question for you guys who've been bangin' the same chick for years!

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 10:48 PM

HOW DO YOU DO IT...

i dont really start threads like these, but i this great board has members from all over who can definitely give better advice than any of my bros..

i dont feel like typeing a freaking novel this secone but i will add my full story later...

BOTTOMLINE: i have had sex with only 1 girl (not including escorts) for about 5 years... dont get me wrong i run the house.. sex is when i say it is.. i say suck it she says ok... but im still bored.. how the fack do you guys handle banging the same chick FOR YEARRSSSSS.. at work im a freaking HORNBalllll, then i get home and my sex drive is 0% WHY???????

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 10:48 PM

BTW we cohabitate together

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 10:49 PM

Simple, I see other women.

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 10:51 PM

but how... i work full time, school full time, and train... and then when i come home shes home already?

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 10:54 PM

I work full time too.
I get off work by the time she is asleep so I do whatever I want from 11pm - 3am and smetimes I get off early.

**** school.

I train still no problem.

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

I work full time too.
I get off work by the time she is asleep so I do whatever I want from 11pm - 3am and smetimes I get off early.

**** school.

I train still no problem.

you live with your chick and combine bills?

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:09 PM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

you live with your chick and combine bills?

Yep. Why ?

Where there is a will there is a way man lol.

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:12 PM

Most of the chicks I see are either ones that I have seen on and off for years and are my friends or I meet them at work.

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 11:16 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Yep. Why ?

Where there is a will there is a way man lol.

your right man... i just dont want to play all the relationship games and talk on the phone and shit.. i hate that.. I JUST WANNA ****.. i gotta go out more

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:21 PM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

your right man... i just dont want to play all the relationship games and talk on the phone and shit.. i hate that.. I JUST WANNA ****.. i gotta go out more

I know what ya mean. I just treat em as friends with benefits.

I am not in love with my current GF but we need eachother for other reasons right now.

I haev to have a little something on the side or I go crazy.

It took me 3 years to realize I do not want a relationship, though I thought I did for a long long time.

**AnabolicBoy1981** · 01-05-2007, 11:28 PM

i hear ya. in the words of my 58 y/o father as we cruised the streets of vegas in search of strip clubs.."No matter how good or how hot your chick is...ya always want it weird."

MEANING, YOU ALWAYS WANT SOMETHIN DIFFERENT. even if shes not great lookin. which is part of our biology. we are programmed to get sick of it, so that way we spread our seed around, and our species survives. Monogomy probobly has its root word in monotony, you see?lol
Monogomy is not codusive to biology

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:29 PM

I agree. Human instinct.

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 11:35 PM

Originally Posted by AnabolicBoy1981

i hear ya. in the words of my 58 y/o father as we cruised the streets of vegas in search of strip clubs.."No matter how good or how hot your chick is...ya always want it weird."

MEANING, YOU ALWAYS WANT SOMETHIN DIFFERENT. even if shes not great lookin. which is part of our biology. we are programmed to get sick of it, so that way we spread our seed around, and our species survives. Monogomy probobly has its root word in monotony, you see?lol
Monogomy is not codusive to biology

some deep shit right there! i like it

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:40 PM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

some deep shit right there! i like it

Thats what she said.

**305GUY** · 01-05-2007, 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Thats what she said.

i made it easy for ya

**Tru2** · 01-05-2007, 11:54 PM

threesome? toys? swinging? role playing? imagination?

**guest589745** · 01-05-2007, 11:55 PM

Originally Posted by Tru2

threesome? toys? swinging? role playing? imagination?

Someone new? Someone nicer? Someone more interesting ? Someone who doesnt complain ? lol, sorry had to.

Good input though really.

**Tru2** · 01-05-2007, 11:59 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Someone new? Someone nicer? Someone more interesting ? Someone who doesnt complain ? lol, sorry had to.

Good input though really.

haha.. well yeah... if you don't want the one you already got.

**gixxerboy1** · 01-06-2007, 12:12 AM

I think sometimes you have that connection with with a person. When i was with my ex even after 2 years it was like it was like our first time every time. It was real passion ate and into it. We NEVER just went through the motions. I don't know what it was about her but i miss it.

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:14 AM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Someone new? Someone nicer? Someone more interesting ? Someone who doesnt complain ? lol, sorry had to.

Good input though really.

honestly i would have to be a complete RETARD to let this one go... she plays no games and just offers uncoditionbally love.. i just want to stick my cack in any hole but hers (sometimes) .. WHY??

**guest589745** · 01-06-2007, 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

honestly i would have to be a complete RETARD to let this one go... she plays no games and just offers uncoditionbally love.. i just want to stick my cack in any hole but hers (sometimes) .. WHY??

because it is basic human (Man) instinct.

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:16 AM

to top it off theres no "passion". we dont say we love eachother unless we're intoxicated but we are the most important things to eachother... its weird

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:17 AM

i just need some passion in my life

**guest589745** · 01-06-2007, 12:17 AM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

i just need some passion in my life

Sounds like yuo aer not completely satisfied with your relationship...?

Maybe discuss this with her ?

Or just go bang someone else.

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:18 AM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

because it is basic human (Man) instinct.

yup...there are guys out there that dont cheat and never will.. what brain chemical do they have that i lack entirely?

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:20 AM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Sounds like yuo aer not completely satisfied with your relationship...?

Maybe discuss this with her ?

Or just go bang someone else.

i love her like nothing else in life but im not a "luv-duvy person" on the norm unless im intoxicated

**guest589745** · 01-06-2007, 12:21 AM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

yup...there are guys out there that dont cheat and never will.. what brain chemical do they have that i lack entirely?

The idea of monogomy was introduced to our society through thought, it wasn't a naturally occuring way of life or does it involve any chemical reaction to my knowledge. It is a choice.

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:23 AM

thinking about taking her to the strip club later tonight to spice things up.. we went yesterday but the bitches were WAK!!

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:25 AM

BTW thanks skullsmasher.. ive noticed youve come a long way on the forums as far as hombrewing so if its not to much trouble i'll be pm'n you sooner or later.. lol.. thank

**305GUY** · 01-06-2007, 12:27 AM

but i still want to hear from some married men!

those who have only selpt with 1 woman for 5+ years!!! HOW DO YOU DO IT!!!!!

**guest589745** · 01-06-2007, 12:37 AM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

BTW thanks skullsmasher.. ive noticed youve come a long way on the forums as far as hombrewing so if its not to much trouble i'll be pm'n you sooner or later.. lol.. thank

No problemo, dont get discouraged, it is much easier than you think.

**Bojangles69** · 01-06-2007, 12:58 AM

Originally Posted by 305GUY

but i still want to hear from some married men!

those who have only selpt with 1 woman for 5+ years!!! HOW DO YOU DO IT!!!!!

its a combination of consumate love + morals.

theres several different forms of love. consumate is the only one that completes the trianglular theory which has main 3 components. passion, intimacy, and commitment.
you just only had experience with other types of love.
read research by Sternberg. youll have a better understanding afterwords.

**ginkobulloba** · 01-06-2007, 02:27 AM

Dude, I've only been with my girl for seven months now, but that's a long damn time for me. She's the one in my avatar. One thing that keeps it going and never boring, is getting other chicks involved.

Normally it's her idea, she asks if I want to bang another chick and we go out and pick up some hottie and bring her home with us.

**wascaptain5214** · 01-06-2007, 06:07 AM

i've been a bad boy most of my married life. not proud of it. i always worked shift work which gave me time to be unaccounted for by the wife. tip for you about cheating..........you will get caught!!!! me and the wifes sex life is good, and i truly love her, but i got my weakness.

***Billy_Bathgate*** · 01-06-2007, 09:31 AM

one word....porn

**onestone** · 01-06-2007, 09:47 AM

You have to step out every now and then to keep things going. I've been with the same woman for 20 years. I know every move she has and she knows all of mine (no thrill anymore).

**IBdmfkr** · 01-06-2007, 09:54 AM

Why not just be single? Scared to be alone?

If you're gonna cheat then just be single so you don't totally ruin somebody in the process when they find out. If you're married then tough shit, should've married a girl that was more open with the relationship.

**onestone** · 01-06-2007, 10:01 AM

Originally Posted by I**mfkr

Why not just be single? Scared to be alone?

If you're gonna cheat then just be single so you don't totally ruin somebody in the process when they find out. If you're married then tough shit, should've married a girl that was more open with the relationship.

Could you whack off to the same porn everytime, or do you need variety? Sex with the same person year after year get's boring.

Otherwise, I have no complaints about my woman

**stayinstacked** · 01-06-2007, 10:04 AM

It's easy enough, as you mature more you begin to realize that sex is such a small % of your life that you shouldn't let seeking other women ruin a perfectly good relationship. A nut is just that, a nut, regardless of who it's with. You always hear the old guy talking about "Son, get as much pussy as you can" but that same old guy is the one alone in the bar, drunk off his ass all the time.