Thread: So, would you leave your gf
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10-31-2005, 08:20 PM #1
So, would you leave your gf
whom you are definately enamored with, to be with a gorgeous ex-junkie(3 years clean) who you think might be the woman you want to marry. She's smart, she's funny, educated, independant.
I feel like an idiot... one with no clue as to what to do.
I like my girlfriend a whole lot, but i the feelings I have for girl #2 are tearing me apart.
Cheating isnt an option, I refuse to. Girl 2 kissed me tonight, and then we had to have a talk about this whole thing.
Now its time for me to go to bed, and im still trying to figure out how to go to sleep next to my girl while im feeling like this.
****ing stupid me. Stupid, stupid me.
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10-31-2005, 08:24 PM #2
Well, why did you leave #2?
Who is better for you?
Why do love #2 so much?
Do you love #1?
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10-31-2005, 08:28 PM #3
i never left 2, we werent together
i never said i loved either.
I already said, #2, is to me, the most attractive girl ive ever met :shrug
No, i dont love #1, weve been together like 4 months. Tho, i do like her a ton.
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you need to spend the night thinking.
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10-31-2005, 08:29 PM #5
dammit..my ex still loved her ex and went to go see him...fackk
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10-31-2005, 08:39 PM #6Originally Posted by chest6
hahahahaahahahahahah, sorry to hear bruh,
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10-31-2005, 08:30 PM #7
No such thing as an x-junkie bro. Be ready to deal with a relapse if you are going that route.
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10-31-2005, 08:36 PM #8Originally Posted by Benches505
she'll always be an addict man, but she's not a junkie. 3 years clean (off methadone also) is an amazing feat. It does scare me, but it doesnt change my opinion of her. Lots of us were ****-ups for a long time, me included.
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10-31-2005, 08:41 PM #9
Go to #2. Don't drag #1 through all this. Your attraction for #2 will never fade unless you're with her. So let #1 free before you end up really hurting her. Give #2 a try. I hope it all works out for you!
Originally Posted by Evil Predator
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10-31-2005, 08:43 PM #10Originally Posted by Puffader
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10-31-2005, 08:51 PM #11Originally Posted by Benches505
Last edited by BG; 10-31-2005 at 08:54 PM.
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10-31-2005, 08:55 PM #12Originally Posted by BigGuns101
Plus, she's hard and toned everywhere, and she's big into fitness
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10-31-2005, 08:59 PM #13Originally Posted by BigGuns101
Some people do change for the better.
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10-31-2005, 08:30 PM #14
does #2 love you?? and does she relize what you may be giving up to be with her
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10-31-2005, 08:41 PM #15Originally Posted by steve0
Whats with all the love talk? Is love a couple of month process for you people? How can you love someone you dont really even know?
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10-31-2005, 08:42 PM #16AR's Salad Tossing Connoisseur
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do what you feel is right... I was dating a girl for 3 years... always was subconciously in love with my friend who happened to be a female... we are dating now, and she is the girl I will marry.... you never know what's in store unless you give the situation an opportunity. Be careful you don't confuse lust with true feelings... women are more desirable when you are in a situation where you can't have them... I still jerk off to Alyssa Milano.
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10-31-2005, 08:44 PM #17Originally Posted by Justin Sane
but, i'll still jerk off to the bra section of the sears catalogue if im hard up enough
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10-31-2005, 08:46 PM #18AR's Salad Tossing Connoisseur
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Originally Posted by Evil Predator
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11-01-2005, 11:57 AM #19Originally Posted by Justin Sane
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10-31-2005, 08:48 PM #20
im confussed as hell i thought you were all about # 2 ??? she's the addict right??? and #1 is who you are with now right??? and you have only been with her for a few months right ??
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10-31-2005, 08:51 PM #21Originally Posted by steve0
i am all about #2, the junkie.
I do like #1, but ive never felt the same about her as I do #2.
and ya, 4 months i think. I dont keep track.
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10-31-2005, 08:54 PM #22
I see you're a ladies man! NOT..!!
Originally Posted by Evil Predator
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10-31-2005, 08:49 PM #23
Hmmm... I think my minds made up. I just gotta get the courage to break it to Tricia
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10-31-2005, 08:53 PM #24
Finally #1 has a name "Tricia"
Tell her you're dating Justin Sane. Jesus that dude swings every way!
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10-31-2005, 08:55 PM #25AR's Salad Tossing Connoisseur
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Originally Posted by Puffader
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10-31-2005, 08:59 PM #26
You slap like a sissy.
Originally Posted by Justin Sane
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10-31-2005, 09:01 PM #27
bro go with ur gut on this one
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10-31-2005, 09:02 PM #28
Anyway, im off to bed. Ive got mucho thinking to do.
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10-31-2005, 10:02 PM #29
before you go throwing away a good thing, you need to make sure the next thing is a certainty. Are you sure you know this other girl well enough to assume that you and her could have a long lasting, or atleast worthwhile relationship? Hang out with this girl a lot, talk to her...don't make any moves, try to find as much as you can...then make your decision.
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10-31-2005, 10:05 PM #30
The grass is always greener till you have to eat those ****ing weeds.
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11-01-2005, 08:16 AM #31Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl
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11-01-2005, 08:58 AM #32Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl
Just messin!
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10-31-2005, 10:26 PM #33
Go with the one that loves you more, and not with the one you love more.
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10-31-2005, 11:34 PM #34Originally Posted by CAUSASIAN
I couldn't agree more.
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11-01-2005, 03:43 AM #35Anabolic Member
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There is a REASON you left the girl.
What you THINK you are feeling for this girl is a lie. It's fabricated by your agressive mind, which is a tool for solvign puzzles, survival tool, and ultimately destruciton. It's goign to destroy this great relationship you have now.
And it IS NOT hard to kick this OTHER girl to the curb!!!!!!!!!
The difficult part about it, is that you are pre-conditioned to THINK it should be difficult, when you know the truth lies with the woman you are with now. Be a man, not a child. And do what you know is right. This OTHER girl.... whoever the FUHK she is, KNOWS you are in a relationship, yet she still kissed you. Whts this show you about her other than she is a ho. She would kiss any of her EX's. If you let this ruin what you have now, then what will you have left? you'll be alone. You wont have girl1, and you dont know if girl2 could be a perm. thing. Which is wont. So yeah you'll be alone.
And why the HELL are you still hanging out with someone who could ruin your current relationship?!?!.. Because obviously you're not strong enough to avoid temptation from some other bitch. If you dont do this right this time, you'll never get it right again. Don't be a dumbass/jackass.. or any type of ass for that matter. Thats all im saying.
Will this harshness help it settle any easier?
This all relies on you....
So what you can do is this. Not tell your girlfriend that this other girl kissed you. Because it's nothing to you. She's just being a loose person. You'll go on caring for this woman you are with now. You won't even second guess this old trash, and then you'll wake up one morning next to a beautiful woman who loves you with all her heart, and you'll think of the time that it could have all gone bad, but you didn't let it. And you'll be so greatful to have her.
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11-01-2005, 04:24 AM #36Originally Posted by SnaX
anyway, my minds made up.
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11-01-2005, 04:40 AM #37
and thats it. Girl #1 just left my place crying
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11-01-2005, 05:49 AM #38
Girl #1 will want you more now,because you rejected her.
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11-01-2005, 11:36 AM #39Originally Posted by Evil Predator
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11-01-2005, 05:05 PM #40Anabolic Member
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Was he feelin it in his pants?
I'm not trying to trash ya, I'de just like to see everything turn out well for you. Thought girl1 would have been safest choice cause she cared about you. Anyhoo, not tryin to talk trash, just like to see all is well.
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