So, I told my wife I used AAS

[greaseywrench1]

I kept talking about it and researching it and slowly bringing it up... Then I said a "friend" had some extra and gave me some. Slowly dropped the hints and she seemed ok with it as well. She didn't know it was illegal though, thought it was just frowned upon. Her first response was, "I hate needles so don't expect me to stab your ass", which lit me up because I realized she'd be cool with it. Had a buddy do my first injection and she's been doing it since! Once she realized its a small needle in your ass muscle, she was ok with it.

[LouieGhost]

This post gave me the balls to finally tell my wife..told her the deal last night..she actually took it quite well.. definitely better with no secrets.. relief...

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[petemitchell30]

When I was thinking about getting back into it I went to my wife and, like everything else, we made the decision together. She is a very successful NPC bikini competitor, so she understands my desire for an aesthetic appearance. She also has a decade and several hundred thousand $$'s committed to studying the human body. While steroids are not something she deals with in her scope of practice, her general understanding of the body allows her to quickly become well versed in areas unfamiliar to her. She was on board, providing I get regular blood tests that enable her to monitor and mitigate the harmful long term sides. We take a fairly (but not overly) conservative approach, and so far so good.

[MuscleScience]

I just told my women that I take Testosterone , helps with my sleep, mood etc.
She is supportive, if ever cornered about what exactly I'm taking, I just say a form of testosterone that gives me harder boners, then she is fine with it.

[MuscleScience]

Secondly,

There are a ton of people taking bio identical hormones both
Men and women, so it's not as uncommon as you might think
Now. If ever asked, you can just say I'm getting bioidentical
T from the same clinic your wife, brother in law etc is.

[hammerheart]

I just told my women that I take Testosterone , helps with my sleep, mood etc.
She is supportive, if ever cornered about what exactly I'm taking, I just say a form of testosterone that gives me harder boners, then she is fine with it.

Secondly,

There are a ton of people taking bio identical hormones both
Men and women, so it's not as uncommon as you might think
Now. If ever asked, you can just say I'm getting bioidentical
T from the same clinic your wife, brother in law etc is.

I like the way you put this,

it's hard to explain your on a chemical approved only for veterinarian use, because it works much like Test while being structurally a progestational steroid , and this offers you advantages in terms of masculinity while being easier to manage because Test gives you intolerable estrogen sides.


I've attempted this with a friend and miserably failed.

[MuscleScience]

I like the way you put this,

it's hard to explain your on a chemical approved only for veterinarian use, because it works much like Test while being structurally a progestational steroid , and this offers you advantages in terms of masculinity while being easier to manage because Test gives you intolerable estrogen sides.


I've attempted this with a friend and miserably failed.

got to spin it into socially accepted behaviors and language. People don't seem to think PED's or Steroids when you say Testosterone or bio identical hormones.

[600@50]

got to spin it into socially accepted behaviors and language. People don't seem to think PED's or Steroids when you say Testosterone or bio identical hormones.

You're right on it MS. It's all in the delivery. Put the PC spin on it and everything is ok.

[lntense]

When talking to other people I say testosterone is very similar to a female taking birth control(estrogen). Except birth control actually can make you bat shit crazy and rage. lol birth control rage has far more truth than roid rage .

[kelkel]

She is a very successful NPC bikini competitor

Awesome. Nuff said.

[Jonbana]

having your partner know is way better makes glute shots easy once they learn how too

[Coffeehead]

Wow, a lot of replies since I last signed in.

Tell your wife that you want a divorce and have just fucked another woman,
and then you'll see how good she is at keeping your secrets.

Heh, well in that case I'd have it coming to me.

I told my ex-wife about cycling years ago before divorce. She freaked out and said if she ever found out I did it again she would divorce me. She never found out again but divorced me anyway. Turned out to be the best thing that could have happened (if you don't get this read the second sentence again).

I recently told my girlfriend about wanting to do a deca cycle for a knee injury plus some extra help at the gym and she researched the heck out of it, came back to me supportive and told me "even some professional athletes use it for joint issues and at higher doses, and do it safely with all the information that is available now." She said she trusts me and thanked me for being transparent and honest. Her only request was that I keep her in the loop - let her know when I'm cycling, about any sides, etc. And I think she means that sincerely and out of love, not because she's controlling or wants to jump on anything.

I see the comments about AAS being blamed for an argument or behavior, but I have been dating this goddess for 3 months and we haven't come close to arguing once. My ex and I argued every day no matter how hard I tried not to.

She even offers to eat the diet I'm on just to make it easier when we are together.

I'm a happy man, my friends.

You got yourself a winner bro.

[Coffeehead]

This post gave me the balls to finally tell my wife..told her the deal last night..she actually took it quite well.. definitely better with no secrets.. relief...

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I just told my women that I take Testosterone , helps with my sleep, mood etc.
She is supportive, if ever cornered about what exactly I'm taking, I just say a form of testosterone that gives me harder boners, then she is fine with it.

Respect. Good job fellas.

I like the way you put this,

it's hard to explain your on a chemical approved only for veterinarian use, because it works much like Test while being structurally a progestational steroid , and this offers you advantages in terms of masculinity while being easier to manage because Test gives you intolerable estrogen sides.


I've attempted this with a friend and miserably failed.

Hahaha - I guess if you put a nice spin on it, you can make AAS use sound great to the random Joe Schmoe that thinks they make your dick fly off, and/or die.

[GirlyGymRat]

Tell no one. That's between me and my source. Period.

Don't ask. Don't tell. It's just not sharing.

Some ppl can't handle the truth.

I developed trust issues bc trust broken.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

Ppl like to gossip. Don't give them anything! Ppl will make up crap when necessary. Then it's their gossip , not my life.

Women have minds like elephants.
Women are vindictive.

[diesel101]

No way would I want to or be able to tell my wife the truth. She still thinks my gains are from the trt gel that I am prescribed by the doctor.

[lntense]

I told my ex-wife about cycling years ago before divorce. She freaked out and said if she ever found out I did it again she would divorce me. She never found out again but divorced me anyway. Turned out to be the best thing that could have happened (if you don't get this read the second sentence again).

I recently told my girlfriend about wanting to do a deca cycle for a knee injury plus some extra help at the gym and she researched the heck out of it, came back to me supportive and told me "even some professional athletes use it for joint issues and at higher doses, and do it safely with all the information that is available now." She said she trusts me and thanked me for being transparent and honest. Her only request was that I keep her in the loop - let her know when I'm cycling, about any sides, etc. And I think she means that sincerely and out of love, not because she's controlling or wants to jump on anything.

I see the comments about AAS being blamed for an argument or behavior, but I have been dating this goddess for 3 months and we haven't come close to arguing once. My ex and I argued every day no matter how hard I tried not to.

She even offers to eat the diet I'm on just to make it easier when we are together.

I'm a happy man, my friends.

It's only been 3 months, you're practically still in the honeymoon butterflies stage. Give it about 2 years when the oxytocin is far and few between.. then report back that it hasn't been thrown in your face at least once.


I hope that isn't the case though. Glad you're happy!

Tell no one. That's between me and my source. Period.

Don't ask. Don't tell. It's just not sharing.

Some ppl can't handle the truth.

I developed trust issues bc trust broken.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

Ppl like to gossip. Don't give them anything! Ppl will make up crap when necessary. Then it's their gossip , not my life.

Women have minds like elephants.
Women are vindictive.

Precisely. Voice of reason, and coming from a female..

[Kyle1337]

I couldn't imagine telling my gf about my use, holy shit my wife would be pissed!

[Obs]

Tell no one. That's between me and my source. Period.

Don't ask. Don't tell. It's just not sharing.

Some ppl can't handle the truth.

I developed trust issues bc trust broken.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

Ppl like to gossip. Don't give them anything! Ppl will make up crap when necessary. Then it's their gossip , not my life.

Women have minds like elephants.
Women are vindictive.

Thats all understandable.
I just left a marrige that kept me away from gear or lifting or anything that brought me joy. Since I have decided that this is my life and this is who I am. I will surround myself with people who understand or they won't be a part of my life.

That was the best decision I ever made.
It comes with a lot of perks too. I live my life like an open book so that no one will have to find out I am something I am not.
My new girlfriend and I can trade phones for two weeks on a whim and neither of us will find out anything new about each other.
I had my dreams destroyed enough and it all starts with someone controlling you by making you feel you have to hide it. They give off subliminal signs of manipulation towards you if you look for it.
People that do that dont give a shit about you, they give a shit about who they want you to be, and we cannot maintain a facade but for so long before we all break.
Secrets always come out eventually.
Its a shame it took me as long as it did to learn that I have to be myself and I have to be open to my soulmate.

My ex btw had a seven digit passcode to get into her phone and if I so much as touched it she would flip. That is a very unhealthy relationship.

[Richard Cabeza]

I couldn't imagine telling my gf about my use, holy shit my wife would be pissed!

Hahahahaha

[Richard Cabeza]

Thats all understandable.
I just left a marrige that kept me away from gear or lifting or anything that brought me joy. Since I have decided that this is my life and this is who I am. I will surround myself with people who understand or they won't be a part of my life.

That was the best decision I ever made.
It comes with a lot of perks too. I live my life like an open book so that no one will have to find out I am something I am not.
My new girlfriend and I can trade phones for two weeks on a whim and neither of us will find out anything new about each other.
I had my dreams destroyed enough and it all starts with someone controlling you by making you feel you have to hide it. They give off subliminal signs of manipulation towards you if you look for it.
People that do that dont give a shit about you, they give a shit about who they want you to be, and we cannot maintain a facade but for so long before we all break.
Secrets always come out eventually.
Its a shame it took me as long as it did to learn that I have to be myself and I have to be open to my soulmate.

My ex btw had a seven digit passcode to get into her phone and if I so much as touched it she would flip. That is a very unhealthy relationship.

I agree, I'm not about hiding who i am and what i do. Its the choice i made i accept the good and bad of it. People can either accept it or not, thats not going to change the fact that I'm going to do what i want to make me happy. Lifes too short to be living it for other people

[Obs]

I agree, I'm not about hiding who i am and what i do. Its the choice i made i accept the good and bad of it. People can either accept it or not, thats not going to change the fact that I'm going to do what i want to make me happy. Lifes too short to be living it for other people

I live for others too but it sure doesnt mean we have to be miserable slaves lol!

[Richard Cabeza]

I live for others too but it sure doesnt mean we have to be miserable slaves lol!

Yeah i mean i have kids and family and all that, i meant it more as living to appease others or for other peoples validation. More along those lines,.... fuck, i went to public school man give me a break haha

[Obs]

Yeah i mean i have kids and family and all that, i meant it more as living to appease others or for other peoples validation. More along those lines,.... fuck, i went to public school man give me a break haha

I know man I understood you.

[GirlyGymRat]

got to spin it into socially accepted behaviors and language. People don't seem to think PED's or Steroids when you say Testosterone or bio identical hormones.

Alternative facts is another option!

[NACH3]

got to spin it into socially accepted behaviors and language. People don't seem to think PED's or Steroids when you say Testosterone or bio identical hormones.

You're right on it MS. It's all in the delivery. Put the PC spin on it and everything is ok.

I've recently told the woman I'm dating and put it in these terms and she's been nothing but supportive and doesn't even ask any questions as she knows I'm very in depth with what I'm doing! She was like how do you grow so fast and how does your body change wkly lol... so I told her about my TRT

MS, it sure is all in the delivery b/c my ex(of 7+ yrs & an Endo to boot) had very little knowledge of AAS use andwanted no parts of me going on T or Bio identical hormones etc... I thought that was very odd coming from her(and her background) but it was the beginning of the end to say the least!

Btw it's all just TRT - no one will ever know about the blasting!!

[NACH3]

Tell no one. That's between me and my source. Period.

Don't ask. Don't tell. It's just not sharing.

Some ppl can't handle the truth.

I developed trust issues bc trust broken.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

Ppl like to gossip. Don't give them anything! Ppl will make up crap when necessary. Then it's their gossip , not my life.

Women have minds like elephants.
Women are vindictive.

Agree with all the above but in bold is surely very truthful... women won't and don't want to forget either!!

[hammerheart]

Btw it's all just TRT - no one will ever know about the blasting!!

I doubt ppl not in the game can get the difference between TRT, blasting and cycling, it's more about doc prescribed vs perceived abuse.

[Obs]

I doubt ppl not in the game can get the difference between TRT, blasting and cycling, it's more about doc prescribed vs perceived abuse.

Yep. Yet somehow it is better to have an inept endo put someone on 200mg of test cyp on a monthly dosage with no AI or hcg .
They just did it to my brother and I told him to tell the doc he could do his own injections and told him to shoot 100mg every 3.5 days.
As long as it carries a prescription it must be perfectly fine right???

[hammerheart]

Yep. Yet somehow it is better to have an inept endo put someone on 200mg of test cyp on a monthly dosage with no AI or hcg .
They just did it to my brother and I told him to tell the doc he could do his own injections and told him to shoot 100mg every 3.5 days.
As long as it carries a prescription it must be perfectly fine right???

Unless the doc is prescribing it as a PED yes, it's perfectly fine, no matter how crap the protocol is.

Same goes for psy meds, you can take a benzo and go drive a car and kill someone from sedation impairing your reflexes and again it's perfectly fine.

The doc told it!

[NACH3]

My ex btw had a seven digit passcode to get into her phone and if I so much as touched it she would flip. That is a very unhealthy relationship.

I see this a lot and in every relationship I've ever been in this wasn't even a problem let alone something we both was something we never even thought about!

Think of it like this... if you got someone going thru your damn phone, whether it's you or them, one of ya or both have trust issues! This is far from a happy relationship it's more like let's see what we can find out about the 'person' I know... which is obvious both parties involved need to find the underlying problem in themselves, imho! Very unhealthy if anyone has to deal with this type of thing!

[Obs]

[/B]

I see this a lot and in every relationship I've ever been in this wasn't even a problem let alone something we both was something we never even thought about!

Think of it like this... if you got someone going thru your damn phone, whether it's you or them, one of ya or both have trust issues! This is far from a happy relationship it's more like let's see what we can find out about the 'person' I know... which is obvious both parties involved need to find the underlying problem in themselves, imho! Very unhealthy if anyone has to deal with this type of thing!

You misunderstood. We dont go through each others phone. I am saying we can though.
My phone is broke etc... "take mine".
That is how it should be not "OMG WHY DID YOU PICK MY PHONE UP!"
"Well, It was beeping so I was gonna put it on the charger"

I got on my exes phone once. She was flirting with a guy in another state, sending him pics.
Someone has to give me a reason to trust them.
In a decade my ex never did.
The one I am with now I trust more than any other on earth and thats how it should be.

[NACH3]

Gotcha / I get what your sayin now obs

[marcus300]

You misunderstood. We dont go through each others phone. I am saying we can though.
My phone is broke etc... "take mine".
That is how it should be not "OMG WHY DID YOU PICK MY PHONE UP!"
"Well, It was beeping so I was gonna put it on the charger"

I got on my exes phone once. She was flirting with a guy in another state, sending him pics.
Someone has to give me a reason to trust them.
In a decade my ex never did.
The one I am with now I trust more than any other on earth and thats how it should be.

I was sick of her keep sending me pictures anyway. Fucking big unit

[Obs]

Gotcha / I get what your sayin now obs

I do agree completely that people that have to check up on each other do not have a good relationship.

[Obs]

I was sick of her keep sending me pictures anyway. Fucking big unit

Lmfao! You wanked to it!

[Mr.BB]

I do agree completely that people that have to check up on each other do not have a good relationship.

A relationship in which nobody checked a phone is yet to exist...

We are only humans.

[diesel101]

I tell my wife she can go through my phone anytime she wants but there is one catch.
She cannot get upset when she sees the nasty stuff my demented friends send me.

[Richard Cabeza]

A relationship in which nobody checked a phone is yet to exist...

We are only humans.

5 years with my girl, not once has she gone through my phone or me hers. Its never even been a conversation we've had. Granted this is the first relationship I've been in where there's been this level of mutual trust and i can attribute my side of it to being the worst guy to others in the past but this is the first person that was actually worth any type of effort. The fact that i can 100% trust her makes me be the kind of man she can 100% trust

[Deuces_wild]

I had the same issue trying to hide it. Not worth it to hide anything from the wifey. Once I told her and informed her she was more than helpful. Orders my pins for me likes to look things up and help out. Even pins me when I got to big to turn haha. Glad it worked out for ya