Touchy Question....

[Commando_Barbi]

I agree 100% about a little "playing" being ok. It def increases the intensity of an orgasm. It's the dildo and spanking and the intensity in which he talks about it....and that little feminine voice that slips in now and then.. ya know what I mean?

I see nothing wrong with the playing. People are too insecure in themselves to let a woman touch them down there. Get over it. You're not gay if you enjoy it. Some women are game...some aren't. I dated a chick who went straight for it while giving head. I immediately pulled back...she told me settle down, relax, and try it. She played with it while giving head. One of the best BJ I have ever had. The ejaculation was very intense and volumous.

It's a very sensitive area back there.

PM me CB.

[SexyKitty]

SK, you have lots of weird friends...

Haha.....no its just those two weirdos.....and I dont see iether one of them anymore

[clockworks]

and that little feminine voice that slips in now and then.. ya know what I mean?

Is it a little feminine voice, or is it that "stereotypical gay lisp"?

[63190]

He's gay and looking for a "beard" just like those business partners mentioned earlier.
Don't walk, RUN AWAY!
Funny, you were a cop and don't want to spank?

[Commando_Barbi]

Is it a little feminine voice, or is it that "stereotypical gay lisp"?

Not quite a lisp....but not very masuline.

[SexyKitty]

Not quite a lisp....but not very masuline.

There are some guys that unfortunately for them, ended up with a voice like that....but really arent gay, but they always end up having people question their sexuality cause of the voice.

My girlfriend is married to a guy like that, when they first got together I had to ask her if she was sure he wasnt gay.....he was very feminine. Anyway, turned out hes not.

I colleague of mine has that voice too, but he's not gay. You always hear people whispering though....."Is he gay?" He actually uses it to his advantage to pick up women, they all think he's gay so he "be-friends" them to the point where they really like him, then he makes his move. My other colleague watched him work his magic in San Diego, they couldnt believe how well it worked.

I wouldnt use the voice to determine if he's gay.....but def watch out for those other issues. I think in your situation, this is the last thing you need.

[ENraged]

Holy sh-t, where have you been, man? [email protected] time...

And you think you know me!! I've changed, man!!! I swear...

Maybe if your ass signed on to msn once in awhile i could get the latest gossip from the south..... but noooo

[Money Boss Hustla]

I agree 100% about a little "playing" being ok. It def increases the intensity of an orgasm. It's the dildo and spanking and the intensity in which he talks about it....and that little feminine voice that slips in now and then.. ya know what I mean?

Ahem...don't judge a book by its cover.

[clockworks]

He actually uses it to his advantage to pick up women, they all think he's gay so he "be-friends" them to the point where they really like him, then he makes his move. My other colleague watched him work his magic in San Diego, they couldnt believe how well it worked.

Whoa, I always thought starting off down the friend path was a sure fire way to stay on the friend path. Maybe I read too much pop relationship psychology.

Yeah, dunno what to say about the voice. Now that I think about it, I got some friends with some pretty feminine voices that aren't (?) gay.

[clockworks]

Maybe if your ass signed on to msn once in awhile i could get the latest gossip from the south..... but noooo

Doode, I'm an AIM man...=P The gossip is that I'm recently single...and already lonely...=P Jump on AIM...

[HeavyHitter]

ok..... buttlicking and finger playin aint that bad gentleman... actually its fcking intense as hell!! Yes, to had tongue and fingers surfacing the poop shoot!! (mind you... this is during a BJ)

For a man to say that he is thinking about a dildo on the other hand is way over board and should defly be considered as a weirdo!! i wouldnt mess w/ him CB, your gonna find alot more surprizes then you think once he is close with you!!

[Jerzey]

I think he wants it from you Jerzey

That would be one long distance bootie call...Texas and Jersey

[clockworks]

That would be one long distance bootie call...Texas and Jersey

Distance is all relative...specifically, its inversely proportional to the amount of time I stay single.

[ENraged]

Distance is all relative...specifically, its inversely proportional to the amount of time I stay single.

this is clocky we are talking about no distance is to great to travel for a bootie call!!

PLus he is rich springing for a ticket and motel room for weekend of fun and Fornacation is nothing to the likes of him

[Benches505]

All of this backdoor action talk is making me want to run a few doors down and make my old lady squirm and scream. Lucky for her it is chest day and I won't touch her till I'm done lifting. Pre-gym sex takes 20-30 lbs away from my max

[Jerzey]

this is clocky we are talking about no distance is to great to travel for a bootie call!!

PLus he is rich springing for a ticket and motel room for weekend of fun and Fornacation is nothing to the likes of him

LMAO So I'm starting to see....

[stayinstacked]

the guy is clearly bisexual or curious, stay the hell away

[ENraged]

LMAO So I'm starting to see....

Gotta pull for my boy!!!!!

beening trying to corrupt him for what 2 years now...

I am the little fat red devil perched on his shoulder saying "got for it"

[Kärnfysikern]

I dont think its anything to worry about. He seems kinky as hell but that doestn make someone gay. Getting a womans finger up the ass isnt the same as getting a dick upp there and a finger doesnt squirt out anything either

[robkesl]

so just cause hes bisexual you wont date him? i didnt think this was true, i have a friend who told me that alot of women wont date him for that reason.

[Commando_Barbi]

I'm not a lot of women......and NO, I wouldn't date him if he was/is Bi. If that's your lifestyle, great.....I'm all for freedom of choice. I think anyone that wants to marry should be able to...same sex, opposite sex...whatever. But my personal preference is a 100% hetro man.

so just cause hes bisexual you wont date him? i didnt think this was true, i have a friend who told me that alot of women wont date him for that reason.

[oldmanliftr]

You touch the area 2 inches from my brn eye and I lose it. Nutt busted, game over.

[Benches505]

so just cause hes bisexual you wont date him? i didnt think this was true, i have a friend who told me that alot of women wont date him for that reason.

It's funny how a woman that bats both ways is called Bi but when a man does it he is as queer as a 3 dollar bill. I feel a Bi guy is a gay man that isn't fully out of the closet yet.

[Commando_Barbi]

A finger or two or even the tongue....no PROB......the Dildo thing....that bothered me

I dont think its anything to worry about. He seems kinky as hell but that doestn make someone gay. Getting a womans finger up the ass isnt the same as getting a dick upp there and a finger doesnt squirt out anything either

[Kärnfysikern]

well I know straight guys that like that. I guess the thing is how important is it for him? Like would it ruin his sexlife if he didnt get dildo play?

a girl I know likes to nail guys from behind with a strapon and suprisingly many aggres with it so its not like its horribly unusual.

[Commando_Barbi]

Well that's it. If it was JUST the voice.....then I'd be ok. But its all the little things together.

Trust ME I'm TREADING lightly. I NEED NO MORE DRAMA IN MY LIFE

There are some guys that unfortunately for them, ended up with a voice like that....but really arent gay, but they always end up having people question their sexuality cause of the voice.

My girlfriend is married to a guy like that, when they first got together I had to ask her if she was sure he wasnt gay.....he was very feminine. Anyway, turned out hes not.

I colleague of mine has that voice too, but he's not gay. You always hear people whispering though....."Is he gay?" He actually uses it to his advantage to pick up women, they all think he's gay so he "be-friends" them to the point where they really like him, then he makes his move. My other colleague watched him work his magic in San Diego, they couldnt believe how well it worked.

I wouldnt use the voice to determine if he's gay.....but def watch out for those other issues. I think in your situation, this is the last thing you need.

[Commando_Barbi]

Distance is all relative...specifically, its inversely proportional to the amount of time I stay single.

Hmmmm Seattle too far for you?

[oldmanliftr]

Give the guy a chance. Theres always the direct approach, just ask if he is bi.

[Money Boss Hustla]

Okay crux of the situation here...you feel uncomfortable...so I say drop him. Gut feelings are our mammal instict. Use them.

Now are far as anal play...IMHO there is nothing wrong with playing back there (as long as hygiene is not a problem).

Anything goes when in a secure, committed, adult relationship. I commend him for being honest with his sexuality. Couples that play together stay together.

[Commando_Barbi]

Well I haven't blocked his number yet or anything.....I was more wondering if I was a bit oversensitive given the crap I went through with the last one.

Im not looking to get into anything serious right now. My focus is strictly on this test in April. I really want this job with the state dept. . . and out of WA State

[Commando_Barbi]

Well, it is early and I don't know him that well. That is part of it. I'm gonna talk to him some more and see how it goes. Not like we are working on a marriage or anything.

Thank you MBH always count on you for sound advice

Okay crux of the situation here...you feel uncomfortable...so I say drop him. Gut feelings are our mammal instict. Use them.

Now are far as anal play...IMHO there is nothing wrong with playing back there (as long as hygiene is not a problem).

Anything goes when in a secure, committed, adult relationship. I commend him for being honest with his sexuality. Couples that play together stay together.

[Money Boss Hustla]

Well, it is early and I don't know him that well. That is part of it. I'm gonna talk to him some more and see how it goes. Not like we are working on a marriage or anything.

Thank you MBH always count on you for sound advice

Exactly. Be his friend...but don't lead him on. Be honest with him regarding your friendship level. Start slow and who knows where you may end up. A person never knows where the wind will take your sails.

[bor]

Ok here it goes.....don't flame me or get mad......I'm not trying to offend ANYONE but...

I recently met a guy by chance. Very intelligent, owns his own architectural business, into bodybuilding (getting ready for a natty show in Aug), 30, single, no baby mama drama....wants to get to know me.....all good things.

BUT there's something naggin at me.

Sometimes when we talk there's a bit of a feminine "tone" to his voice. Our early phone convos were pretty cool...didn't really touch on sex too much. Which as much as I LOVE and MISS sex......I enjoyed because it was nice to hold adult conversation with a man that didn't center around sports or sex. ANYWAY, the other night we were talking and sex did come up and he asked me if I liked anal. I told him truthfully NOT REALLY! He tells me ah thats too bad...So I ask him if he's one of those guys that likes to give but freaks out if you come near his a$$ with a hand, finger, tongue etc. I expected him to say yes.

He did NOT.

He says oh ya I like it when a woman slips in a couple fingers, even thought about letting her slip a dildo in

The convo went south from
there. Likes to be spanked,
hot wax, the works.

SO.....what makes me nervous is the whole "men on the down low" thing. I've read a few articles on it and its kinda scarey. He has made it VERY clear that he likes women and according to him while he's not homophobic (my ex was) he doesn't understand it.

I don't care if he's gay....or bi. We can be great friends. But for me, the last thing I want to do is start dating a guy that bats for both teams.

Im not trying to sterotype here......at all.....but something makes me uneasy.

What do you guys think?

D@@@@@@@@mn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is one of the funniest threads I've read in a while...

But hey CB, you should've known something was wrong with him when he said he was getting ready for a NATURAL competion

Anyway, stay away from freaks for a while, you've had your fair share lately

[Mizfit]

I think like u do.. RUNNNNNNNNNN

Sorry.. im all for being kinky.. but i think he mite be kidding himself.. if u get a vibe.. it is most likely right

[Commando_Barbi]

LOL It has been quite the popular thread ...

Thanks Bor I am very wary these days. I'm just trying to have a good time right now.

Looking foward to my trip to Cali in July, Montreal in Aug, Qatar in Sep and Jordan in Nov . And then TEST time.

Gonna find me a French Canadian boy toy in Aug.

[clockworks]

Gotta pull for my boy!!!!!
beening trying to corrupt him for what 2 years now...
I am the little fat red devil perched on his shoulder saying "got for it"

Ain't that the truth! You almost plunged me down the dark path of immorality last xmas. Good thing my little white angel ain't juicing, else the test might have got the better of his judgment...=P But hey, I'm single now...bring on the chicas!

You touch the area 2 inches from my brn eye and I lose it. Nutt busted, game over.

Bahahaha, sorry...I found that to be hilarious. Thats cool though...I believe everyone has a little bit of freak in them...just not all admit it...

Hmmmm Seattle too far for you?

I've actually been there many times. And I saw your MSN space...you look good...and I typically have a thing for older women! >=) ...but, I've followed your threads on AR over the years...I'm waaaaaaaay too small for your tastes...

Okay crux of the situation here...you feel uncomfortable...so I say drop him. Gut feelings are our mammal instict. Use them.

That makes a lot of sense to me.

[Commando_Barbi]

"Clocky"...ahh, that brings back warm memories...=)

Wanna create a few more "warm" memories big guy

[Commando_Barbi]

Clock - - small how . Actually the one that has just screwed with my head was not a very big guy. I like a guy fit or muscular. Just don't like SOFT, lazy men.

Did you leave a msg on my space?

[3Vandoo]

Oh man I didnt read this thread

[hellapimpin]

lol....gay!!!!