Is she really pregnant?? Help MEEEE

**larry3436** · 06-06-2004, 06:53 PM

ok i read about half way througyh the responses.

Fisrt of all 80% of women are physco.Yep....its true , and if your feeling these signs that she might be pulling stupid phsyco ****..you better make sure.Ive seen women pull **** like this for devious reasons , and even worse somtimes for no reason at all.

One good one is to say she needs money for an abortion...its a quick few 100$$$ and post guys would jump on it.

But all that aside , i have 2 childern from 2 diff chicks.The first was on the pill and we were together a couple years , i know she dint wanna get pregnant.

the second i am with for 6 years now , we had a kid year and a half ago....she was on the shot.My point i guess is birth control is not trust worthy.So it could happen.

I love my kids to death...it sucks being away from the first one all week(have her on weekends.)I would have loved the single life a bit better without all the responsibilty though , first one happened when i was 19.Just be careful!

**Act of God** · 06-06-2004, 07:58 PM

The thing is, i don't even know this girl. I had to ask her what her last name was. I can't be tied to knowing this girl for the rest of my life. (read: I was drunk and she is HIDEOUS).

I still don't get why she would take a urine and blood pregnancy test the day she got sick at work. I mean, she was on the shot...so she couldn't have been expecting to be pregnant. Secondly, wouldn't they just send her home for being sick? I feel like blood testing or whatever isn't something you do immediately when someone throws up at the workplace.

**BUYLONGTERM** · 06-09-2004, 01:22 PM

Give us an update! I know you don't want to drive 3 hours to see her to give her a test, but Jesus, 3 hours is nothing compared to the hell your putting up with. Get your ass in a car buy a test at the drug store, and find out!!!!!!

LORDBLiTZ · 06-09-2004, 01:29 PM

How did she find out your real name and number after a one night stand?

**BUYLONGTERM** · 06-09-2004, 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by LORDBLiTZ

How did she find out your real name and number after a one night stand?

good question!!!!!

**Dude-Man** · 06-09-2004, 03:29 PM

Originally Posted by medic23

She sounds really shadey. Its most likely someone elses or she's lying. If not ru-486 baby.

that's pretty terrible.

**Act of God** · 06-09-2004, 06:09 PM

The more I research, the less likely I think that she is, in fact, pregnant. 12-13 days for a positive urine test, blood test, as well as morning sickness seems really, really early...especially since she was on the Shot and not getting her periods.

Either way, she has an "appointment" with planned parenthood on June 14th at 11:45am. She recently left me a voicemail saying "if you're not coming with me, I am not going". Which, to me, says "kiss my ass and do what I say or I am having the kid".

I can't believe a woman would have a kid out of spite, but crazier things have happened. I'm still clutching the idea that she isn't pregnant. I will have my friend at the PP center on the 14th. I'll probably tell her that I will meet her there and then call her/or her call me and give the old "I blew out a tire on the thuway".

If she is pregnant, and if she is going to have an abortion...I will 100% be there. This is just a scheduled ultrasound. I can't even go in the room with her (I asked), so no point in me going.

AOG

**Act of God** · 06-10-2004, 06:55 PM

Latest news, she totally believes im in rehab now

Next visit the 14th
Abortion scheduled, according to her, the 22nd

AOG will be attending the 22nd. I can't make it to the 14th because I will still be in "rehab"

**Warrior** · 06-10-2004, 07:05 PM

I bet you won't forget jimmy in the future!

**Act of God** · 06-10-2004, 08:18 PM

hells no, BJ's all the way

**Demon Deacon** · 06-10-2004, 11:13 PM

AOG i think she is playing you. For your sake i hope she is bro.

**Matty** · 06-11-2004, 06:09 AM

AOG, don't know if this has been mentioned yet but...

The irony of your AR Name in this situation is overwhelming

**Warrior** · 06-11-2004, 09:03 PM

Originally Posted by Matty

AOG, don't know if this has been mentioned yet but...

The irony of your AR Name in this situation is overwhelming

haha

Originally Posted by Warrior

Man - you would think it would take an Act of God for her to be pregnant... or it did - didn't it!?!

(((that was lame)))

**Act of God** · 06-14-2004, 05:30 PM

June 22nd the a-bomb is scheduled. She says she still doesn't know if she's going to go through with it though.

My ulcer grows daily.

**Demon Deacon** · 06-14-2004, 11:41 PM

Are you positive that she is pregnant. And she is stupid not to go thru with it. It was a one night stand.

**LeanMeOut** · 06-14-2004, 11:48 PM

****.... this get's weirder and weirder by the day. I haven't read this thread in a while I but I think she is full of $hit as well.

<<LMO>>

**Act of God** · 06-15-2004, 07:17 AM

At this point I don't know what to believe. Half of me wants to tell her to **** off and erase this thing out of my mind because I don't believe her. The other half is wondering "what if", and I am scared that if I blow her off she will keep it out of spite.

I took off work that day, and I will make the drive up there. I can pretty much guarantee that she either has a miscarriage by then (read:

) or just doesn't go through with it and disappears.

I hear planned parenthood charges like $400 for the procedure. ****, I'll buy two for that price even if the kid aint mine.

**Act of God** · 06-21-2004, 09:02 PM

Update: She claims she is getting the abortion on Friday at 9:15am. She made up some lame ass reason to get mad at me on the phone and said I am not allowed to be there. She was like "don't worry, I'm 100% getting it done...ill send you the papers if you want".

What should I do? Still show up?

**PrairieDawg** · 06-21-2004, 09:33 PM

man i thought this thread got closed like 3 days ago

**Act of God** · 06-21-2004, 09:37 PM

why, does it offend you?

**SwoleCat** · 06-21-2004, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by Act of God

why, does it offend you?

No, probably offends many more people, as the plethora of "I'm now a Baby-Daddy" threads as of late have this looking like a re-run.

~SC~

**Act of God** · 06-21-2004, 10:34 PM

mine was one of the first. And regardless, there's nothing wrong with posting about it. I wanted people's opinions on what I should do, thats kinda the point of message boards

***BajanBastard*** · 06-21-2004, 10:39 PM

[QUOTE=Act of God]The thing is, i don't even know this girl. I had to ask her what her last name was. I can't be tied to knowing this girl for the rest of my life. (read: I was drunk and she is HIDEOUS). LMFAO!!

**Act of God** · 07-02-2004, 03:24 PM

I don't know if anyone cares, but she was lying.

I'm done, only girlfriends for me...good thing I got somethin cookin'

**LeanMeOut** · 07-02-2004, 03:37 PM

Originally Posted by Act of God

I don't know if anyone cares, but she was lying.

I'm done, only girlfriends for me...good thing I got somethin cookin'

I'll bet you feel a lot better now. Be careful who you F*ck

<<LMO>>

**bubbathegut** · 07-02-2004, 04:30 PM

wait 9 months and find if the kid looks like u, then go on the springer show and get a dna test..

**RoNNy THe BuLL** · 07-02-2004, 05:09 PM

I feel very much for you brother. Trust me.

Get this...

About a year and a half ago, I went down to Southern California while in the middle of a cycle. I loved it there. Met this smoking hot broad. Sparks flew and things went great. We started to bang and things went well for three days. I left and came back to Toronto.

A few weeks pass and I get a phone call from her. Turns out she was married and now she's pregnant. The only thing is that she doesn't know if it was my kid or her husbands. So here I was in Toronto, with a broad who was married and possibly carrying my kid. I was 21 at the time and she was 26, and that's not all. She already had an 8 year old kid (she got knocked up when she was 16 and kept it).

I honestly was ****ed up over the whole situation, just like you. I got sick, couldn't train, couldn't eat and was always stressed out.

She called me back a few weeks after and said it was her husbands kid. I never spoke to her again and never want too.

I feel for you bro, but atleast you're talking about it. I kept everything away from everyone. Any updates on the situation bro?

**RoNNy THe BuLL** · 07-02-2004, 05:11 PM

****, I just read the rest of the post.

Good to hear bro! Congrats!

**Beernutz** · 07-02-2004, 05:17 PM

She may just be pulling your leg bro. Ive been with a cooky broad myself in the past and she once told me that her doctor told her she had a 80% chance that she was pregnant whatever that means. Anyways i have 2 buddies of mine that went through the same thing as me. If the girl is a Loon i wouldnt worry to much about it bro. Girls like to say there pregnant for some reason just out of revenge towards the guy. I wouldnt sweat it right now man wait things out longer. Please dont stress over this because in the end chances are it was all for nothing.

**Beernutz** · 07-02-2004, 05:18 PM

oops never read the whole thread. Anyways congrats and i told you so.

**helios** · 07-02-2004, 08:28 PM

Originally Posted by Act of God

Update: She claims she is getting the abortion on Friday at 9:15am. She made up some lame ass reason to get mad at me on the phone and said I am not allowed to be there. She was like "don't worry, I'm 100% getting it done...ill send you the papers if you want".

What should I do? Still show up?

Show up, call her bluff, and sue her ass to her last dime for emotional distress. Just my .02

-Helios

**bmf2** · 07-03-2004, 08:34 PM

Can I ask how you finally determined she was lying after all this I just want to hear the dramatic ending as well....lol

**Act of God** · 07-03-2004, 09:27 PM

She said she went to PP and took the pill. I was at planned parenthood with her, but I had to wait in the waiting room. After she got out, I asked her what happened and she said they gave her a pill and told her to come back in a week to make sure it worked.

I was 99% positive that they give you more than 1 pill, so I called PP the next day and asked what entails the pill abortion. They give a pill at the clinic, then they give the girl 4 tablets to put in her ya ya later that night.

This girl said they only gave her one pill, so therefore she was lying.

She then said "the abortion pill didn't work", and said she had to go in for a regular abortion. She said she has another ultrasound appointment, i think it was today...and I was more than invited to come and see.

So, I caught her in a lie about the pill...but she says she got an abortion anyway. Who the hell knows, I don't care anymore. I'm pretty sure she just went to planned parenthood for a consultation....probably asked about going on birth control or somethin.

ttuPrincess · 07-03-2004, 11:12 PM

heres another way to call her a$$ on it... that pill shes talking about.,, is the morning after pill.. gotta be taken within 72 hours of the act.. there is nothing that you can take weeks after.. lying biatch.. man i would deck that SOB for ya if i could..

and I hope she does have to take that one day and she vommits for a week after..

I have no respect for women like that.. NONE!!!!

**medic23** · 07-04-2004, 01:00 AM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

heres another way to call her a$$ on it... that pill shes talking about.,, is the morning after pill.. gotta be taken within 72 hours of the act.. there is nothing that you can take weeks after.. lying biatch.. man i would deck that SOB for ya if i could..

and I hope she does have to take that one day and she vommits for a week after..

I have no respect for women like that.. NONE!!!!

ru-486 works months down the road but who cares, she was obviously lying.

ttuPrincess · 07-04-2004, 01:50 AM

Originally Posted by medic23

ru-486 works months down the road but who cares, she was obviously lying.

i stand corrected.. just researched that drug.. thanks

**BabyGirl01** · 07-04-2004, 05:56 AM

Originally Posted by Act of God

She said she went to PP and took the pill. I was at planned parenthood with her, but I had to wait in the waiting room. After she got out, I asked her what happened and she said they gave her a pill and told her to come back in a week to make sure it worked.

I was 99% positive that they give you more than 1 pill, so I called PP the next day and asked what entails the pill abortion. They give a pill at the clinic, then they give the girl 4 tablets to put in her ya ya later that night.

This girl said they only gave her one pill, so therefore she was lying.

She then said "the abortion pill didn't work", and said she had to go in for a regular abortion. She said she has another ultrasound appointment, i think it was today...and I was more than invited to come and see.

So, I caught her in a lie about the pill...but she says she got an abortion anyway. Who the hell knows, I don't care anymore. I'm pretty sure she just went to planned parenthood for a consultation....probably asked about going on birth control or somethin.

First of all I work in a radiology office. And her being oh about a few days/weeks old u can not tell anything bby an ultrasound. U need a TV sono to tell a thing..So if she said that she just got a regular ultrasound she is lying out of her teeth..

BG

**RussianVodka** · 07-04-2004, 11:34 AM

This situation sound silly for me.

**Act of God** · 07-04-2004, 05:27 PM

it wasn't silly to me! (well at least until like 2 weeks ago).

Like I said, thank god its over. I am still contemplating a lawsuit for intentional infliction of emotional distress. All you need for a cause of action is a physical manifestation. Considering I lost 20lbs, I think I qualify.

Then again, I just don't want to be involved with her anymore...but it would be nice to teach her a lesson. I should send 58 subscriptions to gay porn magazines to her house or something juvenile