having a boyfriend training for a competition is hard :( -help

[Marisa]

ok so my boyfriend has about 6 weeks to go till his first competition and it wasnt really hard in the beginning.. but now its getting harder for me.. he eats every 3 hours, does cardio usually in the morning at his house.. then goes to the gym at night with his workout buddy. i seriously see him for like 2-3 hours maybe 3 times a week, and i know space is good, but its really hard for me and ive been really sad latley and i think a big reason is becuase i miss him and i dont get to spend that much time with him and wen we are together latley.. we stay in and sit or lay around. i talked to him about it and he's the best and he got me to smile but i still miss him and it not being all about bodybuilding all the time.. at the same time tho.. i understand that he has this competition comming up soon that hes really dedicated and looking forward to and im so proud of him. we dont even have sex anymore. i told him he needs to go buy the condoms since i did the past few times. we only have a few condoms left and they suck so i wont have sex till he gets the better ones so it can be enjoyable! maybe that has somethin to do with why ive been so sad to? i seriously dont think we have had sex in 3 weeks.. were young.. and should do it all the time.. were both just not up to it... i duno whats wrong.. but i cant wait for this competiton to be over so i can have my boyfriend back. are there any girls here who have boyfriends into the sport or n e one who can give me some good words of encouragement maybe? i miss my boyfriend

[IBdmfkr]

Buy a vibrator.

[Myka]

I probably shouldnt say anything...Im off my meds right now...the last time I posted without meds...well....................................... ..

[chest6]

He should eat every 2 hours. Hmm..I can't imagine having a gf now..prolly wouldn't work out. Only 6 more weeks!

[Marisa]

Buy a vibrator.

i have 4. i want my boyfriend lol

I probably shouldnt say anything...Im off my meds right now...the last time I posted without meds...well....................................... ..

u really live on this thing dont you? well what?

[IBdmfkr]

We'll I guess just be supportive and let him do his thing. Otherwise, move on. Seems like you are pretty cool GF. But you could cook his meals OR go to the gym with him instead of just bitching about never getting to see him, take action and take interest in what he is revolving his life around. Simple.

[Marisa]

He should eat every 2 hours. Hmm..I can't imagine having a gf now..prolly wouldn't work out. Only 6 more weeks!

the 3 seems to be working for him..

yeah see i consider myself a very understandging girlfriend tho and i try to keep my mouth shut about it.. and i always do except one time wen i was pissed about somethin..

all i really want is for him to be more loving and affectionate with me.. i need that and i need him to hold me sometimes with me having to ask him to come cuddle.. and he dosnt feel like it. and i dont wanna say n e thing to him about it bcuz i tried showing him and he knows what i want.. he just dosnt do it .. and then i get sad cuz i deal with his shit im counting down!

[Tren Bull]

Buy a vibrator.

wow, you're a vet now too? congratulations bro

[Tren Bull]

ok so my boyfriend has about 6 weeks to go till his first competition and it wasnt really hard in the beginning.. but now its getting harder for me.. he eats every 3 hours, does cardio usually in the morning at his house.. then goes to the gym at night with his workout buddy. i seriously see him for like 2-3 hours maybe 3 times a week, and i know space is good, but its really hard for me and ive been really sad latley and i think a big reason is becuase i miss him and i dont get to spend that much time with him and wen we are together latley.. we stay in and sit or lay around. i talked to him about it and he's the best and he got me to smile but i still miss him and it not being all about bodybuilding all the time.. at the same time tho.. i understand that he has this competition comming up soon that hes really dedicated and looking forward to and im so proud of him. we dont even have sex anymore. i told him he needs to go buy the condoms since i did the past few times. we only have a few condoms left and they suck so i wont have sex till he gets the better ones so it can be enjoyable! maybe that has somethin to do with why ive been so sad to? i seriously dont think we have had sex in 3 weeks.. were young.. and should do it all the time.. were both just not up to it... i duno whats wrong.. but i cant wait for this competiton to be over so i can have my boyfriend back. are there any girls here who have boyfriends into the sport or n e one who can give me some good words of encouragement maybe? i miss my boyfriend

i dont understand how training could separte two people to that extent. is he literally always in the gym a few hours every day? maybe you could start working out with him on a regular basis. that way you can spend quality time with him talking and bonding while he does what he has to do.

[Marisa]

We'll I guess just be supportive and let him do his thing. Otherwise, move on. Seems like you are pretty cool GF. But you could cook his meals OR go to the gym with him instead of just bitching about never getting to see him, take action and take interest in what he is revolving his life around. Simple.

thanks he wont let n e one cook his meals tho. hes very particular with them. ive offered. i dont bitch about not seeing him.. well not really.. lol i just get sad that i dont. and i went to the gym with him a few times. i cant always go the same times as him.. i work and go to school to. our schedules conflict.

i dont understand how training could separte two people to that extent. is he literally always in the gym a few hours every day? maybe you could start working out with him on a regular basis. that way you can spend quality time with him talking and bonding while he does what he has to do.

nope but its just the hours he goes.. like ill have class till 11:30 and then he has to cook his meals and do cardio.. and he wants to relax.. by the time he does all that.. he dosnt get to my house till 2ish... and usually leaves around 5. he goes to the gym at 730 but likes to go home and take a break and eat again before he goes to the gym and he always lives a half hour from me. he works out with his friends and hes very serious about it. wen i went to the gym with him a few times.. i do my own thing.

[Myka]

u really live on this thing dont you?

Huh? what do I live on? I dont feel well...explain yourself

[3Vandoo]

Buy a vibrator.

dude, I just spitted my milk on my monitor

[GunTotingHipGangster]

don't be clingy, suck it up until his comp is over....do you know how hard he works? let him have his reward

[Tren Bull]

Huh? what do I live on? I dont feel well...explain yourself

i think what she really meant to say is you are a dirty WHORE!!! just like me

[IBdmfkr]

thanks he wont let n e one cook his meals tho. hes very particular with them. ive offered. i dont bitch about not seeing him.. well not really.. lol i just get sad that i dont. and i went to the gym with him a few times. i cant always go the same times as him.. i work and go to school to. our schedules conflict.

Well, keep in mind he's on a very restricted diet and is probaby feeling a bit pissed off and tired all the time if he's doing it right. If you think he's bad now, wait a few weeks LOL

[Tren Bull]

I probably shouldnt say anything...Im off my meds right now...the last time I posted without meds...well....................................... ..

meds? what kind of meds are we talkin? do we need to come put a straight jacket on you? haha j/jk

[Marisa]

Well, keep in mind he's on a very restricted diet and is probaby feeling a bit pissed off and tired all the time if he's doing it right. If you think he's bad now, wait a few weeks LOL

yes i know . lol my ex was into this stuff to and he was a thousand times worse so with anthony now.. i can deal with it. with the ex.. i couldnt. i just hate it sometimes.. im not tryen to be selfish.. but it takes up all his time basically.

[Myka]

meds? what kind of meds are we talkin? do we need to come put a straight jacket on you? haha j/jk

actually someone needs to...but that would be the most attention Ive ever gotten so probably not

[Marisa]

actually someone needs to...but that would be the most attention Ive ever gotten so probably not

okay go post another topic about ur meds please. do u think u can stay on topic for once?

[Myka]

okay go post another topic about ur meds please. do u think u can stay on topic for once?

I would have been happy to if you had asked nicely princess...but now its not looking good...

[Rob]

Listen to some REM - everybody hurts

[Myka]

let me tell you a story that I heard about

[Myka]

someone spoke and then they died

[C_Bino]

Buy a vibrator.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHHAHAHAHHA. You made my night.

[Tren Bull]

okay go post another topic about ur meds please. do u think u can stay on topic for once?

you see girl, we are in the lounge, where conversation has a very common tendency to stray off to other topics

[Tren Bull]

My first time with my dog
Posted: Mar 28, 2006 7:45 PM

<table width="500" border="0"><tbody><tr><td>I had a couple of drinks and was moving around the room getting a few offers of different things when I noticed a couple of guys that could be a couple of years younger than myself. Just your average everyday looking young men. I decided to see if I could manage to pick one of them up. I made my self-available to them if they decided to start up a conversation. I told Tim that was the guy I was talking to, to invite his friend over. Tim introduced me to Bob and we sat down at the bar and chatted for a while as we had a few more drinks. I took another good look at both of them and was surprised that Bob was actually a bit heavier than Tim. I moved up beside Bob and as I whispered in his ear I ran my hand up his thigh and rested it in his crotch. He gasped when he felt my hand and he would have agreed to anything I suggested at the time.
We moved from the bar as Tim followed after us. Bob and Tim stopped in their tracks as Mooky my pet dog met us at the door. Mooky is a beautiful husky. I talked to him and managed to move him back into the utility room, which is where he stays when I had guest.

<table style="border: black 1px dashed" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" width="400" border="0"><tbody><tr><td>Mistical, Springfield, OR says: "I would really love to be the meat in a doggy/man sandwhich with a woman sitting on my face. I would be in absolute heaven!"</td></tr></tbody&g t;</table>
I was in no mood for small talk as I pulled my shirt over my head. The boy's mouths gaped open as I turned around and they got an eye full of my firm breast.

By the time I made it to the bedroom I had managed to remove my jeans and only had my underwear left. When I turned around Bob and Tim were both standing there in their underwear with their hands over their *****.

<table style="border: black 1px dashed" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" width="400" border="0"><tbody><tr><td>extex, washington state says: "My fantasy was and now always will be to have had my ex-wife involved with our lab. She liked the idea but could never actually follow thru."</td></tr></tbody> </table>
It became apparent to me at that moment that I had picked up a couple of virgins or at least a couple of guys with very little experience. I started pushing my underwear down slowing watching the reaction of each of them.

Tim was the first to lose it as I saw his body jerk and his underwear appeared to become wet. I moved to him and gently pushed his soiled shorts down as I sucked his cum soaked **** into my mouth. He gasped but didn't push me away as I felt his **** start to get hard again.

uhhhh..... what?

[Myka]

uhhhh..... what?

what is that?

[IBdmfkr]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHHAHAHAHHA. You made my night.

haha, then she made mine.

i have 4.

Who needs a BF when you can just fly to TX.

[Tren Bull]

you want to hear more?

hmm, i dont know about that graphic gay man talk... you wanna hear something funny? if you smoke the california poppy, it gets you messed up. ya know how heroin is made from poppies? haha thats the state flower for cali too

[Myka]

hmm, i dont know about that graphic gay man talk... you wanna hear something funny? if you smoke the california poppy, it gets you messed up. ya know how heroin is made from poppies? haha thats the state flower for cali too

haroin is bad...

[Tren Bull]

rofl...no its about 1 woman + 2 guys + 1 dog...so...............................

haha guess i missed that part about the dog. im a little under the influence so i guess im kinda slow right now

[IBdmfkr]

Marisa, just incase you want to shit in newkid's thread. here you go!

I refuse to mess up this time

[Myka]

Marisa, just incase you want to shit in newkid's thread. here you go!

I refuse to mess up this time

Why not? you already did

[GunTotingHipGangster]

you want to hear more?

newkid

you're fvcking hilarious

this thread was in desperate need of a hijack

[Myka]

haha guess i missed that part about the dog. im a little under the influence so i guess im kinda slow right now

THe dog is later...but whatever.......................................... ....

[IBdmfkr]

Why not? you already did

lol, who me?

BTW, that's JohnnyB's avatar bro. Not sure you can fill his shoes lol

[Myka]

newkid

you're fvcking hilarious

this thread was in desperate need of a hijack

I agree...

so is that a yes?

[Tren Bull]

newkid

you're fvcking hilarious

this thread was in desperate need of a hijack

haha gotta love the lounge. my bros are pretty funny

[*Narkissos*]

Don't know what kind of words of encouragement you'll get here.

As a competitor of 7 years i know how hard it is to maintain a relationship under the duress of contest prep.. It's doable.. but it requires input from both parties. He's got to be considerate where possible (i.e. recognise that bodybuilding is not the only important aspect of his life... allowing some time for other things of importance). You've got to make an effort to assist his prep so y'all have more time. Hit cardio with him. I know cardio is the most boring part of my prep. When my girl hits it with me it eases the boredom... Convo Makes it go faster. Maybe Cook his meals. Buy the gatdamned condoms for Pete's sake. That's the part that stood out most. You can't honestly miss him that much... yet refuse to buy the condoms you enjoy simply because you 'bought 'em the last time'.

~Narkissos

ok so my boyfriend has about 6 weeks to go till his first competition and it wasnt really hard in the beginning.. but now its getting harder for me.. he eats every 3 hours, does cardio usually in the morning at his house.. then goes to the gym at night with his workout buddy. i seriously see him for like 2-3 hours maybe 3 times a week, and i know space is good, but its really hard for me and ive been really sad latley and i think a big reason is becuase i miss him and i dont get to spend that much time with him and wen we are together latley..

i talked to him about it and he's the best and he got me to smile but i still miss him and it not being all about bodybuilding all the time.. at the same time tho.. i understand that he has this competition comming up soon that hes really dedicated and looking forward to and im so proud of him. we dont even have sex anymore. i told him he needs to go buy the condoms since i did the past few times. we only have a few condoms left and they suck so i wont have sex till he gets the better ones so it can be enjoyable! maybe that has somethin to do with why ive been so sad to? i seriously dont think we have had sex in 3 weeks.. were young.. and should do it all the time.. were both just not up to it... i duno whats wrong.. but i cant wait for this competiton to be over so i can have my boyfriend back. are there any girls here who have boyfriends into the sport or n e one who can give me some good words of encouragement maybe? i miss my boyfriend

[IBdmfkr]

Marisa, why don't you learn about AAS that way you can help setup his cycles in the future. Do you not workout or eat well? Maybe you to don't have much in common?