. At least, I don't.......

~SC~

I gotta agree with Swole here.... call her bro, don't wait around.

**cb25** · 03-07-2004, 08:33 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

He who sleeps misses the p*ssy............!!!!!!!

She may go out the next night, give out her number once more. On that third day, the gentleman behind door number 2 may call her, she's delighted he did so and nearly sh*ts on herself. So they go out, nice dinner, walk on the beach, fireside beach bar for some drinks and convo next to his condo........

Next thing u know he's bangin' YOUR prospective chick like a screen door in a hurricane.

If ya want it, go get it. She gave you the number, so call it. If she's frontin' and playin' games on ya, screw that, you don't want that kind of chica anyway. At least, I don't.......

~SC~

Best advice i've seen yet...

go for it!

**Sara Dancer** · 03-08-2004, 07:17 PM

If I'm interested in a guy enough to give him my number and he waits 3 days to call, he blew his chance. On the other hand, if there is already a cute message waiting for me when I get home, he's earned extra points!

**chevy44** · 03-08-2004, 07:25 PM

if i "hit it off" w/ a girl enough to get her # then im calling her the next day

**** id probably, leave the place i met her atand then call her 2 hours later.. im very very impatient

**Butch** · 03-10-2004, 06:29 PM

The three day rule only applies to college kids...and even then it doesn't really apply. Just call her the next day and see what happens...who knows she could of been so drunk she might not of remembered giving you her number....LMAO...j/j Anyway, I hoipe you called her ny n ow...if so..then how did it go?

**palme** · 03-10-2004, 06:36 PM

I call the same day i get the number! You need to hit the iron while it's warm!

Dating "Rules" are lame! Just go for the pie!

**juicehoe** · 03-10-2004, 06:47 PM

Rules are for fools... just listen to your heart. But be smart IE. calling at 4am might be pushing it... round up till the next day lol

**ItalianMuscle** · 03-10-2004, 08:51 PM

Bro if you like the girl and she gives you her # call her whenever.. If I thought a Female was attractive and of course she will give me her # I will call her the next day to make plans..

**Spoon** · 03-10-2004, 09:32 PM

Sms is a great idea. Its a very casual method of getting in touch with her. Pass the problem to her. Now she has a dilemma whether to get back to you or not. She probably knows the 3 day rule and you know it too so by making the first move your giving her a bit of a mind game

Good Luck

Spoon

**Dude-Man** · 03-10-2004, 10:35 PM

i just call the next day. Girls think you're nice, not desperate.

**BigGreen** · 03-10-2004, 10:56 PM

Originally Posted by chrisAdams

i just call the next day. Girls think you're nice, not desperate.

Yes, IF, and BIG "if", you're normal looking. With my monsterous, bordering on grotesque features, it becomes a combination of desperate and gross. Oh well....

**Skin-and-Bone** · 03-10-2004, 11:00 PM

I'm not suggesting you do the same, but the longer I live, the less I worry about what people think of me. If the girl has a problem with me calling when I feel like it, then we're better off not together anyway. If you just want the girl for sex, then by all means play the game, because you probably wouldn't care about what type of person they are if sex was your only motivation.

**Dude-Man** · 03-11-2004, 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by BigGreen

Yes, IF, and BIG "if", you're normal looking. With my monsterous, bordering on grotesque features, it becomes a combination of desperate and gross. Oh well....

roflol... oh man.. that's got me reeling.

**bermich** · 03-11-2004, 03:16 PM

Even if she really likes you, you cant call her earlier than 24 hours. That just makes you seem like you have nothing else in your life. Chicks dont like it when a guy has no life.
I had a friend who got numbers from chicks he hooked up with. He would literally call them at 3am that same night asking if they wanted to hang out Sunday. EVERYONE of them got pissed because he called them so early in the morning and already asking about the next day.

That is just bogus desperation and impatience. It is also insecurity because you think you have to lock her in before she finds another guy or another guy from that same night calls her before you.

But, if you wait too long, say like a week, it looks like you forgot about her and just happened to come across her number and were curious about whose it was.

If you really cant wait, give her a call and ask if her friends wanna hang out with you and your friends at TGIF or something like that on Sunday. Let her know that is what you usually do and see if her friends wanna join.....