My GF dumped me This is so WEIRD.

[DavidYork2]

That's sucks... At least you had her for a while. I am suffering the stresses of unrequited love right now and it isn't good.

And yeah, women are difficult!

[BOOST]

Suck's, I think she has someone else in the pipe-line

[Bojangles69]

i have known this chick for long time finally we hook up. she is an amazing person- the whole package- smart, sexy, fun, thoughtful, kind, caring, and very honest plus she is really good in bed.

we hit it off for quite some time, and she falls in love w/ me real fast (been like a year or longer since she has been/dated/done anything w/ anyone). the whole time im askin her r u sure its not infatuation/lust and not love? after asking this like 10 times and getting the same response "No, i know what i feel and its neither of those" im like hey this could work out great.

things are going great, but in last 2 weeks she has distance her self from me... we talk less about anything and everything and she doesnt want to be touched as much... like i always had my hand on her leg when we were together driving and what ever.. but now its like "can u move ur hand im too hot." just lots of lil things like that.

yesterday i get the call
she says (all sad and crying like) that she Loves me but isnt INLOVE w/ me and she isnt attracted to me. she goes on to say that "it makes me even more sad to know that im not attracted to you when u are the most amazing person i have ever been with" (this made me go wtf?)
so basically she said there is no chemistry and calld it off, but i felt chemistry the whole time so now im so perplexed by this ordeal, i know not what to think of it. she said that im very attractive but my size is very offputting, and she has never been with anyone who is thoughtful or loving towards her and that was weird too (how the **** is that weird). i guess its true i need to be an ass to keep em ><

so my question is: why are women weird?

Women are only weird if you *listen* to them.

I NEVER EVER EVER even bother asking a girl if she's sure its not infatuation
or lust or w/e.
Girls are mysteriously attracted to guys who can read them better than they can read themselves and just KNOW what the deal is or know what they really want w/out asking them what they think they want.

At some point the dynamic of your behavoir that use to trigger attraction in her changed and she has NO CONTROL over the way she feels or doesnt feel for you now.
I'm not going to even being suggesting what it might be but a lot of times its very closely related to the cat-string theory phenemona.
A cat always wants the string if it is just out of its reach, if the string is too far than the cat loses interest, and if you give the cat the string completely its only a matter of time before it becomes bored and moves on to another toy.
You will one day learn women are the SAME EXACT way.

When a girl *falls in love too fast* guys are SO MUCH more likely to assume its because they are irresistable than the fact that she is most likely insecure and lacks a degree of experience in relationships.
In the future now maybe you will see this as a red flag rather than a green light to move forward with a chick..

~Bo

[Flagg]

Been there...heard that same speech before....more than once.

That Love vs. In Love thing is a load or crap they try to sell you.

The "you are too good for me" line is also a load of crap. I mean if you gave them the choice of a free Toyota Corolla or a Fancy BMW they are going to take the Toyota because the BMW is too "good" for them? Huh? Who does that?

Women don't really seem to know what they want. They think love should be like in the movies. All magic...no effort or compromises required. If the chemistry is "right" the passion will sustain itself without any work from either of you? The grass is always greener on the other side. When they get over to the other side..they find out that although its a different color its still just grass.

I've just got some regular old crackers!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=B0x_dFMnZVI

You can't wait around forever on the sidelines for her to figure this out.

Don't be surprised if in a while you don't get a knock on the door from her. It will be up to you to decide if you will open the door though. Maybe she will have figured out what you two had....maybe not.

Does not make it any easier though does it? GL.

This was a brilliant post and I think i'll quote that car comparison in the future if you dont mind mate!

I dunno if women are just ****ed up, or if they just like a ****ing drama, i mean prehaps thats why so many soap operas exist on TV. When women are with some cockhead and say "Oh what i really want is a sweet nice guy" thats bullshit cause they never love that kinda guy, they just love an ideal.

They never really want what they say they want. I dont think ive ever met a woman that cant just be forward and honest and bullshit free.

[Pooks]

Nice, u brainwashed her into not liking you. Good job TAI!

[taiboxa]

gay double post

[taiboxa]

Does she have any hot friends you could hook up with. Not necessarily bang them, but I believe that if she sees you getting out with other women, she'll either come back or wont, but either way you are out dating and doing your thing. Get your groove on, if it was meant to be, it will. If not, at least she knows you arent sitting at home waiting...

ha i got this friend she is super hot and smart but SUPER insecure and probably tottally krappy in bed (dont know yet) but either way she has always been there for me... like she LOVES to take care of me. i.e. -i had a paper due and it was super late, well the instructor hated me but LOVED HER and only her (probably had something to do w/ her rack?) anyways i asked her to turn it in for me and talk to him bout it.. next thing i know he takes my paper and doesnt doc it for being 3 weeks late LOL

anyways i was thinkin of playing the sympathy card on her bout just breakin up and i KNOW her super nurturing side will jump at it and come flying over to take care of me LOL.. and since she isnt engaged anymore i might get some lovin!.. but most likely NOT

[tinyguy2]

she either cheat and foiund someone else or you are annoying/a pusssy

[K.Biz]

Women are only weird if you *listen* to them.

I NEVER EVER EVER even bother asking a girl if she's sure its not infatuation
or lust or w/e.
Girls are mysteriously attracted to guys who can read them better than they can read themselves and just KNOW what the deal is or know what they really want w/out asking them what they think they want.

At some point the dynamic of your behavoir that use to trigger attraction in her changed and she has NO CONTROL over the way she feels or doesnt feel for you now.
I'm not going to even being suggesting what it might be but a lot of times its very closely related to the cat-string theory phenemona.
A cat always wants the string if it is just out of its reach, if the string is too far than the cat loses interest, and if you give the cat the string completely its only a matter of time before it becomes bored and moves on to another toy.
You will one day learn women are the SAME EXACT way.

When a girl *falls in love too fast* guys are SO MUCH more likely to assume its because they are irresistable than the fact that she is most likely insecure and lacks a degree of experience in relationships.
In the future now maybe you will see this as a red flag rather than a green light to move forward with a chick..

~Bo

Exactly.

I would actully like to thank Bo for some of the knowledge he has passed off to me about women. Firstly its just plain genious and it works!.

Remeber women are not "wierd" its the fact that YOU did somthing wrong. Did you do it intentionally? probably not, but somwhere down the line you did somthing wrong.

[Dobie-BOY]

BS. you didnt do anything wrong thats just life and human nature bro. in my experiences in these kinda situations you two may hook up a few more times, but it is probably over. rather its today or next month, its over. there is a small (very small) chance you two may work it out, but dont hold your breath . The best thing you can do in my opinion is to treat a woman really good. then if she leaves you it will make you feel better knowing that she is the one that lost. It feels even better when they realize that too.

[slob]

i have known this chick for long time finally we hook up. she is an amazing person- the whole package- smart, sexy, fun, thoughtful, kind, caring, and very honest plus she is really good in bed.

we hit it off for quite some time, and she falls in love w/ me real fast (been like a year or longer since she has been/dated/done anything w/ anyone). the whole time im askin her r u sure its not infatuation/lust and not love? after asking this like 10 times and getting the same response "No, i know what i feel and its neither of those" im like hey this could work out great.

things are going great, but in last 2 weeks she has distance her self from me... we talk less about anything and everything and she doesnt want to be touched as much... like i always had my hand on her leg when we were together driving and what ever.. but now its like "can u move ur hand im too hot." just lots of lil things like that.

yesterday i get the call
she says (all sad and crying like) that she Loves me but isnt INLOVE w/ me and she isnt attracted to me. she goes on to say that "it makes me even more sad to know that im not attracted to you when u are the most amazing person i have ever been with" (this made me go wtf?)
so basically she said there is no chemistry and calld it off, but i felt chemistry the whole time so now im so perplexed by this ordeal, i know not what to think of it. she said that im very attractive but my size is very offputting, and she has never been with anyone who is thoughtful or loving towards her and that was weird too (how the **** is that weird). i guess its true i need to be an ass to keep em ><

so my question is: why are women weird?

NEXT

[Lexed]

like the Tv show?

[IronReload04]

"women are only wierd if you listen to them" nice

[Bojangles69]

BS. you didnt do anything wrong thats just life and human nature bro. in my experiences in these kinda situations you two may hook up a few more times, but it is probably over. rather its today or next month, its over. there is a small (very small) chance you two may work it out, but dont hold your breath . The best thing you can do in my opinion is to treat a woman really good. then if she leaves you it will make you feel better knowing that she is the one that lost. It feels even better when they realize that too.

Doing *wrong is also part of human nature but the point is not what he did right or wrong, its that something CHANGED in thier relationship.
And if his goal is to be with a girl who doesnt want to be with HIM we can logically say there is something WRONG or NOT RIGHT going on.. RIGHT?

Because the fact is, another guy will come along and do somethin RIGHT with her and she will be stuck to him like green on grass.. so given these facts, and however you choose to percieve the situation, if his goal is to be with this girl, he IS doing something wrong. BECAUSE they are NOT together.
Security or self-esteem comes in the fact that you can accept your not perfect, and not let it affect you in a negative manner (like assuming all women are "weird") but you absolutely can not use the same philsophy with every chick like "just treat a woman real good". Thats a recipe for disaster.

First off, why would you do that? Really? Who the fvck is she? Angelina Jolie? Think WHY. Because it seems like the nobel thing to do? I hate to burst your bubble, but any semi-attractive girl has a swarm of horny men willing to do ANYTHING for them, and if anything, to treat her like a queen is WRONG because guys are deluded into believing this isnt just as manipulative to a woman as hypnotizing her to have sex with them.
Being NICE and giving them EVERYTHING THEY WANT is simply how you have learned to behave to reciprocate what you want a woman to give you.. w/e it is you desire, respect, attraction.. sex.
But people don't earn respect by being nice.

Things change once you get married or meet someone who is truely worthy or compatable with you, but I'm speaking in context of the dating world and relationships.
When you first get with a girl, despite how well you think you 2 mesh together, the fact is you know little to absolutely nothing about her, all you know is what shes told you and what you THINK you know about her.
Even after months or EVEN years of dating her as much as you think she has opened up to you she's still getting on the phone with her closest friends and a COMPLETELY different side is coming out to them, most likely a side they intuitively know not to reveal to you, and her friends are probaly hearing ALL THE CRAP about you that she won't say to your face.

Or chances are you've done something right, and all she can speak to her friends of is how great you are. Than you are a pimp.. or she is insecure. W/e the case, its all a joke.
You've openly admitted to rewarding negative behavoir in your post, something I'd estimate 95% of men do with women.
Like when you said "you may hook up a few more times but that will probaly be it"..
THAT is a MISTAKE. Especially if you apply what you said to this specific situation. He likes the girl (may have said "love" idr) and your saying its ok even though shes expressed disinterest in him.. to hook up with her a few more times untill its "really over".
FVCK. THAT. SHIT.

You start making the RIGHT choices when you say something like "look bitch, if you dont want to be with me why the fvck should we still hook up?" (not in those exact words obviously its the concept that matters)
This is soooo important. The SECOND a girl starts acting funny or distant, like when he said he went to touch her leg in the car or some shit and she wasnt feeling it, THATS the time when you must make the RIGHT decisions.

What would I have done? I wouldn't have said anything. I would have turned that car the fvck around at that minute and taken her ass home. Men fail to impose these boundaries SO MUCH in relationships that they have no idea how it deteriorates her "respect" for you.

"oh I can't touch your leg.. you dont want to get affectionate? .. well what the fvck are you doing in my car? Are you my gf or what?" Im DEAD SERIOUS. This is when mistakes were made, when boundaries weren't drawn and shit was TOLERATED. When he was "just being nice" when he shouldnt have. I could go on all night picking away at this shit but if you want to be nice and treat girls like queens HAVE A FIELD DAY. If thats working for you, you truely are a pimp.. Im not joking.
But as we can clearly see it didn't work in this case.. ahem.

~Bo

[CSAR]

(Use a Chinese accent while reading.)

Young grasshoppa...why does 300 lb. ninja still chase after round-eyed demons? Asian women no have the crazy mind. Meditate on this...mmmmmmm.

[taiboxa]

Nice, u brainwashed her into not liking you. Good job TAI!

i kant help it i fat

[DSM4Life]

women arent weird man, they are fuc*in down right nutty...

Yet another reason for me to stay clear of all women !



On a side note, being friends is going to be really hard for you if you still have feelings for her. I would suggest you take a few months of not seeing/talking to get before you even consider just being friends with her. When there are feelings involved it changes everything.

[Swifto]

If you want here back try to make her a little jelous. It was said in one of the first posts too. Be unavialable to her and see what she does. You, or anyone, always wants what they cant have. Tell her your busy sometimes etc..

But be careful. You can push her away doing this if its overdone. You have to read her and what signs she gives out. And....Dont ring her. Let her ring you.

[taiboxa]

Yet another reason for me to stay clear of all women !



On a side note, being friends is going to be really hard for you if you still have feelings for her. I would suggest you take a few months of not seeing/talking to get before you even consider just being friends with her. When there are feelings involved it changes everything.

pissing me off LOL
she wants to keep in touch incase THINGS change and do workout and she like.. keeps CALLING me to check on me and to tell me she is SO SORRY for hurting me- over and over. im like "DOOD its OK! i will live. its not the end of the world."

lol i deleted her number so i wouldnt call her outta instinct since dialing her number is REALLY hard with fat fingers.. so when she calls i dont see a name and instinctively answer then i go "D'oH!" ><

[taiboxa]

If you want here back try to make her a little jelous. It was said in one of the first posts too. Be unavialable to her and see what she does. You, or anyone, always wants what they cant have. Tell her your busy sometimes etc..

But be careful. You can push her away doing this if its overdone. You have to read her and what signs she gives out. And....Dont ring her. Let her ring you.

yeah, there is no way i would call her- thats for sure. i meant to screen her calls for a while but keep ****ing it up (tai is so slow in da hed) as stated in post above

[gixxerboy1]

The SECOND a girl starts acting funny or distant, like when he said he went to touch her leg in the car or some shit and she wasnt feeling it, THATS the time when you must make the RIGHT decisions.

What would I have done? I wouldn't have said anything. I would have turned that car the fvck around at that minute and taken her ass home. Men fail to impose these boundaries SO MUCH in relationships that they have no idea how it deteriorates her "respect" for you.

"oh I can't touch your leg.. you dont want to get affectionate? .. well what the fvck are you doing in my car? Are you my gf or what?" Im DEAD SERIOUS. This is when mistakes were made, when boundaries weren't drawn and shit was TOLERATED. When he was "just being nice" when he shouldnt have. I could go on all night picking away at this shit but if you want to be nice and treat girls like queens HAVE A FIELD DAY. If thats working for you, you truely are a pimp.. Im not joking.
But as we can clearly see it didn't work in this case.. ahem.

~Bo

Holy drama.

I agree for the most part that is usually a sign something is wrong.

But to have your reaction is so much drama. So she is only with you under the stipulation you can fondle her? You used the line who is she Angelina Jolie? Who are you Brad Pitt?

I agree i wouldn't have said anything either. I would have distance myself a little from her and still hung out with her that day. I would have made her come to me. I agree chasing after her and going whats wrong isn't going to fix it. But IMO your reaction is so childish and most girls i know would be fine with you taking them home and would never talk to you again.

[SubmissionGrappler]

Suck's, I think she has someone else in the pipe-line

I sense the same ...looks like a duck,quacks like one too,maybe it's a duck?

[PrairieDawg]

damn you guys you're putting these women on a pedistol. Thats a receipe for disaster right there! you gotta keep them on their toes the whole relationship. you need them to be chasing you not the other way around!

[Doc.Sust]

call the other girl and forget about this one,women are a mess and we will never understand what happens in those fcked up heads. dont try to make sense of it, because you never will,

[taiboxa]

damn you guys you're putting these women on a pedistol. Thats a receipe for disaster right there! you gotta keep them on their toes the whole relationship. you need them to be chasing you not the other way around!

there is no pedistol here, i just treat them w/ respect. its just the way i am treat others how i want to be treated and if that isnt their cup of tea then thats not my problem and they can move on, for im not changing MYSELF for anyone, thats just absurd.

the whole NOT Saying anything and DISTANCING my self from her..
yeah thats great in 3rd grade but when you grow up you actually talk about what seems to be the underlying issue..

infact she told me that if i woulda distanced my self instead of actually bringing it up the subject at hand she said that would of been childish and a huge turn off and was thank that i spotted her pulling away and recognized it. still dont have the slighest clue about women but what ever.

[taiboxa]

i just wanna make a note that...
we really didnt have anything INCOMMON per'sey since she was the abstract philosophical type who was majorying in psychology and Loved doing volunteer work to help others and krap like that... i like ... steroids .. fish.. and video games! but the one thing we did have was PHANOMINAL SEX which is kinda wat the whole relationship kinda spurred from.
but i mean we could go do just about anything and have a GREAT time, we could go fishing, watch a movie, play miniture golf or go feed farm animals (though i tried to eat a few of em before she told me they were "PETS")... but when it came to talking about the stuff she enjoyed.. no matter how many adderall i took.. she could see my eyes glaze over and tai went off to wtf land...

[goodcents]

i just wanna make a note that...
we really didnt have anything INCOMMON per'sey since she was the abstract philosophical type who was majorying in psychology and Loved doing volunteer work to help others and krap like that... i like ... steroids .. fish.. and video games! but the one thing we did have was PHANOMINAL SEX which is kinda wat the whole relationship kinda spurred from.
but i mean we could go do just about anything and have a GREAT time, we could go fishing, watch a movie, play miniture golf or go feed farm animals (though i tried to eat a few of em before she told me they were "PETS")... but when it came to talking about the stuff she enjoyed.. no matter how many adderall i took.. she could see my eyes glaze over and tai went off to wtf land...

[Abenaki Blood]

I got the same line from my WIFE of 5 years while she is away in the Air Force and I am raising two babies. "I love you but I'm not in love with you..." Blah blah. I wish I had the answer to your question!

[energizer bunny]

Snakes with Tits!!!

[Bojangles69]

Holy drama.

I agree for the most part that is usually a sign something is wrong.

But to have your reaction is so much drama.

Turning a car around and driving a girl home is not = to drama imo. Its actually better done that way than verbalizing why your doing what your doing which will typically lead to the drama you speak of..

So she is only with you under the stipulation you can fondle her? You used the line who is she Angelina Jolie? Who are you Brad Pitt?

NO, I clearly used the word "affectionate". Fondling a girl is getting sexual and touching her in a sexually induced manner, putting your hand on her leg is being AFFECTIONATE. And yes for any girl who is with me there is the obvious stipulation if shes going to tell people she is my GF I expect her to ACT like she is.


The whole point of me saying "who the fvck is she, angelina jolie?" is to make people realize what you so casually threw back at me, the concept that you DO NOT treat all women like they are queens and shouldnt expect them to treat you like "Brad Pitt". But the paradox is once you actually stop idealizing chicks and start treating them how they REALLY deserve to be treated.. girls start thinking you may be Brad Pitts brother =]

I agree i wouldn't have said anything either. I would have distance myself a little from her and still hung out with her that day. I would have made her come to me. I agree chasing after her and going whats wrong isn't going to fix it. But IMO your reaction is so childish and most girls i know would be fine with you taking them home and would never talk to you again.

As long as you realize thats just your OPINION is what matters.

But think of it this way.. what makes it anymore childish than what shes doing? She's being in a bad mood for no reason and refusing affection because "its too hot outside". Thats a load of pure BS imo.

The appropriate reaction would obviously be better saught had TAI provided more info on how her general behavoir was that day, but intuition alone tells me she was prob being a bitch all day and he was just tolerating the shit.

If it was one thing she did all day than in reality Id probaly use communication first before turning the car around by asking her what the fvcks up.
But for some reason I imagine she was getting away with a lot more than he should have allowed, thats just my OPINION.

And Im not sure if you realized the reason Im taking her home is so she can GO HOME and be AWAY from me in the first place.
Very seldomly however do they "never talk to you again". If you played it off right and didnt miscalibrate like a social retard they will realize THEY were being childish and YOU simply refused to tolerate that side of them.
A lot of times they actually call back apologizing for thier behavoir, and if they don't WHO CARES.. why would you want to be with a whiny bitch like that in the first place?

JM2C

[goodcents]

Turning a car around and driving a girl home is not = to drama imo. Its actually better done that way than verbalizing why your doing what your doing which will typically lead to the drama you speak of..



NO, I clearly used the word "affectionate". Fondling a girl is getting sexual and touching her in a sexually induced manner, putting your hand on her leg is being AFFECTIONATE. And yes for any girl who is with me there is the obvious stipulation if shes going to tell people she is my GF I expect her to ACT like she is.


The whole point of me saying "who the fvck is she, angelina jolie?" is to make people realize what you so casually threw back at me, the concept that you DO NOT treat all women like they are queens and shouldnt expect them to treat you like "Brad Pitt". But the paradox is once you actually stop idealizing chicks and start treating them how they REALLY deserve to be treated.. girls start thinking you may be Brad Pitts brother =]



As long as you realize thats just your OPINION is what matters.

But think of it this way.. what makes it anymore childish than what shes doing? She's being in a bad mood for no reason and refusing affection because "its too hot outside". Thats a load of pure BS imo.

The appropriate reaction would obviously be better saught had TAI provided more info on how her general behavoir was that day, but intuition alone tells me she was prob being a bitch all day and he was just tolerating the shit.

If it was one thing she did all day than in reality Id probaly use communication first before turning the car around by asking her what the fvcks up.
But for some reason I imagine she was getting away with a lot more than he should have allowed, thats just my OPINION.

And Im not sure if you realized the reason Im taking her home is so she can GO HOME and be AWAY from me in the first place.
Very seldomly however do they "never talk to you again". If you played it off right and didnt miscalibrate like a social retard they will realize THEY were being childish and YOU simply refused to tolerate that side of them.
A lot of times they actually call back apologizing for thier behavoir, and if they don't WHO CARES.. why would you want to be with a whiny bitch like that in the first place?

JM2C

eyes glaze over and tai went off to wtf land...

[taiboxa]

eyes glaze over and tai went off to wtf land...

hey she kept kalling she wants to hang out as friends and see what happens...
I SMELL A RECEIPIE FOR DISASTER!
but atleast i got sumwun to go fishing with now! yee haa

[C_Bino]

tai, come talk to me in my thread. sman yoo

[SMAN12b]

hey she kept kalling she wants to hang out as friends and see what happens...
I SMELL A RECEIPIE FOR DISASTER!
but atleast i got sumwun to go fishing with now! yee haa

This is when you tell her "SURE" you can be friends and hang out, but then when she calls or wants to see you,you miss the calls, you will be too busy, or have other plans with another FEMALE "friend" and she will just have to wait.....

Don't let her spin the web around you! YOU take control and turn the tables on her!
If she wants to play this game with you and keep you on the hook, then you play it BETTER than she can

[taiboxa]

This is when you tell her "SURE" you can be friends and hang out, but then when she calls or wants to see you,you miss the calls, you will be too busy, or have other plans with another FEMALE "friend" and she will just have to wait.....

Don't let her spin the web around you! YOU take control and turn the tables on her!
If she wants to play this game with you and keep you on the hook, then you play it BETTER than she can

im dropping test and running high amounts of tren !
no libido = no attachment! LOL

[JDawg1536]

fck that tai dont keep talking to her. Jesus she wasted a year of your life cause of a fling. Go to a club tonight and get some action will be over by tomorrow

Yeah. Dont talk to her. Women are crazy. Tell her you met someone else or something. Even if you could work it out, would you ever wanna be with someone who told you they werent attracted to you? Bitches are nutz.

[celticd]

its better if u keep ure distance for a while,not only will it give her time to realise what she really wants,but you will see were its goin,if anywere
its not easy to be friends with someone who was a lover the day before,you go to hold her hand or kiss her and she dont want it,its a mind ****
youre setting youreself up 4 ahard fall,the long goodbye if you like,
be honest with youreself..
she dont want you anymore,im sorry,but she has told you that in a round about way,as to not hurt youre feelings..she sees you as a friend now bro,
its not easy to let someone go when you feel shes making a mistake,but you gotta respect her decision man,move on with youre life,if its meant to be,youre paths will cross again..........PEACE

[bpm1]

im sorry that this relatonship didnt work out for u tai, its always hard ending a relationship especially when u dont make the decision to do it yourself.life does continue as u know and before long u will see how it "all worked out for the best". as for all women are crazy,bitches,sluts,whores,etc...i have to say that there are some good women out there, my ex wife isnt one of them but my wife is. there are inherent differences in men and women that are always going to be there and make a long term or even short term relationship a challenge.these differences are worth dealing with and even suffering through as the relationship shared can bring satisfaction and fulfillment that i cant see coming about in any other way.anyway point is there are some crazy bitchs out there but there are some good ones too and its worth trecking along until u find that one u are sure u cant live without and vice versa. anyway not trying to sound too cheesy but my heart has been desimated and crushed in ways i didnt ever think i could recover from, but my wife has changed even healed pains i didnt think would ever or could ever go away.i hope u find someone like her too, peace bro

[Bojangles69]

This is when you tell her "SURE" you can be friends and hang out, but then when she calls or wants to see you,you miss the calls, you will be too busy, or have other plans with another FEMALE "friend" and she will just have to wait.....

Don't let her spin the web around you! YOU take control and turn the tables on her!
If she wants to play this game with you and keep you on the hook, then you play it BETTER than she can

YES! YES! YES!!! I fvcking LOVE the way your thinking brotha. $$$

[taiboxa]

welp she keeps calling, wanting to check on me.
i dont answer i let them goto voice mail but all the voicemails are like
i miss you, just thinking bout you, just checking on you, just wondering how ur weekend was.. stuff like that - she sounds real moapy/sad.
I LOVE IT
anyways back to dieting/playing video games/fishing/training/pgcl!