Quote Originally Posted by Flier View Post
I am pretty sure we are open and honest with each other at this point.
If you have sen what we have been through and the changes that have happened here in our house the last 2 weeks, I think you would agree.
I guess she was starving herself when I was not watching.
The time we spent together this summer, home and vacationing she was eating properly.....or as I write this, maybe not.
We are spending time in hotels, and sometimes she and friends run down for breakfast before me, and I don´t really know what she eats....and so on...
Wow...a male anorexic. I have just never heard of it. Usually we think we are too skinny. I will admit even at 250lbs during my first and last cycle this year, I kinda still thought I looked skinny....hehe. Maybe at 300lbs I would look thick enough.
A lot of lying HAS been going on, but I really think we are past it.
She put all the cards on the table yesterday, because I told her she might as well, I know everything anyway.
Believe it or not, there are a LOT of male anorexics.

Communication is important. My wife was supportive of me not eating because she knew I had lost 70 pounds and tend to have an "over-do it, or don't do it" mentality. She became nervous when I was finally honest about taking laxatives any time I ate more than a few bites of food. I was 160 pounds and still losing pretty fast...and thought I was still fat. I was unhealthy and she started to realize that. She really helped a lot after that, mostly with support rather than being bossy (which I don't respond to). Eating was a challenge for a while, but then I over did it the other way and started eating too much. Obviously my relationship with food is a mess, but getting back into the gym last December (six years off from a back injury) brought stability back into my life.

I hope you daughter gets that stability. She will be so much happier.