I'm single

**gixxerboy1** · 11-28-2006, 05:48 PM

Well my engagement is off. That's why i haven't really been on. I'm still kinda messed up about it but i think I'm better off in the end. She is really stubborn but i was always ok with it because stuff worked out in the end. But she is being stubborn and there is her babies father drama. Just to much bs.

But i went out this weekend and meet another girl i like. I dont know if its too soon yet. But she is cool but i don't know if i like her because she is alot like my ex. She is a tall hot blonde but Russian instead of polish. Hell they both sound the same.

**Phreak101** · 11-28-2006, 05:52 PM

I'm sorry to hear that bro. Nothing helps the healing process better than tasting a new flavor after all those years though! Get to those clubs and find yourself a chica!

Good luck with the next few months though.

***perfectbeast2001*** · 11-28-2006, 05:53 PM

sorry to hear mate, hope things work out for you.

**l2elapse** · 11-28-2006, 05:57 PM

what happened?

**gixxerboy1** · 11-28-2006, 06:04 PM

Originally Posted by justinandrews7

what happened?

I transferred for work. She was moving with me. All of a sudden she wasn't not sure about coming right away. It was almost 2 hours from her parents but she really doesn't get along with them. Also here babies father was giving her shit about it because it was far from him. But he rarely comes and sees his daughter and frequently is behind in his support. But the daughter loves him and is all about daddy. She is 3. To me it shouldn't even be a decision. We have been together for 2 years and are engaged. So it turned into a huge fight.

**Carlos_E** · 11-28-2006, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

babies father was giving her shit about it because it was far from him. But he rarely comes and sees his daughter and frequently is behind in his support. But the daughter loves him and is all about daddy. She is 3. To me it shouldn't even be a decision. We have been together for 2 years and are engaged. So it turned into a huge fight.

Agreed. If she has custody and he has a car he can drive an extra 2 hours.

**l2elapse** · 11-28-2006, 06:18 PM

wow yall broke up cause of that? that sucks man! very stupid

**Rye_guy** · 11-28-2006, 06:23 PM

hey man, I feel for ya, I lost my wife, she hardly lets me see the kids now too... but she was a cheatin whore!

all I can say is, get out there, see the world and all the women in it! nothing helps more to ment a broken heart than seeing that you have options! It took me a while to get back on the mends, but now Im doing it.

I hope all works out for you man, women can sure screw up your life, just dont let it get you down!

**goodcents** · 11-28-2006, 06:25 PM

Oh shlt, that's tough. I know you had to of got close to the kid too

I feel for you man, hate to see that happen to you

I always thought you were pretty cool to talk to, but I'm sure this isn't your first go around with love

**gixxerboy1** · 11-28-2006, 09:08 PM

Originally Posted by goodcents

Oh shlt, that's tough. I know you had to of got close to the kid too

I feel for you man, hate to see that happen to you

I always thought you were pretty cool to talk to, but I'm sure this isn't your first go around with love

Thanks bro i appreciate it. Its hard i miss her daughter too. I saw her grow up and learn to talk. I was a mess for a while.

Since i meet this other girl i have been real happy. I don't know if its the girl herself of the fact she reminds me so much of my ex. Its almost like I'm still with her.

**big L 17** · 11-28-2006, 09:39 PM

i am sorry but i am glad u alreayd went out on a date thats the first start

**Pinkvelvet** · 11-28-2006, 10:10 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Well my engagement is off. That's why i haven't really been on. I'm still kinda messed up about it but i think I'm better off in the end. She is really stubborn but i was always ok with it because stuff worked out in the end. But she is being stubborn and there is her babies father drama. Just to much bs.

But i went out this weekend and meet another girl i like. I dont know if its too soon yet. But she is cool but i don't know if i like her because she is alot like my ex. She is a tall hot blonde but Russian instead of polish. Hell they both sound the same.

Well, sorry to hear about your engagement. Things happen for a reason.
What I might be concerned with here hun, is your time frame to really reflect back on your relationship and how you can grow from this. Everyone needs to do this and hoping into a relationship quickly can stunt your growth and quite honestly doesn't give you time to heal.
It'll only confuse you more...both on your new relationship and old. You need time to yourself before commiting again. And, I know that this is tough for some....they just can't be alone. But, being alone is very theraputic. It creates a more well rounded individual who only gives more to the next relationship than the previous one.
Doesn't it sound a little odd that the big reason your attracted to this new girl is she is quite similar to the old one? Hmmmmm?

All I'm saying is to take care of yourself first. If your still somewhat messed up from the past relationship; your only going to carry that on to the new one.

Good luck hun..and chin up!

**LatinoPR** · 11-28-2006, 11:39 PM

You are going to be fine,...new year,new life...!!!

LPR.

**mousetraps** · 11-29-2006, 12:50 AM

good luck man!

**Bojangles69** · 11-29-2006, 01:11 AM

if anything i just recommend you keep your distance from the new girl. just till your emotionally complete again. in the meantime meet as many women as possible. if every guy had 4 or 5 great woman on the side a long term break up with one of them would mean nothing.

**collar** · 11-29-2006, 02:03 AM

meeting new women or dating women is not going to heel you or help you to get over her.

but good luck to you and what ever the future brings for you.

**Phreak101** · 11-29-2006, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by collar

meeting new women or dating women is not going to heel you or help you to get over her.

but good luck to you and what ever the future brings for you.

Sitting at home thinking about her will?

**goodcents** · 11-29-2006, 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by Phreak101

Sitting at home thinking about her will?

**Timm1704** · 11-29-2006, 01:12 PM

Originally Posted by collar

meeting new women or dating women is not going to heel you or help you to get over her.

but good luck to you and what ever the future brings for you.

well, to an extent, i agree. but, it sure as hell takes your mind off of the hurt for awhile. plus, like someone else said, nothing helps more (from my experience, and that of all of the people i know who have been in relationships) than surrounding yourself with other women/men. best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else

**goodcents** · 11-30-2006, 11:42 AM

Originally Posted by Timm1704

well, to an extent, i agree. but, it sure as hell takes your mind off of the hurt for awhile. plus, like someone else said, nothing helps more (from my experience, and that of all of the people i know who have been in relationships) than surrounding yourself with other women/men. best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else

I rather be the giver, not the reciever

**gixxerboy1** · 12-03-2006, 03:49 PM

ok it gets weirder. I really like this new girl. But she is literally my ex part 2. Just not some of her bad habits.

My ex New Girl
5'10 5'8
blonde blonde
polish russian
big boobs big boobs

and the killer same NAME. They are both name Agneiszka. My ex went by Agge for short the new one Anna. Its crazy

**king6** · 12-03-2006, 03:52 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

ok it gets weirder. I really like this new girl. But she is literally my ex part 2. Just not some of her bad habits.

My ex New Girl
5'10 5'8
blonde blonde
polish russian
big boobs big boobs

and the killer same NAME. They are both name Agneiszka. My ex went by Agge for short the new one Anna. Its crazy

Sounds like an omen.

**spywizard** · 12-03-2006, 03:56 PM

Glad to hear it man... this girl can be the Ms in between...

you know the girl that puts your head on straight so you are available to be you so that when MS Right comes, you aren't holding alot of baggage...

congrats..