hiding roid use from my girl

[TallMan]

If you can't even be honest with eachother then what's the point of being with her?
Just be a man and say you're gonna take this and that compound for this period of time and that she doesn't have to agree with it!

I've did a few cycles secretly and eventually she found out cause an injection spot got really bruised in a way I couldn't explain.
You can imagine trust was really a big issue after that!

Nowadays I just tell her I go on cycle and she doesn't even mind it that much anymore

[AlphaMaleDawg]

I would try to inform her and involve her in the research that you are doing or have done. I'm having the same problem with my girlfriend. We got into a couple of huge fights because of my want to cycle. I'm showing her that all the bad things that are heard about AAS use is because of irresponsible users and ignorance. She is slowly coming around. Although I just recently decided not to cycle because I dont think Im completely ready. But I will use that time to help her understand the reasons I want to and that it isn't what the media cracks it up to be. I wouldn't lie though dude, if she means anything to you you wont lie. If she loves u and is open minded she'll come around. It might take a while but it will be worth it in the end.

the problem with this is most women can't be talked into reasoning. When their minds are made up, they often can't be changed by words unless it is something they want to believe. It's a huge stretch to think his gf would think about it with an open mind, rather than the general public's perception

[Hazard]

the problem with this is most women can't be talked into reasoning. When their minds are made up, they often can't be changed by words unless it is something they want to believe. It's a huge stretch to think his gf would think about it with an open mind, rather than the general public's perception

^^^^ The words of a man who's been around the block a few times!

My wife WILL NOT consider letting me use anything..... not even test. She's ok with hgh and thats it..... and thats only because she wants to use it. There are underlying issues tho..... she doesn't want me getting bigger. I think shes insecure and she's using her insecurities to keep me from looking better. She's admitted it in other words before.....

Unless you are married..... there no fvckin reason to tell your significant other. Even if you are married..... I wouldn't say a word unless I knew she was going to be cool with it. Women have big mouths..... you'll tell her one night and by 7am the next morning..... your whole familly will know, all your friends, and probably all your coworkers lol

~Haz~

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

be honest man, lies just ruin relationships.... put yourself in her position. would you rather have her? or the juice? good luck.

[Hazard]

Also..... saying "If you can't even be honest with eachother then what's the point of being with her?" is stupid..... Relationships are based on trust to an extent but EVERYONE has skeletons in their closet and if you think for one minute that she's told or is telling you EVERYTHING...... your dumber than a box of rocks.

So I guess I should divorce my wife because she doesn't want me using an illegal substance? No..... I don't agree with her way of thinking but i'm not going to leave her for it lol.

~Haz~

[Kawigirl]

Woman have a strong opinion regarding use only because of the social acceptance of it and all the negative stories associated. I do agree with AlphaMaleDawg...we are hard to reason with once something has been decided upon.

But...i also agree with AZGOLD. If your still going to use...u can't hide it, or at least shouldn't.

I've been dumped for using; and that was fine. If he felt uncomfortable with me using...he can decide. I'm not changing what or who I've been for years for anyone.

Will you be fine deciding not too use; for her? Or will you begin to resent her for thinking she made that choice for you?

Either way....honesty......imo

[Hazard]

Woman have a strong opinion regarding use only because of the social acceptance of it and all the negative stories associated. I do agree with AlphaMaleDawg...we hard to reason with once something has been decided upon.

But...i also agree with AZGOLD. If your still going to use...u can't hide it, or at least shouldn't.

I've been dumped for using (yes...a dude didn't understand); and that was fine. If he felt uncomfortable with me using...he can decide. I'm not changing what or who I've been for years for anyone.

Will you be fine deciding not too for her? Or will you begin to resent her for thinking she made that choice for you?

Either way....honesty......imo

I would like to state that my wife knew in the past..... and didn't care then. Once the ring went on..... all hell broke lose in the aas department. So rather than leave her..... I keep it a secret until she comes around

How she doesn't know is beyond me FFS..... lol

~Haz~

[Kawigirl]

I would like to state that my wife knew in the past..... and didn't care then. Once the ring went on..... all hell broke lose in the aas department. So rather than leave her..... I keep it a secret until she comes around

How she doesn't know is beyond me FFS..... lol

~Haz~

Do you think she doesn't know...or just keeps quiet? Just sayin.......

[Hazard]

Do you think she doesn't know...or just keeps quiet? Just sayin.......

She used to be extremilly paranoid about it around 18 months ago - she'd bring it up everyday and warn me lol. Then once she got her own problems taken care of..... she left me alone. She just mentioned it to me again a few weeks ago and I wasn't on at the time..... she said something like "I'd just be mad that your lying to me" and I said "So can we have an honest conversation about it because I do want to run test" - to which she replied "You're not using anything unless a doc says you need to. I see no point in it and if you think your going to get like one of those pro's - you're sadly mistaken"

So I took that with a grain of salt...... left the house and took a shot of test/tren There is just NO reasoning with her at all..... andi'm not going to leave her for it. When the day comes that she finds out - i'll deal with it. If she chooses to leave then so be it..... but I stuck by her side through her addiction issues.

~Haz~

[Kawigirl]

She used to be extremilly paranoid about it around 18 months ago - she'd bring it up everyday and warn me lol. Then once she got her own problems taken care of..... she left me alone. She just mentioned it to me again a few weeks ago and I wasn't on at the time..... she said something like "I'd just be mad that your lying to me" and I said "So can we have an honest conversation about it because I do want to run test" - to which she replied "You're not using anything unless a doc says you need to. I see no point in it and if you think your going to get like one of those pro's - you're sadly mistaken"

So I took that with a grain of salt...... left the house and took a shot of test/tren There is just NO reasoning with her at all..... andi'm not going to leave her for it. When the day comes that she finds out - i'll deal with it. If she chooses to leave then so be it..... but I stuck by her side through her addiction issues.

~Haz~

Well thought out Haz......two way street this life is!

[TallMan]

Also..... saying "If you can't even be honest with eachother then what's the point of being with her?" is stupid..... Relationships are based on trust to an extent but EVERYONE has skeletons in their closet and if you think for one minute that she's told or is telling you EVERYTHING...... your dumber than a box of rocks.

So I guess I should divorce my wife because she doesn't want me using an illegal substance? No..... I don't agree with her way of thinking but i'm not going to leave her for it lol.

~Haz~

You shouldn't make something else out of my words. I'm not saying you should tell your gf/wife EVERYTHING, but in my opinion you should't keep a big thing like using steroids a secret from her. NO OFFENCE but If you have to do shit secretly cause you're afraid of the wifey then you're whipped bro!

I'm also not saying that you should divorce your wife if she doesn't want you to use steroids . I'm saying that it's okay for her to dissagree with it.
And if she wants to divorce you for a thing like using steroids (wich doesnt harm anyone if used correctly) then she's a dumb bitch that doesn't love you enough anyway and you should find someone who accepts you for who you are.
I know thats a cliché but its the truth PERIOD

[Hazard]

You shouldn't make something else out of my words. I'm not saying you should tell your gf/wife EVERYTHING, but in my opinion you should't keep a big thing like using steroids a secret from her. NO OFFENCE but If you have to do shit secretly cause you're afraid of the wifey then you're whipped bro!

I'm also not saying that you should divorce your wife if she doesn't want you to use steroids . I'm saying that it's okay for her to dissagree with it.
And if she wants to divorce you for a thing like using steroids (wich doesnt harm anyone if used correctly) then she's a dumb bitch that doesn't love you enough anyway and you should find someone who accepts you for who you are.
I know thats a cliché but its the truth PERIOD

Not telling her doesn't make me whipped LMAO! Let me tell you..... i'm the furthest thing from whipped. She has insecurity issues and i'm not going to make them worse by forcing her to like what I do or divorce me. What she doesn't know wont hurt her.....

And suppose I do tell her..... we get into a fight..... and she runs around telling everyone about it? I would like to think she wouldn't do that but there's been plenty of men who never thought their wives would take them for everything in court.

You can continue living your life the way you want..... and i'll continue living mine. When it comes down to it tho..... no body will have confirmation of my use unless I let them in on it. I choose to play it safe..... It hasn't failed me yet.

~Haz~

[DFOSTER]

This is good stuff

[warren916]

That's not the question you need to ask yourself. You need to ask if losing your girl is worth the benefits of taking steroids . Lies and secrets destroy relationships, period. If she's not okay with it you should seriously consider stopping, or at the very least having a mature conversation with her about it. Whatever you do, don't try to hide it. That has disaster written all over it.

My thoughts are that good women come along rarely. Nothing is worth jeopardizing a relationship with one. I thank God every day for mine, and I'd never do anything to put what we have at risk.

Damn, said and done there..

[JohnnyVegas]

...to which she replied "You're not using anything unless a doc says you need to. I see no point in it and if you think your going to get like one of those pro's - you're sadly mistaken"

If she chooses to leave then so be it..... but I stuck by her side through her addiction issues.

~Haz~

First point: I can imagine my wife being mad at me for dishonesty, but I cannot imagine her ever attempting to tell me what to do. I don't tell her what to do either.

Second point: it may be her previous problems that make her have this behavior (resistance to recreational drugs).

[njviking]

i dont want to hear my wife bitch about it so i choose not to tell her. i keep all my gear at work locked up and pin at work. she has mentioned it in the past when i ran my first cycle and bulked up. but i just blew her off. i kinda think she suspects it but chooses to ignore it because she knows me....and ill simply tell her oh well. i dont tell you how to spend your money so dont tell me how to spend mine. when she goes out with her GF's and comes home with $300 purses and 8 more pairs of shoes i dont say a word...

[boz]

I think u should be more worried about hiding ya mrs from me.

:P

[oldnsedentary]

If you fantasize about other women during sex, you should just tell her, even during the sex. I mean, you have to be totally honest, right?

[oldnsedentary]

When you tell her about your steroids , and she later flips out and calls the police over something that is totally unrelated, you just remember, when you are being forcibly sodomized in prison later by a gang, that at least you were honest with her.

[Honkey_Kong]

If you fantasize about other women during sex, you should just tell her, even during the sex. I mean, you have to be totally honest, right?

I don't think you really have to. The fact that a nudie magazine is tacked on the head board probably would let her know.

[TallMan]

Not telling her doesn't make me whipped LMAO! Let me tell you..... i'm the furthest thing from whipped. She has insecurity issues and i'm not going to make them worse by forcing her to like what I do or divorce me. What she doesn't know wont hurt her.....

And suppose I do tell her..... we get into a fight..... and she runs around telling everyone about it? I would like to think she wouldn't do that but there's been plenty of men who never thought their wives would take them for everything in court.

You can continue living your life the way you want..... and i'll continue living mine. When it comes down to it tho..... no body will have confirmation of my use unless I let them in on it. I choose to play it safe..... It hasn't failed me yet.

~Haz~

Okay fair enough. If my gf was to tell everyone about my steroid use I'd prolly too wouldn't tell her :P

[wmaousley]

Put the smack down on her arse (no literally)(dont ever hit a woman), and let her know whats really going on.

[Reed]

I understand both sides of the argument and believe that it depends on the situation and the girl as well. Some women do have a level head and so don't not so when things get dramatic they pull crap like that out their ass. Those are the ones I stay away from.

But damn I couldn't see myself being told by anyone what I can and cannot put in my body or what I can or cannot look like. That just makes me mad to hear that. But its your life do as you please and thats all that matters

[bigbossofdariver]

good shit in here

[WeakGeek]

I just got my gfs, best friends, boy friend to start doing it.. then when his girl found out he was doing it and was cool with it,,,, all of a sudden my girl was cool with it too!! HAHA

[Honkey_Kong]

I understand both sides of the argument and believe that it depends on the situation and the girl as well. Some women do have a level head and so don't not so when things get dramatic they pull crap like that out their ass. Those are the ones I stay away from.

But damn I couldn't see myself being told by anyone what I can and cannot put in my body or what I can or cannot look like. That just makes me mad to hear that. But its your life do as you please and thats all that matters

I've yet to meet a woman that didn't get all dramatic. But the thing is though, if you can't put your broad in her place and be like "I'm doing juice whether you like it or not" then you should either not do roids or you should dump that bitch. But eventually you're going to get caught if you go behind her back, and then the fight will be even worse than if you were up front. And on top of that, she'll wont trust you.

[gonejeepin]

I finished my first cycle a couple months back. I put on 20+lbs, I chose not to tell my gf of 6 years. I just decided it wasnt worth the fight that would insue. I told myself from day 1 that if she asked me point blank if I was using I will tell her, that day has not come yet.

At the end of the day I feel I should be able to put whatever I want into my body and who is anyone else to tell me differently?

It can be a sticky situation but whether you tell her or not is ultimately your choice.

[Hazard]

I've yet to meet a woman that didn't get all dramatic. But the thing is though, if you can't put your broad in her place and be like "I'm doing juice whether you like it or not" then you should either not do roids or you should dump that bitch. But eventually you're going to get caught if you go behind her back, and then the fight will be even worse than if you were up front. And on top of that, she'll wont trust you.

What if you were engaged to a women and all of a sudden she picked up an opiate habbit. You see her changing infront of your eyes and you ask her to stop but she says "I'm doing it whether you like it or not" - put yourself into someone elses shoes for a second and show an ounce of compassion for another human being.

Anyone who sits there and claims their woman is their "bitch" and brags about putting her in her place has someting to hide or is very insecure about themselves.....

~Haz~

[AlphaMaleDawg]

^^^^ The words of a man who's been around the block a few times!

My wife WILL NOT consider letting me use anything..... not even test. She's ok with hgh and thats it..... and thats only because she wants to use it. There are underlying issues tho..... she doesn't want me getting bigger. I think shes insecure and she's using her insecurities to keep me from looking better. She's admitted it in other words before.....

Unless you are married..... there no fvckin reason to tell your significant other. Even if you are married..... I wouldn't say a word unless I knew she was going to be cool with it. Women have big mouths..... you'll tell her one night and by 7am the next morning..... your whole familly will know, all your friends, and probably all your coworkers lol

~Haz~

Also..... saying "If you can't even be honest with eachother then what's the point of being with her?" is stupid..... Relationships are based on trust to an extent but EVERYONE has skeletons in their closet and if you think for one minute that she's told or is telling you EVERYTHING...... your dumber than a box of rocks.

So I guess I should divorce my wife because she doesn't want me using an illegal substance? No..... I don't agree with her way of thinking but i'm not going to leave her for it lol.

~Haz~

yup we completely agree with each other. It's not as simple as it seems

[dosXX]

women will usually never understand. If she doesn't like it, then that is her problem. Might as well hide it if she doesn't like it.

agreed! My woman believes all the bs coming from the media even when I presented hundreds of pages of medical journals regarding aas. Damn stubborn woman! But hey fortunately she sleeps early so that's when I do my business - push up that is.

[BIG NICE]

I got my girl to watch Bigger, Faster, Stronger....I think after the movie she hated steroids more just because of all the "meatheads" trying to justify steroid use . I ended up telling her she can go if she wants, but I have made the decision to juice. "Every man has his flaws and imperfections, even Moses was a heal." I'm just starting my cycle and the woman isn't going anywhere. Sometimes women say things to get what they want and don't ever back it up....I knew she was fibbing....

[5x10]

its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission!!!

1st cycle i ever did, broke up with my girl(now wife)(01)
she was scared shitless about me doing another(07) but i assured her that we werent going to break up, blah blah blah
i ended up treating her better while on cycle because i was constantly hustling for the *****(yes, i know, bad character flaw)

so when i started this cycle, i didnt get near the push back that i did prior and she said she was even a little excited(bout the roid sex)

i think if you can explain the hormones, what they do, how its temporary, and that if it effects the relationship at all, you will drop it, then she should give you a chance

with that being said, women dont possess logic so dont expect reasoning

[alpenguy]

She used to be extremilly paranoid about it around 18 months ago - she'd bring it up everyday and warn me lol. Then once she got her own problems taken care of..... she left me alone. She just mentioned it to me again a few weeks ago and I wasn't on at the time..... she said something like "I'd just be mad that your lying to me" and I said "So can we have an honest conversation about it because I do want to run test" - to which she replied "You're not using anything unless a doc says you need to. I see no point in it and if you think your going to get like one of those pro's - you're sadly mistaken"

So I took that with a grain of salt...... left the house and took a shot of test/tren There is just NO reasoning with her at all..... andi'm not going to leave her for it. When the day comes that she finds out - i'll deal with it. If she chooses to leave then so be it..... but I stuck by her side through her addiction issues.

~Haz~

Well said-and obviously speaking with experience. I've been down that same road

[evil30]

Let me pose this......women get lipo and breast lifts and implants along with other things such as botox, tanning, and using other chemicals and makeups to "look better. All of these are readily accepted by society. In fact....it is promoted by women. Now, all of these have physical side effects and some of which are long lasting and permanent. So, my question to you is, ask your girl if she would be ok with a breast lift or implants and then ask her what the difference is with using gear?

Many will shoot holes in this argument but I really don't see much difference. .......

[5x10]

Let me pose this......women get lipo and breast lifts and implants along with other things such as botox, tanning, and using other chemicals and makeups to "look better. All of these are readily accepted by society. In fact....it is promoted by women. Now, all of these have physical side effects and some of which are long lasting and permanent. So, my question to you is, ask your girl if she would be ok with a breast lift or implants and then ask her what the difference is with using gear?

Many will shoot holes in this argument but I really don't see much difference. .......

no, its a great comparison, except surgery is much riskier!

correct me if im wrong, but was the group that helped petition congress(in the 70s)to make roids illegal, made up of doctor and plastic surgerons?

[njviking]

holy batman evil30...smack me and wake me up. my wife had a boob job about 4 yrs. ago. i never once thought to use that as my arguement if and when she ever finds my gear.

i luv you(no homo).

[5x10]

holy batman 5x10....smack me and wake me up. my wife had a boob job about 4 yrs. ago. i never once thought to use that as my arguement if and when she ever finds my gear.

i luv you(no homo).

dont give me the credit, its evil!(above my post)
u can bring up the fact that you are basically putting yourself on male birth control too

[njviking]

oops. done

[evil30]

I have always said there is little difference. Women will get lipo, breast lifts, face lifts, boob jobs, tan, put tons of makeup on with unknown chemicals everyday, use spray tanner, and do botox but think roids are too risky and taboo...... Why do women get fake boobs??? It makes them look better and feel better about themselves. Why do men use gear?? To look better and feel better about themselves. Not much difference!

[BlocRoc]

Shit.... i'm a freakin pro at this.....LOL

My wife hates me wanting to look better. She hates the bodybuilding life style..... she hates everything about it..... but that didn't happen until after the ring went on.

I told her the only place you can pin is in your glutes..... so I just pin quads and delts..... she never knows. My gear isn't kept at home so she'll never find it..... She questions my acne sometimes but I always nip it with accutane before it gets out of hand.

I'm up over 240 now and shes got no idea..... tho her brother tells her theres no way I l can look the way I do without them. She just doesn't have proof

~Haz~

Love it!