how do you handle popular girls?

[tommik]

just wondering guys maybe you've got some ideas how to handle such a social monkeys, i've just started dating such a paris hilton recently and her popularity pisses me off more and more every day, you know.. telephone rings all the time, no hobby/passion apart from parties and friends, etc

but, she's pretty and funny which means a good prospect for a summer girl 2007

[PROTEINSHAKE]

sounds to me like its already over......."pisses me off more & more every day"
she obviously doesnt fit you.

[rar1015]

just wondering guys maybe you've got some ideas how to handle such a social monkeys, i've just started dating such a paris hilton recently and her popularity pisses me off more and more every day, you know.. telephone rings all the time, no hobby/passion apart from parties and friends, etc

but, she's pretty and funny which means a good prospect for a summer girl 2007

Get rid of her before its too late man. If you just started dating her and you're already as pissed off as you are, think about what will happen in the future. It isnt worth it!!!

[spywizard]

treat her like crap... tell her you like her, but there are other things going on in your life, if she wants to experience that, tell her to come on..

you see, with women like that it's what they can't have that they want the most.. even sex.. you have to tell her no.. and control her through that..

alot like a stripper..

[WEBB]

Spy and Jakked pretty much summed it up perfectly right there...

[Lexed]

not even worth it

[johnmacdan]

treat her like crap... tell her you like her, but there are other things going on in your life, if she wants to experience that, tell her to come on..

you see, with women like that it's what they can't have that they want the most.. even sex.. you have to tell her no.. and control her through that..

alot like a stripper..

Sounds like the gospel to me.

[Flagg]

Girls like that are too self obsessed with being cool.

[JDawg1536]

Girls like that are too self obsessed with being cool.

I treat popular girls like shit, they dont need their heads to be bigger than they already are. And they are usally cant function unless they are around someone. I hate those people.

[goodcents]

Treat the queens like whores and the whores like queens (didn't make sense to me either just always heard that growing up)

[tommik]

thanks for the input, yep i do treat her like shit and that's what attracts her to me but you're all right SHE IS NOT WORTH ME... i just couldn't be dealing with the phone calls she's receiving from the other guys all the time.

i had a second thought about all the situation and i decided to use that bitch to pick up someone else... it is shame to waste already invested time so there's a plan to tell her that i want to be just a friend with her and use her as a wingwoman

[gixxerboy1]

thanks for the input, yep i do treat her like shit and that's what attracts her to me but you're all right SHE IS NOT WORTH ME... i just couldn't be dealing with the phone calls she's receiving from the other guys all the time.

i had a second thought about all the situation and i decided to use that bitch to pick up someone else... it is shame to waste already invested time so there's a plan to tell her that i want to be just a friend with her and use her as a wingwoman

I have a lot of confidence. If you know your better then these other guys why would you care who calls.

[tommik]

I have a lot of confidence. If you know your better then these other guys why would you care who calls.

well, you don't know if you're better since you don't know who calls.

[WEBB]

I know i am better than anyone that calls...might be arrogance, might be confidence its a fine line, but you need to at least think your better...but regardless a girl that is still getting called by guys is not just a matter of confidence but it is annoying and rude, and if the bitch dont respect ya, move on...

[Bojangles69]

just wondering guys maybe you've got some ideas how to handle such a social monkeys, i've just started dating such a paris hilton recently and her popularity pisses me off more and more every day, you know.. telephone rings all the time, no hobby/passion apart from parties and friends, etc

but, she's pretty and funny which means a good prospect for a summer girl 2007

Hold old are both of you? No pun intended, just out of curiosity before I respond.

[tommik]

Hold old are both of you? No pun intended, just out of curiosity before I respond.

i'm 24 she's 25

[gixxerboy1]

I know i am better than anyone that calls...might be arrogance, might be confidence its a fine line, but you need to at least think your better...but regardless a girl that is still getting called by guys is not just a matter of confidence but it is annoying and rude, and if the bitch dont respect ya, move on...

I'm the same way. I KNOW I'm better.

[WEBB]

I'm the same way. I KNOW I'm better.

But what if you call a girl i am with, i am better than you but you are better than me??? oh man i amso confused now...ok, lets just go with i am better than you....deal?

[taiboxa]

i wouldnt know, im not allowed near the popular people

[Stock]

All you need to know...

[brajosm]

move on bro, and put a another notch on your belt

[InsaneInTheMembrane]

I agree with some of the bros... these social-butterflies love the thrill of the chase, but when they have you cornered....I'm picturing a black widow spider biting the head off its mate

Girls like that eat the "good" guys for breakfast... trust me, one took me for a nightmare of a roller-coaster ride i'll never forget

[number twelve]

webb knows his shitttt. preach on brother

[doolo]

Lemme guess, tatoo on lower back? posibly a flower or heart tatoo on ankle? Big shades? Cant tell what she really looks like cause she wears so much makeup? They just dont turn me on at all anymore. I think 99% of the time people are attracted to clothes, makeup and hair. I love the natural looking girls.

Yah im a bit judgemental but you project who you are with your clothes/style and girls that fit into that category are no good. Let her snort another rail and think shes a star

[gixxerboy1]

Lemme guess, tatoo on lower back? posibly a flower or heart tatoo on ankle? Big shades? Cant tell what she really looks like cause she wears so much makeup? They just dont turn me on at all anymore. I think 99% of the time people are attracted to clothes, makeup and hair. I love the natural looking girls.

Yah im a bit judgemental but you project who you are with your clothes/style and girls that fit into that category are no good. Let her snort another rail and think shes a star

lol. Your kidding right. So a girls who cares about how she dresses and looks are no good? Oh and drug addicts too

[MFT81]

lol. Your kidding right. So a girls who cares about how she dresses and looks are no good? Oh and drug addicts too

in a sterotypical way, yeah, come on Gixxer I know you know many girls that fit that discription,

just like you know many girls who do dress nice and cares, have lots of friends, are good people

it goes both ways, its just that were talking about some Lindsay lohan wanna be....

[MFT81]

I think 99% of the time people are attracted to clothes, makeup and hair. I love the natural looking girls

BTW, I am one of the 99%, probably why im addicted to internet porn and hair dye.

[ebjack]

how do you handle popular girls?


I think the best way is, bent over a chair with their ass in the air where you can see all their junk.

[mavsluva]

BTW, I am one of the 99%, probably why im addicted to internet porn and hair dye.

Ever wonder why pornography is the most addictive thing in the universe for men? Outside of the fact that men are visually wired, the reason is because the seductive beauty reaches down inside and touches a man's hunger for validation. Pornography often results in a man becoming errected, and when he's errected, he becomes powerful. And when there's nothing in jeopary for a man in the fight for the woman, he feels like the woman in the porno is just for him and him only.

A woman is captivating, so it's a man's lifelong journey to conquer her.

[gixxerboy1]

in a sterotypical way, yeah, come on Gixxer I know you know many girls that fit that discription,

just like you know many girls who do dress nice and cares, have lots of friends, are good people

it goes both ways, its just that were talking about some Lindsay lohan wanna be....

Of course. And i know girls who are homebodies and the biggest c**e whores out there.

[gixxerboy1]

BTW, I am one of the 99%, probably why im addicted to internet porn and hair dye.

Me too. Fake girls are the new real girls

[CoreyTampa09]

I thought the term "popular" was thrown out once you left high school.

[Dobie-BOY]

how do you handle popular girls?


I think the best way is, bent over a chair with their ass in the air where you can see all their junk.

HAHA, EXACTLY! As long as you can keep from becoming emotionally attached, fuk her till your tired of her. If you live in a large town, fuk tons of other bitches too. I would not worry too much about her. As soon as you are done stickin it to her, ssomeone else will service her for ya.

[rubix6]

sounds to me like its already over......."pisses me off more & more every day"
she obviously doesnt fit you.

agreed

[Dobie-BOY]

I thought the term "popular" was thrown out once you left high school.

^^haha, ya me too. at first I thought they were 16 or 17.^^ no offense bro. I totally understand where you are coming from. I personally get so annoyed with those bitches I cant stand being around them long enough to **** em. I found one of those "popular" girls who doesnt care about being popular and puts me first..... so I married her.

[gixxerboy1]

I really don't even get what the fuss is. You said you just started dating her yet you are made because she has friends and a life besides you? If she didn't everyone would bitch she is clingy and to dump her.

[collar]

see it really ***ends.
if these ppl that call her were around before you came along.
i dont see how you can complain, but on other hand if these guys that call just to get her attention and want piece of her, and she is too dumb to see that and enjoys the attention, then you dont need that type of girl.

[Growingpains]

All you need to know...

You beat me to it!

[Mike Dura]

With girls that are too hot it's quick in quick out! Otherwise you get burned. They get tempted all the time and you know how that goes. One can't resist. So get your kicks before the sheeet house burns down!

[Bojangles69]

Wow this thread blew up since I last saw it.

Most of all the essentials were already covered, and I think spywizard pretty much summed it up the best.

I dont care how social she is or how "popular" you think she is. She's just a girl, and BECAUSE she's a social butterfly, also means she has implicit weaknesses. Like her constant need for attention and social validation.

You take those 2 things away from her and her identity will crumble into dust.

So what spywizard said is on key. But also realize that girls like this are constantly chasing the next shiny thing. W/e is bright and shiny and stimulating to the eyes and ears, is often what they're preoccupied with in life.

So if your dull and a recluse, chances are your time with her will be short. Unless she is the extremely domineering type, and you are the submissive type, than she may hang with you just to tool you around (if you let her).

Of course most of this although common is still a gross generalization. But the LAST thing you need to give this girl is more attention, more validation, or feed any type of ego-complex she may have built over the years.
Again social and popular does NOT always = snobby or stuck up. But the there is def a correlation for that type of behavoir.
She may easily just be a down to earth and kind individual with pure harmless intent. But YOU need see who she is objectively and KNOW how to treat her according to that.
If shes a snob, DO NOT feed into her shit and be sure to say NO more than YES with her. She's not use to hearing no which is why shes prob a snob in the first place. Sad to say, but you must target these girls insecurities to keep them.(most of the time at least)
If she's cool and doesnt have any emotional hangups (which is EXTREMELY rare with most women in general) than just be yourself because chances are shes with you for respectable reasons and you don't really need to become a headcase on her. But a good deal of women are headcases, and often you must become a headcase to keep a headcase. So just be SMART. She's older than I initially suspected and at the age should have been exposed to enough experiences to humble a possible overgrown ego, so take advice cautiously. Only YOU really know this girl. And unless you give us some sort of case study or MMPI on her personality, I logically cant give you the best advice so naturally you'll get a lot of generalizations.
If you really want REAL advice try and describe this girl more specifically and be as objective as possible, than I can throw some much better shit out there.
g/luck!