Advice with boyfriend

[Deltsarehot8]

I'm not sure I have any advice for you then, obviously you enjoy being mistreated and disrespected seeing as you keep going back expecting a different result.

Good luck, I'm sure you're gonna have a great marriage. I'd say go ahead and move that way you can atleast stay in the loop when he continues to bang other chicks. Be sure to let us know when it happens so we have something to talk about around here.. it should be entertaining.

well thats my delima i love him but thats my worst fear, and he says he'll never do it again but i just find it very hard to believe he wont

[abstrack]

i knew he did, but he lied to me for over a year about it until he fessed up

Damm. You knew he did and stayed with him?

Superhuman must be superfreak in the sheets.

[IBdmfkr]

Well at least join in with him so you get something out of it too..

Why in the world would you expect he'd stop if he's already done it multiple times.. Look up the definition of "crazy" in the dictionary.

[Deltsarehot8]

Damm. You knew he did and stayed with him?

Superhuman must be superfreak in the sheets.

yes i wanted to believe he didnt do that to me, i have never ever cheated on him! nor would i ever

[IBdmfkr]

Is he banging fitness models? Is that why you want to get into the sport?

[abstrack]

Is he banging fitness models? Is that why you want to get into the sport?

OMG

[Deltsarehot8]

Well at least join in with him so you get something out of it too..

Why in the world would you expect he'd stop if he's already done it multiple times.. Look up the definition of "crazy" in the dictionary.

im not crazy and i know the definition thanks! Its very hard to leave someone you love, very hard. But im going to to the Air Force for me not him

[Deltsarehot8]

Is he banging fitness models? Is that why you want to get into the sport?

Actually no ive been to his show!! and not hot ones there, they were actually club rats from his work

[IBdmfkr]

Yea, you're nuts for sure.

I just hope when you walk in on him one day knocking out some chick you don't snap and kill everyone in the room. You're one of those girls who you break up with but doesn't ever seem to believe you and keeps calling like you're still together, I feel bad for Superhuman.

He's the real victim here.

[Tru2]

You've already made up your mind haven't you sweetie. Your just looking for justification?? Let me give you a good one.

If its what you really want to do then just do it. The worst thing that can happen is he cheats again, or doesn't work out one way or another and you move back again. but at least you won't be wondering if it could have worked.

It does have disaster written all over it. but you love him, and you're not sure ... so give it one last shot.

[HORSE~]

well thats my delima i love him but thats my worst fear, and he says he'll never do it again but i just find it very hard to believe he wont

As does he.........

[IBdmfkr]

What would you do Tru2 if your BF cheated on your repeatedly?

[Deltsarehot8]

Yea, you're nuts for sure.

I just hope when you walk in on him one day knocking out some chick you don't snap and kill everyone in the room. You're one of those girls who you break up with but doesn't ever seem to believe you and keeps calling like you're still together, I feel bad for Superhuman.

He's the real victim here.

WHAT!! i dont call him if were not together

[stayinstacked]

if he lives near Atlanta your screwed, it's the city where the players play

[Deltsarehot8]

You've already made up your mind haven't you sweetie. Your just looking for justification?? Let me give you a good one.

If its what you really want to do then just do it. The worst thing that can happen is he cheats again, or doesn't work out one way or another and you move back again. but at least you won't be wondering if it could have worked.

It does have disaster written all over it. but you love him, and you're not sure ... so give it one last shot.

Thanks, i needed a womens point of view i realize it could be a serious mistake but at the same time i dont want to let go and find that he has changed and it would have been so wonderful, im scared either way

[abstrack]

Yea, you're nuts for sure.

I just hope when you walk in on him one day knocking out some chick you don't snap and kill everyone in the room. You're one of those girls who you break up with but doesn't ever seem to believe you and keeps calling like you're still together, I feel bad for Superhuman.

He's the real victim here.

LMAO...

[Deltsarehot8]

As does he.........

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON HIM

[IBdmfkr]

I would make a great psychologist? Who agrees?

[HORSE~]

If all else fail's doll just come to Texas......

I love squirters!!!!!

[Deltsarehot8]

I am not some girl who sits around doing nothing, nor am i some slut who goes to clubs just to get with guys. I respect myself, and am a very happy person. I am not some girl that will just keep calling even if were broken up, if were broken up ill give him his damn space and i WILL NOT try to get him back, if he doesnt want to be with me then he doesnt have to be!!!!

[Deltsarehot8]

If all else fail's doll just come to Texas......

I love squirters!!!!!

Ill pass thanks

[HORSE~]

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON HIM

Thats not what I meant.....

I belive that at this point in his life he also has hard time beliving that he wont cheat again......

[abstrack]

I belive that at this point in his life he also has hard time beliving that he wont cheat again......

LMAO This thread is funny

[Andorious]

this is just weird, that your airing this when he can just read everything your writing. but I have to agree w/ B D on every point he has made. your hoping he has changed, yet you said he's cheated on you more than twice. his chance to change has passed. If you wanna forgive someone that's disrespected you in such a way once, that's your business, but someone that's done it numerous times, well that would make you a fool. everyone deserves better than that.

[Deltsarehot8]

Thats not what I meant.....

I belive that at this point in his life he also has hard time beliving that he wont cheat again......

yep and thats why im hesistant to move back to GA away from my family just to get hurt again, Im keeping my eyes completly open this time

[Tru2]

What would you do Tru2 if your BF cheated on your repeatedly?

No way in hell would I be with him. after the first time.. that would be it. Been there.. gave him one chance.. he did it again.. surprise surprise.

But thats not the point. Shes not me. Do you really think shes going to listen to anyones advice to not go?? she has to find out for herself.

[Deltsarehot8]

this is just weird, that your airing this when he can just read everything your writing. but I have to agree w/ B D on every point he has made. your hoping he has changed, yet you said he's cheated on you more than twice. his chance to change has passed. If you wanna forgive someone that's disrespected you in such a way once, that's your business, but someone that's done it numerous times, well that would make you a fool. everyone deserves better than that.

i know he can read this!! he know what were talking about. Yes i may be a fool, but im trying to figure it out so i dont regret anything

[abstrack]

Your eyes were open the first two times also. he just put a bag over your head and did it anyways.

I'm not saying he is going to cheat again, but them again, I do not know superplaya personally. All I know is what dirty laundry you have laid out so far.

[Deltsarehot8]

No way in hell would I be with him. after the first time.. that would be it. Been there.. gave him one chance.. he did it again.. surprise surprise.

But thats not the point. Shes not me. Do you really think shes going to listen to anyones advice to not go?? she has to find out for herself.

yes i do have to find it out for myself, but i am taking this advice into consideration

[Andorious]

i know he can read this!! he know what were talking about. Yes i may be a fool, but im trying to figure it out so i dont regret anything

if you know that it would be foolish, yet your still considering going, then i dont think your looking at this w/ your eyes open. like tru2 said, you seem to just be looking for justification to go and be w/ him.

[Deltsarehot8]

if you know that it would be foolish, yet your still considering going, then i dont think your looking at this w/ your eyes open. like tru2 said, you seem to just be looking for justification to go and be w/ him.

Well i'm done trying to defend myself anymore, so im going to go on my merry way!!

[zodiac666]

i hate to say this because i like superhuman but there's probably a 90% chance he will cheat again. if i were you i would get over him as soon as possible. if you move in with him you will just care about him and be attached to him even more and when he does cheat again it will be even harder to leave him.

[chest6]

on man this thread is funny as funny.. I B D is crackin me up

[chest6]

nother thing..why isnt her name in pink yet?

[spywizard]

why quit school???

he will be in basic in tx for 6 weeks, then straight to school that will last for 6 weeks to 1 yr...

if you guys are married he will get additional $$$, and you will get medical and all the benefits..

so that' would be cool.. but if you just live with him, you get nothing, and he gets nothing..

[bigbouncinballs]

cheaters often cheat again, but its certainly not decisive. my advice... try being friends first, often times when you're so afraid of not being with someone its most likely because of some other reason besides love.

however, like i said, my girl and i have both cheated numerous times and now we really don't even think about it anymore... but that took A LOT of work. forgiveness is an elusive beast... you think you're in the clear but its always in the back of your head.

[firmechicano831]

okay number 1 here: If you love him you would do anything possible to be with him right now and he would do the same with you. Now if you're thinking about marriage, most of the time it's really love and you don't think about it for a long as time or ask everyone if you should marry that person. It's you who decides.
Number 2: If a women was questioning my friends which are the forum members if she should marry me. I wouldn't even see her as wifey material but a quick hump.
Number 3: If you're going to in the airforce and sorry to say this but no pussy is around. Most of the time a man will start looking for some because us men had needs.
Number 4: If you wanna make it work, number one follow your heart and keep your loved ones close. Goog luck

[firmechicano831]

Even if someone cheatted that doesn't mean anything. A person that wants to be with you will change anything to be with that person if they really wish too.

[getpaid]

I would make a great psychologist? Who agrees?

I think you found your new profession I**!!!LMAO

[firmechicano831]

So what do you think so far Deltsarehot?