This has nothing to do with whether you trust him or anyone else for that matter. I have answered many questions via PM but have never solicited anyone to PM me for advice. The Forums are designed to share knowledge and give and receive information. This makes information available to all and subjects statements made to peer review.Noted
I was one of the first members to congratulate Dedicated on his transformation and actually gave him a fair amount of advice upon him PMing me without me asking. I do take issue with quite a few of his statements lately where he is saying "you must listen to me and only me".
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread.php?t=393508 Posts 11 and 14 are the kind of things I am speaking of.
This protocol ensures that my advice is working for you or not.If you follow what I lay out and it's not for you then you just killed 2 birds with one stone.My way of traveling towards your goal didn't work and there's no reason to think other wise. Juturna's before and after pics speak for itself.I reinforced J with all my support.I demonstrated concern with his venture I didn't agree with and in the end I was rite,and now he's smarter for the experience.
If someone has hired you as their personal trainer then those ground rules are expected to be followed.
I'm no personal trainer. I'm just someone who enjoys bringing the best out of those who are willing to put in the work.
Here we give advice and opinions, the undertone of many of Dedicateds posts lately of "taking members under his wing" and having them PM them so they can follow specific guidelines set forth by him are a bit disturbing. I give him kudos for getting himself into fantastic shape but I am not so sure this gives him the Guru like status he seems to be projecting lately.
Wow,I'm projecting a GURU like status cause people start threads and members give praise on my diet and training suggestions and results. I'm truly a bit disturbed myself at this statement.In my "Pre contest load double edge sword thread"http://forums.steroid.com/showthread.php?t=397487I stated that everything I learned in the past 24 weeks is more then any so called GURU could tell me about how MY body works.It's not in me to call myself a GURU it's just too self serving.
Let me state again, I do not mean this as a personal attack on Dedicated. As I said earlier I worked with him and have much respect for what he accomplished. This is about keeping the forums open. Unless you are going to be giving out personal information about yourself I cant think of any reason you would solicit a PM from another member.