Advice with boyfriend

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-23-2006, 01:36 AM

Originally Posted by firmechicano831

So what do you think so far Deltsarehot?

thats what i think too, but ill always have that fear, ya know

**Superhuman** · 12-23-2006, 02:28 AM

Wow, all I can say is that you all have good hearts to take the time to help "Delts" to make a decision about us.

I've done a lot of sh*tty things in the past and I've grown up a lot. I KNOW that I will not cheat again because the worst day of my life was when I told her and saw how upset she was. It hurt me to see her hurting like that, if that makes sense, and I NEVER want her to feel like that again.

We both do love each other and will work it out. Perhaps talking about all of this on an open forum wasn't the greatest idea, but neither her nor I would really want everybody we know in "real life" to know what's going on so anonymously talking about personal issues on here is a lot more comfortable i guess you could say.

Anyway, thanks everyone for trying to help and I hope everyone has a Happy Christmahannukwanza!

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-23-2006, 02:31 AM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

Wow, all I can say is that you all have good hearts to take the time to help "Delts" to make a decision about us.

I've done a lot of sh*tty things in the past and I've grown up a lot. I KNOW that I will not cheat again because the worst day of my life was when I told her and saw how upset she was. It hurt me to see her hurting like that, if that makes sense, and I NEVER want her to feel like that again.

We both do love each other and will work it out. Perhaps talking about all of this on an open forum wasn't the greatest idea, but neither her nor I would really want everybody we know in "real life" to know what's going on so anonymously talking about personal issues on here is a lot more comfortable i guess you could say.

Anyway, thanks everyone for trying to help and I hope everyone has a Happy Christmahannukwanza!

Thanks baby!!!

**IBdmfkr** · 12-23-2006, 02:35 AM

Hey superhuman, I've got a great sales position open. I think you'd be a badass salesman LMAO!

**Superhuman** · 12-23-2006, 02:39 AM

Originally Posted by I**mfkr

Hey superhuman, I've got a great sales position open. I think you'd be a badass salesman LMAO!

haha i know what you're getting at and yes you should be a psychologist

**IBdmfkr** · 12-23-2006, 02:43 AM

Keep up the good work buddy.

**beuleux** · 12-23-2006, 04:37 AM

Ha Ha for a moment I thought you two were a gay couple as delts doesnt have a girly pink female profile LOL

**zodiac666** · 12-23-2006, 06:38 AM

Originally Posted by beuleux

Ha Ha for a moment I thought you two were a gay couple as delts doesnt have a girly pink female profile LOL

thats some massive pec development for a guy

**beuleux** · 12-23-2006, 06:53 AM

Originally Posted by zodiac666

thats some massive pec development for a guy

C'mon its an honest mistake, lots of guys have lady pics as thier avy, Sman & Kale for example LOL

**Flagg** · 12-23-2006, 08:09 AM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

he cheated on me a couple times, but i have never cheated on him.

If he cheated on you once, shame on him, twice then shame on you. Why did he cheat on you and why do you still want to be with him?

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

well thats my delima i love him but thats my worst fear, and he says he'll never do it again but i just find it very hard to believe he wont

Someone who cheats multiple times will always come up with an excuse why they did it again. Even when they promise they will not do it. People do not change. He is showing his true Character. If that is the type of man you want to be with, then do it. If you feel you deserve better. Don't do it.

I'm surprised you did not get angry at some of the insulting posts directed to you. It makes me wonder why. Are you used to men insulting or belittling you? Do you feel that is OK? Some of the posts were down right rude and disrespectful. You should have more respect for yourself and not tolerate it. No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself first.

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

I am not some girl who sits around doing nothing, nor am i some slut who goes to clubs just to get with guys. I respect myself, and am a very happy person. I am not some girl that will just keep calling even if were broken up, if were broken up ill give him his damn space and i WILL NOT try to get him back, if he doesnt want to be with me then he doesnt have to be!!!!

This post tells me a lot. Him, him, him, him, what he wants. What about what you want?

**Flagg** · 12-23-2006, 10:03 AM

Sometimes you get people that just put their hands over their ears, squeeze their eyes shut tight and move their head from side to side.

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

I've done a lot of sh*tty things in the past and I've grown up a lot. I KNOW that I will not cheat again because the worst day of my life was when I told her and saw how upset she was. It hurt me to see her hurting like that, if that makes sense, and I NEVER want her to feel like that again.

That doesn't make sense. You saw how hurt she was the first time she found out yet you cheated multiple times. She should cheat on you and then tell you about it. That way you will know how it feels.

You've shown me in this thread how you feel about her. Other members have disresected your woman and I don't see you jumping to her defense. "Don't talk about or to my girl that way!" I've seen you post nothing but a smiley. You're full of shit man.

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 10:06 AM

Originally Posted by beuleux

Ha Ha for a moment I thought you two were a gay couple as delts doesnt have a girly pink female profile LOL

You're not far off but I'll keep my mouth shut.

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Sometimes you get people that just put their hands over their ears, squeeze their eyes shut tight and move their head from side to side.

Agreed. She's in denial and he's great at dishing out bullshit. The perfect couple.

**Flagg** · 12-23-2006, 10:11 AM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Agreed. She's in denial and he's great at dishing out bullshit. The perfect couple.

Yeah, I know what's she's going through though. She probably thinks she cant get anyone else like him again. Love is like a sickness sometimes. Everyone wakes up sooner or later though.

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 10:16 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Yeah, I know what's she's going through though. She probably thinks she cant get anyone else like him again. Love is like a sickness sometimes. Everyone wakes up sooner or later though.

People who stay in relationships like this do so because of low self esteem. They don't think they can do better so they stay with them.

**biggerisbetter2006** · 12-23-2006, 10:26 AM

If any guy cheated on me, id be out that door so damn fast and never look back. I respect myself too much. Someone that cheats on u (esp more then once) couldnt possibly care that much...no offence but ppl dnt really change.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-23-2006, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Someone who cheats multiple times will always come up with an excuse why they did it again. Even when they promise they will not do it. People do not change. He is showing his true Character. If that is the type of man you want to be with, then do it. If you feel you deserve better. Don't do it.

I'm surprised you did not get angry at some of the insulting posts directed to you. It makes me wonder why. Are you used to men insulting or belittling you? Do you feel that is OK? Some of the posts were down right rude and disrespectful. You should have more respect for yourself and not tolerate it. No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself first.

The reason im not getting angry because im not going to drop to their level my insulting them or whatever. If they really have to insult me to make themselves feel better than more power to ya, but i am not one to insult or belittle someone. And for your information i do respect myself as you can see i havent been writing on this forum, because insults starting flying. I dont tolerate it so i removed myself from the situation

**Carlos_E** · 12-23-2006, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

The reason im not getting angry because im not going to drop to their level my insulting them or whatever. If they really have to insult me to make themselves feel better than more power to ya, but i am not one to insult or belittle someone. And for your information i do respect myself as you can see i havent been writing on this forum, because insults starting flying. I dont tolerate it so i removed myself from the situation

I really think you need to sit and think. Not about him or your relationship, but about yourself and what you want out of life. I'm sure you don't want to spend the rest of your days worrying if your man is cheating on you or not. I know I wouldn't want to.

**Mike Dura** · 12-23-2006, 01:06 PM

No! I lived in Statesboro and Savanah. Savanah was pretty cool. Met many eccentrics there and did a little swinging. But here's the thing: GA is in the bible belt! Yeah, it gets pretty weird as you're driving down the interstate and all of the sudden most the channels are sounding evangelical. When I first experienced this, I had an anxiety attack. It's an experience not unlike "invasion of the body snatchers." Do yourself a favor and run away from GA!

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

So, on monday i am going to Georiga to visit my boyfriend! And we are starting our new life together and going to figure out where to live! I live and go to school in Colorado, but he lives in Georgia and is going to be joining to Air Force soon. My boyfriend is wonderful and i love him very much! I have moved to GA before to live with him, should i do it again?
Thanks

**Mike Dura** · 12-23-2006, 01:11 PM

About the cheating - I cheat....I just can't help it. I start out with good intentions but it's just a weakness. I have a great girlfriend too - she's a sweet beautiful hispanic....From the perspective of a cheater....we can't help it. We'll do it again and again.....Don't get mad about it. Get even!

Have you considered an open relationship? People do it all the time - just check out craigslist.

**audis4** · 12-23-2006, 01:14 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

About the cheating - I cheat....I just can't help it. I start out with good intentions but it's just a weakness. I have a great girlfriend too - she's a sweet beautiful hispanic....From the perspective of a cheater....we can't help it. We'll do it again and again.....Don't get mad about it. Get even!

Have you considered an open relationship? People do it all the time - just check out craigslist.

Thats not immature thinking

**Mike Dura** · 12-23-2006, 01:23 PM

That's not immature thinking? Is that similar to saying that's mature thinking?

I think I know what you're saying (that it's immature) but I disagree. I think it's just like the song goes:

She can fool around...just like you do....Hey, don't kind yourself, into thinking that she won't.....one day you come home, early from work. Open up the door and get your feelings hurt.

I always smile when I hear that song because I think damn...I would deserve such a thing.

Originally Posted by audis4

Thats not immature thinking

**Superhuman** · 12-23-2006, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

That doesn't make sense. You saw how hurt she was the first time she found out yet you cheated multiple times. She should cheat on you and then tell you about it. That way you will know how it feels.

You've shown me in this thread how you feel about her. Other members have disresected your woman and I don't see you jumping to her defense. "Don't talk about or to my girl that way!" I've seen you post nothing but a smiley. You're full of shit man.

she decided to put herself out there and ask for advice - she's going to get positive and negative criticism and both are good for her to hear. If this were in the "real world" and someones said something rude to her of course I would take up for her but I see no point in arguing with people on here about it. Some of the rude things said were actually valid points that were good for her to hear.

BTW an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind

**DNoMac** · 12-23-2006, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

BTW an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind

I'd say the same thing if I cheated on my girl several times

**Snrf** · 12-23-2006, 03:26 PM

Every guy I know cheats, in France its pretty much accepted that men are gonna have mistresses, girls need to get used to it.

If you think you don't get cheated on, 90% chance you're just gullible.

**vitor** · 12-23-2006, 03:49 PM

The reasen why some people let themselves get cheated on is b/c they have such low self-esteem that they dont think they could ever be with someone better.

Imo they dont love the other person, no one loves someone who betrays them over and over. Thats yust the exuse they make if they get confronted about it by other people...

**goodcents** · 12-23-2006, 04:29 PM

Superhuman is my hero

he's freakin' the ladies

Hell if you can keep it up and keep them blinded, go for it, you're still young. Bang a few hundred more for me too

Fuk em' all

**Flagg** · 12-23-2006, 04:31 PM

Mike Dura can I just ask WHY YOU CHEAT?

Do you enjoy sneaking around like a rat? I know that sounds harsh but it's pretty true. It just sounds like too much effort to do and constantly lie and lie to your partner. You obviously could care less about her feelings. Just be single and promiscuous, that way everyones a winner.

**goodcents** · 12-23-2006, 04:37 PM

ps, for the record, I'm single so all is fair with me

I have no problem banging someone else's girl though

Life is one big buffet

**Superhuman** · 12-23-2006, 04:48 PM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Mike Dura can I just ask WHY YOU CHEAT?

Do you enjoy sneaking around like a rat? I know that sounds harsh but it's pretty true. It just sounds like too much effort to do and constantly lie and lie to your partner. You obviously could care less about her feelings. Just be single and promiscuous, that way everyones a winner.

Well I can't speak for him but I did it just because I was immature and I didn't truly appreciate my girlfriend like I should have. I felt so bad every time I did it and it ate away at me inside because I hated lying to her. I finally told her and like I said that was one of the worst days of my life, seeing her so sad and upset. I felt like a total piece of shit (like I should have) and I would never put either of us in a position like that again.

**goodcents** · 12-23-2006, 05:01 PM

Superhuman likes banging alot of different chicks, so what?

**Flagg** · 12-23-2006, 05:02 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

Well I can't speak for him but I did it just because I was immature and I didn't truly appreciate my girlfriend like I should have. I felt so bad every time I did it and it ate away at me inside because I hated lying to her. I finally told her and like I said that was one of the worst days of my life, seeing her so sad and upset. I felt like a total piece of shit (like I should have) and I would never put either of us in a position like that again.

It's only until we feel at our worst and lowest ebb that we then TRULY understand and learn.

**collar** · 12-23-2006, 05:33 PM

Originally Posted by Tru2

No way in hell would I be with him. after the first time.. that would be it. Been there.. gave him one chance.. he did it again.. surprise surprise.

But thats not the point. Shes not me. Do you really think shes going to listen to anyones advice to not go?? she has to find out for herself.

honestly then why did she make this thread asking for advice, if shes not going take it all in??

just wasting everyones time.

**collar** · 12-23-2006, 05:36 PM

i have to agree with all of carlos posts ...

this is just insane. She does not stand up for herself,he does not stand up for her...

ahhhhhhh ..

**taiboxa** · 12-23-2006, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

I really think you need to sit and think. Not about him or your relationship, but about yourself and what you want out of life. I'm sure you don't want to spend the rest of your days worrying if your man is cheating on you or not. I know I wouldn't want to.

yep couldnt of said it better

and 3 PAGES KUZ ITS A CHICKS THREAD OMFG seroiusly >< wtf!?
i POST QUALITY and i dont even get that type of love ><

biotches!

**notorious_mem** · 12-23-2006, 06:32 PM

that song dirty laundry should be played while reading this stuff.lol and superhuman i wish you the best of luck with all this.

**SMAN12b** · 12-23-2006, 06:50 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

well thats my delima i love him but thats my worst fear, and he says he'll never do it again but i just find it very hard to believe he wont

Just curious, after which time did he say he would never do it again????

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