Can't Finish during Sex? Help

[middleeasternmuscle]

I've been off for 3 months and I can get horny and please my wife ... hell I go for 45 minutes and she loves it ... but the problem is I never finish its weird. If I masturbate I can finish in 2-3 minutes too porn. is this normal when your a regular user off the cycle? Im thinking now since im a regular user it could be affecting me

[kelkel]

Get full BW. Be sure to include a hormone panel, LH, FSH, E2 and prolactin, etc.
Libido irregularities obviously occur due to hormone fluctuations so BW is normally the first place to look.
On the humorous side of things, just get the wife to watch porn with you. Problem solved!

Good luck middle!

[middleeasternmuscle]

Get full BW. Be sure to include a hormone panel, LH, FSH, E2 and prolactin, etc.
Libido irregularities obviously occur due to hormone fluctuations so BW is normally the first place to look.
On the humorous side of things, just get the wife to watch porn with you. Problem solved!

Good luck middle!

I dont think hormones are the problem tho? Because I can get hard in a matter of of seconds but finishing is very very hard. I need to get that blood work though your right

[kelkel]

It all can play a part. Test, prolactin, E2. All can be causes of anorgasmia. I was down to a 59 T level once and was perfectly functional. Don't dismiss things just yet. Plus it's just a great time for full BW several months post cycle.

[middleeasternmuscle]

It all can play a part. Test, prolactin, E2. All can be causes of anorgasmia. I was down to a 59 T level once and was perfectly functional. Don't dismiss things just yet. Plus it's just a great time for full BW several months post cycle.

I see so I could very well be low T .... Thanks bro I feel better now ...

[OingoBoingo]

Check DHT too!

[middleeasternmuscle]

Check DHT too!

Will do.... this stuff can all be fixed though right?

[kelkel]

Will do.... this stuff can all be fixed though right?

Yes.

[< <Samson> >]

You run Caber?

[davidtheman100]

I dont think hormones are the problem tho? Because I can get hard in a matter of of seconds but finishing is very very hard. I need to get that blood work though your right

How often do you masturbate? Serious question lol

[tectime]

How often do you masturbate? Serious question lol

This is more than likely your problem. Porn can be very detrimental to your actual sex life.

[kelkel]

You run Caber?

Yes. .25 x 2 most of the time.

[< <Samson> >]

Yes. .25 x 2 most of the time.

Strange, OP has changed - either way

Caber, fvcked me up. I don't exactly know why or how. But, there's no way I can nut quicker than 30 minutes. Even after being off of it for months. Kind of good thing, sorta.

[derekkpapa1]

How often do you masturbate? Serious question lol

I wash washing it once and it just went off.
Does that count?

[< <Samson> >]

I wash washing it once and it just went off.
Does that count?

LMFAO

That I actually made me laugh

Good 1

[jimmyinkedup]

This is a sign of elevated prolactin for me personally. As kel said get blood work ans see what it tells you.

[oldnsedentary]

If I masturbate I can finish in 2-3 minutes too porn.

Stop doing that.
Your Brain On Porn | Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's Internet porn
You are rewiring the brain and eventually causing all sorts of problems. There is a reason you respond to one and not the other now.

[derekkpapa1]

Watch porn while you have Sex

[Juced_porkchop]

I dont think hormones are the problem tho? Because I can get hard in a matter of of seconds but finishing is very very hard. I need to get that blood work though your right

its either mental or hormones IMO...

[Juced_porkchop]

Stop doing that.
Your Brain On Porn | Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's Internet porn
You are rewiring the brain and eventually causing all sorts of problems. There is a reason you respond to one and not the other now.

I dont agree... Can watch it often and if anything last 1-3hrs n make her cum many many times and then when I am ready, I finish. or i can chose to finish in 20-30min if thats all the time I got.. porn is good IMO..
Ill reward my brain as much as i can hahaha, not causing me issues.

[< <Samson> >]

Porn can fvck with your head that's for sure, some more than others


Personally I have just been laying off, no need for it IMO. It gives us that not real life feeling, but we somewhat think it's real


If you are able to get it up & nut for porn - It's all mental at that point IMO


It makes no sense for it to be hormonal - If it is hormonal or other physical condition caused, your dick wouldn't work for either way

[Juced_porkchop]

Porn can fvck with your head that's for sure, some more than others


Personally I have just been laying off, no need for it IMO. It gives us that not real life feeling, but we somewhat think it's real


If you are able to get it up & nut for porn - It's all mental at that point IMO


It makes no sense for it to be hormonal - If it is hormonal or other physical condition caused, your dick wouldn't work for either way

not true higher prog levels you may get it up but have issues to nut.
I do think its mental, but i would rec blood work regardless, it could even be a combo IMO

[< <Samson> >]

not true higher prog levels you may get it up but have issues to nut.

But to one & not the other?

[deerparkwater]

sounds like some mind games... maybe try a new girl real quick and see if that helps! lol JK

[davidtheman100]

I wash washing it once and it just went off.
Does that count?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1CgGxPWyI0

[Ashop]

I dont think hormones are the problem tho? Because I can get hard in a matter of of seconds but finishing is very very hard. I need to get that blood work though your right

It could be a mental thing too,,,make me wonder since you said you could acheive orgasm
through masturbation to porn in 2-3 minutes.

[jumpoff12]

how do you start your own thread guy, ive been trying for quiet some time cant figure it out

[kelkel]

The "Post New Thread" icon is at the upper left of each forum you click on. Fire away.

[Jaydenn]

I wish i could last 45 minutes, i can barely last 45 seconds !

[ScotchGuard02]

You have anorgasmia, the inability to orgasm. It's actually rather common among guys that cycle. Your HPTA's off. The advice to get blood work done is the #1 best thing you can do right now. Based on your numbers you can find out what's the next step. The next thing I would do is just let your body recover. Give yourself time for your HPTA to recover. Continuing to cycle in your condition may exasperate your problem. You're young and the condition is temporary so hang in there.

[Jedi1337]

I have the same problem. I had ED on and off cycle, which has largely corrected itself now but i still cant seem to cum during s*x. Ive read a lot of people recommend caber, but it might just be a good idea to take nothing till your body recovers.

Taking more d**gs to fix sides of other d**gs im not sure is the answer.

[ScotchGuard02]

This may be bro-science but this is based on my experience. When I had anorgasmia I was able to ejaculate when I masturbated or watched porn. I thought that continuing to use physical manipulation or porn would eventually help me to overcome anorgasmia but it didn't. My brain got adjusted to using porn or physical manipulation and I started to experience ED during normal sex. In the beginning, when I had anorgasmia at least I didn't have ED. I could maintain an erection for a long time. Recognizing that my brain was readjusting to the porn I just cut that out and I readjusted myself within about 3 months. In summary, if you have anorgasmia don't panic. Just give yourself time and your body will heal. Rather, your brain will heal. My .02

[Jedi1337]

Same as my situation really. I cant ejaculate during s*x but i can watching po*n - and i keep on masterbating, i think, to prove to myself that everything is still working (the ED was frightening enough).

Agreed, time is key here. There seems to be a lot of variation in how our bodies respond to AAS and associated chemicals.

[kelkel]

and i keep on masterbating, i think, to prove to myself that everything is still working .

We'll be doing that when we're a hundred years old too!

[GGot FFina?]

I too think its all mental. The reason being is that it either works, or it doesn't. You claim that while watching porn it is no problem, so something mentally is going on that doesn't allow you to ejaculate when with wife.

I would recommend to lay off the porn for a while and just unwind with wife. Maybe the easiness in being able to whip it out, and nut when ever you want to porn, is screwing up your sex life with wife. Save it for the wife dude ...

[lovbyts]

This may be bro-science but this is based on my experience. When I had anorgasmia I was able to ejaculate when I masturbated or watched porn. I thought that continuing to use physical manipulation or porn would eventually help me to overcome anorgasmia but it didn't. My brain got adjusted to using porn or physical manipulation and I started to experience ED during normal sex. In the beginning, when I had anorgasmia at least I didn't have ED. I could maintain an erection for a long time. Recognizing that my brain was readjusting to the porn I just cut that out and I readjusted myself within about 3 months. In summary, if you have anorgasmia don't panic. Just give yourself time and your body will heal. Rather, your brain will heal. My .02

Do you mean 3 months without porn? I think I have gone 3 days a few times. I think the OP just needs a hotter girlfriend.

No I feel your pain, literally because after going for well over an hour and not busting a nut you still need to eventually so that just means added time, manual manipulation and sometimes things can get a little sore not to mention the wife gets sore and needs a few days to recover. She is also getting a strong jawline. lol

At least I did cut out Newsgroups a few years ago. Talk about anything and everything you can think of, and more. Not just porn though so it can be quite time consuming.