Well you can refer to my other posts if you must.. but we're done.. she is suffering through major depression, feels that she is being punished because is not planning on marrying someone of the same faith... she has been unsure of us for a few months.. she said tonight she cant do it any longer... So I said fine.. kissed her on the forehead and told her I will always love her, she can keep the ring.. and left.... I think she'll realize that this is the worst thing she could have ever done, and realize that this is not what she wants.. but until she does whatever. and if she doesnt, then it wasnt meant to be!