having a boyfriend training for a competition is hard :( -help

[Rob]

Don't know what kind of words of encouragement you'll get here.

As a competitor of 7 years i know how hard it is to maintain a relationship under the duress of contest prep.. It's doable.. but it requires input from both parties. He's got to be considerate where possible (i.e. recognise that bodybuilding is not the only important aspect of his life... allowing some time for other things of importance). You've got to make an effort to assist his prep so y'all have more time. Hit cardio with him. I know cardio is the most boring part of my prep. When my girl hits it with me it eases the boredom... Convo Makes it go faster. Maybe Cook his meals. Buy the gatdamned condoms for Pete's sake. That's the part that stood out most. You can't honestly miss him that much... yet refuse to buy the condoms you enjoy simply because you 'bought 'em the last time'.

~Narkissos

Thank you Judge Judy.

[GunTotingHipGangster]

cardio with him is a good idea, but make sure you ask him about lifting with him if you were even going to consider it

i know i would never lift with my girl...it has nothing to do with her being a female, but my hour in a half in the gym is my time to reflect and be alone...i need that

[chest6]

Who needs a BF when you can just fly to TX.

Yeah, but visit me on the way there

[IBdmfkr]

yea you wouldn't be too impressive after she's stopped by my place

[*Narkissos*]

Thank you Judge Judy.

lol

what's a canadian know about Judge Judy?

Imposter!

[chest6]

BTW, that's JohnnyB's avatar bro. Not sure you can fill his shoes lol

yeah..first time I saw it I was a bit confused..

[chest6]

yea you wouldn't be too impressive after she's stopped by my place

where u at anyway..San antonio???

[IBdmfkr]

Nope, I'm not mexican. Houston/Dallas area.

[chest6]

Houston/Dallas Those are kinna far. Some people are scared to say what city the live in here. Hell..I live in the dorm Tower at tx state in san marcos.. I dont see the prob

[Tren Bull]

lol

what's a canadian know about Judge Judy?

Imposter!

haha you bros ever seen the judge judy soundboards on ebaumsworld? its fun prank calling people with that cause they think they are actually talking to a woman. then hit em up with some arnold voice clips. great sh_t

[Myka]

he is closest to dallas

[IBdmfkr]

No I live in Houston and my Bro lives in Dallas, I have business in both so I'm always back and forth. You know your IP tells what street you live on. So I don't think it has anything to do with that. I was just generalizing it so I didn't have to type all this BS out like I just did

[chest6]

he is closest to dallas

dont seem like your normal self today whats the deal

[chest6]

No I live in Houston and my Bro lives in Dallas, I have business in both so I'm always back and forth. You know your IP tells what street you live on. So I don't think it has anything to do with that. I was just generalizing it so I didn't have to type all this BS out like I just did

fair enough

[IBdmfkr]

I have friends who live there also Chest. Good school.

[chest6]

I have friends who live there also Chest. Good school.

ya..90% juiceheads it seems like. Good stuff tho. You'll have to stop by sometime and catch a lift

[Tren Bull]

your IP tells what street you live on

wow bro, i didn't know that.

[Myka]

dont seem like your normal self today whats the deal

stuff...stressed I guess...

trying to keep up with some harder classes and work on transferring...ugg

[IBdmfkr]

Yea, they are big boys. Some play ball etc.. I have been to the UT rec center before. Pitiful weight room I must say, Bunch of pussies in there also. Sad when I'm the biggest guy there LBM-wise.

[IBdmfkr]

wow bro, i didn't know that.

Knowing is half the battle.

[juiceboxxx]

NEW KID AND TREN BULL crackkk me up. You guys just chanegd the topic on her and brushed her off soooo many times lol.

[chest6]

I hear ya about the harder classes

[IBdmfkr]

Her question was answered. She needs to suck it up or move on. Simple. Obviously his comp is more important than her and her feelings. I don't blame him.

Seems to me as if their relationship isn't so strong anyhow since it doesn't seem she hasn't brought this up to him and talked about it. Women expect us to know what is bothering them without them saying anything, doesn't work that way. Guys have way too much shit going on then to play games and read minds.

[chest6]

Yea, they are big boys. Some play ball etc.. I have been to the UT rec center before. Pitiful weight room I must say, Bunch of pussies in there also. Sad when I'm the biggest guy there LBM-wise.

yeah, ive been there several times too. Everyone here thinks I juice too..all they do is workout..then get drunk..then juice. Im like whats the point in working out when ur just gonna go get plastered 5x a week?

[juiceboxxx]

Her question was answered. She needs to suck it up or move on. Simple. Obviously his comp is more important than her and her feelings. I don't blame him.

Seems to me as if their relationship isn't so strong anyhow since it doesn't seem she hasn't brought this up to him and talked about it. Women expect us to know what is bothering them without them saying anything, doesn't work that way. Guys have way too much shit going on then to play games and read minds.

Hmmmmm. Good solid points

[IBdmfkr]

Yea, see it all the time in 24hr. I see all those fools at the bar and laugh at them. They always ask, "what you scared of a little alcohol?" Because I usually have a few drinks and then stick with water.

[Myka]

NEW KID AND TREN BULL crackkk me up. You guys just chanegd the topic on her and brushed her off soooo many times lol.

rofl...

[chest6]

Yea, see it all the time in 24hr. I see all those fools at the bar and laugh at them. They always ask, "what you scared of a little alcohol?" Because I usually have a few drinks and then stick with water.

Yep. Damn we destroyed this thread..but as you said, question answered.

[Myka]

sleep is for winners

[Myka]

good night

[chest6]

whats that?

[Tren Bull]

Guys have way too much shit going on then to play games and read minds.

yea exactly. i hate when girls start playing games and fu_kin with my head. hell, thats about when i stop talking to them

[Tren Bull]

ur just gonna go get plastered 5x a week?

oh fu_k that. dont get me wrong, i love boozing, but 5 times a week is way too excessive. id get a fat beer gut if i did that, then girls wouldn't want me. that would be terrible bro. id much rather get drunk once a week max... hell on the other days il just get faded off of something else that doesnt have any calories.. you know, my favorite plant

[chest6]

I hate when girls get mad then ur like whats wrong and they wont tell u..they expect you to know. Theyre like "you should know!" Well if I knew...maybe I wouldnt be asking u dummy

[chest6]

oh fu_k that. dont get me wrong, i love boozing, but 5 times a week is way too excessive. id get a fat beer gut if i did that, then girls wouldn't want me. that would be terrible bro. id much rather get drunk once a week max... hell on the other days il just get faded off of something else that doesnt have any calories.. you know, my favorite plant

lol u crazy ass. My first year in college I got drunk a total of: 2 times. Kinna sad.

[Tren Bull]

Knowing is half the battle.

yea. id like to get that program gurdian angel or whatever its called. it blocks damn near everyone from hacking into your comp. probably blocks your ip address too.

[Tren Bull]

lol u crazy ass. My first year in college I got drunk a total of: 2 times. Kinna sad.

think of it like this, you saved money, plus you are much thinner than you would be if you had boozed hardcore

[IBdmfkr]

Yea I've heard stories about Northern Cali. Good ones too lol

[chest6]

think of it like this, you saved money, plus you are much thinner than you would be if you had boozed hardcore

yeah and I sure dont need to be any fatter..

[Myka]

cant sleep