My date

[DCB83]

Had a date last night, this girl was smoking hot.
Anyway, we went out for drinks.We talked and laughed non stop.never had an awkward moment.Then we went for a slow walk and cigarettes.
As far as i know, the date went very well, and i have been on shitty dates before.
k....before she left my car, she says "it was fun, we should do this again sometime".What the f*** does that mean?
Then we kissed, but it was one of those half lip half cheek sort of kisses.

[Mizfit]

did u want more?

[gixxerboy1]

I think it was kind of clear. She had fun and wants to hang out agian

[audis4]

give her a call this weekend

[DCB83]

did u want more?

no not really, but a "call me" or "lets do something this wknd" sounds better.
to me.

[gixxerboy1]

no not really, but a "call me" or "lets do something this wknd" sounds better.
to me.

Why didnt you say that to her?

[DCB83]

Why didnt you say that to her?

i was gonna say something, but then she beat me to it.so i responded,
"yeah we should".
do i call or wait it out?
I''m so sh*t at these games, if it was up to me id call her tonight.

[D3m3nt3d]

Dude - if she said lets do it again, fvckin do it again...lol

Just because she didnt phrase it EXACTLY how you wanted her to, doesnt mean she wasn't interested.

[Phreak101]

"Your putting the pussy up on a pedestal"

Don't worry so much about it, when a girl makes ANY indication she had gun with you and would like to see you again, you can't do much more than that to better the situation.

[DCB83]

f*** it you guys are right.

[PROTEINSHAKE]

if she said ok well see ya around i guess...then that would be bad.. She wants to see you again GENIUS!!! call her up --- its the weekend!!!

[DCB83]

if she said ok well see ya around i guess...then that would be bad.. She wants to see you again GENIUS!!! call her up --- its the weekend!!!

oh.... i will.
u gotta see this brod.
i prize and a half.

[spywizard]

dude, why are you sounding desperate??? women can smell that a mile away...

call her, say "Hey, i'm going to a ____________ this saturday, you want to come with me??? "

that's how you ask a woman out on a date..

[DCB83]

i totally agree with you.
my tone on this thread might make you think im desperate, but i always stay cool and collect on dates.not at all the case.
thanks tho

[slob]

check your pm's DCB83

[DSM4Life]

Dude - if she said lets do it again, fvckin do it again...lol
.

enough said

[Bojangles69]

Had a date last night, this girl was smoking hot.
Anyway, we went out for drinks.We talked and laughed non stop.never had an awkward moment.Then we went for a slow walk and cigarettes.
As far as i know, the date went very well, and i have been on shitty dates before.
k....before she left my car, she says "it was fun, we should do this again sometime".What the f*** does that mean?
Then we kissed, but it was one of those half lip half cheek sort of kisses.

didnt read the rest of the thread but..

cancel any future intentions with her UNLESS
you can arrange at least 2 more dates (with other women)
prior to meeting her again.

when she says "it was fun, we should do this again"
your exact default response should have been "maybe, we'll see"
your NOT disqualifying her and YOUR not qualifying her, your putting her in a state of incertitude.
THAN if you want to drop a bomb on her take something (anything) and right after you say "maybe, we'll see" give it to her.

sometimes ill use a rubberband, a cheap ring or necklace you win in one of those little kids machines and PUT IT ON HER.

DONT SAY ANYTHING.
She'll say "what are you doing?"
you "giving you a token to remember this night by"

may SOUND gay, chicks LOVE it.
not only that it **** with thier head BIG time.
Its called 'anchoring'
And its the long term affect it has that counts.
You anchor the emotions from that moment (incertitude, romance, excitement, etc) to the bracelet or w/e
and EVERY time she looks at it she will relive those emotions and think about you. AND she will like it and will leave it on.

theres been more than a few time where girls called me and were like i was just looking at the rubberband you gave me was thinking about you.
and im thinking "you look at that shit 20's a day and have been OBSESSING about me but you finally just crossed the threshold and called because you convinced yourself im something special (even if your not )"

just a little thing i ALWAYS do with women. theres also prop locking which is a way you lock them to you with an item you own (like put a hat on thier head at the bar when you first meet them) it will actually motivate them to be more engaged in the conversation and gives you the choice when to leave her not the other way around (although it seldom happens) than when you do leave let them where the hat (while gaming other chicks keep your eyes on her every once and a while to make sure she doesnt leave with it) but often they'll come back and reinitiate conversation and than accuse them of stealing your hat and make a seen (in a comical way) just a few tips. not even a needle in the haystack though.

[THE_DOME]

bojangles you always have some great insight on women,

[Bojangles69]

bojangles you always have some great insight on women,

thanks dude.

[bor]

Yes I agree, Good stuff from Bojangles, but I don't think he messed it up at all....we should do it again - yeah we should...perfectly OK IMO, lets not over think things...

[collar]

well you can call her when you would like to go out again.
if she says nope busy or what ever then you know she didnt want to go out with you again.
no harm done.

[Panzerfaust]

Just call her to go out again, she obviously wants to.

[KeyMastur]

can we get an age check here on this chick ?? if she's a youngin she might fall for that plastic ring gig, but IMO that's worthless for the older ladies (am i riz miz ? )

what did you want her to say ?? i love you ?? let's get married tomorrow ?? **** me sideways in this backseat ?? someone mentioned something about not sweating her - which is right. play things cool, but don't act like you're eating out her hand already

don't wait around. she was already on one date with you so you made it that far. call her up again. whether she's interested in actually goin out again she's leaving the ball in your court by saying what she said - so either shit or get off the pot....err, do something about it. worst thing she can say is no and then you move on.

[Carlos_E]

didnt read the rest of the thread but..

cancel any future intentions with her UNLESS
you can arrange at least 2 more dates (with other women)
prior to meeting her again.

when she says "it was fun, we should do this again"
your exact default response should have been "maybe, we'll see"
your NOT disqualifying her and YOUR not qualifying her, your putting her in a state of incertitude.
THAN if you want to drop a bomb on her take something (anything) and right after you say "maybe, we'll see" give it to her.

sometimes ill use a rubberband, a cheap ring or necklace you win in one of those little kids machines and PUT IT ON HER.

DONT SAY ANYTHING.
She'll say "what are you doing?"
you "giving you a token to remember this night by"

may SOUND gay, chicks LOVE it.
not only that it **** with thier head BIG time.
Its called 'anchoring'
And its the long term affect it has that counts.
You anchor the emotions from that moment (incertitude, romance, excitement, etc) to the bracelet or w/e
and EVERY time she looks at it she will relive those emotions and think about you. AND she will like it and will leave it on.

theres been more than a few time where girls called me and were like i was just looking at the rubberband you gave me was thinking about you.
and im thinking "you look at that shit 20's a day and have been OBSESSING about me but you finally just crossed the threshold and called because you convinced yourself im something special (even if your not )"

just a little thing i ALWAYS do with women. theres also prop locking which is a way you lock them to you with an item you own (like put a hat on thier head at the bar when you first meet them) it will actually motivate them to be more engaged in the conversation and gives you the choice when to leave her not the other way around (although it seldom happens) than when you do leave let them where the hat (while gaming other chicks keep your eyes on her every once and a while to make sure she doesnt leave with it) but often they'll come back and reinitiate conversation and than accuse them of stealing your hat and make a seen (in a comical way) just a few tips. not even a needle in the haystack though.

I hope you grow out of the games or you are going to be a very lonely old man.

[collar]

I hope you grow out of the games or you are going to be a very lonely old man.

i think very lonely old man.

[Bojangles69]

I hope you grow out of the games or you are going to be a very lonely old man.

worry about your own future.

i love where mine i headed.

[collar]

one thing bojangles.
not attacking you here.
he replyed to the thread and i dont see his post attacking you.
but yet you got very defensive not very cool man.

[Carlos_E]

worry about your own future.

i love where mine i headed.

I'll check back with you in 5-10 years.

[Carlos_E]

bojangles you always have some great insight on women,

He doesn't have insight on women. He has insight into girls. Adults don't have the time or patience for games.

[collar]

i have been with many grown up mature women and excatly they do not like games.

[Bojangles69]

one thing bojangles.
not attacking you here.
he replyed to the thread and i dont see his post attacking you.
but yet you got very defensive not very cool man.

your blind. put some glasses on.

very defensive? i dont need a father on ar telling me about my future.

[Bojangles69]

He doesn't have insight on women. He has insight into girls. Adults don't have the time or patience for games.

great advice coming from someone who doesnt date neither.

[collar]

your blind. put some glasses on.

very defensive? i dont need a father on ar telling me about my future.

now your been very defensive. like i have attacked you or something.

i am talking to you in a civil manner man.

[collar]

great advice coming from someone who doesnt date neither.

well i do and i agree with him, sorry to say.

[Bojangles69]

i dont play "games" to get women into relationships, i play them to get them into bed.
if at any point i get sick of them i reserve the right to stop, but at this point they work to well (even with the 29 year old from 2 weeks ago)

[collar]

i dont play "games" to get women into relationships, i play them to get them into bed.
if at any point i get sick of them i reserve the right to stop, but at this point they work to well (even with the 29 year old from 2 weeks ago)

fair enough man.
each to their own.
if it works for you great.

[Carlos_E]

great advice coming from someone who doesnt date neither.

I'm picky and it's by choice. Reason...

Because of my body I attract horny boys. Ages 19-40. As I said, I'm an adult. I don't have time for bullshit game playing or for guys who just want a dick up their ass. I can spot them a mile away.

I go for QUALITY. Not quantity.

[Bojangles69]

now your been very defensive. like i have attacked you or something.

i am talking to you in a civil manner man.

you did attack me by lying to whole the thread and making it appear like what i said was worse than carlos.

how the hell would you react if someone said you were going to grow up a lonely only man??
"o gee thanks for your advice?" i dont think so.

i told him exactly what he needed to hear. there is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON WHY HE SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT MY FUTURE OR WHY YOU SHOULD BE WORRYING ABOUT HOW YOU **THINK** I RESPONDED TO HIM.

i am talking to YOU in a civil manner.
it becomes uncivil the minute people start flaming.
everything i have said is exactly the way it is. stop twisting shit.

[collar]

you did attack me by lying to whole the thread and making it appear like what i said was worse than carlos.

how the hell would you react if someone said you were going to grow up a lonely only man??
"o gee thanks for your advice?" i dont think so.

i told him exactly what he needed to hear. there is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON WHY HE SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT MY FUTURE OR WHY YOU SHOULD BE WORRYING ABOUT HOW YOU **THINK** I RESPONDED TO HIM.

i am talking to YOU in a civil manner.
it becomes uncivil the minute people start flaming.
everything i have said is exactly the way it is. stop twisting shit.

no flaming?
you seem to be flaming pretty bad to me.

if he said something you disagree with it.
you can say you disagree and the reason why.
no need to go on the attack.
its free of speach you say what you like, but im just sugesting what you should have said just to keep peace and make it a nice peaceful place.
rather than flaming each other

[collar]

but i do agree with what carlos said that women dont like games playing.
thats just my opinion ofcourse.