How Long Before Sex?

**STYLE74** · 02-14-2007, 08:07 AM

Originally Posted by Gsxxr

I say you should get it done and over with.

If the sex sucks there is no reson to go ferther.

Great point, you beat me to it! Hey where have you been bro?

**Snrf** · 02-14-2007, 08:20 AM

Originally Posted by ronan the barbarian

she was a virgin and slept with you after 4 hrs.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

sure.lol

my x was a virgin and it took a bit longer than 4 hrs.it took longer than that just to clean the mess up.lol

haha nice one. calling me out on a believable story cuz I pointed out how full of shit you are in some other threads.

It was kind of obvious she was a virgin, if you weren't a complete dumbfvck you'd know how I could tell.

Go make up some more stories about what a badass boxer who beats up random people you are, everyone was really impressed with the last one.

**Snrf** · 02-14-2007, 08:22 AM

And also Ronan aren't you pretending you're 33? and your ex was a virgin? hmmm....you're so full of shit you can't even keep up with your own lies. not to mention the pics of those 2 girls you claim to be shagging both look about 18.

of course, you could just be one of those immature idiots who can't get a girl his own age to look at him, but you don't seem immature at all...ha!

***G-1000*** · 02-14-2007, 08:26 AM

Originally Posted by STYLE74

Great point, you beat me to it! Hey where have you been bro?

I have been here just very busy the last few days.

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 08:39 AM

Originally Posted by dece870717

How about waiting till your married.

My wife and I waited until we got married. We had the "sex talk" after three months into our dating lives and we both agreed to wait until marriage. I was 23 years old at this time. We got married one year later but unfortunately, the cancer that I was forced to overcome before we got married left me impotent. Was I angry? A little at first. How's my life/marriage now at my current age of 29? Awesome. I've come to realize how pure my wife's heart is because she think's I'm amazing even though we can't share those moments together.

Premarital sex is more common than not these days. I do not frown down upon either party that should engage in it as well. I think it has more to do with both parties agreeing to a timeline and going through with it. That could mean 1 week, 1 month, 1 year or after marriage.

When I go to a restaurant, the waitor/waitress does not offer me the dessert menu before ordering my main course. Therefore, I appreciate the dessert more when the time comes. It seems as if most people these days want their dessert before they address what they really need to nourish their lives.

**ronan the barbarian** · 02-14-2007, 08:54 AM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

And also Ronan aren't you pretending you're 33? and your ex was a virgin? hmmm....you're so full of shit you can't even keep up with your own lies. not to mention the pics of those 2 girls you claim to be shagging both look about 18.

of course, you could just be one of those immature idiots who can't get a girl his own age to look at him, but you don't seem immature at all...ha!

yawn....now your saying im lying about my age????
let me guess next youll be telling i was lying when i said i had cancer...well perhaps you can explain how i got a 15 inch scar up my abdomen.see the pics of me.

as for those 2 girls they are both 21 and i worked with them for over a year before we started going out at all.and if you look at my pic i dont look my age so im fortuanate enough to get girls younger than me.

but like i said before im not too fussed if you believe me or not,your from the uk and are welcome to come to birmingham to hangout,then you can meet my mrs(who who youdoesnt exist)my brother in law(who you saydidnt shit his pants)my brother(who you saywasnt involved when the police didnt warn me)and nat and soph(who you saydont know me) and ill tell you what ill show you my driving licence to prove my age(which you sayim lying about)

but you wont come cus your happy being an anonymous nobody

**Snrf** · 02-14-2007, 09:07 AM

Originally Posted by ronan the barbarian

yawn....now your saying im lying about my age????
let me guess next youll be telling i was lying when i said i had cancer...well perhaps you can explain how i got a 15 inch scar up my abdomen.see the pics of me.

as for those 2 girls they are both 21 and i worked with them for over a year before we started going out at all.and if you look at my pic i dont look my age so im fortuanate enough to get girls younger than me.

but like i said before im not too fussed if you believe me or not,your from the uk and are welcome to come to birmingham to hangout,then you can meet my mrs(who who youdoesnt exist)my brother in law(who you saydidnt shit his pants)my brother(who you saywasnt involved when the police didnt warn me)and nat and soph(who you saydont know me) and ill tell you what ill show you my driving licence to prove my age(which you sayim lying about)

but you wont come cus your happy being an anonymous nobody

I didn't say your mrs didn't exist, I didn't say your brother wasn't involved in your imaginary story about how some undercover cops grabbed you, I didn't say those two girls don't know you (you had pics with them) And I don't particularly care how old you are. I just think you're an idiot, you like bragging about what a tough guy you are on the internet.

I've heard you talk about beating up some random guy for cutting you off, I've heard you say you beat up some guy in a public toilet, you said your girlfriend told you to apologize for being a dick in the temper thread, what does she read the threads? Or did you just feel like a dickhead and use her as an excuse? You apparently got shot at in a bar (and we can all check with the police you say, because they give out information on whether or not "ronan the barbarian" was shot at don't they?) You claim that *WHEN* you decide to use gear you will get it off your pro-athlete friend, but in your profile it says you have one cycle already done. Also your profile puts your age as 33, but 32 in your biography...having trouble deciding? you got called out in your picture thread for pretending to have a 46.5 inch chest. You're the only plasterer I've ever met who makes £60k a year...just about everything you say is a complete load of bollocks...

I'm tired of arguing with you, go make up some more stories

**ronan the barbarian** · 02-14-2007, 09:31 AM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

I didn't say your mrs didn't exist, I didn't say your brother wasn't involved in your imaginary story about how some undercover cops grabbed you, I didn't say those two girls don't know you (you had pics with them) And I don't particularly care how old you are. I just think you're an idiot, you like bragging about what a tough guy you are on the internet.

I've heard you talk about beating up some random guy for cutting you off, I've heard you say you beat up some guy in a public toilet, you said your girlfriend told you to apologize for being a dick in the temper thread, what does she read the threads? Or did you just feel like a dickhead and use her as an excuse? You apparently got shot at in a bar (and we can all check with the police you say, because they give out information on whether or not "ronan the barbarian" was shot at don't they?) You claim that *WHEN* you decide to use gear you will get it off your pro-athlete friend, but in your profile it says you have one cycle already done. Also your profile puts your age as 33, but 32 in your biography...having trouble deciding? you got called out in your picture thread for pretending to have a 46.5 inch chest. You're the only plasterer I've ever met who makes £60k a year...just about everything you say is a complete load of bollocks...

I'm tired of arguing with you, go make up some more stories

ha ha your so funny.
the pro athelete is the guy who owns the gym i train at.my birthday was in december and i havnt updated my profile,i never said it would be the first course of gear ,but if your so obsessed with me that you have to read all my logs and stuff you will know i said it was a badly researched cycle.
me and my brother in law(the one that shit his pants) are parteners in our company called acclaimed plastering)and you can check company house for that info.we specialise in insurance work,and if you ask any plasterer he will tell you how fantastic it pays.
and when my mrs is at home she does read some of what i write.so what??
oh as for beating people up.lol.i only butted a guy,and punched another.i wouldnt say thats beating people up all the time.lol

just still not sure why your so upset.lol........relax

oh and you can check police incidents that are held on record.how do you think info for appeals is gained???????

**Snrf** · 02-14-2007, 09:39 AM

I'm not upset, and don't flatter yourself like I've been following your threads specifically. People on here can attest to the fact I have a memory like a steeltrap and I tend to notice everything. (check the members pictures threads if you want to, Tenpennys thread is amusing) Calling out bullshitters is fun, I actually find it relaxing. Perhaps you're projecting your anger onto me? You are the one with anger management issues remember?

Either way, well done on making up some slightly more credible lies this time, you're getting better at it!

Because of course I really care enough to go check with companies house,

besides are you listed as "Ronan the barbarian"? My work here is done, I've exposed you as an idiot which is all I intended to do, and I had fun doing it.

I'm done

***G-1000*** · 02-14-2007, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

My wife and I waited until we got married. We had the "sex talk" after three months into our dating lives and we both agreed to wait until marriage. I was 23 years old at this time. We got married one year later but unfortunately, the cancer that I was forced to overcome before we got married left me impotent. Was I angry? A little at first. How's my life/marriage now at my current age of 29? Awesome. I've come to realize how pure my wife's heart is because she think's I'm amazing even though we can't share those moments together.

Premarital sex is more common than not these days. I do not frown down upon either party that should engage in it as well. I think it has more to do with both parties agreeing to a timeline and going through with it. That could mean 1 week, 1 month, 1 year or after marriage.

When I go to a restaurant, the waitor/waitress does not offer me the dessert menu before ordering my main course. Therefore, I appreciate the dessert more when the time comes. It seems as if most people these days want their dessert before they address what they really need to nourish their lives.

You just need to flip it over . The dessert menu is on the back side.

Just the way i like it.

**ronan the barbarian** · 02-14-2007, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

I'm not upset, and don't flatter yourself like I've been following your threads specifically. People on here can attest to the fact I have a memory like a steeltrap and I tend to notice everything. (check the members pictures threads if you want to, Tenpennys thread is amusing) Calling out bullshitters is fun, I actually find it relaxing. Perhaps you're projecting your anger onto me? You are the one with anger management issues remember?

Either way, well done on making up some slightly more credible lies this time, you're getting better at it!

Because of course I really care enough to go check with companies house,

besides are you listed as "Ronan the barbarian"? My work here is done, I've exposed you as an idiot which is all I intended to do, and I had fun doing it.

I'm done

your so funny...lol...you exposed me bllahahahhaaahahahaahah what exactly have you exposed???nothing thats what

im now gonna cry myself to sleep cus some guy i dont know doesnt believe me.boo hoo.
i actually have real friends and dont beg approval off internet nobodys.

bye bye

**Carlos_E** · 02-14-2007, 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by Terinox

Could you please give rough estimates? I'm not asking who actually "waited" before having sex, I'm just interested in knowing rough numbers of anyone who is in a relationship. Doesn't matter how soon into it you had sex. I'm just not interested in the one night stand guys or the ones who are just into it for the sex.

Well, for gay guys anything more than a week is considered a long time.

My bf and I waited a month before having sex and even then it wasn't "all the way." You have to get to know the person first, go out with them a bunch of times before you have sex. The better you know them and the closer you feel for each other the better the sex will be. If you rush into sex quickly without a foundation of friendship you pretty much base the relationship on sexual attraction. Eventually that will fade and you have nothing left. That is why it's a good thing to wait.

**Carlos_E** · 02-14-2007, 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Normally do the 2-3 week waiting period. You can normally tell a lot about a person in that time.

For most, if you are dating a chick and she wants to do it on the first night that's a bad sign. How many other guys has she done this with ? If both of you can hold out for a little bit i feel it can help the relationship by showing you are about more then just sex with him/her.

Agreed.

**goodcents** · 02-14-2007, 11:45 AM

Originally Posted by Gsxxr

You just need to flip it over . The dessert menu is on the back side.

Just the way i like it.

I always get dessert first too

Girls think it's weird, but hell I'm paying for it

**goodcents** · 02-14-2007, 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

My wife and I waited until we got married. We had the "sex talk" after three months into our dating lives and we both agreed to wait until marriage. I was 23 years old at this time. We got married one year later but unfortunately, the cancer that I was forced to overcome before we got married left me impotent. Was I angry? A little at first. How's my life/marriage now at my current age of 29? Awesome. I've come to realize how pure my wife's heart is because she think's I'm amazing even though we can't share those moments together.

Premarital sex is more common than not these days. I do not frown down upon either party that should engage in it as well. I think it has more to do with both parties agreeing to a timeline and going through with it. That could mean 1 week, 1 month, 1 year or after marriage.

When I go to a restaurant, the waitor/waitress does not offer me the dessert menu before ordering my main course. Therefore, I appreciate the dessert more when the time comes. It seems as if most people these days want their dessert before they address what they really need to nourish their lives.

So you've never had sex?

**Snrf** · 02-14-2007, 11:56 AM

he got sick of being poked

**STYLE74** · 02-14-2007, 11:57 AM

I love ownage!

**goodcents** · 02-14-2007, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

he got sick of being poked

How did you do that

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by goodcents

So you've never had sex?

Yes, I had sex when I was younger with a couple of girls that I dated. I was immature and didn't know any better back then.

I have not had sex in 5 years due to my inabilities because of my cancer.

***G-1000*** · 02-14-2007, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

he got sick of being poked

***G-1000*** · 02-14-2007, 12:11 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Yes, I had sex when I was younger with a couple of girls that I dated. I was immature and didn't know any better back then.

I have not had sex in 5 years due to my inabilities because of my cancer.

There is nothing you can use or do to help?

**goodcents** · 02-14-2007, 12:17 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Yes, I had sex when I was younger with a couple of girls that I dated. I was immature and didn't know any better back then.

I have not had sex in 5 years due to my inabilities because of my cancer.

It said in the first thread that "me and my wife waited till we were married"?

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 12:19 PM

My two ex's and I had sex. My wife and I waited until we got married to have sex. However, I was impotent by the time that we got married so my wife and I have never had sex.

**K.Biz** · 02-14-2007, 12:23 PM

Usually i like to get at least 30min of forplay in... then proceed to penetration. so.... 30min? haha

**goodcents** · 02-14-2007, 12:24 PM

Forgive us for being nosey Mav, as I'm sure you here these questions alot. It's just that we place such importance on sex (right or wrong) that it's hard for us to imagine not having it

**beuleux** · 02-14-2007, 12:26 PM

Shit I wouldnt want to even think about what thats like... btw do you still get urges.

**Carlos_E** · 02-14-2007, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

My two ex's and I had sex. My wife and I waited until we got married to have sex. However, I was impotent by the time that we got married so my wife and I have never had sex.

Wow! Did not know that. Have you considered surgery or an implant to treat your condition?

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by goodcents

Forgive us for being nosey Mav, as I'm sure you here these questions alot. It's just that we place such importance on sex (right or wrong) that it's hard for us to imagine not having it

You know, a lot of men pound their chest as a result from all of the women that they land, whether it be a girlfriend, a coworker, a one night stand, etc. I, on the other hand, pound my chest because I know that my relationship with my wife is rock solid even w/o sex. I don't know of too many people that could deal with that, so I'm thankful to have married the woman that I did.

I am who I am because of what I was dealt with, so don't feel sorry for me.

**Timm1704** · 02-14-2007, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by K.Biz

Usually i like to get at least 30min of forplay in... then proceed to penetration. so.... 30min? haha

lol sounds familiar.

me and my current girl of 6 months screwed the second time we met out of work. i know she has been promicuous in the past, and i more so. it evens out. to be honest at first all i wanted was a **** from her, but it esculated into what we have now. she is aware of my original intentions. we get along great, have great, very regular sex, and have been together 6 months today.

**Carlos_E** · 02-14-2007, 12:31 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

You know, a lot of men pound their chest as a result from all of the women that they land, whether it be a girlfriend, a coworker, a one night stand, etc. I, on the other hand, pound my chest because I know that my relationship with my wife is rock solid even w/o sex. I don't know of too many people that could deal with that, so I'm thankful to have married the woman that I did.

I am who I am because of what I was dealt with, so don't feel sorry for me.

I have to say that is true love on your wife's part. Couple's these days would split if their partner could not have intercourse.

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 12:35 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Wow! Did not know that. Have you considered surgery or an implant to treat your condition?

I have to say that is true love on your wife's part. Couple's these days would split if their partner could not have intercourse.

The cryotherapy that I endured while having prostate cancer basically wiped out all of the nerve endings and what not in my prostate and the surrounding areas. Even if I were to somehow get an errection one day, I would not feel it.

I also had to have a testicle removed during this process. My right testicle was taken out and I now have a replacement that consist of a silicone ball. It will most likely be taken out in the near future, though, because the doctors would feel more comfortable with something else in there besides silicone.

**K.Biz** · 02-14-2007, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

You know, a lot of men pound their chest as a result from all of the women that they land, whether it be a girlfriend, a coworker, a one night stand, etc. I, on the other hand, pound my chest because I know that my relationship with my wife is rock solid even w/o sex. I don't know of too many people that could deal with that, so I'm thankful to have married the woman that I did.

I am who I am because of what I was dealt with, so don't feel sorry for me.

You da man! no seriously you are. I cant imagine that. Your more of a man then me bro. major props

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 12:48 PM

Since this topic has peaked a fairly substantial level of interest.....

Check out the link below. This was a video that I created for my church that was used a cancer testimony to my church. Note: the term "The Branch" is the name of my church. If you watch the video, you may wonder what that means.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...86817887&hl=en

**Panzerfaust** · 02-14-2007, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

As you get older courting get shorter. 3-5 dates I would say. By then you know if you have things in coommon, you have had time to talk about a number of things and have spent some time together.

I agree 100%

I would not take anyone serious that wanted to shag on the first date.

**nirish_mark20** · 02-14-2007, 03:35 PM

7 hours, wuda bn b4 we gotg together but we were at her parents house and she didnt wana waken them haha!

still with her now, almost 4 yrs as well, tis all good!

tho i hate the thought of her with other guys, which she has been!

**Psychotron** · 02-14-2007, 07:32 PM

Originally Posted by Terinox

I'm sure a thread like this has been around before, but try to keep it fairly serious

This question refers ONLY to those individuals who began a relationship with the purpose of it becoming something real and SERIOUS, and potentially long term. So please, I'm not refering to the horn dogs who are just "out to get some yum yum."

Anyways, how long do you wait before having sex/sexual activites from the start of the relationship?

Yes, I know everyone is different, and yes, totally depends on the chemistry and the people and bla bla bla, but just want general idea, and perhaps the REASONS why you waited that long (or didn't wait very long at all).

Thanks a bunch,
T.

Hell, I think it was 2 months before we even kissed, and 3 months till sex with my current girlfriend.

**Schmidty** · 02-14-2007, 07:44 PM

I have noticed if I fvck a girl on the first date I may as well forget about starting a relationship with her. But the longest I will wait to fvck is about a month

**dece870717** · 02-14-2007, 09:52 PM

Originally Posted by getnjakked

yea....wait til you're married to find out that she sucks in bed...great idea..

If you never had sex with anyone how are you gonna know if it sucks? And if it does suck your married and you can talk about it whenever and fix it, you guys say it like if she sucks she can't get better.

**RuhlFreak55** · 02-14-2007, 10:30 PM

what's a date???? rofl i've never been on one and i done got laid...

**Terinox** · 02-15-2007, 10:12 AM

Thanks a lot for all the comments and experiences, it helps. My own situation is a little weird, and I won't get into any details, but it's nice to know the different scopes with the different people and their own personal stories. I've been with my girl over a month, and things seem to be going alright, although the real physical stuff has not started yet.

Thanks,
T.